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brightalo1010:
Even the op himself no well he also need a job.

obontami:
op did he fCcck your girlfriend ??


What's all these hate all about ?

Laveda:
Really, y'all are giving Inconsequential people the attention they seek.

Smh

officialEFCC:
make a suggestion i am thinking cleaner

loveslife:
Mtcheeeww! Opened the thread hoping I would get some useful tip to help my friend who smokes. This is obviously Not the right thread for me. Bye!

dryyansh1:
Guy, you are crazy. Seems nobody has ever told you shey? You will just come on someone's thread and type trash. May Sango rape you, Motherfuvka

ikombe:
thanx for giving back to the society

bbmpin:
I see!!!!

i won't say kiss my ass cause you will fücking do it #garbage

bbmpin:
I see!!!

Got a question for you tho!!

So lets say you are mentally disabled(obviously) do you go and see a Dermatologist with your problem or Neurologist? #fish tank brain

colik:
You sure?
Not when I cook for you now you'll start complaining Oh.

colik:
Ah! you no dey chop pepper?
That means we cannor marry again.

colik:
Lol...Oga I don chop Yoruba woman pepper before na. Na wetin I dey talk be that. Pepper pass pepper true true...I never chop the one wey pass me before.

colik:
lwkmd!

But wait Oh. Is this about the pepper? 'cause I dey chop pepper die.

Oahray:
Sometimes you people talk of right and wrong as if everyone is morally upright. Everyone knows rape is wrong, so what next? For the foreseeable future, there would always be criminals - robbers, rapists, murderers. That's why there are laws.

However the threat of punishment doesn't prevent crime, but sometimes we can avoid being victims. When one goes into a lion's habitat in a wildlife reserve (whether by mistake or on purpose) and gets mauled to death, the offending man-eater is usually put down. An animal isn't supposed to kill a human, but it happens anyway. There's no justification, but the person could have been less dead if he had been careful.

Is there justification for rape? No. Can it be avoided, yes.

Know who you know taking money and gifts from, cos at times it's like walking into dangerous waters. The truth hurts, but if you can avoid something and you choose not to because you are greedy... You had it coming. The rapist might get punished, but you'd live with the experience.

classicB:
It bleeds my heart this morning to see a thread created by a guy that probably sees nothing wrong in rape. https://www.nairaland.com/3340051/it-necessary-report-rape-incident to say I am disappointed in you is the least. I don't even need to bring any female member of your family into the figure here before I outrightly tell u that what your friend did is very wrong and you being a witness to such evil act and keeping it away from justice Is even worse off.
You guys need pshycological evaluation seriously, you need an orientation,the one that would change your perspective towards rape, the one that would make you understand that no matter what, u do not have the right to force yourself through a woman's thigh!
Get this right guys, when you spend money on a girl, u did it willingly no girl Tore your clothes, slapped you, pushed you to bed and force their way through your fvcking cheques or cash! She asked for money you gave her, you asked for sex she refused and all you could do is cause her a forever pain? A psychological trauma that she will continually live with. What a shame, to even think some mentally deluded females sees nothing wrong in it, she collected money and refused sex, serves her right Abi?
Rape is rape. It is a forceful action that is taken towards the victim, there's no forceful action when you give money to someone. There's no crime in saying NO to financial demands from a girl especially if you know that rape will be your last resort if the girl refuses to agree to sex since 10minutes pleasure would have deprived you of your God given human instinct.
To even think that he has been dating the girl for a while now, I am sure the girl didn't see the rape coming, what kind of message is your friend sending? That girls should now be scared of visiting their boyfriends?
Some guys talks about dressing decently, what nonsense! I own my body and I can decide to wear whatever I like on it a guy can decide to be on boxers and walk through the street without any fear what so ever but a girl cannot simply wear a mini skirt and crop top cos of fear of men. Talk about double standard. Which sane man goes to the beach to rape women simply bcoz they are in bikinis
I will not mention names, but some guys here are known for creating threads against the female folks, a thread to make mokery of femalehood. these kinda guys will most probably see nothing wrong in rape also.
I will not stop creating threads about rape on this site, if that is what it will take to educate someone out there. When I grow up I wanna be a woman right activist.
cc: lalasticlala
This kind of thread should make FP

Ngokafor:
....Dont mention Jesus Christ in this show of shame you call a thread cos there is no iota of truth in it..Most of you guys have really sunk so low in your mind-set about what is right and wrong its shocking!!..


