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The OP must be bored. Pele.

sinaj:
you shud ask if the one in white is single nt d black *rolls eyes*

Lol the one in black can't be single, she's too gorgeous not to have been 'fished' by sharp PH badoos that's why I didn't bother. Biko connect me to that chick. Hehe.

Oliviaarims:
Lol. Dear, Ronald, have you been banned from using your other account?

Yes darl. But I'll be set free later today.

Europija:
answer me

If I whoze you back hand slap ehh your brain will reset. Don't quote me again, ma'am

Europija:
...if he has moved on then why calling?

Bia don't quote me again please. I have zilch tolerance for asininity.

Europija:
....I think he called as to test me to see how wil i react coz he is surprised cox i didnt call.him.for 2.months

Why would you be calling an ex? He has moved on, you should too.

Europija:
Why would he call after long time n then latter not call again?

And I'm supposed to know how? Wait and see if he calls again and if he doesn't then his biz. That's not too hard a thing to do, is it?

How are we supposed to know what he want? What kind of fückery is this?!

"Quench" her to another world and find yourself spending countless years in Kuje prison. Pal, babe has move on, you too should. All your 'investment' on her has gone with the wind.

Your approach is too stale and languid and every lady should deduce what you're driving at. You want a lady to get wet and engage you in a sex chat there are more tempting questions you should ask, not this pedestal question. You're the problem, mister.

SAINTSAMURAI:
I once dated three ladies which are older than me, two of the ladies got married though it was an arranged marriage by the parents of both parties, the 3rd one got admitted to a college in the US of A. believe me when i say to you, that the Love we had was so strong that it can turn Thesok from gay to straight. but you see life has thought me, how to be a man in hardtimes, IN life a king must rule with his head and not his heart, i let go of three of them and maintain close friendship with them, now though im not a gold digger but there is not a single request i made or will make from each of them that wont be granted, is it purchasing of smartphone, laptop, money in my bank account? etc. you see my brother the truth is that three of the ladies are far far richer than me and are on another level, so two got married to very rich guys, so instead of crying and thinking with my heart, i let them go and think with my head, now i still enjoy them, i still fork them and enjoy their husband's money.

Braggadocio, stay thematic, you're off topic. It's not every time you should brag about the number of phantom women you have dated.

So, in conclusion we should stay away from Naija babes

misspicy:
LOL

The only thing I don't understand is how i missed front page on Toks2008 first "Nigerian Women favouring thread"


e pain me small



Hi

Lol abi o. Toks has tone down his women undermining threads for sometime now. Shows he ain't rigid and listens to constructive criticism. Hopefully, he stays that way but if only it isn't an innate mien.

Hiya, how are you?

sinaj:
The thing that attract guys more is your physical appearance.

Do u observe good hygiene?
Ow do u dress?
Ow do u carry yourself?, are you confident in you own skin?



Do you comport yourself well in a social gathering?

Are you the type that hardly smile in a public place?


Are you friendly?

Ask yourself these questions?

Who be that she on black? Is she single?

Guess this thread is a calculated noose to take opposing views and individuals by the jugular, tag them 'hater' and 'unpatriotic'.

Well, if it will make 'them' feel good about themselves why not?

iAmCharis:
Freedom for some individualism in a marriage? Lol

While there might be some lady out there looking for a guy with your point of view but don't you think that's somewhat insensitive considering your woman's feelings? She sure won't be happy to have a husband who wants to live a private life. Maybe you should adjust this some individualism the union thingy.

Well, maybe you haven't met that lady you'll want to share your whole life with.

I know it's impossible. Marriage is about two becoming one so to think it's possible is foolish. And perhaps I just haven't found the lady yet.

Kolade354:
We're coming back next season to win the league

Yimu. Relegation awaits you guys next season.

What's the morale of this thread? How do you define a real and fake woman and who admits or decides who's real and the pseudo real ones?

Kolade354:
Ashewo man

Haha this blues man. See as una club Bleep up? Abeg swerve.

layla129:
Huh Are you kidding? What freedom are you talking about here? clubbing?

No, not clubbing but even if I feel like clubbing I don't want my phone to be ringing at intervals to come home or some nagging at me.

Here are a snippet of what scares me in marriage. I'm one person who doesn't really like to be accountable for my movement, I can close from work and hang out in a pub or a karaoke live band show and just want to relax without anyone asking where are you or start asking questions. I don't want to come home and then start accounting for where I've been all day and all that sh1t.

If I want to watch a particular tv channel all day I also don't want to be told to change it, let me be free in my home and do whatever I want. I may also just wake up today and pack my bags and off to Amsterdam or Frankfurt as a single individual but when married I can't just do that, I have to account and inform my wife before doing so and I hate accounting to anyone about my life. There are many many things but these are just a fraction of it.

Not also tooting my own trumpet but I believe I've worked hard and secured some reasonable stuff for myself and still striving hard to secure more better things of life and I don't want to get married today then divorce tomorrow and someone just initiate for alimony and I'm left near empty handed over all what I laboured to secure.

iAmCharis:
Hahaha egbon, you want to eat your cake and have it.

Ever thought of never getting married since you're not comfortable with some things that come with marriage?

Sure have thought about not getting married but the thought of bearing progeny from a divided home scares me a lot too. Like most men, I want to have kids but looking at the pros and cons of kids from separated/divided home no one wants that kind of outcome.

Then returning home everyday with a welcome kiss and dinner served with mandatory 'bedmatics' exercise are also one of the things every man like myself can't do without. Though a girlfriend can still help in this regard but for how long na.

Marriage is just a 50/50 thing to me which has many advantage just like disadvantages but whichever way freedom is vital and respected. Not freedom to cheat or play games but just some space and maintain some individualism in the union.

Not sure if I've got any but if there's then it's the thought of ever getting married someday. Just don't want anything that will infringe on my freedom and independence.

AfricanApple:
just two weeks? that's not a chase at all

Okay na no qualms. I'll grow white beard where I'm chasing you you hear? Who long chasing epp

When next she says that again tell her you're not dating anyone else but her and can't continue spending on the sis or friend. If she insist then you should demand a three or foursome with them since you're all in the relationship together.

Aka nri kwuo aka egbe aka egbe akwuo aka nri.

For how long are you going to keep moving shilly-shally on to the next one? You may end up not winning any one's heart if that should be the case.

The chase is fun and makes it intriguing so for me I may persist for a week or two and if no sign of a positive romance then I move on. But to say asking once and moving on is ideal I don't think so.

guyANDROID1:
Please expatiate more. Give us your real experience as to the good lucks during your years of premarital sex.

Thank you.

Said I didn't experience ill-luck doesn't and never said I'm all lucky either so don't know what you're driving at.

But since you want to know my life has been overwhelmed and deluged with plenitude of fortunes and progression in my career. I have no regrets whatsoever and I'll continue to indulge in sex, married or not. Kapisch?

Never experienced ill-luck or setback in my adult life and I've been indulging in sex since when I was 16/17 so I call this bollocks.

MzPecs:
If she had taken that time to call on Jesus, it wouldn't have resulted to death!

We just can't sacrifice that little time with God buh will spend the whole day on instagram and d others.

May her soul RIP

So, those who calls on Jesus never dies and lives eternally?

If I were you I'll follow my heart and stick to the relationship. Unless she's to table her reasons why I shouldn't continue with the relationship and they have to be grounded enough. That she doesn't like her isn't grounded enough and she (mum) MUSTN'T like my woman. She only have to RESPECT her as my choice just like she (girlfriend) too has to respect my mum.