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dinachi:
You are extremely weak! I am ashamed of young men of nowadays! Very very weak specimens! Begging women everywhere instead of taking charge!
She is going to win the bet, I can bet anytime you see her, your mouth hangs open and saliva starts coming out, that's how stupid you look, and she notices how you look like a puppy when you see her. She will manipulate you until she is tired.

My friend, you are not a man, go and bow down and worship her!

Or whenever, you decided to let your manhood take charge, do the following:

1, Stop playing with her, focus on the lady you are currently with. Ignore her tantrums.
2, Since you are very weak around her and she knows it, just keep a distance from her.
3, Anytime she tries to tease you, that you will get back to her, tell her point blank if you can ever muster the courage, that she lacks what it takes to sustain the interest of a man like you. Put her on the defence.
4, Call her " my former crush", she will be exasperated by this.
5, Consistently pretend she doesn't matter anymore, for instance, if there is anything you normally do for her when you guys met, STOP doing it.

She loved you before but you acted late
Now she wants to toil with your emotions and destiny
If I am to be you I'd just start ignoring her even when her greetings..
Delete her number, start avoiding her and move on with time the feelings will fade and two of you will come back as colleagues in workplace
Life goes on

I'm looking at it in the angle of make I no think say she dey cheap to get and she's in relationship because she's the one showing me green light

Lol..
Make una pity me na
Do you know what I spent and how I managed to locate her
Anyway I missed her call today but I don't want to call back. ..
Na big girl sha because she is gainfully employed and me and her dey the same level

[quote author=Gwagone post=87340094]Give her little space and I can bet it, she will definitely come looking for you. AJE
OK
Thanks

Pls advice me..
There's this girl I met and we started talking and she later gave me her contact and address. .
I visited her,she served me food and we had some normal discussion .
My worry is that since I text her that I love her she stopped picking my calls or replying my message..
What should I do?
Continue calling her or free her
And what's her reaction means..

90% of marriages have had such a scenario..
She has forgiven you but she needs time to adjust..
You can approach a senior person you know she respect..
We are all human and sometimes we err in word or deed

How long will it take after obtaining certificate of sponsorship to applying for Visa..I mean if I apply for Visa on UK Visa website then how long will it take TLS to invite me for biometric

barbiee:
I'm so grateful for this thread, it was long overdue but before I say anything if you are not abroad yet and want to know how you can immigrate as a nurse then follow the link above to the other thread where you can be guided in this process.
With that being said, I will go ahead and share my little experience in diaspora.
As some of you may already know I was on route to USA through the cgfns process but had to stop halfway due to situations beyond my control. During my time off I decided to look into the UK which turned out to be a good idea because few months after I started the process I landed here. I highly recommend this route if you are tired of waiting in Nigeria, you can go to the uk and work while you pursue your American, Canadian or Australian dream. The last time I checked there is a big difference between 10 pounds and 10 naira.

1. I had no issues with immigration, Nursing is on the shortage occupation list so it was easy. my visa was granted within 15 working days without having a visa interview. my employer paid for my visa and flights.

2. I landed in Manchester UK in April and what hit me first was not the fancy airport or buildings, nah it was the cold. My teeth were clattering and I was trying so hard not to appear shaky. it was supposed to be spring but it didnt feel like spring to me though. The cold was real but what was more real was the wind. Everyone kept saying I'm lucky i arrived this period because it was warm and I was like well maybe its warm to you but definitely not to me.

3,4. Working here is different from how we do it back home in Nigeria, we have to explain everything to the patient and get consent before carrying out any procedure. Handwashing nkor? I now carry hand lotion in my pocket because of it, another culture shock is addressing my boss with his or her name. No more sir or ma, they dont even like it when you say mr or mrs in front of their name, secondly I only noticed this when I got here, Nigerians say the word sorry a lot even when it's not necessary and up till today I'm still guilty of this. When someone gets hurt the first thing that comes out of my mouth is sorry and he/she will be like oh it's not your fault thirdly, there is no doctor yelling at you here because that is verbal abuse, everyone does what they are expected to do and not pass their job to someone else. Lastly, you are accountable for all your decisions and actions.

5. Work, make money, further education, travel etc

6. To all Aspiring Nurses, make hay while the sun shines, NMC uk has made the process of immigrating to uk easier and faster, do not waste your opportunities, stop wishing and start acting on those dreams. There is no better time to start this process than now.
Ps. I'm still going to pursue my usa registration but until that time comes, let me jejely enjoy my pounds.
More stories and pictures coming soon.
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Hello Barbie...
I received my DL on 27th June and got my TB certificate on 8th July..I applied for COS on 13th..
I'm still waiting for the COS...
My agency told me that it usually comes out from 11th of every month (hopefully August)..
My worry is that my police clearance certificate will expire on 9th August and that's the certificate I have been using throughout the application process..
Do I need to get a new police clearance certificate or can I use this one during my Visa application and biometric..

Pls for Nigerian Nurses in UK..
How long does it take to get Visa without going through Express priority after you have gotten your COS..
My police clearance certificate will expire on 9th August..
Is it possible to use it for the Visa application or must I get a new one?

After getting your Certificate of sponsorship
How long does it take to get a Visa if you didn't go through Express priority..
I don't have money to pay for the express
Secondly,my police clearance certificate will be 3months on 9th August..
Can I use it when I'm applying for Visa or must I get a new one