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Romance › Re: When A Woman's Fed Up by Romeo3(m): 8:02am On Apr 23, 2012
Let me get you right. . . As in, you begged a woman? huh How old are you?
Romance › Re: My New Girlfriend Persist I Must Meet Her People Before Starting A Relationship by Romeo3(m): 7:59am On Apr 23, 2012
buchi4action: My new girlfriend insisted that i must meet her people (her dad, mum, siblings) before starting a relationship with me. Pleasd advice me on what to do.
Well, meeting her family would help keep you in check if you decide to misbehave. Some parents want to know their children's friends and they must have instilled in her the importance of such. You have 2 choices: Meet her people and start the relationship, or not. Well, if you really like her to that extent, that's a small thing to do for her, after all, you'll still meet them someday if the relationship heads in a positive direction.
Romance › Re: My Agony Of Monday by Romeo3(m): 7:40am On Apr 23, 2012
huh huh
Romance › Re: Type Of Ladies To Run Away From by Romeo3(m): 8:42am On Apr 04, 2012
How many versions of this nonsense will we read? huh and this one is claiming to be in the office, for a copy and paste work?
Romance › Re: We Agreed To End A 3 Years Relationship Due To Religious Differences. by Romeo3(m): 7:45am On Apr 04, 2012
Op, you made the right choice. Love is not blind to pending catastrophic influences like Religion. . .
Romance › Re: Romance Section Personalities. by Romeo3(m): 7:36am On Apr 04, 2012
^^^Where is cuddlemii? sad
Nairaland General › Re: Why I Am So Sweet, Charming And Beautiful by Romeo3(m): 7:21am On Apr 04, 2012
I don't know why you are blah blah blah. All i know is that people who are sweet, charming and beautiful do NOT make a noise about it. It's other's that have encountered them that makes such comment such as "she's sweet, charming and beautiful". It has always been my opinion that when ladies make a noise about qualities they necessarily do not have - especially on a faceless forum, where no one cares if you are the president daughter - it's mostly as a result of low self esteem and loneliness! Therefore, telling themselves they are sweet and charming when they are not, gives them a kind of consolation. . .
Romance › Re: I Don't Know What To Do!!! by Romeo3(m): 7:15am On Apr 04, 2012
84global: THIS IS PETETIC
I agree. grin
Romance › Re: They Can't Wait To Get Home by Romeo3(m): 7:13am On Apr 04, 2012
rokiatu: He probably married the girl of his dreams see how he's flying out of the car like superman. cheesy
huh huh
Celebrities › Re: Edo Men Are The Most Elegant N Charming Men In Nigeria by Romeo3(m): 10:05pm On Apr 03, 2012
onila: i dont feel like writing some long essay undecided
That means your thread is just another conjecture. . . Stop posting information that cannot be substantiated. wink
Romance › Re: Plz Read Dis N Tell Me If This Type Of Love Is Possible by Romeo3(m): 9:57pm On Apr 03, 2012
Romance › Re: Advice Needed... Bad Break Up by Romeo3(m): 9:49pm On Apr 03, 2012
ogbeche77: So u advice I should not pick her call or reply her messages.,..!.. D. Bombardment is worrisome.. Av switched of my 2 phones & missing alot of important calls
Taaa! Switch off phone for what? Pick your call and ask her in a calm voice to stop calling you! You don't need to stress yourself.
Celebrities › Re: Edo Men Are The Most Elegant N Charming Men In Nigeria by Romeo3(m): 9:29pm On Apr 03, 2012
onila: sharrap
You can't even defend your self?
Celebrities › Re: Edo Men Are The Most Elegant N Charming Men In Nigeria by Romeo3(m): 9:21pm On Apr 03, 2012
So you started this dumb thread because;
1. You think so
2. Stephanie Okereke said so
3. Tonto Whareva said so
4. You just want to start a senseless tribal war
5. All of the above
Romance › Re: Advice Needed... Bad Break Up by Romeo3(m): 9:09pm On Apr 03, 2012
Don't be in hurry to take her back. . . Call the shots. If you need her, call her after a long while, if not, don't bother. But if you'll call, let the easter be over first, give out that phone of hers. Be free of any attachment with her, and make sure you are on level grounds before starting off again. That is "if". . .

