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PoliticsRe: Ssce And Third Degree Holders Barred From The Nigerian Police Force by Riskymallam: 2:13am On Dec 18, 2012
Interesting.
RomanceRe: Tackling Bad Habits Yourself. by Riskymallam(op): 12:21am On Dec 18, 2012
Thanks for pointing that out, I actually tried posting it elsewhere. I Couldn't, maybe you could point me on the right path?

Swit up: Hey op, that's a nice one... Thanx, Gracias, Merci, Alligratto....

But op, dont u think u're postin this on a wrong thread.......?? I think it'll fit in perfectly in another thread
RomanceTackling Bad Habits Yourself. by Riskymallam(op): 7:05pm On Dec 16, 2012
There are so many ways of tackling bad habits, But attacking the problem
head-on may not be the
answer.


The pin oak tree (quercus
palustris for you budding

dendrologists) provides a fitting
metaphor. One feature of this
tree is that it retains its leaves
during the winter months.

Though the leaves die in the

fall, they remain attached to

the oak’s branches until the

new leaves appear in the spring
and push the old ones off the
branch.

You could, of course, remove
these leaves by hand. But that
is a time-consuming and
pointless exercise. The leaves
will come off on their own when

the new growth appear in the
spring (Rainy season).


Bad habits are similar. You can
focus your attention on

eliminating them. Or, you can

focus on developing positive

habits. As you do so, you will

naturally—and more easily—

remove the bad habits.

Psychologists refer to this as
sublimation.


For example, you could focus on:

> Eating tasty, fresh vegetables
instead of eliminating junk food.


> Drinking eight glasses of water
a day instead of cutting down
on your coffee intake.


> Complimenting your spouse

instead of breaking your
pattern of arguing


> Reading more books instead of
cutting down the time you
spend surfing the Internet.


> Praying for what you need
instead of worrying about what
you don’t want


> Intentional relaxing rather than
smoking


> Taking up hiking rather than
changing your sedentary
lifestyle.


I believe u You get the idea.
The main point is to focus on
building a good habit rather
than eliminating a bad one.
RomanceRe: Romance Section Chat Room VI by Riskymallam: 6:27pm On Dec 16, 2012
;DLet me breathe life into this thread.

*Breathes life into thread* grin
RomanceRe: Tommorow Is Her Wedding,she Is Pregnant For Another Man.what Can She Do Now? by Riskymallam: 10:10pm On Dec 15, 2012
Bro, this looks like hogwash, stinks like one too.

[quote author=Mynd_44]So, What is the latest?[/quote]
Nairaland GeneralRe: Open Letter 2 Seun by Riskymallam: 10:00pm On Dec 15, 2012
This thread reeks of joblessness, and just like your name. GB (Gbeborun).
What business has Seun's status got to do with you. grin

No other eligible bachelor in your hood eh?

"I disapprove of what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it."
- Voltaire
NYSCRe: Nysc Batch B 2012 (the Big House) by Riskymallam: 7:47pm On Dec 15, 2012
KORREKT BRO! grin.. Where are you serving?

[quote author=dl_jbd]Hehehehehehe...e dn show @last[/quote]
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: People Born In June, Lets Meet Here by Riskymallam: 11:51pm On Dec 09, 2012
grin Mine's June 16. Open the flood gates {sic} and let the fireworks begin..

sexyshe: Mine is june 16.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Drop Your Twitter Handle Here Let's Get You More Followers by Riskymallam: 10:46pm On Dec 09, 2012
How many of y'all are active on twitter?

Too many eggheads up in here jare..
RomanceRe: Easy Tips To Seduce A Woman by Riskymallam: 10:38pm On Dec 09, 2012
Hahaha.. See your mouth!

[quote author=Mynd_44]I will rather stick with the "touch and follow" baba gave me[/quote]
NYSCRe: Nysc Batch B 2012 (the Big House) by Riskymallam: 10:09pm On Dec 09, 2012
Sorry bro.. Boys don almost spend theirs finish for here grin

[quote author=dl_jbd]damn! Ogun alert neva shw Ooo! Hoping it wont exceed 2mao.[/quote]
Nairaland GeneralRe: Burmese Woman Breastfeeds Tiger Live Tiger (photo) by Riskymallam: 10:45pm On Dec 08, 2012
Eeeeeeewww! I hope the cub bites off her left n¡pp1e.
CelebritiesRe: Yvonne Nelson Proves She Is Not Missing Iyanya by Riskymallam: 10:24pm On Dec 08, 2012
This Bleaching "Kraze" is alarming..
NYSCRe: Nysc Batch B 2012 (the Big House) by Riskymallam: 10:32am On Dec 08, 2012
grin.. I see this HOUSE is quite BIG grin

