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ibkaye:
Hmm, I'm quite inexperienced in such areas you see

see u dodging questions

lol. contribute to the topic now

ibikaye what would u recommend?

ever_green:
Sidelong glance(s)
Holds your gaze briefly
Downcast eyes, then away
Posture changes to erect
Picks lint (real or imaginary) off your clothes
Turns body toward you
Tilts head slightly to one side
Narrows eyes slightly
Smiles
Eyes sparkle
Licks lips
Strong, firm handshake
Natural tone, volume, pitch and pace of voice
Altering facial expressions to match what is said (smiling when being friendly, etc.)

Geez!!  lick lips? lol Disgusting.

ok no more winking lol. dont crucify me.
But at least dont look away first. its a sign of weakness

For girls:
1. give eye contacts and let it lingre on for a while then look away and smile to ur self
2. If you are really bold, go and start a conversation and keep touching him as you "explain" your points. prolly on his hands or shoulders.
3. If you are one of the very few go getter types we have today (the types i like), then go and tell him straight up and ask for his number.

For guys:
1. Same eye contact rule applies but dont look away and smile. (you'll look gay). Hold the gaze and if she dosent look away, then wink.
2. Walk up to her and start a conversation. look for conversation starters like "Hey. you aite?" Works for me most of the time.

more to cum,

@ post
Send am for english now. Akwa ima n a igbo na-ara ahu n'umu ihe ndi a.

ugly: The state of not being preety

oh and its infatuation not love. Know the difference. u'll get over it.

well u can't force her to love u. and u will look bad and desperate if u try to get her by telling her that ur firnd does not like her. Dont ever appear desperate to a girl

Everyone is right in their own way. this is just like the proverbial blind men that were told to explain how an elephant looks like by feeling it and they all came with different assumptions judging from the part they felt, they were all right in describing one part. So if someone in the rural areas of nigeria goes to lagos and spends all his time in the slums in mushin or where ever they have the worst slums, they will go home and tell their people that the whole of lagos is a slum. same applies here. i have said it before, if u want to see the nice london, dont stay in peckham, woolwhich, hackney etc. every big city in the world has its ugly parts.

blackspade:
Not trying to sound like an arse or anything, but London stinks.

pls where did u stay? or are you just flowing with the chorus?

Dis Guy:
you think sooo?? you should check the properties section

when i say no ridiculous rent, i mean my papa house lol. geddit?

GoldCircle:
Na only bold talk truth! Na God go bless U!

Thank you jare my brother

Those defending london. Good for you.
Those comparing london to lagos, move away from peckham and find a house in centeral london.
As for me, once i get my degree (UK degrees are the best by the way) i am heading back for abuja where i fit get mouth and drive on good roads with no road tax, insurance, MOT and No ridiculous rents. Ah!!!. Naija rocks!!!!

i am on nothing but my birthday suit.

haha. i like the pessimist one. lol

big butt or not, he is still a handsome man (no homo) and i never even noticed he had big ass. anyone with pictures that show his ass?

i never knew big butt on men was a problem to ladies

Here is a simple solution. introduce her to me. where in london are you anyway?

stillwater:
That should not be a reason to assume she wants it. Who made guys mind readers to decipher what a girl's thinking?Is it not better to take no for no and yes for yes instead of jumping into conclusions and getting into unwarranted troubles?

is it not thesame girls that accuse us of beign clueless when we fail to understand their hints?
Aren't girls very complicated? damn!

Exactly!

galatico:
You're such a fool!!! who are you trying to fool? Dumb ass how could agree to such things when you know a Guy is always a Guy and would definatly be aroused by such stuffs or do you want to just punish the poor Guy of just kissing, touching and cuddling? serves you right.

This is very unnecessary. You dont have to insult her for seeking help.

ehen?

@origina9ja
if you give me £50 and i say "no now. . ." while smilling and still eyeing the money, tell me honestly. what will you think?

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origina9ja:
this is rape
peepz saying it nt rape
bt dey did not agree

WHY CNT MOST GUY CONTROL them SELF

we can't control ourselves because our girlfriend is under the covers with us allowing us to handle and kiss her and when the thing is as strong as a rock, we try to enter and she says no while chuckling. . . . . . . . . . . . . . .


should i go on?

My sister, you have been f**Ked and you just have to accept the fact that you will be F**ked again as long as the f**ker(boyfriend) and the f**kee(you)  agree that what happened the first time was a f**k. That is if u continue the relationship.

hmmm. londoncool, you really know a lot about uk immigration oh. lol

seun its not about breaking up. she enjoyed it but is feeling guilty because she has allowed the pleasure to break her belief of not having sex. . . yet.
She is only worried. . . . i assume. . . . because the guy hasnt called.

lol. i wonder oh

Try not to be too predictable. suprise him once in a while when he dosent expect it.
emmm, watch a romantic movie togather at night witht he lights off and rub his head gently make sure you are dressed seductiviley. Ude your imagination and make up something.

Make him a bit jealous. (i dont mean flirt with his friends). but something like welcoming compliments from others very hapily around him. u know. make things up.