₦airaland Forum

nwando:
Why not ?
what's wrong with girls here ?
I met my hubby here ,I was sent here by my parents.

I've heard Nigerian men say girls in America are too "open eye"
don't respect them and all that crap.
That's just a mark of insecurity and low self esteem on the man's part.
Many of them run home because they can't tell those stupid lies to the ones here
and whatever they have will not impress her either.

If he has a car,she probably has one or 2
She may already have her own house
They spend the same dollars
so It takes out the thrill he gets from mesmerizing naive girls running after "men from overs"

It's pathetic how a man can send a message home to his folks that he's coming home for Christmas and his people should look for a wife,preferably a nurse ,fair in complexion with ample bossoms .
And when he lands,they would have arranged several girls for him to meet,each one wishing to be picked knowing there are other girls being sampled.
What type of stupidity is that?
Is living abroad now the only qualification for a suitable suitor?

Girls have married men they never saw.
How stupid can someone be to marry someone they never set eyes on just because he's in America or Europe?

D-reloaded:
Rofl. Osisi, you don reveal their secret. hahaa

nwando:
don't mind them
some end up learning the hard way.
A relative of mine took several trips and wasted money wooing several girls in Nigeria at different times
He should have completed his upstairs in the village if he didn't embark on these fruitless ventures.
Look at Nigerian girls all over colleges in America and someone is looking for girls from Nigeria that are supposedly better girls.
Is it these same girls that were turning tricks from Nsukka to OAU.
Sleeping with Alhajis and their professors for benefits?

Let them keep deceiving themselves

_{now I sound like hotfunmi}

I am actually going home to marry my village chick , but she is not a nurse sha

I love my people

One question please!! Where did the jews came from if that place is not their land?
Where did they come from to settle in places like Germany, Russia, Poland etc.

An honest answer will be, "where they are today"

hahahaha na wa ooo

choco4life:
Yet another attack on the Yoruba race.
Ki la se fun yin?

LoL na yoruba dey attack yoruba for here ohh

i visited the hi5 link and found out that his friends are mostly Yoruba

nwando:
Romeo
maka Chukwu,make sure you're not deceiving anybody or else

I don tire for that level sister , i am now looking for a real wife like toshy

nwando:
my dear most of them go home
looking for "virgin" wives
they think girls abroad are too "open eye"
or could be because the girls sabi them well well
so many go home and deceive girls in naija with lies

toshmann:
as they divorce finish, the babe been return to naija?

make una stop this sexism wey una de practice for here o BabyO you are a serious sand-for-garri expert anybabe wey come abroad must take wetin she see, after all the dude came abroad with great hopes too only to jam palava.
warning to nigerian men: beware of nigerian based women who claim to be qualified nurses, some of them are nurse-eliza and can't even write some of the exams that are necessary to practice in the states.

by the way, nne, i'm about to seal my marriage we still have some problems though, religious one(she's catholic and i'm not) but we are working on it. i'll be in new jersey next week to see her parents

wish me luck

One big stout for you jare

tpia:
you guys are missing the point.

Okeke may have lied about his occupation to the prospective bride. Could be delivery man, security guard or cab driver saying he's a doctor, lawyer or important business man abroad. Nothing wrong with any of these occupations, but why lie to someone you say you care about and want to marry. What about when she discovers the reality.

The wife arrives joyfully overseas only to discover her dream prince is actually the opposite. Nothing wrong with that, except he shouldnt have deceived her in the first place.

happens a lot.

There's a story somewhere about someone whose girlfriend is thinking of sponsoring their entire wedding and engagement since the guy has no money. Some girls don't mind these kind of things, as long as the man is telling the truth.

What exactly is your bizness with that? If a girl marries me because i am in Europe or because i have some money to throw around, then that is her Bizness. I don't know any guy that lies to the wife to be knowing that they will live together under the same roof.

Some guys might lie to babes just for a fling, but not for marriage. Except if the poster was a victim of that or knew a victim of that.

