₦airaland Forum

Chiggsglover:
To add to what the writer said, you dont deserve people respect, you earn it. How have we gained respect from the way we treat our own.

Think about it,
People around you are hungry and have No Shelter.
Do you still judge people for their lifestyle and the way they live, even though its non of your business?

People around you are hungry and have No Shelter.
Look at the Prostitute in the street, some you have them as neighbors, tenants, church members.....
I had one as a neighbor in my service year, I treated her like a sister. I never judged her, even though she liked me more than I did, I still gave her respect and turned her down in the way that we're still friends.
You dont know their side stories. Some of them have looked left, right and backward, if they dont do it, theyll starve to death. Some were abused as kids by their father, brother, uncles..... some have looked for hustles and the men denied them that, Hoping to sleep with them when they're frustrated. Where theres no demands there cant be a supply.
The Irish law protects prostitutes, if you and an excort is caught, the Irish government will cover her with a blanket and let her walk away, and theyll drag your ass to jail.



People around you are hungry and have No Shelter.
The most important thing is to feed people. FOOD.
Group of boys out of joblessness decided to abandon cultism and rather hustle online and swindle people, scamming isnt good cos I dont feel good when I was scammed. I have lots of such examples around, these young boys comes from poor homes, from what they make, they pay the rent of the house where their family live, subscribe for date, if they can do these, food is nothing.
I know examples of young boys like this who take care of their widowed mothers and help to train the young ones.
Yet we sit and judge them
Yet instead of the government to curb the problem by providing jobs, rather they go after these boys. Those white folks they swindled, they are very perverted. I belong to some dating sites, you need to see the demand of these folks and link, I've heard at least three offer me money for sex, cos of the stereotype on Blacks package. Lots of them go after very small boys, and they have very ridiculous kinks. Whenever youre being swindled, greed plays a big role.

People around you are hungry and have No Shelter.
One of the most important thing I discovered when I got here is self-discovery, inorder for you to be comfortable in your skin, you need to adjust to Your own needs, Socrates said MAN KNOW THYSELF.
Ordering everyone to dress in a certain way, keep their hair in a certain way is Pointless, Selfish, Crazy and highly hypocritical. What if that way is wrong, this is how you have doomed a Race.
I can still remember in my church then, after my service year, I was jobless. How you know a Jobless Youth is when they attend All the services, even the Youth and children service, they'll be there. Lol, I wasnt at that level sha, still had alot to do. 24hrs is very small even at that time, not that I was hanging around friends all the time, I had alot of things that kept me really engaged, Shows, books, games, walks with my dog, men chores, and others.
I was at church one time, this man who works in a big company, he knew I was done with school and all. He started poking me about my haircut, what if I was terribly broke to even eat that night. it took alot of self control and resilience to hold my lips tight. He was lucky my parents attend the church. He wont be able to eat well if he knew what was in my mind.
I don't have a job and you dont care, you care about panelbeating into shape when that is not even what I need. Is he that jobless?
One of the most successful group of people are the artist and musician, they're brimming with Individuality. If you live a regimented life and let the Nigerian society continue to shape you, you will never be successful. You need to express yourself and it will affect everything you do in life, your inner confidence will dramatically improve,
Four months before I travelled to Dublin, I visited Nike art gallery at Lekki, by some luck I met the couples. I arrived very early very early. Nike, very busy and nice made me feel welcome even though she knew I wasn't there to buy any of her Arts. Her husband saw and called me, we started to talk, what I thought was 30min, three hours had gone already. The African culture is vibrant and you need to express it wherever you are. She dressee in a queer way that makes her at over 60 feel young and alive and extremely confident. You should check her out online.
Lots of potential artists, models, creative writers are butchered this way just by suppressing their personal looks and fashion, no two human beings are the same. Kill their personality, you kill their Voice.


People around you are hungry and have No Shelter.
On churches, the goal isn't to judge them but we really dont need lots of churches. I've spotted lots of churches in places that is unimaginable. From shops that people would have used to make a living to flats. I even saw one inside those huge iron transformers.
Churches aren't what we need, we need businesses, I spotted one Victorian style building that's perfect as an office for my future plan. I will be enraged and agitated if that building has been converted to a church. Although right next to it, is a church of fire.
The church judge the youth, some denominations have mastered the art of judging, they only smile to church members, every other folks are sinners.
If you are broke and need their help, theyll say thst sin made you poor. Especially if you are on jewelries.

