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Car TalkRe: One Quarter Of Cars In Nigeria Are In Lagos- FRSC by Rufex07(m): 10:01pm On Mar 09, 2016
grin
maestroz:
eleyi gidi gan o....

is dat lagos in da pix? how do you guyz cope? mehn!...now i know why lagosians inhale CO2 and exhale oxygen...
grin
maestroz:
eleyi gidi gan o....

is dat lagos in da pix? how do you guyz cope? mehn!...now i know why lagosians inhale CO2 and exhale oxygen...
PoliticsRe: Most Expensive And Luxurious Presidential Planes In The World. by Rufex07(m): 7:36pm On Nov 26, 2015
space booked!
PoliticsRe: 10 Things To Know About Prince Abubakar Audu (oct. 1947 – Nov. 2015) by Rufex07(m): 8:59pm On Nov 22, 2015
...God knows best.
PoliticsRe: President Buhari's Speech To Ministers-designate At The Retreat Today: Punchy! by Rufex07(m): 9:45pm On Nov 05, 2015
Sai Baba!
NYSCRe: The Fear Of A Corp Member by Rufex07(m): 12:21am On Oct 29, 2015
deltateam:
No meaningful business in Nigeria one can start with #100 000 and you say it is very possible? Haba! If you don't know of one kindly open a separate thread and ask for guidance. They abound.

I know of a business you can start with #20 000 and be making not less than 100% of it and more every month.

One thing that unites the rich and the poor is food. Have you tried cooking joll of rice package it with disposable plate, add one small meat and you can sell it #200.

I hope you know how to cook, if not your mum, sister or Aunty that does would be glad to help.
You will make it if you are diligent.
I bet you didn't read that that was my reply to VickyRotex post.
NYSCRe: The Fear Of A Corp Member by Rufex07(m):
VickyRotex:
No.3 is a lie! angry
It's not! It is very possible.

For your information, I served 2 years ago in Umuahia and can authoritatively tell you that I bought things well over #250k(a brand new laptop, desktop computer, home appliances, a guitar, two printers, ups etc).

How did I got the money? N19,800 federal allowance, N8,500 state allowance, N8,000 from teaching computer in a private school based on my own time schedule and was earning over N15,000 from computer business and printing business I was doing in the Catholic lodge where I paid just N15,000 for rent. I grossed over N450,000 throughout my service year. The things I bought also helped me pay my bills before getting my current job.

My advise to OP is; N100,000 can definitely get you a small trade or business to start with. Look around your environment, spot what they lack and capitalise on It. Shyness doesn't pay bills, hard work does! I graduated with a 2.1 upper division too.

Also, be of good behavior to win peoples confidence and trust easily. I wish you well.
FamilyRe: The Most Beautiful But Heartbreaking Wedding That Left All In Tears Pics. by Rufex07(m): 2:04pm On Oct 26, 2015
To Love means to sacrifice!
CultureRe: Prince Adeyeye Enitan Ogunwusi: Things You Don't Know About The New Ooni Of Ife by Rufex07(m): 12:10pm On Oct 26, 2015
Good for him. I wish him well.
CareerRe: 5 Things You Need To Survive In The Real World As A Nigerian Graduate by Rufex07(m): 4:34pm On Oct 21, 2015
On point
Emasky4real:
This article is dedicated to students who are still in high school, and undergraduates in the higher institutions learning. For those who are privileged to have access to formal education, there is this long time belief that higher education would guarantee one financial security, fame and success in life. Hence the common advice parents give their children is “go to school, get good grades and a high paying job is guaranteed”. The reality is that this belief and strategy of surviving in the real world is now outdated. Graduates who see the acquisition of a degree as a means of surviving in the real world only get outside there to find out that they were not ready for life at all.

To survive in a 21st century world as a Nigerian graduate, you must equip yourself with the following five tools.

