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Once they waste time to release name of perpetrator, just know it's not Muslim or a black person. Next, they'll say he has mental problems and was a troubled person. RIP to the deceased.. Such an unfair world. |
jedisco:Thanks for your response. Yes @ medical. Your move was so smooth! Love to see it! We will go to scope in summer cos I'm done with this place especially with the potential to earn more.Most likely work permit because I'm too old for the express route. Anyhow, from all information,earnings combined with spouse will give me the soft life I've been dreaming of ![]() Once I wrap up, my family and I are out. Happy relocation and please keep us updated! |
Dr Ikenna, Rest in Peace. I don't know how terrible,alone and desperate he must have felt to choose to end his life. I wish he had found someone to talk to, someone who would have helped him. I wish he reached out to someone. Ikenna you were someone's child, someone's father, brother, friend etc. . The people who love you will be traumatized forever and blame themselves for not being there for you. I'm sure your family would have chosen any other option but death in this violent way. I don't know why divorces can't be amiable. If you don't want to do again, separate in peace. If it's getting toxic, leave the person and save your self. Doesn't the court mandate an amount from current earnings? I know how hard it is to hand over your hard earned cash or life savings but where there is life,there's a way. Why die over something you can make more of,money can always be made.A very young guy at that. The story here is not adding up cos why the loss of license? How will he pay 15k if he doesn't have license? I feel bad for the children who will grow up to live with knowing their father took his life, the scars will haunt them forever. They are the victims here, they didn't choose to be born and now will be forced to exist in pain. YOUR LIFE IS PRECIOUS, there is nothing and no one worth taking your life for. You may feel you're at the end of the road but find people to talk to, there's ALWAYS other options. |
jedisco:Well done! I'm making same move as you soon once I tie up loose ends.Please be updating us. Did you do the exams or just got a job and moved? How was the process etc. I want to read your thoughts on comparisons especially career wise |
Random question for those who have been in Canada for years. If money wasn't an issue, what parts of Canada would you choose to live? I'm looking at proximity to excellent secondary schools both public and private? - Topmost priority Low /No crime Leafy ish Jobs fairly available ( not an issue) Decent levels of diversity. Accessible transport. I have always prioritised the area I live in above everything.. In my experience,the leafier an area is, the higher the school standards and that for me is extremely important if you have school age kids. I don't know if it's the same in Canada. |
I pray she survives this cos she is unhealthily obsessed with this man and has her whole personality wrapped up in him. The drugs, violence , humiliation,so toxic. I hope she takes this opportunity to find herself. I wish her peace. |
jedisco:Please which Ai scribe do you use for letters? |
Lexusgs430:Thanks very much for this ![]() I'm going to look at the invest engine now.. ![]() |
Lexusgs430:Are your stocks under stocks and shares as well or do you have any random. I used etoro and now thinking about tax implications later. |
Lexusgs430: ![]() I followed you to free trade Oga, now you're jumping out to another one ![]() |
I bought palantier lateish when it was about 22, now it's tripled. I don't know if to sell some or hold. Greed na disease. |
jedisco:Farage should just call him Daddy. He's literally bending over for money |
Palliative Care isn't even funded properly, same as everything in the NHS, but they've skipped that and moved straight to death pathway.Fund palliative care well first so that dying people do so in dignity.. For now it's terminal people given 6 months to live but in reality , there are other conditions where the pain and suffering is so great but death is far.. What then happens? What of the pain and suffering of people with dementia or the pain and suffering of those with conditions that leave them trapped in their bodies and depending on others for round the clock care? How about people with mental health conditions resistant to all treatment eg treatment resistant depression,what of their own suffering? Is their own suffering less because they have longer than 6 months? Who is the arbiter of suffering? Who is the person that chooses what suffering is greater than another when people are so different? It's just a matter of time before court cases come and the law is adjusted again like Canada had to do. I don't envy those that have to make these decisions. |
What a pevert. What he does with consenting adult men is his business but out of everything to teach young boys, it is length and girth. The questions were framed in a very odd manner. How big are you etc My heart goes out to the alleged victims. Having their innocence taken from them could leave trauma they'll never recover from. Sickening .. |
YemyTemmy:House that has both your names abi na another house? House that her money dey inside? Y'all are jokers. Na you go pack commot. That's why some wives are merciless when they want to deal with these men. They do things and we wonder how a human being can be so wicked.. I now see why.. I just de laugh. |
