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Travel › Re: Quiting My Job To Join My Wife Abroad by Rutherford2019: 8:37pm On Dec 21, 2021

[quote author=Ficient post=108671011]I'm a federal civil servant, wife just got a job in the UK as a nurse. This has been our plan, although she initiated the idea which I supported especially bcuz of our kids. As the time is getting closer I'm developing some cold feet, but eventually I'm sure I will move. Don't really know if leaving my civil service job and farming business is a good idea, I don't really have an Abroad game plan yet. [/quot

You don't need to think it twice
If you can do a care job I bet you money will be knocking on your door
You can work as many hours as you wish
My guy is making 3k pounds a month and the wife is also a nurse
He just got a job in psychiatry where he will be earning 26 pounds per hour
You don't need any skill or training to be a care worker
The agency or hospital will give you the training
There's no unemployment abroad provided you're willing to work
I'm telling you as a first hand information

Travel › USA Dependent Visa by Rutherford2019(op): 6:27pm On Dec 20, 2021

House, is it possible for me to include my elder brother and my wife as my dependents while filing for Permanent residence in USA
I have a job offer as a nurse

Travel › Re: Nigerian Nurses And Midwives With The Dream Of Working Abroad Let's Meet Here. by Rutherford2019: 6:25pm On Dec 20, 2021

Is it possible to include my elder brother and my wife as my dependents if I'm relocating to USA with PR

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Romance › Re: Is It True That A Girl That Gives You Her Number Loves You? by Rutherford2019(op): 11:37am On Dec 18, 2021

juniorstar:
Which part of nigeria does she stay and where are you coming from. Has she started billing you?

No
She can't bill me
We are all from the east but different state
She is gainfully employed

Romance › Re: Is It True That A Girl That Gives You Her Number Loves You? by Rutherford2019(op): 9:11am On Dec 18, 2021

Hintona:
I don't know how would I know from the very little information you've given us. I don't want to assume things.

I understand
We are just getting to know each other just last two weeks
The said girl is a nurse and so I'm
I planned moving to US
But the real thing is that I wanted to marry a thorough bred Nigerian girl
No make up,no trousers if possible
Just natural appearance
NB..she's not ignoring me but and I only called her twice and later sent her a message.
We do chat on whatsapp but I have not video called her for once
What I'm asking is that people who understand Nigerian girls and how they make decisions should help me to evaluate my chances
I told her that I'm coming to Nigeria this January and she replied 'till then'
But my sole aim of travelling to Nigeria is to see her
NB..some Nigerian girls don't take abroad guys serious because they of the opinion that abroad guys are not always serious about them and they should come to Nigeria to meet them to show their seriousness

Romance › Re: Is It True That A Girl That Gives You Her Number Loves You? by Rutherford2019(op): 7:48am On Dec 18, 2021

LagosInter:
You seem to have some esteem issues.

How old are you?

Educational level?

Which country do you live in?

Can you consider yourself rich by average standards?
You nailed it
I have low self esteem, shy and I have not Bleep before
I am a graduate, lives in UK
I'm 35 and need to settledown

Romance › Re: Is It True That A Girl That Gives You Her Number Loves You? by Rutherford2019(op): 7:42am On Dec 18, 2021

Hintona:
Love ke?

It's not hard to give out number o, the real deal is if I'll pick your call or text you on WhatsApp

She doesn't pick my calls but respond to whatsapp which is not even immediately
I don't know whether she's not really interested or she's pretending
I'm just trying to weigh up my chances

Romance › Re: Is It True That A Girl That Gives You Her Number Loves You? by Rutherford2019(op): 7:18am On Dec 18, 2021

MufasaLion:
Love you? Not really. Like you? Most likely.

Itend to lose girls I'm dating with time
I'm not romantic and girls tend to lose interest on me with time
Getting girls is very easy for me but keeping them is my greatest undoing

Romance › Re: Is It True That A Girl That Gives You Her Number Loves You? by Rutherford2019(op): 7:15am On Dec 18, 2021

Ekele22:
It depends,it's 50/50,she couldn't have just develop love for you just from the blues.

Love is a gradual process and feeling.
Giving out number easily doesn't prove she loves you,after all, girls that are into hookups dole out their numbers to perspective clients.

You can start with friendship,get are to know her better and she reciprocal.