...If a girl collects money from a guy...so freakking what??..Is that why she should be raped??.was he forced or compelled to do so..It is not a crime anywhere in the world for women to collect money or gifts freely offered by men and thats a fact!!..what nonsense are we reading from you lots??

..i repeat..the babies and toddlers your gender rapes daily..do they collect money from men too??...cos we are well aware of the increasing incidents of rape of minors,babies and toddlers by men in this very sick and abnormal soceity we live in...Its becomes people like you make excuses for rapists thats why its more common these days.

..imagine you justyfying this rubbish....nonsense.

colik:
No I don't see what you're saying.
You're entitled to your opinion though so I'll leave you to it.

Timbuktou:
You miss the point again. Nobody has any right to rape anybody for any reason. Believe me, I would be happy if this dude is jailed, he has committed a crime after all.

However, in this situation, we can infer that they weren't in a romantic relationship based on the narration of events. She wasn't his girlfriend in the sense of a committed relationship. Which is why this guy was desperate, he didn't want to lose out on his investments whatever they we're. Was he right to have gone about things the way he did? No. But girls have to realise that there are men who will do what this guy did. Some people just have no scruples with wrongdoing. How do you identify which guy will rape you and which won't? Dem dey write am for face? Rapes even occurs where the guy hasn't spent a kobo, so why endanger yourself?

Men aren't just spending money based on charity. They're spending in the hopes of getting laid, which if they don't, the majority of guys take it in good faith, some don't. So, if a woman wants to play games with men's wallets, she should know it's a risky game she's playing.

Ngokafor:
....You are still displaying rhe same twisted mentality as seen from uyi the rapist and his horde of iddiotic supporters..

...Its a tragedy..no wonder rapists in this country have now moved to raping babies and toddlers increasingly...i guess those babies and toddlers too 'depends' on men for money therefore deserves to be raped?


...sick bastardds everywhere

SmartChoices:
expectation must be tied to consent or rape ensues..tatoo that in your heart

colik:
Of course not.
But you shouldn't be in a relationship just for sex.
No matter how much you spend on a lady,once she says 'No' you should accept it.

Here's a piece of advice,before you venture into a relationship,lay down all your terms.
In this way,no one will feel cheated.

SmartChoices:
you are a potential rapist...the key concept in rape is lack of consent! if she tells you to insert your dick once and exit and you do twice refusing to stop when she requests you to do so.

hey man you just committed rape! consent all the way or else you become another had been!




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colik:
Nice write-up.

I don't agree with you though.
I refuse to believe that very few girls are self reliant.
That's like saying most girls are dirty or most girls are ugly. That's a very wrong assumption.
Granted,some girls are only in relationships because they need a portable money bag but this doesn't mean that 'most' girls have this same idea.

There's no excuse for rape no matter how you look at it. If it's all about the money guys spend on their girls then can't they take that same money to ladies who are more willing?
Are you forgetting the pedophiles?
Or innocent victims who just happened to be in the wrong place at the wrong time?
First, people brought up mode of dressing as the reason for rape and now it's about the money?
Well it's not.

Laveda:
The Op must be studying mass communication.


Btw OP, why go into a relationship when you can't take care of the woman you call your girlfriend? When you can't spoil her with gifts once in a while?

There's a difference when a lady makes it a point of duty to always ask, that's what I don't like, you're not her father or ATM.
But when you as the man can't provide once in a while when she's in dire need what does that make you?

Nonsense! There's no justification for rape.

WeWildin:
Why wont the percentage be high when you probably studying some bullshit course like psychology or sociology or gender studies, I pity you, just enter the job market, you will be raped severely anally


Nice writeup tho.