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enoquin :
Options available:
1. Leave the struggling guy; marry a rich or a well to do man.
You may or may not end up happy and he might decide not to help your family, his money...his rules.

2. Stay with struggling guy; he might not be in that state forever or he might not go much higher than this present state or progress may not be so great.
You may or may not end up happy especially if you begin to resent him for not being able to meet all your needs.

Why do we choose life partners?

1. To make our parents happy and proud?
2. To make ourselves happy and proud?
3. To make our friends happy and proud?

I am an advocate of parent(s) reaping the fruits of their labour but at what cost? Has your mum ever hinted at you marrying a rich man?

You haven't gone for service yet, why not wait till after service before getting married? A good job might have been gotten by your partner then and if not, you both can look at ways that extra income can be made. Is your partner a graduate?

Suitors will always come, the key thing is contentment with what you own and with whom you are and you won't even see the suitors as rich or not but as men with faults and imperfections.

My advice? Don't worry overmuch over such things as these. You both don't have to depend on your mother if you eventually marry and things haven't progressed much, just live within your means...

I wish you both the best.

MizMyColi: Noooooo

He uses my signature font and font size!




Joke apart now, I never insinuated he had any issues. The lady in question's kinda overbearing and has all the issues which boils down to Deep Seated insecurity of sorts, which may not have emanated from Him.

Considering her family and background, I think her need to be the boss (which reeks of insecurity) might have arisen from Dad always putting Mom down and vice-versa.

MizMyColi: You're prolly setting yourself up for heart failure

MizMyColi: Insecurity! Unrepentant Insecurity! OP, Take a break already joor! its no use going through such emotional abuse, seeing as you're not mentally and/or psychologically prepared to handle her

davitogreat: Right... So giving the funds to ghana, Rwanda and Uganda is so much better. Funny seeing the stupid comments in the thread.
I swear Nigerians can sometimes be some of the most stupid people you can ever come across. They think by by speaking ill of nigeria in every situation they are enlightened and forward thinking when Infact it's the opposite.

dytbabe: Chai
Each time u write my name ehn
My hrt skips a bit

*how do they call love one in igbo*
Oxone ooo

dytbabe: Hehhehehehe
Sounds like u will see them frnds when u down
Same as when ur gadget is down.

I am not afraid to meet ppl in the real world infact, over friendliness dey worry me, am jst sayin ni
All are same, fake/good/bad/evil/lovely ppl
They cld come frm anywhere

MizTyna: I tested the phone on behalf of the manufacturer,not Konga

1one: The major drawback on that phone is the battery.. 1920mah??...does kit Kat have some inbuilt battery optimizing ability?.. If not I think for all the specs it has, that battery won't take it anything more than 3hours on a full charge.

KanwuliaJara: No need! I like my behind just where it is!
I don't use REPORT BUTTONS!

KanwuliaJara: Still on KANWULIA?
Moooooooooore please!!!!

I MUST HAVE HIT IT HARRRRRRRRRRRRRRD!

6AM. . .Time for breakfast!

MizTyna: Ehn ehn? All will be clear in less dan 2wks. I dunno how Regal buyer got a price wen d manufacturers havent announced it. And no,i do not work for Konga

marioking: Manshitty though they stole d BPL from us Liverpoolfc

seankafor: time please

onirugbon1: You get a certificate for a marriage. Thats an achievement.

When you escape a bad marriage and get a divorce, you get a certificate. Thats an achievement.

Somehow being single does not weigh into this mix.

Being single is as much an achievement as eating breakfast every morning.

ideology: If you were soldier going to save people and you find out that some of the people u wanna save are supporting the enemy,

1. how will you feel?
2. How successful do you think you will be?
3. list one method of gathering information that the citizens will not be along the chain.

BananaBender: For a 3G phone??!!

Have you seen the specs?? lmao

I wasn't planning on buying it, just shocked that it's almost non-existing on the internet.

BananaBender: Why d heck where u guys doubting her?......... it's a relatively cheap phone


Is it only sold in Nigeria? How come there is no option for me to buy it online, in fact it's like the phone doesn't even exist.

And the first page on Google search only shows Nigerian sites talking about the phone. *confused face*