Best wishes

That's the issue
I don't want to come to Nigeria in vain
I had a bad experience recently
I'm not romantic and I tend to lose girls easily
Getting a girl is not my problem but keeping them
A girl I dated for 1yr just told me that she's no longer interested when I wanted to take the relationship to marriage level and the most funny thing is that she is a final year student and I live and work outside the country
I thought that staying outside the country can be an added advantage

Romance › Re: Is It True That A Girl That Gives You Her Number Loves You? by Rutherford2019(op): 7:08am On Dec 18, 2021

KingLarry04:
Taa!! Run oo!! She wan bill you

Not really
She's a decent girl and working class

Romance › Is It True That A Girl That Gives You Her Number Loves You? by Rutherford2019(op): 6:46am On Dec 18, 2021

I met this girl on Facebook

I sent her 'hi' and she replied in 30 minutes time.

We chatted briefly and I requested for her contact but she said she doesn't like giving out her contact on Facebook.

I later convinced her and she gave me the number and told me that I should copy it quickly because she may delete later
I so much like her but the issue is that I live outside the country and I told her that I'm coming to Nigeria and we will see by then and she just told me 'till then'.

My worry now is that my going to Nigeria is solely because I want to see her and I don't know my chances.
I don't want to waste flight tickets coupled with insecurity.

We used to chat on whatsapp.
The girl is a perfect fit of what I wanted and I'm ready to settle down.

Romance › Re: Superstitious People Disgusts Me by Rutherford2019: 8:51pm On Dec 09, 2021

I met a girl on Facebook
We have never met physically but our relationship was so nice that we didn't miss a day without talking to each other
I loved the girl but I am outside the country
I told the girl that I'm coming to Nigeria so that we can met and take the relationship to the promise land..
Just one night she called me and told me that she finished praying and she started having some strange feeling..I asked her how is the feeling all about,she told me that she can't explain
I told her to pray more and get back to me
Las Las last week she called off the relationship
NB we have never met in person
I have assisted her financially in many ways because she's a student..
Superstition is bad

Romance › Re: I Am Extremely Lonely, I Can't Get A Relationship, Help? by Rutherford2019: 8:41pm On Dec 09, 2021

This is exactly the same thing I'm suffering
I had many opportunities to Bleep but I was too disciplined,even though some girls did come to lie on my bed I didn't touch them..
Now I'm out of the country, I like traditional lifestyle, so the girls I meet are not my spec
I just want to settle down but no girlfriend
I hope one day go better

Romance › Re: Sell My House Of About 6-7 Million To Study Masters In Uk And Japa Or Not by Rutherford2019: 7:40pm On Dec 06, 2021

Let no one discourage you
If you know any means of leaving Nigeria legally, just do it..e get why

Romance › Re: Confused With Marriage Choice by Rutherford2019(op): 11:26pm On Dec 02, 2021

qtguru:
Childhood friends

I no get

Romance › Confused With Marriage Choice by Rutherford2019(op): 9:03pm On Dec 02, 2021

I don't and never had girlfriend
I left the country yrs back
Now I want to settle down but I don't know how to go about it..
I don't like girls I meet abroad, both Nigerians and Oyibo because I'm a man who likes traditions both in music and other lifestyles
Coming back home, I don't know any girl
I have tried searching Facebook but to no avail
Now I want to marry..how will I be able to get a wife material?

Romance › Re: Cute Pre-Wedding Photos Of A Nairalander And His Beautiful Bride by Rutherford2019: 9:18pm On Nov 30, 2021

Where una dey see wife?
I don search tire

Politics › It's Time For SE/SW Alignment by Rutherford2019(op): 3:58pm On Jul 23, 2021

The worst political mistake Igbos made in 1999 was not supporting Olu Falae
Igbos should join SDP now

When two brothers fight to death a stranger inherits their wealth

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Crime › Re: Man In Tears As Fulani Herdsmen Kidnap His Wife (Video) by Rutherford2019: 10:38am On May 26, 2021

The problem is not only kidnapping the wife but they will rape her the way they like...front and back
I feel his pain

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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Lawyers In The House by Rutherford2019(op): 2:28pm On Apr 15, 2021

The VC is a criminal, he was diverting my salary
I don't have time to negotiate with them.
I want court or I will leave it
What I'm asking is whether I can get compensation from the court