I Wonder why I didn't see the house on time.
Forum GamesRe: Tell A Lie About The Person Above You ... by Riskymallam(op): 10:09am On Dec 08, 2012
^^ Doesn't even know what a dog is, confuses himself into believing he's one.. grin
RomanceRe: Friends With Benefit, Does It Ever Lead To Something Serious? by Riskymallam: 4:58pm On Nov 29, 2012
Yeah, its like waiting for your ship at the airport {sic}
Forum GamesRe: Tell A Lie About The Person Above You ... by Riskymallam(op): 4:11pm On Nov 29, 2012
^^ Thats his nickname. Mkpii

gringrin
RomanceRe: Things Women Do Better Than Men. by Riskymallam: 5:30pm On Nov 25, 2012
In which country have women ever been better drivers?

I could shoot lotsa holes in this piece, but I ain't..
RomanceRe: Grown Up Facts by Riskymallam: 5:25pm On Nov 25, 2012
grin
RomanceRe: Fake Wannabe Nigerian Ladies by Riskymallam: 5:19pm On Nov 25, 2012
She's a wannabe that even wannabe's would deny.

[quote author=Mynd_44]The girl is a wannabe of a wannabe[/quote]
RomanceRe: 98% Of Nl Girls Are Not Goodlooking #fact by Riskymallam: 1:46pm On Nov 25, 2012
98% Rubbish! Bloody waste of precious time.
RomanceRe: Deleted by Riskymallam: 1:39pm On Nov 25, 2012
What kind of crowd did you roll with while growing up?

All I can say is, "Change comes from within"

Stop your sick a,s.s whining, and ask yourself some pertinent questions about the things you aren't doing right.

#Shikena
Nairaland GeneralWorlds Most Emotionless People! by Riskymallam(op): 1:31pm On Nov 25, 2012
Singaporeans have reacted to a survey depicting them
as the world’s most emotionless people with many saying the city state’s competitive culture leaves them no room for feelings. “Singaporeans are the least likely in the world to report experiencing emotions of any kind on a daily basis,” US- based pollster Gallup said in a report on a three-year study conducted in more than 150 countries.

The Philippines came out as the most emotional society in the world, with Latin American countries dominating the top of the list. Media in Singapore, one of the world’s wealthiest and most stable societies, gave prominent coverage to the report, setting off some strong reactions.

“Where got time to laugh? Wake up, must fight for place on trains, lunch time, must fight for place to sit down and
eat, go home must fight for place on trains,” Edward Alexzandra Peters wrote on Facebook.

Kok Leong commented on Yahoo! Singapore: “It’s so stressful to be living in Singapore. Our mind is all about $$$ — how to survive, how to raise family, tax, etc. Nothing is free here.” Another commentator wrote on Yahoo: “We have everything, and yet we have nothing.

No one in this country actually lives life to the fullest; we merely exist. To our government, we are nothing more than a statistic.” “How can Singaporeans be the most emotionless in the world
when they complain the most every day? I’m baffled,” said a post by Melody on Twitter.

Gallup said it surveyed about 1,000 respondents 15-years-old
and above in each country annually between 2009 and 2011. They were asked if they felt five positive and five negative emotions the previous day. The negative feelings were anger, stress, sadness, physical pain, and worry, while the positive emotions were feeling well-rested, being treated with respect, enjoyment, smiling and laughing a lot, and learning or doing something interesting.

Only 36 per cent of Singaporeans said they felt any of the emotions, Gallup said. Culled from [AFP]
RomanceRe: How To Catch Every Lady You Admire With Ease by Riskymallam: 1:15pm On Nov 25, 2012
The bullets coming out of your gullet is despicable.
RomanceRe: Guys (men) Please Can You Translate This? by Riskymallam: 3:10pm On Nov 24, 2012
@Op, You are worried he hasn't made any moves to bed you, and you've started reading meaning to his words. Thumbs up girl!

Don't let your imagination get the best of you.

Calm down and stop imagining things that ain't there.


Sweetlemon: He said at this "stage" of life. He's done with the dating thingy. Besides, Did I say I asked him to be my boyfriend?
Please o! Read my post well
And as for looking for another guy to "spend my emotions on" well, thanks but I think I already have one in him. We do everthing bfs and gfs do except sex. PLUS, he's a terrific friend. I have no problem with him. I'm only in suspence as per what he means by buying a bed and me waiting till he buys a bed
RomanceRe: Candid Advice: Marriage Is Not By Force! by Riskymallam(op): 2:36pm On Nov 24, 2012
Yeah, thats the essence.. Marriage isn't by force. grin

acidtalk: Truth be told, Not EVERY Man or Woman will get married.

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