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@chillbabe you may be right you know she might be married to this jobless guy just to regularise her stay since she said she was once a student and ONE OF the ways a student with a student visa can regularise her stay and become a wife in the UK is getting married to a uk citizen either born or naturalised which i think she took advantage off.

ok so what , what do you want to do about it ? u sound dissapointed grow up man as if before you married her you guys never fcccked, you are realising now, nothing you can do again forgive her and move on dont feel pained in life nothing is ever the way it seems.

you must be really desperate to marry this guy, but remember you are are going into this with your eyes wide open if situation changes tomorrow you have no one to blame but yourself.

Thats true everybody here is equal nothing like sir or ma no show off here everybody here is the same.

I still remember when i finished my nysc i tried looking for a job back in nigeria i found out that its mostly who you know that can actually get you a job , connections everywhere lol it was crazy i just packed my up and left nigeria straight for the UK, it only took me 3months on arriving here to get a job since then i have never looked back and were i am at the moment jobwise i keep thanking GOD everyday its been wonderfull but i have never forgotten who i am or were i am from, its hard for a LIZARD TO FIT INTO THE WORLD OF ALLIGATORS

no doubt you guys have made valid points which i definitely agree our government in nigeria is our number one enemy to me its just so unfortunate what we go through in this abroad in search of greener pastures.

lets call a spade a spade, in the uk i mean na house dem get? were u end up mortgaging your life for a house for lord knows how many years and when you get old that same house by crook or force will still be collected from you and resold again so, na lie

you are right i have seen lots here nothing to show for those donkey years here .

thats true

this abroad is crap slaving for iya charlie i dey come naija wen i finish my postgrad

ukranian sweety my arse for papers

in the uk here its no big deal we all go shopping with wifes and girlfriends but in nigeria its the opposite, even in nija i go shopping with my girlfriends

have faith and be focused put your trust in GOD men are heartless always looking for easy prey like promising to help just to bed you, look before you leap life is a struggle , you are vulnerable right now cuz any anyone can easily take advantage of you always remember dont go the way of your sister that road is hard and tough be wise you are woman use whatever you have to your own advantage as long as it pleases you and if not do not. its only you that can make things better for yourself.

@scash am good and you, keep hanging in there you will be fine.

i dey pass go it no concern me