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Heartbrokengirl:
He said the girl before me was aware, but was with him for money.

My friend checked LinkedIn when she wouldn’t stop suspecting him and saw nothing incriminating. Nothing on FB, she didn’t find him. She told me to get more information for her, kept telling me to search his house. Lolzz, smarter and less trusting. Thank you

So this person has been doing this for a while ? Ahhh.The way people were calling him a good guy,like he just innocently fell for you meanwhile Oga is a master dribbler.

He was probably thinking this 'confession' ,his chants of love and fake tears would make you continue with him.Skilled manipulator using reverse psychology

You're lucky you escaped without fully giving up the cookie.

In relationships,always endeavour to assess constantly with a clear head.

Youll be fine.

We all live and learn.

NEWBIN:
We have dated for about a year
She has her strengths and I loved her
But I no longer do

Since we met, she has relocated from 5 houses in one year. She has problems with everybody; workplace, home everywhere.

She always complains someone entered her room in her absence; some story In all the five houses she rented. She complains about everything I do

I can't talk at a certain volume, I can't laugh out without a reprimand, I virtually can't do anything.

She cries every hour

We were planning to get married in January 2021

But I have called off this plan

I think she is mad

Sounds like she has mental health problems.
Shes suspicious and paranoid that people are entering her room in her absence causing her to move houses multiple times. She cries every hour ..that's not normal.

You even suspect all is not well with her mentally and yet have done nothing to help with this.Someone you claim to have loved.

She is acting this way because she is unwell,its not her fault and your response is to drag her on NL so you can be praised while she is insulted just because her brain isn't working as well as it should.

What a kind man you are.

zimmaking:
IM NOT FOR TRUMP,IM ONLY ALERTING CHRISTIANS TO BEWARE,BUT SEE....
https://www.breitbart.com/clips/2020/12/11/giuliani-says-trump-team-not-finished-after-supreme-court-defeat/

How can you quote breitbart? The home of racist extreme right wingers?
You need to do better bros.

Sorry for your pain,you will heal with time.
Next time,do your due diligence, Facebook,LinkedIn, Instagram etc before throwing your heart into anyone.

Married people get bored and start seeking excitement, its unfortunate that you're a victim.
If he was honest in the first place,at least you would have had the option to go ahead or to reject him.

The whole 'my wife is evil' thing is probably a lie told to butter you up.Its the usual line.

I can assure you that you're not the only girl he's been seeing,the whole point of cheating is sex,he wasn't having sex with you so he must have been getting it from somewhere seeing as his so called ' evil 'wife is abroad.

Hope you get smarter and more level headed in any relationships going forward.

Pele

The way Evangelicals are riding hard for this unrepentant serial 'grab them by the p****y' adulterous debt riddled scamming racist ehh.

Man that has been using Bible as prop?

How you guys support him with a straight face is beyond me.

Supreme Court has thrown out his case so this your prophecy is dead on arrival.

Pele o

peacettw:
This article is indirectly pointing to the wife as the cause of the man's suicide. In my opinion, the wife who is "a trained lawyer and entrepreneur" should sue the writer for the affront to her persona.

Is that not the usual Naija way? Divorce - blame the wife, domestic violence- blame the wife,death- blame the wife.

This gentleman had an accident and stopped socialising and practically became reclusive, I'm assuming a lot of other things about him would have changed as well,along with rumors of financial difficulties and perhaps some problems with his marriage..its a cocktail of pressure for anyone. Some people can't cope and do something impulsive in a bid to end that suffering.

The signs are usually there but we tend to believe people can just 'man up ' and get over it. A lot of people are going through mental suffering and anguish but have to pretend as if they're okay because of them say them say.

Depression and despair will not discriminate, rich or poor, anyone can fall prey.

RIP to him and I hope there will be some therapy available for the people who found him and those he left behind.

See the face of the person that has reconciled, does it look genuine or happy? See her body language pulling away from the man with her eyes downcast.

Both of them are not happy, why force them to continue all the unhappiness.

Is the governor a therapist?

This is how women become trapped within abusers under the name of settling they pile on pressure and guilt her into remaining in a situation where she will literally collect beatings day in and out.

This woman has been effectively silenced and no matter the amount of beatings, may never have the guts to come out in public again to defend herself.

Same with the wives of Duncan Mighty, Femi Fani Kayode, same tactic, they get beaten up,expose their men, get pressured to remain, get beaten up again and then the men come out to the media to claim infidelity.

clarocuzioo:
First am not Mr. Pius.

Second I can never marry a girl.like Ifenyinwa because my family will disown me as they know her antecedents, even she knows she can't enter my family as it will be too hot for her.

Am not slandering her, I said why bringing this issue to social.media when she could.have reported to families , both her's and the husband, when she is a bag of shit.

She already has four kids let her think properly, if the man ends of in jail, that means the father of her kids have been jailed.

There's a reason why reasonable men Wade into family issues and not social media.

But Pius married what you call a piece of Shit so. I guess he's a piece of shit as well.. Shit married to shit if I follow your logic.

You did not slander her? Isn't it you that typed essay about "daddy it's paining me", you slandered her mother and father too.

I thought you painted her family as useless but you're saying she should report the beast to them? Nawa O.