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Lawyers In The House by Rutherford2019(op): 1:58pm On Apr 15, 2021

The issue here is that I am no longer available for the job. In February last year, I received a three month salary after I registered in IPPIS with my name and employment number. I did the registration without the university knowing but I learned that the university went to Abuja to stop my salary payments.
My enquiry is whether I would be able to get some compensation from court because I am no longer available for the job

Jobs/Vacancies › Lawyers In The House by Rutherford2019(op): 12:27pm On Apr 15, 2021

I was suspended from my job by a federal university along with 820 others in 2017.
Since then I have been receiving credit alerts from my pension fund administrator...meaning that my salary is being paid monthly since 2017 till date.
I was recalled in February this year but I don't want to go back to the job again.
Should I go to court to reclaimed my salary and for damages? What is the possibility of me winning the case against the university?
Note..there is no case or fraud against me, I have my appointment letters, suspension letter and statement of account from my PFA.

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Romance › Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by Rutherford2019: 1:52pm On Mar 02, 2021

I have never dated any girl before, in fact I have not hugged or kiss a girl before and now I'm 33..
I lost feeling for girls but the problem is that there is pressure for me to get married but I'm comfortable alone..
What should I do

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Romance › Marriage Dilemma by Rutherford2019(op): 5:57pm On Jan 22, 2021

Which one is better : Marrying a black African lady(not a Nigerian ) or white European lady ?

Career › Re: Private School Vs SFH Contract Offer by Rutherford2019: 12:54pm On Jan 07, 2021

Nisot7:
A very lovely Thursday to you all.

I was recently given a 6 months contract by SFH to work as a finance assistant of a project with a salary of N125,000 per month (subject to 5% withholding tax) and I currently work as an accountant for a private school which salary is N70,000 per month.

Is it advisable that I leave my current work of N70,000 per month and go for the contract offer with SFH or I should just reject the contract offer and continue with my present place of work?

Plz anyone?

I won't even consider leaving my 70k permanent job for 200k 6 months contract job..
You should understand what contract job is and it can be terminated even b4 the 6 months
The most difficult thing in Nigeria is getting a job so value what you have and stop running around

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Travel › Re: Any Job For Waec Holder Abroad? by Rutherford2019(op): 6:15pm On Dec 29, 2020

Danny6552:
Sorry to ask , which visa are you applying for ?

Spousal
My husband is working in UK

Travel › Re: Any Job For Waec Holder Abroad? by Rutherford2019(op): 4:35pm On Dec 29, 2020

dawnomike:
Sure, there are many jobs where you do not require any qualification... Although they are menial jobs but you still get to earn at least the minimum wage per hour which is much more than what you have here in Nigeria.
Minimum wage in the UK is about £8/hour... although you get to pay tax too which is still ok as you enjoy the benefits of bn a taxpayer

Thanks..
I'm planning to write IELTS general in Nigeria to boost my chances..I think pass mark is 4.0

Travel › Any Job For Waec Holder Abroad? by Rutherford2019(op): 3:49pm On Dec 29, 2020

Pls house, what job can a spouse (wife ) with only o level do abroad precisely UK?

Career › Re: Oil And Gas Industry Salary: According To Positions by Rutherford2019: 1:24pm On Dec 17, 2020

How much does a graduate trainee in NNPC earn?

Christianity Etc › Re: Ghanaian Court Returns Ownership Of Winners Chapel Ghana To Bishop Oyedepo by Rutherford2019: 10:59am On Dec 08, 2020

It's wrong and sin for Christians to go to court for Christian matters

Politics › Re: Buhari Is Prepping A War With Tinubu By Lanre Adewole by Rutherford2019: 9:15am On Nov 29, 2020

enyi1:
North will NEVER hand over to SW! Remember June 12

And SE/SS will never support a greedy SW for presidency. If there's anything like zoning, it should be to SE/SS or we burn the bridge negotiate for a VP position just aa SW did in 2015 or not, and north can rule in perpetuity. Whatever happens we do not care. The hand writing is already all over the wall and it will happen right in front of there eyes

We are on the same page

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Education › Re: Chisom Chukwuneke Is Dead. Got 7 A1s In WASSCE (Obituary, Photos) by Rutherford2019: 9:19am On Nov 25, 2020

She died of leukaemia
That's the will of God

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