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Once he smells money guess who will be left in the dust for a baddie

Broke men are usually loyal because no one else wants them.You will truly know who he is once he sees small money.

If you're born poor as a woman,why hook yourself to another person whos standard of living is even worse? It's different if things were good then became bad. Shaa,there's no reward for suffering.

In my opinion ,it's better to be alone and know whatever you get is enough for one person, than to be running yourself ragged and wanting to be commended over a bad decision,then cloaking it under loyalty. She's made a choice and I wish her well.I hope the man is bringing the same hardworking energy she is and is not an efulefu,if not ,wahala pro max.

Next step is to bring kids into this.
Good luck madam

Small boys full everywhere wailing and gnashing teeth. The real victims here are the children from his failed marriages witnessing all this nonsense.

It's good Sandra's exposing him more as a useless broke old man forking ashawo,doing hook ups ,self confessed king of malice that can't even pay school fees or upkeep for the family lifestyle. His preference is to use his small salary to impress cheap chicks that are happy with 100k.

The first wife has been vindicated, domestic violence him hand dey, adultery his hand dey,brokeness his hand dey,all confirmed now by his then side chick turned wife

I'm glad he met his match,imagine if it was some innocent woman ,he would have finished her completely.I'm not seeing the issue here,why are the non emotional gender crying like fowl? Baba continued in the matrimonial home while bringing in women to the bed he shared with his wife,so why should she divorce him first,she chose to scratch the itch too just like him.

She left him and yet he could not chest it so he ran to bloggers..shameless man..let them continue.

Chike thank you for your hard work,well done sir!.

I looove this song!!
I'm so glad she got her lick back
He forked,she forked e don cancel out.
Well done ma!

It's only on Nairaland that people throw out cheating spouses instantly
Even Baba Frank,online tiger extraordinaire turned to dove in the face of the lion in his home. Baba de shout online yet he gave the cheat another chance and she still didn't have mercy.

It's like the old age gbola no de work well? I thought you people said men are in their prime at this age? Chaiiii.

Oga Frank pele oooooo,at least you fought for your home first before giving up. It is well.

pocohantas:
He wasn't the one that spilled o. He just gave his usual hot takes on Twitter and this blogger took it up. Then he DM'd the blogger not to spill further. It is bad PR for him that small Chike was doing kukere on his wife.


Lmao @ dead blokos. They say their prime is from 35 to 100yrs. He should marry a 3rd wife. I want to laugh. 😂😂😂

It's even worse than I thought !
He won't try third wife,he will stay on podcasts calling himself 'alufa'

pocohantas:
I think this one touch him well, because he was very vocal with his first wife and peppering her. I wonder why they never have the energy to match their smallie wives.

Grandpa was vibrating for his first wife,did everything to humiliate her,now it's a small boy who rubs vaseline on his mouth ,guy that I'm not even sure of his se.xuality that is the one allegedly doing press up on his second wife .

The allegations may not even be true,maybe she left him , according to him he's been silent for two years,maybe he was hoping she would return,just like his co granny Pa Ned.

Now she's moved on he's fallen back to the tried and tested "cheating"..I'm not saying she didn't ,I'm just saying it's suspicious that everyone cheats on him and leave him without looking back.

He should enter house and take his L.

All these old men with dead blokos that maltreat their ex wives and think they'll go free?

pocohantas:
No mind him and his supporters.
They think we all have amnesia. 😂

Don't mind the fools.Their Oga is crying like strangled sheep and his fans are bleating alongside him.

Ballmer:
Imagine defending an adulterer shamelessly

E pain am

Only one person,na only him waka come?
he claimed first wife cheated,now this one has also cheated
First wife accused him of domestic violence and he ran for the tried and tested naija mans defense 'cheating'. I remember how he maligned the first wife and flaunted the second one like maddd! Didn't he cheat on her with this second wife? Karma is a beech.

We should encourage him to fast and pray.
Should he not fight for his home and spend time on the mountain and war room?

Oga,also check yourself ,is your babanla not working abi you cannot maintain relationships or keep a home Kaiii!

Old age go hard o..I don't even know what kind of newspaper to tag this one..evening abi midnight.