Don't allow family or anyone coerce you. . .
Romance › Re: Have You Ever Cheated In Your Relationship, Gist Us ! by Romeo3(m):
Why? Is talking about it going to make you feel better? Then by all means, go ahead. I'd have preferred bygones to be bygones, especially when you say you've repented from them. . .
Romance › Re: I Don't Know What To Do!!! by Romeo3(m): 9:01pm On Apr 03, 2012
Op, the worst mistake you'll ever do is falling for the same trick twice. DON'T go back to him. . . Follow your heart. Your heart is saying NO. Don't allow desperation for companionship push you into another mistake. . . wink
Romance › Re: They Can't Wait To Get Home by Romeo3(m): 4:09pm On Apr 03, 2012
MRbrownJAY: just a stoopid photographer who ask them to pose this way, thinking it would be "great".
He should have made the stoopidity more manifest by asking the vehicles to move, so that he can take the pic while in motion. . .
Romance › Re: They Can't Wait To Get Home by Romeo3(m): 3:45pm On Apr 03, 2012
Passing and laughing. . . grin
Romance › Re: A Man Castrates Himself ! Reason ? To Prevent Him From Cheating On His Wife by Romeo3(m): 3:17pm On Apr 03, 2012
tboy1: well damn . . . she's gonna have to cheat on him now cool
cool cool
Romance › Re: Types Of Men You Should Never Date by Romeo3(m): 3:13pm On Apr 03, 2012
tlops: Exactly my thought.
Yeah. The thing with such kind of well articulated write-ups is that information only flows on one side, therefore, they are on the lookout on how to avoid such men when in reality, they are avoiding ALL men. I think it would be better if the ladies identify the different classes of men the OP listed, and choose the categorized number she knows she can live with, and then learn to love him for who he is. Asking them never to date them is just not possible!
Romance › Re: Types Of Ladies You Should Never Date by Romeo3(m): 2:49pm On Apr 03, 2012
[quote author=yusuf_@]op, u're are spoiling market for some people oh lipsrsealed


guess what op is trying to say is "ALL HOPE IS LOST", cos lets face the fact, u would never ever in ur life meet a lady who does not fall in to one or more of those categories of ladies he listed.[/quote]True. There is no hard and fast rules when it comes to matters of the heart. No one is perfect!
Romance › Re: Important! Lay Down Rules In Your Relationship. by Romeo3(m):
bennyraz: when will you realise that you are the head! A relationship/marriage is a mini-government. The way you handle will determine if you are a good politician. Do u just think i would read the rules to her once.
I'm not the head of any woman i'm not married to. Even if i'm engaged to be married to her, it doesn't qualify me as her head. Now, after getting married, i'll want my wife to be in a relaxed mood. She should be free to tell me anything. I'm not running a government, i'm trying to make my marriage a success. That i'm the head of the family doesn't make a a control freak who only exhibits control over a woman he's supposed to love and cherish and treat as his own body. Most of those rules you set cannot be applicable to you. Why would you ask someone to do what you know you as a person cannot do? A politician who lays down rules and enforces those rules on his subjects is doomed to fail. A quick example is the governor of Lagos state. He indiscriminately banned the operation of okada in ikeja and he enforced it. Where is that law today? Dashed! You might think that at the beginning you'll have a measure of success, but deep down, she's obeying you grudgingly, and one day, just one day, she'll erupt, and you aint gonna like it!
So you mean you'll read rules to a woman you love, and you expect her to remain loyal to you? If you want someone you'll read rules to, pls pls and pls, buy a DOG!