ojinuocheibi:Oga,You forgot to add useless fathers too, children are raised by both parents. |
Illegal immigrants have really suffered O, they're blamed for everything including lack of GP appointments. Everyone of us are a strain on services ,if you have children you've also added to the burden. This is because there are simply not enough doctors to go round even minus the illegal ones. Nawa o. Una just make it sound like they wake up, dust their yansh ,plaster illegal on their foreheads and rock up to GP surgeries or A&E, when in actual fact, they usually would avoid contact with health professionals except at crisis point. The A&E, GP, doctors issue is very complex. There are not enough GPs, the ones there are running to other destinations due to lack of government investment ,poor work life balance , poor pay, and erosion of the medical profession. The government has chosen not to invest in training doctors, rather, they've channeled money into PA who will provide cheaper labour. Na only the GP appointment one consain me so I'm sticking to my lane |
Please if you have children always push yourself extra to look at accommodation in very good areas,most times you will be surrounded by people who have a lot to lose. They won't have time to be carrying bottle on the street even if they share same sentiment. Nowhere is 100% safe but some places are riskier than others. Avoid deprived areas if you can cos katakata usually starts from there. For some reason, we tend to not give serious thoughts about areas to live in, thinking that everywhere is equal, it really isn't so. I guess coming from Naija it feels like anything is manageable especially when considering funds but Some places are notorious for gangs, knife attacks, drugs, alcohol , social estates etc I'm just saying this as an extra just in case. I hope we all stay safe and alert. |
This discourse here has turned very strange especially for a Nigerian forum. Stay safe oooo. |
Zahra29:I think the landscape has changed a bit, there's not enough doctors to push down that waiting list eg perform surgeries, read scans, run clinics etc. Plus very low morale and low pay amongst clinicians who are also leaving. The Junior doctors are the backbone of the NHS, they are not paid on strike days but will still strike until conditions are more decent. Unfortunately,for every strike, the backlog increases. Hence the physician associates who still have to go back to the very few doctors. I'll try to be hopeful, but I think medicine in the UK is looking bleak which is why doctors are leaving anyway. It will be interesting to see how labor tackles this. |
Resurgent2016:Well, NHS waitlist is getting longer. A &E wait times?when last did you see your GP? How easy is it to get appointments? Doctors are leaving in numbers and are being replaced by Physician Associates who still can't make decisions without asking the same doctors they're replacing, lol. Good or bad for us, time will tell. Just make sure you don't fall ill , lol. |
THROW HER UNDER THE JAIL!! She has ruined those children. This is wickedness. |
haven2010:Thank you very much for seeing past the propaganda. |
Lexusgs430:And he had been in the school since he was 7 so must have formed a solid community, his classmates, teachers etc must be in shock too. I don't know if this North East London is generally a dangerous place or if it's known for stabbings.Either ways, lives have been destroyed. As parents they did their best, tried to provide the best education in a safe environment and yet something this horrible has occurred God please comfort them, their pain must be indescribable. |
Lexusgs430:This is so horrifying and heart breaking. God please comfort his family members, I don't know how they will copecope with this kind of trauma. They sent their innocent child to school and he got stabbed by a random man for no reason. How they will bear it I don't know but may they find comfort somehow and I pray the deceased child rests in perfect peace. |
Santa2:It's like my kids will head the boxing / kick boxing, ju jitsu way, this karate they're doing seems too soft. |
In a huge forum, there will naturally be people who will interpret"rent money is dead money" as " you're not good enough, you're not doing well, look at your mates".Then another group of people who would view this as a challenge to hustle harder. Some people get ginger from hearing of others earning hundreds of thousands and millions, the other set will see this as boasting. I remember some uproar when people were challenged to view care work as a stop gap and move quickly into better things. Talking about lofty ambitions can be triggering for a few members, they won't take it well and see it as an indictment of their current level conveniently forgetting that nothing is static, you can do better, you can start small and move on to better things. All fingers are not equal and will never be, if you're the thumb or little finger, it's okay if you're happy there. If you're the middle finger, that's great. I prefer reading about people doing amazing things and earning more than me, listening to ideas etc. For the people who are rich or about to be rich, maybe put disclaimer and be more sensitive to the people struggling? Different strokes for different folks. |