People around you are hungry and have No Shelter.
You see some folks who keep hairstyles you dont like, what is your business?
How is the hair going to limit their potential.
Will your quality of life improve when they need and make the adjustments?


People around you are hungry and have No Shelter.
The same goes for the same sex folks, as long as you are discreet and not corrupting the future generations. We need heterosexual couples to ensure the survival of the Human race. Keep the bedroom things private, we dont want to know what you're doing there. I have a problem with giving people the ideas on Social media about what you do in the other room by your mannerism and lifestyle. Let us focus on the most important things.

When Obama sign same sex marriage, Nigeria rushed to ban it, just put yourself in the shoe of someone who is hoping for a better tomorrow where I dont go to bed hungry. The same sex law in Nigeria and the one on corruption that targets Yahoo boys are the most enforced laws in Nigeria.
Give a call to the police that yahoo boys are having an Orgy with all manner of laptops of different shapes and sizes, or gays are hosting parties. Theyll zap there with guns and camera.
Try to call them if you and your family is about to die of hunger, and see their response.
You need to see Rwanda

We need to put first things first
According to Maslow hierarchy of need, the first is Food, then shelter then the other needs which are more emotional and long term comes along.
Most of you reading this, you have eaten today at least, you have a smartphone with daya,
we have about 30% of Nigerians that will go to bed hungry this night and my heart groans silently.


I am Hungry, cold, with no clean water to drink, I sleep under the bridge, how does your action and policy alleviate my condition.

cPapaAjascO:
Read @ your peril:

Robert Green 48 laws of power

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BadRadio:
Dont read.

studentofTruth:
My brother, if I tell you what I'm facing right now, you won't believe it. The envy, bitterness, rancour, and campaign of calumny is just unbearable.

My advice is to be mindful of where you live. A friend advised me to move to the Island. Though the cost of living is higher over there, I'm considering that seriously. So, live where there are predominantly more people earning above your income!

One more thing, on no occasion should you make your earnings public — even under false accusations of fraud. That's my greatest mistake. I was stupid to think that showing them how I make my money would make them stop. It got worse — they started calling Upwork fraud. Every day, they masturbate over my Upwork profile, checking how my earnings are increasing! I started displaying Upwork profiles of Nigerians who are earning far more, but they don't care. The bitterness is boiling by the day! It has turned to a tribal thing — they now discuss in Yoruba, planning what to do to me.

I know I may get killed at any moment. I hope I make it to Lekki alive!

Casemiro:



Your dad went through stress to bring you into this world, provided for you till you grew up a bit, and you have the guts to be puke nosing in his affairs.



You don't have respect.


You this kid.


What are you planning to do, tell your mom?


better leave that man alone to catch fun, stop interfering in his affairs.

Never you try policing your dad around





One Word:

MIND YOUR BUSINESS

ungrateful disrespectful kid

mrpaedo:
No be the guy dey vex am
The thing way vex am na the story about the young Nigerian guy and the young Russian woman
If to say the guy dey with old whitie the story for sweet her belle

iClef:
Definitely. I'm always honest, so I'll tell you the truth from start. "I'm a heart breaker and I'm single."

#Smile.

Dollywood:
@bolded.. Shut the Bleep! the Asians and Chinese have experienced worse

kurupt1:
Your the cause of ur problems! What is a sixteen year old doing with a smart phone??See a lot of you parents are spoiling these kids

Danhumprey:
@ bolded, wait what? You were like what?

ePoster:
Im really tired!
it seems that all my mates have boyfriends except me
i dont just understand. The guys are interested as hell when chasing. But whenever i say yes, the fire just dies.
Apart from that, i just get bored!
Dating is suh hard.

I like a boy who was my classmate. I know he likes me too but the way he acts... God!
Im aries. I dont know if thats what is affecting me.

Elove1:
Nonsense!!! I de here de hustle and una de save useless parrot wey no sabi do anything.
All is vanity upon vanity, imagine using this fund to help some poor people
And mind you am the last of my kind