Pele sir

I remember this man TV from family section ,feels like millions of years ago

Santa2:
I seem to recall that there was a parenting in the UK thread that opened sometime ago. Tried to find the thread cant seem to locate it, not sure if its still going on. I am hoping I can get resources there on diagnosing a kid with Adhd. Would appreciate if anyone has knowledge of the process or got a link to the thread. It about time I stopped being a typical african parent and face reality head on.

Hello Santa,
The SENCO team in the school should be able to raise concerns and ask for a referral to Camhs/pediatrics and if not you can speak to the GP for a referral, waiting times may reach 4-5 years depending on what NHS Trust you're in. If the child has risky behavior, the referral is expedited. GP may give you the option of going privately to get an assessment, some NHS Trusts accept private assessments, some do not , so you need to be sure. Private means you have to shell out hard cash ie from £1, 000 upwards but at least it is faster and depending on the age of the child, it could be a paediatrician doing the assessment.

2.Have as many school reports as possible, especially the ones that highlight the focus and concentration issues ,if this problem occurs at home and in other places as well and when speaking, be sure to talk about the impact of this problem on the child.

3.You can ask the school for reasonable adjustments in the mean time eg sitting in front of the class, maybe sitting alone to avoid distraction , longer time to complete work, regular breaks to help with hyperactivity if that is present and prompting from teachers to go over work several times to avoid mistakes. Children with ADHD sometimes resort to bad behavior because they're always picked on by teachers eg Okoto stop talking, Okoto concentrate, Okoto stop moving etc.. If a child feels called up all the time, their confidence gets affected and sometimes they then start being defensive and lash out all the time. It is very very important to get a grip of the behavioural problems before they escalate and they get tagged to be what they're not.

4.Adhd when treated properly if present has very good outcomes, it's always better to catch early, your child still had a lot of time, some will grow out of some issues, but a lot persevere through life. Most of the work will be at home, correcting gently as much as you can, reinforcing positive behaviour, study time should not be 100 hours at a time, break it into 10-15-20 mins intervals.. Engage in sports or outdoor activities to manage energy levels etc

5.High pressure schools can be very hard on a child when the mind is in so many places and it's hard to be organised because the brain is not cooperating. It is doable but all hands Including the school's must be on deck.

Good luck to you and your family..

Nothing commendable about having multiple children with multiple women.
If he's a s*x addict, he could have used a condom and avoided having kids who he can't parent.

People here open their mouths wide waaaaa and wail about single mothers and yet hail this man who is a pure example of a creator of fractured homes where his baby mothers are raising the children while he gallivants looking for the next se xual Adventure.. Ohh and he has another one on the way, loool. He's just one person, there is no way he can spread himself round to be present sufficiently for this number of kids. So when he started creating broken homes, he must have accepted subconsciously that he wouldn't be a present parent.

It is the women who keep having the kids that I blame, they could have insisted on protection.

The absence of a father can be difficult for children.I can't Imagine being the child of a celebrity or celebrities whose dirty linen are exposed in blogs every 2 market days.

In the end, it is the children who are the true victims. They didn't ask for this. Somehow, I hope their mothers are able to raise them as best as they can and that suitable role models are available.

No one gaf if you marry or not.

40 year old fool, he's probably not new to murder. Who knows how many innocent lives he took in naija without getting caught.40 year old single man in naija is generally a red flag,add in the age gap and it's a recipe for disaster. Dirty old newspaper like him. If he was so great, someone would have taken him since.
My condolences to the lady and her family, so unfortunate she met her end this way.
Lock him up and throw the keys away.

The comments on here about this little boy are vile and from the usual suspects who don't even eat 3 square meals daily.

He is just a kid who appeared quite polite ,gentle and thoughtful. He answered his questions and behaved appropriately.

I wonder what you people want him to do? Talk like a rascal and act rough which in your small minds is equal to masculine?

Well done Tiwa, your little boy is doing well.. I hope he achieves his dreams.

I attended BLW in Uni and just couldn't get into the pastor worship, I'm so glad I left when I did.
This whole show and the symbolism is sickening but then God gave everyone a brain to decide their own path. It's so embarrassing to be enthralled by another human being in this manner.
Crazy part is that a huge percentage of them are broke, some are even failing exams and planning expo
Good luck to all involved.

