₦airaland Forum

etcsines:
Hi Rosy4u,

Can we be friends?

henryobinna:
what will the government or NGO really fight?

there's nothing ot be fought here.

the government or NGO won't force his parents and entire community to attend his wedding neither will they force his parents to bless them, not even force the family to accept the girl.

The guy can go on and do court wedding and church wedding if his church is cool with his parents not partaking in it. But traditionally, he and his family (plus kids) are not recognized... The father can refuse to let him into his house or anything concerning him, so what will the government and NGO do in such case?

Some of you who are none Igbos or do not have knowledge of the thing will just be giving advice uppn advice on a subject you lack information of. The truth is nobody can stop him from marrying the girl if he so wishes... At the same time nobody can force others to accept/recognise he and his marriage(family as well)... I don't know how marriages are done in other parts of Nigeria but in Igbo land, it goes beyond the few hours of ceremonies...


By the way, the Osu thing has spiritual repercussions, strangely enough nobody made mention of it here.

I will only advise the OP to go ahead if he's a devoted Christian(because of the spiritual repercussions) and if he's ready to damn the social consequences(family, community etc etc)


Other wise, just do what you know is right. By the way, marrying her sef right now based on her good conduct and love does not determine what she'll turn into tomorrow... people change... love changes.


Good luck with whatever decision you decide to go with

femi4:
you ve done all b4

freemanbubble:
Hmmmmmmm
My love for snakes
But wait o. I thought we have seen this thread before

Anyway. I live snakes die
These are friendly python and different from boa
I know these white people will not kill this snake unlike our Africans that will kill and eat it

The rate at which we kill them in Africa these days, their population will soon be threatened. Lets learn to live peacefully with these beautiful snakes. They don't bite to attack and to defend. They only swallow small animals
If you keep your cool, a human - python cohabitation is very possible.



Even the cobra self they only bite to defend
Because i dey reason am why he be say if snake come meet us for house them nor dey harm us. Sometimes self you fit live with snake for two years inside house them nor go do you anything

There is no way you can be bitten by a snake in a residential building
Which means they respect us
So lets learn how to respect them
Please lets learn to live and stay with this beautiful creature called snake

shakaranews:
Women are their own problem.

Meanwhile, somewhere in Africa, the popular "Pamela Why Pastor", pastor Alph Lukau, is at it again. This time, he brought a dead man back to life.

Could this be real or staged?
Watch and judge below

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ShzKfV0q8g8

hemartins:
Hmm, I spend at least 10 to 12 hours in front of a computer daily without precautions. If you see me, you see computer.

LordsApostle:
I sent u a message. Check u go see my own.

vizkiz:
DM

vizkiz:
DM

vizkiz:
Where have you been? Miss those pretty eyes.

vizkiz:
Chai...

WaleOsu:
You this fine girl...to kiss you just dey hungry me

Akinbahm:
Islam is quite different from Muslim pls try and comprehend their meaning respectively, I'll have try to explain them here but am feeling sleepy due to my day that was hectic. I rest my case till tomorrow...

paiz:
Please where will she shot the video?
I need to hawk something

redbeans:
sorry I can't laugh to any of these. lost my joy

OfficialDad:
@rosy4u