All those pizza boys and cleaners do not ride okada in Nigeria like their counterparts that work in offices, coupled with their big houses and their big mortgage debt that they pay through the nose. hahahaha

nonsense thread my sister Nwando

nwando:
This is from a sister who cares about her fellow sisters.
I don see things and hear tori for America
Beware of some Nigerian men coming home from the USA and Europe looking for wives.
All that glitters is not gold.
Many ladies have broken engagements from worthy suitors for "men abroad" only to arrive here and find out that Okeke is a pizza delivery man not a business man or that the rich neighborhood he lived in was a mouldy basement in someone's house.
This is a warning from a kind lady who loves her Nigerian brothers but will not spare the wayo ones using and abusing naive girls desperate to flee Nigeria at all costs.

Which kind nonsense bad belle be dis one? wetin concern you say okeke na pizza boy? abi pizza boys no suppose get wife again? abeg shape your mouth well next time you wan talk about me and my friends

Sabisabi:
Na expat o. Na this man dey carry them go Italy o.

No be 1000 naira i take buy your sister?

tpia:
please don't consider yourself an expert on Nigerian prostitutes abroad.

You don't know each and every one of them, no matter how much dancing you do every single day and night. They come, they go.

So, unless you're the one bankrolling the entire trafficking process from Nigeria to Europe, you can't have 20/20 vision in this matter.

Abeg go sidon for one side!! It seems you like arguing blindly

tpia:
I've said my own, you've said your own. To each his own.

by the way, are you a bouncer? na only night club you dey frequent for Nigeria, Spain, Italy, or anywhere you go? abi na recruiter you be?

Why would I be going round all the clubs in new zealand to count the number of prostitutes there?

I like dancing and i do it anywhere i find myself, be it Nigeria or Europe because i am still a youth

My friend sometimes it's good to keep mute on issues we don't know and learn from others

tpia:
una don come be that o.

Are you yourself based in Nigeria- or is that not Spain on your profile.

If you happen to have friends who are prostitutes, in what way does that mean every single Nigerian prostitute abroad knew they were being trafficked for prostitution. Again with the generalizations. You can't claim to know every single prostitute in Italy, Spain or wherever you are. When this trade was in its initial stages, there were many women who said they were tricked about the actual nature of their employment in Europe. And if these people are going into the remote hinterlands to scout for girls, then there's still the possibility that some of these girls may not know the exact nature of the job. Or are you saying every single girl without exception has the desire to be a prostitute.

Some go with the full knowledge of what they're getting into, while others don't.

As to night club patrons and the like- every country has them. Dont know why you consider Nigeria's own worse than others. have you ever visited the US. Anyway, flash money anywhere in the world, and a good chunk of girls will follow you home. Dont know what you're saying here.

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@ Blatant:

The article didnt specifically mention Benin girls, to the best of my knowledge.

You can argue what you like about this topic but the truth still remains that every single Nigerian prostitute in Europe knew what she was going to do over there and the amount she was going to pay her Madam, Just wait for the part 2 of that CNN programme and then you'll come to know what i already know about them and their families

Such documentaries are always on the air waves here, how they go to the juju shrines and how their families openly offer them to the journalists for free. They are all into Voodoo my goshhhhh

If you tell me that almost all the clubs in New Zealand are only frequented by ashawos then i will rest my case about Nigeria having more ashis than most western countries!! but until then i am still me

No need bringing that Blatant comment back because she already apologised for that

tpia:
@ romeo


na lie.


@ romeo


name your source for this information?

Where is the lie about what i said? don't open your mouth when you don't have a clue

my sources are my friends here who happen to be prostitutes and it's not a secret over here how they came and what rituals were performed before they came and all that bullshit

I don't think you need a web link to know that about 80% of nite clubs in Nigeria has been hijacked by ashawos thus making every other girl in a club almost a "club girl" in the eyes of men

almost 50% or more of our hotels are home to those ashawos

a good chunk of our female university students are ashawos

Even our so called Senate is debating that

Flash money anywhere in Nigeria and you'll pack girls afterwards as take away (even in the churches)

If you're not based in Nigeria Tpia, then it's been quite a long time you came home last

tpia:
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I'm also noticing your quickness to jump on Nigerian women who find themselves victims of this trafficking. Not all the women who are trafficked in this manner go intentionally. Some do, while others don't. And you're saying the whole thing is a fabrication by CNN because they ran a documentary about it?