(1) SKILL: One thing you are going to need badly after school and for the rest of your life is money, that is why you still see men in their 40s, 50s even 60s still riding okada and driving taxi to earn money. The truth is that immediately you become a graduate your parents or those who were responsible for your training will stop supporting you financially. They will assume you now have all it takes to survive, so the collection of pocket money will stop, and you will have to start solving your financial problems with your own earning ability. What this implies is that you will have to look for job with your certificate, and most often you will likely be underemployed, meaning you will not be paid what you are worth. The consequence of this is that you will end up not having enough financial resources to actualize your goals. Solving your financial problem will become difficult, and definitely the need for money will rise, because you will start thinking of getting a place for yourself, so that you can be on your own, getting married, going for a master’s program and so on. As this happens, psychological problems such as frustration, depression, self-pity, low self-esteem will start setting in, and if you are not careful, you may get demoralized to the point giving up on life.

To survive or avoid this you need a skill. Skill is the ability to do something very well. In the real world, people don't pay you for your certificate, they pay you for what you can do, and that's is the only legal way of getting money in the society, if you do otherwise, you would be called a fraudster, a thief or an armed robber. For example if I know how to repair phones anyone who has any problem with his/her phone will always come to me , and by the time I help him/her to solve the problem, the individual will pay me for that service. Now the question is what can you do? How can you render direct service with your current course of study?

The point here is you must have a skill. If you have none yet, enroll in a training center and start learning something. There are so many things you can learn within three months, and that would earn you nothing less than 50,000 per month.

Never look down on any skill, just consider your interest and what you love doing, and then acquire a skill in that area. When you do this, you can easily become your own boss after school or even before you graduate. If you are a graduate already reading this article and don’t have a job yet I recommend same. With an extra skill, you can increase your income. Never put your hope on getting a job that is not certain. To be forewarned is to before armed.

(2) INFORMATION: There is a general believe that knowledge is power, and that is very true. The 21st century world is information driven, and you need to consistently update yourself with the latest information in the areas that are critical to your survival. Sometimes people suffer because of ignorance.

If you must meet up with the latest trend, you have to develop the habit if continuous learning, you must be an ardent reader and an unrelenting information seeker. Try as much as possible to know everything you need to know that will help you to maximize your potentials. Always remember that what you don't know is more powerful than you. Keep yourself informed so that you will not be deformed.

Besides the acquisition of information, one other critical thing is the application of the information you have obtained. Having information without using is meaningless. Strive as much as possible to know all that you need to know about moving to your next level and take action at the right time.

(3) GUT: According to oxford advance learner dictionary, gut is defined as the courage or ability to do something difficult or unpleasant. The truth is that life is not fair for anybody, and definitely you are going to have your own share of life's difficulty in your quest for success. If you must succeed in the real world, gut is a necessary factor, because without it you will lack the courage to take action when things are not favorable, and that will keep you long in the valley of mediocrity. You may be very intelligent while in school, but after graduation you will discover that so many of your classmates who were not as intelligent as you were back in your school days are getting ahead, the reason is simply because they have the gut to try their ideas and that's what is getting them going.

To develop this quality, all you have to do is to cure yourself of every known fear. Experts in the field of personal development have identified certain fears that contribute to people's failure in life. Such fears include, the fear of death, fear of loss love, fear of ill-health, fear of criticism, fear of physical pain, fear of old age and so on. I assure you that if you can master these basic fears, you are going to have enough gut to try anything. Action is what produces result. You will never succeed if you don't try and to try all you need is gut.

(4) HARD WORK: In all of human history, hard work has been a critical tool of success, nothing can replace it. For you to survive and excel in the real world, you need an unwavering ability to take action, and persevere until you succeed. Most persons fail in life due to idleness. If you want to be poor all you need to do is be idle, and before you know it poverty will overtake you. A wise man once said that “where talent is lazy, hard work overtakes it”. No matter how knowledgeable, gifted and talented you are, if you refused to be hard-working, you will definitely be a failure. Always have it in mind that hard work is the only way. Never forget to always blend your hard work with strategic planning and persistence. Hard work combined in this manner will produce success.