Jedisco if na boasting, boast dey go, I'm loving it as it gingers me like crazy! Don't know about others but I love to read about accomplishments and people doing well for themselves . I always look forward to your canny updates.

There's posts here for everyone..misery club, boasters club,humble club, rich club, poor club, striving club, riffraff club, oyibo can't do wrong club,Nigerians are evil club.. No problem, just concentrate on the posts that fit you, me, I fix my eyes on the posts that give me life

Una just too funny

Believe the royals at your own risk.
Royals and lying na 5&6

How do I know he didn't get someone to make this card after the fact? Conveniently issued 2018 when he was dating her, lol. What 21 year old looks like she did?

The fact he was asking about her age means that he knew something was not right but he was desperate to chook small girl.

A teenager would always be deemed vulnerable when compared a geriatric elder. Power dynamics was already tilted in his favor ,any teenager would be swept away by the goodies. When her eyes cleared she needed to be high and pinch her nose to even look at him. An old fork that had multiple wives at that.

Dirty old man meets his match. Her family failed her! As far as I'm concerned, they are to blame for boldly using her as the family breadwinner at such a tender age, to the point that she had to sacrifice herself to this ancestor. Tueh.Disgusting people all round.

Incels forever obsessed with women, lol
Women aren't the cause of your miserable lives naa

Exploring body via physical fight is se xual assualt, you're literally forcing yourself on her and writing it here. Tueh

And people here are cheering you on to assault and strike. Sick mofos.
She's not forcing you to spend your money, move on before you graduate to raype.

Shedrack777:
That was my point, putting that lipstick to the burial added more pain to his family because none of them love the way he died which made me said I would have slapped her if she was my in-law. But attending the funeral and mourning him is solely up to her to decide

The family's pain is more important than hers? LOL.
Like why should she consider them before her own very valid feelings? Una think say na everyone you fit slap. One day you'll try it with the wrong person and learn a big lesson. It is her choice to be considerate or not.. she chose red lipstick. Nothing anyone can do about it. Highest they will steal property they'd already planned to steal. Nothing new here.

No one knows how the marriage was, if they were happy or not. Then he died while cheating, and everyone knows about it.
It would be hard for anyone to be respectful at this point. You can't inflict harm on someone and then tell the person how to react to the harm you caused. Is it not madness?
At least she turned up, red lipstick or not. We also do not know what her relationship with the family is like.They should have been a bit understanding about her reaction as their brother /son humiliated her even in death. She doesn't owe any of them good behavior or the pretense of caring given the circumstances.
It is what it is. Everyone should carry their L and move forward.

Good his face is out there, this type will try to sleep with family member.
Good riddance

Must have been very distressed. Needs to be in psych hospital

No one gaf
3/4 of the people crying here don't have 2 Kobo to rub together
There are more important things in the world than what people do with their genitals.

Many widows are single by choice, and do not want to be shackled again to a man permanently .
This woman has a child and funds so, she will probably have a lover and companion, no need to remarry .

Broke people always crying about submission, lol
People who are busy don't have time for this sort of useless discussion.
Find your level and make your home what you want it to be.

UK doctors are very poorly paid and that's why they always want to strike every 2 market days.
They're even planning to strike again

The se x is crap and she is tired of pretending.
If you're pleasing her in bed, her body will respond and she will crave se x because pleasure is a sure banker.
It's not by doing 1000 pressups and pounding her like cocoyam.
Madam is sick of the fake moaning and fake leg shaking to pamper your ego

Nairaland and supporting their fellow deadbeats are 5&6.

Some people suffer intense abandonment issues after they are deserted by their fathers who did NOTHING to help raise them but suddenly turns up to blackmail them via the public.

No one should be forced to offer kindness to someone who caused them harm physically or emotionally.

Arostar2023:
Na so... Oyibo don turn to blame Meghan for Harry's rascality. Harry has always been a nonconformist even before meeting Meghan.

They can't stand a man who loves his wife and children with his full chest and is willing to do anything for them.
Harry that has always hated the UK and the press right from his teenage years.
It's always easy to blame the woman for a man's actions.