Congratulations to all the winners

pcguru1:


Its normal, you should read the redpill, its because he shows so much love and is caring and this has now being turned to either being too boring or predictable, he no longer tickles your fantasy, sadly non of us can answer your problem, because most women themselves don't really know what they want, my only advice is to be honest and break up with him if you feel you no longer feel love for him, so another person can take your place and repeat the whole circle again. Oh rather since the problem is from you and not him, maybe you should find ways to spice up the relationship after all he's the happy one and you're the one not happy. Peace out

Note: It was bound to happen, most relationships don't last

Thanks bro

firstking01:
Wow, i think you should make him understand that the chemistry is no longer there rather staying with him in pretence that you love him.

Before coming here on nl, I already discussed that with him. I did that just last week . He was very happy that I opened up to him And promised to renew the feelings in me. And since then he intensified his calls.,msgs, sending romantic songs, and using the "I love you " phrase like water. But I just don't feel the same.
Thanks for ur replies and time.

Peritus:

You see, your problem is not falling out of love, but you have become used to him, and have allowed your feelings for him take the exit route because you feel that he will always be there to show U love regardless of ur odds.
One thing is sure: it is not better outside. You should concern yourself on how to reinvigorate the dying love now that the guy has not usain-bolted, because it's clear that you are not requiting his love.
Again, if you are sexually involved, you have to take a very long break. Change activities, switch roles, give yourselves opportunity to miss each other, i.e. a temporary/limited space.

That's what I'm saying! It's not better outside. That's why I just don't want to give up just like that. Thanks for the advice. I really appreciate.

poshestmina:
You don't love him anymore and you still don't want to let go of him?

Women are just too complicated

We are very complicated. Why I don't want to let him go is coz he's done nothing to offend me. He'll be very heart broken. That's when you'll be seeing topics like my gf of 4 years just ended our relationship for no reason.women are wicked. Blah blah blah.

And secondly he truly loves me. There's no surety that the next man I'll meet would treat me like this. I used to love him deeply before but I just don't know what went wrong.

SirJeffry:
You guys need a temporary separation. Maybe a long travel can help.

For 6-8 months now.. .we seen each other only twice. Is there any separation that can be more than this? Or separation in terms of temporal breakup?

mascot87:
Do u guys quarrel @ all? If not then u need it once in a while. Quarrel sometimes can help u guys sustain your relationship & fall in love the more. If d guy continue to show love but doesn't quarrel with you once in a while then I expect what u r going through now.
Quarreling not like fighting or boxing o but having some vexing for one another once in a while & refusing to talk to one another for one or two days. By that u will miss one another & when u start off again, it will b a brand new love relationship btw u two.
But u have to know how to play it not to get out of hand.

We do quarel once in awhile. In fact a lot these days coz of my lackadaisical attitudes. But he always I mean always try to settle everything before the day runs to an end. He's that nice.

firstking01:
Just take a break and miss him, then the feelings will resurgenerate, ensure you guys dnt see each other for the time being until you start feeling this vacuum/emptiness of him in you, then you can now sort for him...and if you still do not miss or feel that vacuum/emptiness in you, pls move on.




Note, do this by his consent...if he truely loves you he will wait, but if he says otherwise, pls break up and move on...don't force yourself to love or beg somebody to love you.

Due to some factors, we now live several miles apart. And we see like every 2 to 3 months. And I'm still not missing him.
When u say take a break, do you mean seeing once in a while? Not taking calls or what?

I've been in relationship with this guy for close to 4 years now. I'd not dated anyone else before but I can boldly say this guy is amazing.He’s a wonderful person and I’m lucky to have him in my life. He is sweet and caring and accepting all of my (many) flaws.

it’s not that I don’t care about him ooo but that special feeling of “I love you, I need you, I want to be with you” has kind of evaporated from my heart. Everything he does or say now irritates me. That spark is not just there for me. AND I DON'T KNOW WHY.

please believe me when I say I'm not seeing nor eyeing another man. In fact the yearning for guys attention is not just there for me. I'm enjoying being alone and peaceful.

But on the contrary, the guy shows me so much love and check on me several times daily. And I still don't know why I'm not heads over heels in love with him again(i used to) . Dunno if sth is wrong with my head or I'm possessed or sth. I even pray everyday that God should bring the love back to my heart.

Have i fallen out of love? Can I bring back the feelings? What should I do? Coz I don't want to lose him. I don't want to end the relationship. I don't want to do anything I'll regret because this guy is truly in love with me.

Someone should please talk sense into me . Thanks.

Cc: lalasticlala

adewumiopeyemi:
am gud dear just pm u nw do u see d pm dear

Not yet. I'll check my mail box later

Parollawd:


lol...lazy girl so you slept through out the rain

yes o.. .i really enjoyed it

agabaI23:
No I won't especially when there are better qualified hands.

I hear you

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Parollawd:


i think the best time to rain is at night...lol...who think so to

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Of course. . But that yesterday own was good

adewumiopeyemi:
hi dear hw u doing

Hello! I'm good . You?

If Na you, u no go put ur family?

OP. ....today's rain eh
Very sweet. ...i slept tru out

Talking of which! You needed to have seen DLA road. ..
IT'S A NIGHTMARE

Sweet! Lovely family

We are waiting

Virtual lands and prosperity

Virtual lands and properties

Hilarious

I've got a young soul. It describes me perfectly

Heavenly102:

too dirty ? young man do not infuriate me so. was Isaiah the prophet not a man of God what about Paul, my man you are ludicrous. they spoke against both the good and evil alike the anointed and the antithetically equivalent. they feared not jail or the whip

See this one. Am I stopping u from getting angry?

And FYI..I'm a lady

Lolz! Osogbo oroki. I hail thee

OMG! Is that ur belly button? Wow! U are endowed

adioolayi:

No No....I don't agree totally... yea, they shouldn't meddle in political affairs by affiliating themselves with any political party or politicians... But in political matters affecting their households, members, community and the country at large...they should speak up... They should speak against injustice and persecution of Christians in the North...They should advise the government of the day on the yearnings of the populace... They have access to those in power than most people...Yes, they should pray for them..they should act too...Their silence is not GOLDEN anymore

True talk though. I agree

OP is a liar. Heeya heeya ho!! !

It's really saddening the way people here throw caution in the air and say all sorts of abusive and disrespectful things about our leaders. Especially those they don't like or those that are not their kinsmen.

The abuses won't change anything. They're there already and stop these nonsense please .

Yoruba no ni

I don't think men of God should meddle with politics in anyway what's so ever. It's too derogatory and dirty.
As a man of God the best the u should do is to impact positively in ur immediate environment instead of amassing wealth.
It's

Bleaching has taken over the whole world. ..so plz.. .