When you beat someone you stop being reasonable.

Jail is where people who do beastly things too. Evans the kidnapper is a father too and he is in jail. Being a father does not make you allergic to prison.

If you do bad things, you go there .

clarocuzioo:
She.made the greatest mistake bringing this to social media, time will tell.

She has a family, she should have reported to both her own family and the husband's family, and they will look into the matter.

she even has a big influential uncle in this.town that can call her husband to order, why bringing it in social.media?

She is yet to realise the damage she has even done to herself and the kids bringing this to social.media.

My sincere advise to you, when you get married,keep your family affairs off the social.meda no.matter what, E GET WHY.

But I thought you just said her family is useless, a father stealing property and a juju mother.
Are these the same people she should report to?
I thought you said she's having an affair with her uncle?
Stick to one story oga.

How do you know her like this sef?

clarocuzioo:
Comprehension!!! COMPREHENSION!!!
I condemned the domestic violence.

She shouldn't bring this to social media, families are there to resolve such issues.

Let's hear the guy,'s side of the story.

And I hope you will help.in training those four kids when he is in jail.

You condemned domestic violence but then went on to slander the victim thereby implying that the beating was justified due to the essay you wrote.

There is no hiding place for abusers anymore Mr Pius.
No one's child male or female should be brutalized in the name of marriage.

If he couldn't deal, he should have divorced her, but he was busy creating more children.

Nothing he will say especially will change the fact that he beat her up, simple

He is destroying the psyche of his children by beating their mother throughout their marriage.

If he ends up in jail, he deserves it, he put himself there. Maybe he will be able to practice his boxing skills with other inmates.

And you running about, is it you that will train her children after he kills her with beatings?

No hiding place for abusers!

Seems Pius has a NL account, he's moving from thread to thread posting history and has now reverted to saying it's hard to raise kids in Buhari regime forgetting that he's destroying his children mentally and emotionally by pumelling their mother in their faces.

See the child telling his mother sorry in the video.
Pius you are a disgrace and should face the full force of the law.

Abusers are fast to say "this is not social media matter" because they do not want to be exposed for the animals they are.

Just like endsars, if we did not see the Livestream we would have thought it didn't happen.

Shame on you , Mr abuser

clarocuzioo:
That's it. That's her little and myopic thinking. She forgot that if the man looses his job now, her kids are most affected.

There's a reason why such issues are handled by families and not on social media.

I even understand this guy trained her while in school as a doctor, now she has ruined his life and carrier.

Once again I condenm domestic violence but social media is not where to resolve marital issues

So she should die because he trained her?
Pie the pie welcome oga.
She did not ruin his life, he ruined it all by himself by pumelling her, it's probably not the first time.
He should be prosecuted for it.
In a sane environment, straight to prison.
He should be thanking his stars that it's just his job on the line.
Wife beater oshi!

clarocuzioo:
Where do we even start? Do we start from her toxic mother getting pregnant for another man and pining it down on her father, later she will openly tell the whole Irette community that her husband is.impotent and that Ifenyinwa's father is different from her husband?

Do we start from her toxic mother terrorising the peaceful Irette community that earned her the popular
Do we start from her father grabbing the properties of her late elder sister till date claiming it's his ?

Do we talk about her mother travelling to Ijebu Ode for some stupid juju, only to have a terrible accident at St. Helen's Catholic Church Irette few minutes to her home?

Do we even talk about her mother confessing to terrible things she did , before her death?

Do we talk about her promiscuity at early stage. In life? Let her kindly explain the circumstances that brought about " DADDY TAKE IT EASY IT IS PAINING ME". Her sexual escapades abound as a student in Bishop Lasbrey, her school mates can attest to this.

Do.we even talk about the illicit affair she was having with a certain prominent man from Irette who was also spraying her money during their wedding that people who knew what's up were laughing at the husband?

Do we talk about her wayward way of dressing even after her wedding?

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Pius is this you?You're not holding brief but you're slandering the woman. How do you know such details? You've been moving from thread to thread posting this trash.

This your ranting is pure rubbish.
Wayward dressing? Is that reason for beating?

She was having an affair? When? Between the 4 children in 6 years?

Look at the nonsense "daddy its paining me" you're typing.. Y'all gutter trash.

Why is it that the average Nigerian man always claims the wife had an affair once he is exposed for bad behavior?

Her mother, her father, property yen yen yen... Is that ehy he beat her like an animal and sat on her stomach after a CS?

Pius were you sleeping with other women or not and have you been beating her up? That's the question not this rubbish you're typing here.


The whole world now knows Pius is an animal, next time let him beat up himself or fight his fellow man.

She should report to what family? How do we know she did not report and you all told her to endure?

Why him no divorce since, yet he was busy pumping out 4 children.

E don be for Una. Shameless things

Is this legal?

NL is the most toxic place to seek for advise if you're a woman so take everything written here with a pinch of salt

Prepare to be blamed, await the righteous crew, the ashawo crew, the women are evil crew, the 'I'm afraid to marry crew,all women are liars crew, the prayer crew and the fight for your home crew

NoHoper,
It's nice to see you are better.
Can you list the steps you took to have this peace?
It may be useful for people going through the same thing.

You nefa see sontin
All this one can be acted for as long as it takes.