₦airaland Forum

mezarddinny:
aren't there couples living in worse conditions? the truth is poor men are marrying wives and starting families. women shout that they don't want a poor man until reality dawns on them and they find the nearest and most available church mouse and hook pregnancy on him

and it didn't dawn on you that most of those men marry according to their social circle? don't go and work hard, remain poor and be looking for a rich woman to marry you

futurerex:
You know nothing about me neither do you know the kind of guy my sister got married to back then and the level they are now. So, speak for yourself. While every lady is looking for a well to do guy, who are they leaving their poor brothers for. If you can't grow with me don't expect to be part of me when things are right.

so to you, all ladies are poor hence they should say yes to every poor man that comes their way? if truly your sister did it (which I doubt), so all girls must do it? carry your rubbish sentiments out of here

futurerex:
I know some ladies will say "NO" while looking for a well to do guy so that they can transfer all their generational suffering upon.

abeg shut up joor, even as a guy, I won't marry a lady living in such condition.

Kingosytex:
99.99% of ladies can't accept that, a greater percentage of ladies out there are slay queens who virtually live for instagram. These slay queens have an already made mentality, they are after the suitors who have made millions, cruise in exotic cars, live in mansions and have huge amount stacked in their various account. "e go better no dey their own diary." Most of them are just ready to reap where they didn't sow.


I don't blame guys who always try to conceal their identity in their quest to find true love. Most ladies are all about the money

are you living in such condition?
were you born into such condition?
if your answer to the above is no, it means your siblings aren't living in such condition too. now tell me, if you have a sister, will you allow her marry into such condition? I believe everyone should marry according to their status, all these blackmailing just to make the rich marry the poor is nonsense

Jagaban880:

So many senile weak police men in de Force

quite demoralizing


see how soijas dey use dem shine everyday

so ten men to fight 3 or 4 men and you call them weak?

Four4Clien:
soldier no be police mate


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so this is all your brain could process out of this topic

ubunja:
what's the opposite of a wife beater?

did you give out your brain?

ubunja:
my father was a Player, not a wife beater like yours.

no wonder you grew up like this. for me, I decided to Be the opposite of my 'wife beater ' dad.

ubunja:
dude for real. Go talk to someone about your childhood issues. You need to confront those wounds before you can start your own family. You need to heal

from your write ups, I can tell you had a terrible childhood just that you decided to live in denial. I think you need the healing more

maxilly:
You are just a keyboard warrior. That's all you will ever be. This is the only place you can act stupid without a physical confrontation. I just hope you are smart enough to keep your stupidity within the internet or else somebody someday is gonna knock your teeth out

is that all?

Officialgarri:
No, that was why you are fathered by an animal

see how he pain you

JONNYSPUTE:
.. That's why I said earlier that instead of fighting for equality while don't we go for equity and justice? See most of our ladies are taking this issue the way its not supposed to just like some guys are also taking the redpill movement. I will always stand for equity and justice anytime any day. Because of equality,marriages/relationships don't last again,why,because most ladies wants that equal rights but shy away from the corresponding responsibilities attached to it thereby making most men to see it as another manipulation to cow them.How will a man see a lady that claims equality only when it favours her? Think about it bro, You guys need a lot of work to correct this abnormally,if not,we may have more problems thinking we are solving them.

i understand, thanks

JONNYSPUTE:
.. You become a feminists because your dad was beating your mom?. Oh,that's very good but mind you that this feminism of a thing recently is causing more harm than good in most families due to the misconception of the ideology by many people who claims to be feminists. I don't and will never support beating a woman but we should all be careful less we distort the concept of marriage and families in general. Peace.

i have followed this red pill movement and I have seen the truth in it but have you noticed how some twist it to seem like women are demons who should be oppressed and casted out of planet earth? who are not up to a man hence should be a man's slave? it's same for feminism. simply because some persons with misandry qualities have decided to hide under the feminism umbrella doesn't mean the movement should be banned. I am a feminist and I know what I stand for

maxilly:
I don't blame you. Go ahead and call me whatever you like. You and I know you can't say that to my face if you see me. Coward

i can't meet your kind in real life, I don't live around your slum. argue with your keypad

ubunja:
just because your father beat your momma??

Lmfao.

yes my father was a terrible dad, some men are still terrible dads and husbands, they still believe a woman is below them and can be used the way they want without questioning, that's why I'll fight for women rights. I won't let the likes of you create a world of hatred and oppression against women. no matter how you try to paint it, you are a misogynist

DanDeeBoss:
Yeah I met all of them in my dream yester-night

crazy guy

ranmoor:
This is what every women does. They marry strictly for money, love will come later. They always marry up, to someone that can foot bills. Only few that miscalculate end up with poor guys. That is why when the money disappear, they vanish.

so all ladies are married to rich men? the poor men I! m seeing around, are they married to goats? you just come online to type rubbish

Officialgarri:
Ladies will marry a goat as far as the goat is wealthy.

is that how your mother and female relatives got married?

