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Worst decision you could possibly make in your life

But how can you as a man tell women want they want? Does it make sense to you ? Please

Deepfeel:
Am not trying to console small sized d*ck guys but the truth is sex is a mind game, even if it's small, as long as the mind pays complete attention, every physical touch counts besides that, the pussy opening is not the only erotic zone of a woman, the boobs, neck, earlobes, clitoris, belly button, armpits, tongue etc a close mind attention to all these regions gives pure pleasure and satisfaction , the vagina expands beyond every normal sized d*ck after childbirth so it's really not about the size, but the mind, women get raped by big d*ck guys all the feel is pains and irritation why? cause the mind is not there to convert the strong soft touches to pleasure

If you are not bringing in enough money to take care of the home and myself, you have no right to open your poverty stricken dirty mouth, and demand things to be done your way. Just saying.

Nigerians and tradition will kill them. Stupid people. Why can’t the son take the broom from his mother? Is his hand disabled? All these stupid rules and regulations to judge someone’s character, you never jam one babe that will form house-girl just to impress the family, but the heart is black. I just honestly think it’s not that deep, seriously, and it’s not enough to break up with her.

A man can never make a woman cum like another woman. Just saying

And that is a minority.

Speaking for the majority, most men have nothing they can use to impress a woman with apart from money. Once they can’t do this, they begin to feel inadequate. That’s why they chase girls they can afford. Money is linked to your ego.

Deepfeel:
Is it only with money that a man can impress a lady? Those men who married ladies richer than them what empress do they have on those rich ladies?

No stop lying please. You didn’t marry her because she was too high maintenance and you couldn’t keep up with the lifestyle. She had her own money too, so there was nothing you could do to impress her. Since youve had a taste of a high maintenance babe, you now detest it from experience because it’s not in your financial bracket. If you don’t have money, you can’t impress a high maintenance babe. But you can impress a low maintenance babe with the bare minimum because she doesn’t expect much. Please just be real with yourself. Most men adore feminine, well kept, high maintenance babes but the fact is that the majority can not afford them.

Deepfeel:
Well I have dated few ladies who got their own money to maintain their artificial beauty I could have married one if I wanted, am still telling you believe it or not women with artificial beauty are not my taste simple whether am a millionaire or billionaire my taste won't change

This is what you tell yourself so you can feel good about yourself.

Earthquake3:
If you need money to maintain your beauty then you are not beautiful

Do you know how much human hair cost? Do you know how much make up costs, I mean the decent quality ones? Nails? Clothes? It’s not easy being a woman please. Most men can not afford all the cost of a woman. That’s why you have Ayo for Brazilian hair, Eric for makeup and David for food and toiletries . Division of labour.

Deepfeel:
Lol typical Nigerian so the rich people whom their wife's are all natural what speaks for them? Besides I can afford a young lady with wigs and makeup artificial hair nails etc how much do Nigerian girls spend to maintain themselves?

Lol okay

truthsayer009:
That's what someone argued with me last week but Nigerian Men are realistically obsessed with Fair ladies. So It's not my fault.

Point of correction. Skin tone doesn’t make someone high maintenance. You can still be black and spend a lot of money on yourself, I’m a perfect example.

truthsayer009:
Exactly, why will I want to drive a Range Rover sport when my budget range is Toyota Corolla? Ordinary starting a Range Rover & Reverse, fuel as finished. Abeg oh, I'm good with my Corolla

Likewise, I'm good with my DUDU Osun babe, Dating fair girls cost money abeg!

Okay. All na wash. Have access to a fine babe with flawless skin, perfect hair and makeup and let me see if you will speak in the same language. Your taste is low simply because of your bank account. There’s only a few selection of men who actually prefer 100% natural low maintenance girls regardless. But majority just cut their coat according to their cloth.

Deepfeel:
It's not about wanting a simple natural babe to fit into my financial bracket even if I was a billionaire I won't marry a lady that spents a lot on an artificial beauty, it's not just my taste simple, am not a fan of bleached skin girls am not a fan of ladies with boobs and butts enlightenment or long eyelashes long fingers nails with long foreign wigs it's not my taste simple, I have a Lesotho female friend who works with jp Morgan Bank in Wall Street new York her husband is a multi millionaire, this lady is all natural with short cut hair no eyelashes no long nails beautiful brown skin but she's beautiful that's the type of lady I want

you can decieve yourself but deep down you know the truth. Beauty comes with package, look around you and you will see walking examples everyday. You want a low maintenance natural babe simply because it fits into your financial bracket which is fine. But that doesn’t negate the fact the beautiful women that society uplifts are normally high maintenance. End of argument.