If you watched the video, one woman was crying while she recounted how eight men humped her at one session, after tricking her about her services. Maybe you feel the tears were fake.

see Nigeria o. Seeing no evidence. Any wonder we are the way we are, with our mentality.

Every single Nigerian lady prostituting in Europe knew what she was going to do in Europe and the amount she will pay back to her " Madam". Not only that she was aware but her family too

@demand and supply issue

There is no bigger demand of prostitutes in Europe than in Africa (Nigeria), It's all economic and the prostitutes coming from Eastern block and Nigeria are going there to reap on the economic advantage Europe can offer and not because there is high demand. There are more prostitutes in Nigeria than the whole of Europe if we calculate the number of students that engage in sex for money in Nigeria



Are you based in Europe?

4Him:
they probably took one look at Mali and decided to remain a colony.

You need to visit Bamako and see that light is on 24/7 and not like our dear Abuja

NaJa HaJe:
onye delta kam bu. igbo unu asu sike, ya me nji si hhhhhhhmmmmmm.

Igbo anyi di ichi che.

Biko i bu onye igbo complete!!

NaJa HaJe:
hhhhhhhmmmmmmmmm

onye ebe ka i bu? okwa ka m jukwa!!!

Nothing spoil sha!! but i am waiting for part 2

faketan:
Guys
You can listen to Coal city Fm and all the network news
at
http://www.radionigeriaonline.com/ns_enugu.html#

I de go home steady now.

Ify M

Faky thank you very much

Ify kedu kwanu

umuigbo ekene m unu nile

My sisters una do well ohh

ojimbo IV:
omg! this is very nice work. i can't help but feel some high level poetic control of grammar and technique ability in this piece - makes me wonder if this was written by an understudy to prof. soyinka. therefore, casting doubts over the credibility of the writer (i.e kalu )

no doubt kalu can spell, but i strongly disagree his vocabulary is as good as what the articles suggest. the action of the elders is to checkmate him flossing himself with articles like these. but damn are there some massive words in 'his' articles whew!

get some life dude!! Do you know him personally? I hate cheap haters

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ojimbo IV:
@romeo, yes you saw him on hardtalk make a complete fool of himself, right? shouting all over the studio contradicting himself on all the issues discussed. i even saw him on haney's show running his mouth talking trash about policies. he don't know nothing about policies and neither can he write too.

Really? He can't write? is he Chinua Achebe? running his mouth and contradicting himself is not the same as not being able to spell. Abeg that spelling issue is dumb

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A lot of stupid people in here!!

I saw him in BBC Hardtalk last year and he spoke very well, The real illiterates are the Abia Elders for bringing up such a nursery school idea. And how is Orji Kalu's ability to spell or not going to help the people of Abia state? Our elders must stop being so dumb

Kaiiiiiii Abia steti

Though not given to an arrogant display of intellectualism, his acuity is immeasurably perplexing. This is manifest in the deftness and adumbration with which he has accurately forecasted major events. No wonder some believe that he became a governor by a combination of adroit diplomacy and sheer good luck. He went through his academic career diligently and was at various times at Christ the King School, Aba for his primary education, Eziama High School, Aba; Government College, Umuahia; University of Maiduguri; Harvard University Graduate Business School (AMP 153) Boston, USA and Abia State University.

He holds a B.Sc. degree in Political Science of the Abia State University, Uturu, IEA Certificate by USAID, honorary doctorate degrees in Law by the University of Port Harcourt and Abia State University, Uturu, and City State University, Los Angeles, USA




And why are some people calling him illiterate

pahtahkee:
I thought you had prayed that God should elevate your status from the Agbero Oshodi motor park you were into? And when God answered your prayers you came on the forum stating you would never insult again?

I dey good mood today!

Dey there dey look for my God trouble , Did i insult you? LoL

LoL , It's so easy to spot a mad man!! fighting from one motor park to the other

almondjoy:
That is ma hubby. I do not need to tell you his own fetishes. They are even worse! Osi Umen might just come out smelling like a rose. So do not tempt me please. The reason I am asking "the full blooded". You already know my fetishes as "half-blooded"! Full blooded go be helele now!

LoL