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i had my first baby via c.s(though elective) and it is not as bad as people make it sound.would i go for c.s again?. i would say YES.

Please how do you deal with the fact that your husband is cheating on you?can one ever get pass it and secondly,would/can one (with time) get to trust him again?
Honest opinions will be highly appreciated.

How do one cope with a husband that finds it very difficult to express himself, don't show emotions any form and most of all, not caring.can't even have a simple decision without an argument which most times I apologise/ keep shut for the sake of peace. All these traits where absent while we where courting.just being married a little over a year, i have decided to join him in displaying his attitude,just to let him know how it feels but it just makes the whole thing worse. Any advise on how to go about it.

will just have to give it to Hilda Dokubo. that woman dey cry no be small.

Homosexualism is just plain nasty

i have been in one for the past 12 years( dated 8 years an now married for 4 years). i must say it is not easy at all. it takes alot to make it work. trust has to come first before any other thing. you have be understanding and very patient. i am currently a father figure and mum for my 2year old. its alot of work i must say.
you should not give room for dought.is he cheating on you? that aspect you should not even bother about(that's where the trust comes in)what you don't know wont kill you. what you know will kill you faster.

how much

well, my mother law that i had no prior relationship with decided to pack her belongs after i had my baby to stay with us for 3 months.the first week was a night mare. i had constant migraine, she complained of everything, what to cook for my husband,always called my husband to let him know i was out of the house and he should call me to find out,she wanted her bedsheet washed every 3 days , the stress was just too much.i was never rude to her but i make it clear(body language)that she was not welcome. my husband was traveling fro a biz trip(going away for over 3 months) , so i just used that opportunity to tell him i would be moving to my parents house to stay for some while. it was a big issue, he had to tell his mum to leave for a while, his mum was mad, reported me to everyone even called my mum but she calmed down after a while. she has not come since then to visit(which is really better for me,i no send)but i take to baby to see her often.

every 3-4 hours

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No, its not compulsory. in my opinion, I think the guy should wash his clothes himself or better still get a washerman to do the washing from him. At least he was washing the clothes somehow before he married.why should things change because he is now married, he definably didn't marry a slave

When saw the phone, you should have just asked her there and then for explanations. You didn't have to start calling numbers and all that. what you don't know wont kill you,what you know will kill you faster. Remember she is your wife.
Good luck

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Doctor in the house please help.
i was about about 7 weeks pregnant(still spotting) when i went for my first scan and the doctor told me that the sac was present but there was nothing inside. adviced for an immediate d&c.
i didn't go for the appointment cos i figure out that if there was something wrong i would wait till i have a m&c naturally.
i am 12 weeks now and i am so scared to death to go to the hospital for a re scan thou the spotting have stopped since 3 weeks ago.do i wait till i am 16 weeks or go now
please what do u advice i do?

Please could u guys suggest a very  good maternity hospital around ikeja(Allen. opebi, awolowo road, GRA  etc.