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Peacefulplace:
I am a 31 year old woman who moved to Nigeria 3 months ago and still staying on a 90 day visa extension as we speak. Looking to get residency permit if I marry here. However, since moving here, my husband(fiance) started off great. He was loving and caring. But now he is unsafe.. I am losing my mind because of the mental and emotional abuse the most. But psyical has also happened sometimes. I know I have not been perfect either, but I don't feel safe anymore. And Everytime he gets mad when I tell him my feelings and sadness, he becomes so much more mad. So I cannot communicate with him. He will call everyone in his phone when he is angry including his family and call me worthless, bad, or that he feels I am a terrible person. Now everyone I know is against me. I try to tell them my side but they don't want to listen. So I just keep quiet. I provide for him financially and left everything to be with him after a two yr long online relationship. He even is trying to stop my 90 day visa process.. even his own mother told him to leave the family home because of his anger issue. But I am unsure why she no longer be there for me. I don't know what else he is lying to her about me . I still want my residency permit but I don't know how and I don't know anyone in Nigeria except his friend circle who he has now talked badly to about me. He became so so mad today I was I was scared for myself. I ran outside in just my long shirt and underwear because I needed to call for help in the hotel. He told them I am crazy and evil. Nothing much was done. After I ran out for help he became extremely angry and aggressive towards me. He said I am trying to make him look bad and that now they all see me as a crazy unstable fool that they don't respect anymore he told me. But I don't think it's true. . The anger slowly keeps getting worse and I want to make sure I meet other friends here in lekki or Lagos to help me leave this situation when it is safe, because I can't do it by myself. I am pretending together with him to keep the peace until I have a plan to leave. I don't know if anyone can help me or not but I just know it's not safe to do alone ..

HMU if you are not a troll. I'm not far from you at all

ayesha.oman@outlook.com

Wawelexy:
Free who? Can't you see the age difference between those two, that girl is still a teenager. Why did he choose to bring her to a bush if he is actually proud to date her, why not take her to a hotel, even if he's broke, why didn't he use his room cos I can hear the guy recording them saying he left his room and came into the bush.

Some men and how they allow their third leg controls them is the reason why most of these ladies with empty skull hurls insult on the male gender.

I just hope the idiot used condom on her .

He didn't use any condoms and he creampied her balls deep

Lol u never do DNA u go dey carry responsibilities for head

Lol which kind noise u hear

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According to Church sources, Apostle Asuquo, was handling a crucial and heated marital reconciliation matter between a lady and her estranged husband before the sad incident.

There's something they're not telling us yet no man kills or orders the killing of another for no reason

lordmayor2013:
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How?

ogbe88:
U are not well.

But she's saying the truth

BewareOf419:
Where is Things fall apart, Doctor Who, Mr Spencer

Exactly!
Sesame street, Steptoe and sons, Sanford and sons, Different strokes, Good times, Get Smart, Tomorrow people, famous 5, Sweeny, Joe 90, Knight Rider, Big foot, The incredible hulk, Then later in the 90s the cosby show, Family matters, MacGyver all i can remember now.
These are the ones i can relate with. All those in his post are just kinda left-handed except for "contact" and Frank Olise's News Line, at 9pm don't think i remember anyone because NTA has always been a very boring channel

Coldspice:
Have you seen where you are cutting trees in your dream and you wake up damn tired every morning. When you start growing muscles physically, you will soji yourself.

Lol which kind problem be that.. Abeg oo

Building amusement next to terrorists hideout. Someone make this make sense. And people are actually celebrating this

oz4real83:
Very soon, all their lands, properties and natural resources will go to the Chinese, while they will be left with Chinese language

Its already happening

Now this news not that slay queen claiming UK masters on the other thread

Oh okay she's the first girl to bag UK masters from her home town else i don't see why this made front page

Lol... I doubt thats the situation here. More like landlord and tenant. But poor man nor dey practice polygamy na. As u dey marry new wives u dey acquire new properties. Even if they don't know about it so when u go beyond friction nor go dey and ur kids no go swear for u. That's how its done. If u no get liver comot body

Chai... Ontop 35k when no even reach to relax well naim be people monthly take home and yet....

Bobloco:
Tinubu is not just ferrying Lagosians common wealth in bullion vans; he has also built a two-decade-old blueprint conduit pipe connecting the coffers of the Lagos State Treasury to his personal pocket.