(5) NETWORKING: Networking has to do with your ability to connect with people that will help you in getting to your next level. Niyi Adesanya, a personal development expert based in Nigeria once define individual competitiveness (in my own word, your capacity for success) as ‘’what you know + how you express it × by who you know and who knows you’’. I completely agree with his definition. The caliber of people you know and people who know you has a way of facilitating your success in life. As the world is today, the people we know to be the best in certain field are not actually the best. There are so many people who would have out-shined them if they are brought out of obscurity, but because they are not known by those who can position them to receive the honour they are worthy of, they remain irrelevant in their cocoon. If we must fully maximize our potential and remain relevant, our ability to network and connect with people who can help us get to our next level is critical.

Author: Taiwo Emayosanlomo, Success coach and Personal development expert.

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Source:http://taiwoemayosan..com/2015/10/5-things-you-need-to-survive-in-real.html

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Foreign AffairsRe: Ethiopia Opens Sub-saharan First Tramway by Rufex07(m): 11:44am On Oct 21, 2015
That's good smiley
PoliticsRe: One day is too much for the Nigerian Youth to burn this Nation Down. by Rufex07(m): 10:57am On Oct 15, 2015
Born or burn? Check your title.
PoliticsRe: My Honest Unbiased Opinion Of Ex. Gov. Alamieyeseigha’s Demise by Rufex07(m): 10:56am On Oct 14, 2015
Good questions!
PoliticsRe: Photos As King Sunny Ade Paid A Visit To The Presidential Villa Yesterday by Rufex07(m): 10:28pm On Oct 07, 2015
the legend!
PoliticsRe: Another Container Mayhem May Just Have Been Averted Today. by Rufex07(m): 7:28am On Oct 07, 2015
Thank God!
PoliticsRe: President Buhari Addressing UN General Assembly Live. by Rufex07(m): 12:23am On Sep 29, 2015
so presidential!
PoliticsRe: SHOCKING PHOTOS: Ghastly Car Accident In Abuja Today by Rufex07(m): 5:50pm On Aug 31, 2015
This is serious! RIP to the dead and quick recovery to the wounded. sad
HealthRe: Americans Flocking To China by Rufex07(m): 7:44am On Aug 20, 2015
Very informative piece!
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Graduate Vacancies At Guinness Nigeria by Rufex07(m): 9:42pm On Aug 01, 2015
Got this reply after taking the assessment:

Hi OLU...


Thank you for completing the online assessments for Diageo’s Global Graduate Programme.

We're passionate about giving people the freedom to succeed, and this starts with giving feedback. We are pleased to share with you a personalised feedback report (attached) following the completion of the online assessments.

This report has been designed to help you understand your personal Values, Motivations and Behaviours. Your position on the scale reflects how you answered the questions compared to the descriptors at either end of the scale. It is important to note that these scales are not from high to low and there is no good or bad answer. We hope that you will use this report to get to know yourself a bit better!

Unfortunately we cannot give any further individual feedback at this stage. We do however hope this feedback will help you in the future either in this process or in other job applications.


Kind Regards,

Diageo
Jokes EtcDid You Play This Soccer (photo) by Rufex07(op): 12:32am On May 19, 2015
Were you opportune to play this soccer when you were young?

PoliticsRe: Hillary Clinton Declares Running For Usa President by Rufex07(m): 9:47pm On Apr 12, 2015
good for her
Christianity EtcRe: Is Wet Dream A Sin? by Rufex07(m): 12:34am On Apr 12, 2015
Bonapart:
There are two things about wet dreams...
1: it has something to do with spiritual wife...daughters of jezebel
2: the enemy use it to cause set back and retardation in a man's life...
Your spiritual life is very low and you barely pray.
Revive your spiritual life and always fast and pray midnight prayers. Anoint yourself before you sleep...
*note*
If anyone come here and preach biology to you, tell the person he/she is a buffalo
and you call yourself a Christian?
PoliticsRe: Military Releases Detained Al Jazeera Journalists by Rufex07(m): 7:15pm On Apr 05, 2015
Thank God!
PoliticsRe: What Will You Do If Jega Declare Jonathan The Winner Now by Rufex07(m): 11:10pm On Mar 31, 2015
Dust my armoured tank, get ready for real war!
CrimeRe: Man Beats Wife To Death In Lagos For Being Barren (Photo) by Rufex07(m): 2:25pm On Mar 24, 2015
God, please help our failing homes. This issue of marriage challenges is getting out of hand.
PoliticsRe: A Mobile App For Election Monitoring, Developed By Nigerians For Nigerians! by Rufex07(m): 1:52pm On Mar 24, 2015
mxevc:
Have you imagined monitoring elections from the comfort of your home, posting election results as announced by INEC official of your polling booth and ultimately report incidents at your polling booth with pictures as evidence? All this can be done on the EVC APP!