For example if i call her and she always tell me she's at somewhere. When we see, i simply tell her that ''i don't like when calling u, u tell me at somewhere? Is somewhere a define place'' pls dont tell me that again. It pisses me off. Shekena.
That doesn't make it a rule. And before you marry someone, you should have known her very well, and she should have known you too. Reminding her everyday means you do not really know her and you had no business getting married to her. If she's married to you, she should tell you where she is. If she's not married to you, you have no rights to demand it from her. Her telling you is out of her own want. And even at that, your tone of voice when talking to her would go a long way in telling her how much you really care about her. One day, you'll get miserable from trying to always correct the mistakes of another, by enforcing the rules. Quick questions to you:
Who makes "your" own rules?
What makes them right?
Who reminds you when you go wrong?
Who punishes you when you default?
When i was younger, my father didn't flog us. He used words. Soft words. Never would he raise his voice, and i tell you, when he's done talking to you, you'll wish he rather flogged you instead. Nothing is achieved by being unnecessarily harsh and over domineering.

That's how i will run from no 1 to no 10. Like i said i give a woman before she asks so she doesn't have to ask me. She might as well say one or two things that she doesn't like about me. I will adhere to it so far it doesn't contravene/counter my own rules.
So you alone should make rules? If her own rules contravene yours you wont keep it? Why? Did you marry a slave? Did you marry her to read her the riot act every morning? I don't know why you think marriage is a government. A woman should love you, and not be scared of what will happen to her when she breaks a rule. Keep that up, and you'll be pushing her away. . .

You get it? The Nigerian mentality of respect is money. You Earn everybody's respect if you have money. An 80yrs old man will only say ''yes sir'' to a 15yrs old teenager because he knows he has money. Money commands respect. Get it
What if you are broke? She has rights to listen to you when you are broke? Would you prefer a woman to love and respect you because of the money you have, or because she loves you for who you are, irregardless of your money?

Your orientation about life and relationships especially marriage should change, else, you are only writing out a recipe for your own downfall.
Romance › Re: Types Of Ladies You Should Never Date by Romeo3(m): 2:19pm On Apr 03, 2012
So what's the way forward. . .Sir?
Romance › Re: Types Of Men You Should Never Date by Romeo3(m): 2:18pm On Apr 03, 2012
Articles like this should end with "the type of men ladies should date. It's not fair to ask them not to do this and that without showing them the way forward. . . **Thinking out loud**
Romance › Re: Do You Believe In True Love? - My Story by Romeo3(m): 2:08pm On Apr 03, 2012
Yes i believe in true love.

Though life may throw us sad experiences that could leave us heartbroken, that's not a yardstick to conclude that true love doesn't exist. Look at matters from a different angle, ask yourself questions pertaining to why your heart was broken, and learn from it. You will never find nor understand what love stands for, if you have the perception that love does not exist. With the negative mindset most people have towards love, they would not recognize true love even if it's staring at them straight in the eye. . . You cannot claim to be looking for something you are not willing to receive when you eventually find it.

I have been heartbroken severally by people i thought loved me, but on a closer look, i realized that their own definition of love, was different from mine. I will not allow their negativity to influence or disrupt my positivity. Things happen for a reason. When they happen negatively, i dust myself up, raise my head up, and look up into the future. Better days ahead. A bright and positive outlook has never failed me.
Romance › Re: Important! Lay Down Rules In Your Relationship. by Romeo3(m): 1:54pm On Apr 03, 2012
Rules in a relationship? Relationships are not one sided, and you have to realize that it's not your right to be in a relationship. You do not force respect on anyone, respect has to be earned. You can earn the respect of any lady by the way you treat her. Asking a lady to follow premeditated rules sounds like a dose of insecurity + low self esteem. If you are to go by the way of rules, everyone has rules, but how would you feel if she asks you to follow her rules to the letter? You are not perfect, neither is she. You should expect mistakes, and expect people to wrong you. The way you handle matters goes to prove your maturity, and she'll respect you for that. . .

Any woman that strictly follows those rules you stated above does not Love you!

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