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Funny how most of you guys that claims to be feminists reason just because of pussy validation. Even two different males are not equal talk more of a male and a female. If you doubt me,try go seek for a contract the same place Adenuga's son is also seeking for one. Come out and tell me who they will award it to.Equality my foot.

i think you are the one who have an issue comprehending what equal treatment means in this context. you think we want pussies that's why we support equal treatment for both gender? funny dude, I will have a daughter one day and I don't want anything to hold her down simply because she was born female, I have sisters and I wish same for them. go understand the meaning of equality in gender then come back and mention me.

etrange:
Dear OP, I'd be dishonest to myself if I say I don't quite see your point. Women aren't making things easier for themselves and it's discouraging.

However, quiting a quest for equality of genders (a noble quest, I must say) cause women don't thrive to take care of themselves and be independent of men as much they should is like a doctor running away when he sees accident victims. Feminism is not all about chastising men and telling them how they should treat and make space for women. It's also about pushing women and telling them how they should thrive on their own. So what you mentioned as a reason for quiting feminism is actually part of the reason why were a feminist in the first place. You saw the problem you came to solve and you're running away. If Nigerian ladies were as resourceful as their male counterparts, they wouldn't be much need for feminists like yourself. Calling out lazy women, criticising ladies who feel entitiled, speaking against girls that trade their bodies for money, encouraging ladies to learn some skills, etc are as much the jobs of a feminist as criticizing men who treat women like second class citizens is.

Thetefore, I think what you need is not to quite the cause but to first review your definition of the concept of feminism and then decide afterwards if you can carry the cross.

My opinion

i wish I can like your post over and over

DanDeeBoss:
Ask Nigerian feminists.... I guess theirs is different from the feminism I know...

i am beginning to think you have met all the feminist in Nigeria and abroad so you know all Nigerian feminists are men haters and those abroad are not.

etrange:
How does feminism imply hatred for men?

dont mind them, they just hate to see women as their equal

ubunja:
yes. OkAY.




You all lot are just lesbians in denial when you hate men.

see this one thinking feminism equates men hating, now I understand why you are like this

ubunja:
As long as you call yourself a Feminist, even a Western Feminist, you're still a loser.

whatever you wish to call feminists is your business, you can only try this much. I'm a feminist, a proud one

Michellekabod2:
Many people are congratulating me for leaving feminism. I never stopped being a feminist and never will! I only stopped advocating for women to be feminists(except they chose to) since most of them don't understand the concept.
I , personally am a feminist (one who believes in equality of both genders) but henceforth will stop speaking up about it....

Although wicked humans like Ubunja deserve to be called out for what they are,I will be stop canvassing for equality as it's giving ladies the leverage to be male haters and not serving it's purpose which is equality of both men and women.

dont worry yourself, those who know the importance of feminism will embrace it. let them call you names, ignore them, you are a woman with a voice, you know what you want, go for it. cheers
modified; wow, didn't even know you are a guy. I guess we are on same boat. I grew up in a home where my mum suffered cause she was a woman and everyone supported my dad even when he was wrong. I will try to liberate girls who are willing to be liberated, the men haters can g9 cure themselves elsewhere but I won't give up because of them

Inspectorsuga22:
I'm glad u realized the misconception bn planted n nurtured into the heads of many shallow minded ladies who believe ur feminism movement is a call to arms against men.
There are some aspects of gender equality that I am not against, which includes employment discrimination, inheritance and some other inhuman treatments women pass through cos of their gender. But wat I will NEVER compromise is the aspect of husband and wife equality cos that will definitely bring an end to d marriage institution. I am not against a woman bn my boss in the office buh I also expect her to also give her husband his due respect not minding she have lots men beneath her rank in the office... Same way I will fight for my wife to even become the president of this country if thats her dream buh will also expect her to do her duties to me as her husband,most importantly bn submissive not minding her position or status

you have said it all

Heroclitus:
Sometimes I wonder if there are other human gender around aside the male and the female


Evolutionary and religious teachings also claim that we are the most advanced of all life forms

sometimes I wonder whom those people who opposes other gender eventually marries if not the second gender

Its looking more like there's a campaign within each gender against the other gender...Do we really need this?

let them continue fooling theirselves.

livinbygrace:
Congrats Egede Man/lord.Seven korofo for you .

just see your life

Esseite:
Dem no de use suffer brag...

crazy guy

ScotMisile:
Why is our generation too boyish? I remember those days if you see a 50yrs old man... 5he person will be looking very old. But, just imagine AY 50yrs....

my brother, money is good

tyup:
you need to grow sense to understand what I wrote up there
do so and coman thank me later

lol, you for just explain for am na