EVERY VOTE COUNTS (EVC), A Mobile App for Election Monitoring, developed By Nigerians for Nigerians!

EVC - Every Vote Counts is a mobile App to monitor general elections in Nigeria. You can do the following on the EVC App

 Send result as declared by the INEC Official in your polling
 Report incidence (pictures inclusive)
 View Results from other polling units
 Get News alerts on Election
 Opinion poll and Chat forum
With the EVC, you can observe elections from anywhere, all you need is your mobile phone.

NIGERIANS! Let’s do it right this time! EVC IS TOTALLY FREE

Where to download the App?


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can you send a dropbox download link please. I'm having issues with my play store. thanks
Jobs/VacanciesRe: FAAN Recruitment 2015 - My Tales Of Woe Part 1 by Rufex07(m): 7:34am On Mar 20, 2015
publicenemy:
Hmmnnn... Nigeria. I would rather die childless than let my childrenn be Nigerians by birth.
be careful of what you wish for
PoliticsRe: Osinbajo Townhall Meeting At Maryland USA (Photos) by Rufex07(m): 8:47am On Mar 18, 2015
stronger:
[size=16pt]DO THEY HAVE PVCs??!!! [/size][size=8pt][/size]

This question has been recycled so many times and I am surprised when it comes from people who should know better. Let me try and explain;

(1) Yes, in fact they may have PVCs. I know a few people who came home to register and are coming this week to get their PVCs. Expand your network and get to know more people.

(2) Even if they don't have PVCs, they are stakeholders in the Nigerian project. The diaspora community sends back billions of dollars home EVERY YEAR! That translates to a higher GDP that strengthens the economy. You therefore can NOT neglect them. You must have a onverstaion with them on why they should trust the GMB govt. Why they should consider moving back etc! Think

(3) Do you even realise the population of Nigerians in Diaspora? Do you know how much influence they may have on their people back home? I know a woman who is a leader of her constituency and stays in Baltimore She is highly respected by THOUSANDS! She is in the US because she is sad about the state of things in Nigeria. If she sees reason with a GMB govt, she can single-handedly influence THOUSANDS OF VOTES!! can give you her name if you want! She doesn't have a PVC o. But she is worth thousands of votes!!

(4) [b]Lastly, THE INTERNATIONAL COMMUNITY!! [/b]During the American election 3-day debate, A WHOLE DAY was dedicated to FOREIGN POLICY!! Do you think US does not have enough domestic issues? of course Nigeria is not as powerful as the US and can't have a say in a lot of foreign policy discussions but the International community needs to have CONFIDENCE in the govt. That's the only way they will invest (and thus bring employment etc). So the CHATHAM HOUSE SPEECH for example was directed at mostly the intl community.

Please let's try to do some basic reasoning and not follow the crowd to yell same things over again!!

Cheers
God bless you for this post
Nairaland GeneralRe: My Encounter With A Samaritan Taxi Man by Rufex07(m): 9:01pm On Feb 25, 2015
good!!!.
PoliticsRe: Osinbajo Visits Femi Kuti At His Home by Rufex07(m): 6:29pm On Feb 23, 2015
good!
PoliticsRe: Custom Officers Kill Girl In Sango Ota, Ogun State(Graphic Photos) by Rufex07(m): 4:10pm On Feb 23, 2015
hmmm...
PoliticsRe: I Met Buhari Saturday — Tony Blair; by Rufex07(m): 4:00pm On Feb 23, 2015
OK

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