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Just date until you find what you want... There's seriously no crime in that.. Except you cannot afford to buy dinner for all those babes you crushin on... Either way write out what your plans are in marriage life and let every candidate for "serious relationship" aka "pseudo-marriage" know what those plans are and if 1 of them is cool with it then go for it!

I've said too much *zips lips*

Serious relationship is simply when a girl wants to trap a boy into marriage, or vice versa... (Speaking from experience so your facts/suggestions are invalid) lol...
My advice? only agree to be in a "relationship" when you are sure you wanna marry the individual, ie "official" proposal from the man invovled (except you wanna have pre-marital sex by all means, and risk relationship 419).
Good luck @op

See, I told you, Garri is the BOMB

As an outgoing Batch C corp member, I've got to say: Sh*t's becoming REEEEEEAAAL!!!

Served in Yenago, Bayelsa. Was the Mr Macho of my batch, so I've gotten used to people hailing me on the street as Macho, athough I'm now scrawny from too much walka akin to corpers.

Overall the year was truly fun, and the brothers and sisters I made are truly memorable, but as the euphoria of the new found independence, unity and brotherhood dies out the butterflies of responsibility and profoundness of decision making springs to life in my belly.

I'm quite certain that my new found ability to manage limited resource, travel and spring into action when needed, meet with, speak with, and interelate with anyone at anytime t, and the backing of the Most Gracious God that has kept me from all harm with his hand of provision and protection, I am on to my next phase and progressing to new heights!

Only downer for me right now is that there is no passing out parade! Like what the hell hell

At least I'll make it up with a passing out PARTE tonight!!!

Cheers Naija

UcyChima: You are such an unserious scalatomanta, and the MOD who put this on the front page is suffering from Cherisopharisapotamtism

Dude I call bulltish on your vocabulary... Yes I looked it up ... Aint a word :|

Fell down the stairs laughing! Nairaland no go kill me ooo



You have made my night now I can sleep peacefully

retirement

Men r different from women. Period!
(No pun intended)

greatgenius: why should chastity hold true for a woman and not for the man?..who is setting the rules..btw saying it is easier for guys to be tempted than females is just plain foolery and nothing but a vague excuse..did you think about the bolded before actaully uttering it.. understand that telling someone you don't expect them to be sexy is the same thing as asking them to be ashamed of their sexuality.. dont you see the hypocrisy and the contradiction..
don't you think this should also hold true for guys as well..

Pls shutup w this crap b/c it's not even worthy of feminism. Nobody sets these "rules." They r observed patterns and adopted ways of life.

schorlbone: ibo na language? It's morr like speaking in tongues.

Oboi u b mad man! Igbo no b official language 4 this naija? C'mon!

If u look at d most industrious n business minded ppl here no be ibo ppl?
Abeg getout from this forum u ignoramus

Very good points have been made, but some have theorized that when it comes to s3x that women r the 'gate keepers' n men r the 'invaders'. When u realize that the lady's eggs r imensely bigger, much fewer, n significantly slower than that of guys (sperm) you will realize that the consequeses of sex r not the same for both s3xes, hence, the responsibilities r very disproportional! That's y women will carry bele for almost a year, while men just bounce along to stroke the next meow meow...
Looong gone r the days when contraceptive methods were rare n highly ineffective, n most common man were gentlemen at heart n well mannered. Nowadays we have cds n prophylactic to enjoy the 'forbidden fruit'. So we now operate under the illusion that as long as the woman covers up all her furniture n toys behind her gate with cushioned plastics we the invaders can now rush in like little rascals n play with whatever we like, scattering her most guided places anyhow. Well the truth is that some girls like it like that, it's their bodies n they can use it anyhow, they will deal with the consequences when they come to that bridge. Other ladies decide that they'd much rather teach that rascal how to be a gentleman. N few other men see the need to be a gentleman n speak nicely to rapunzelle to let down her hair. The truth is God created man n woman differently n gave em the same single command to be fruitful n multiply. But women r better multipliers than men! Just see how that wicked eve went to have an affair with the devil and gave birth to sin before even bearing a child for poor adam! Chei! *hisses*