Deepfeel:
Lol babe won't argue further o but I will tell you the women you see on Instagram showcasing their expensive banging body maintenance are not just ordinary regular women they have a job their job has to do with their physical looks they are Instagram models the get paid for it, they are like a piece of art work they represent all kinds of product brands from, body cream to fashion companies to some fitness diet products etc

Darling you are 1 man out of 190 million people in Nigeria. Observe the world, and I will tell you that women who are aesthetically pleasing to the eye for the majority are those who require maintenance. Even if you are ‘naturally’ beautiful, the environment in Nigeria will force you to maintain it. I only used Beyoncé as an example because she is known by all. But even regular women, keep up with themselves in that manner. Take a look at Instagram, it costs a lot to be a beautiful woman, that is the truth. The type of beauty that is noticed by all, not just by the beholder lol. Just saying.

Deepfeel:
Well every man has a taste when it comes to beautiful women, I like dark brown chocolate skin girls with naturally hair, classy slay queens with thick makeup long eyelashes and expensive jewelry don't excite me
Men who spend money on their wife's so they can be attracted to all should be Celebrities public figures people in the eyes of the media, that type of lifestyle is not fit for every woman if you are just an ordinary man not a celebrity or public figure why will you want your wife to look like a movie star or a musician or a model it's not right, the way Beyonce looks the expensive jewelry and clothes she wears are all for show she's a star she's a public figure she won't want to look that way if she wasn't a music star, her name is a brand she's owned by her fans and fashion companies

Ok

eni4real:
If you think I must only reason in your perspective then you are flawed already

Read to understand. Thanks

eni4real:
Really Beautiful children increase your societal value even if they are dumb or delinquent

Please if you can’t read to comprehend do not bother quoting me pleeeeeaseee. Thanks in advance.

eni4real:
In other words, beautiful ladies cannot be termed beautiful unless they marry rich guys who can afford classic make-ups, expensive jewelries and costly designers.
All the appendages you mentioned there enhance beauty (of the pretty and the less charming) .
But a natural beauty will still shine above any kind of make-up!!

Beyonce or any West celebrities are bad examples because low key plastic/enhancement surgery is usually involved...

You are too obsessed with marrying a rich guy tho...

Beauty doesn’t pay bills but it transfers to your offsprings
Increases your societal value
Respect increases subconsciously from friends/family as she becomes a representation of you.
And is also pleasing to the eye.

We know that beauty fades. But that is why 95% marry women in their prime, to reap the benefits of their beauty. Once it fades, the other attributes of the woman last longer.

eni4real:
Money pay ladies' bills
Beauty can't pay guy's bills

But when we talk about beautiful, a woman that will walk into a room and all eyes on her. These are not the women that are plaiting shuku, no makeup, cheap clothes and no jewellery. I’m just being honest. The beautiful women, the ones where your friends will envy you because of your babe are the type that need a lot of maintenance no matter how ‘naturally’ beautiful they are. From the hair, makeup, body lotion, perfume, clothes, good food and jewellery. Let’s just be real here ahbeg, beauty comes with package. Beyoncé will not be Beyoncé if she didn’t come with her package.

Deepfeel:
Women who are naturally beautiful Don't need much money to maintain their looks and not every beautiful woman is trapped to a man with money

eni4real:
What stops you from cooking yourself?
What stops you from being domestic yourself?
What stops you from being a virgin?

What are you talking about?

I cook for myself as a bachelor. I can not cook for the whole family(of mine) for life. That is the reason why Wife/mothers do that for the family. Is that different in your family. Why are you so theoretical??

You cook for yourself, but you cannot cook for the whole family for life. Me too I make my own money but I cannot make money to take care of my whole family for life. That is why the husband/father is there to do it for the family. Why can’t you understand that ?

eni4real:
How can you compare virginity in women with abstinence or whatever terms you may want to use for men refraining from Sex.
So, if I never had Sex before Marriage, it means I already don't need a virgin in a woman?

You don’t get it. Men seek for qualities in women that they do not possess themselves, almost like filling in a void. If you are not a virgin, why seek a virgin? In the same breath that men ask women why they are looking for a rich man when they are not rich themselves. It’s all hypocritical and I just believe everybody should please themselves. Who no like better tin?

eni4real:
How does all this make me to feed off the hard earned money of the woman
Gold digging is gold digging. When you are poor but you are looking for a buoyant guy to alleviate your poverty while you are shaming fellow poor guys...

You call it goldigging, I call it standards. The same way you shame women who don’t fit into your standards of beauty, modesty and intelligence, is the same way women shame guys who don’t fit into their financial preference. Heck, you are even shaming women for wanting rich men (goldiggers), yet you are the same guy complaining about women shaming poor guys. Are you not a hypocrite?

eni4real:
What you are doing Is gold digging...
God forbid If the man become broke due to financial or health challenges, what would you do

Stop supporting gold digging and parasitism!!!!!!

It is not gold digging, it’s a preference. The same way every single man on this planet has a preference. You are just mad because you do not fit into the ideal preference that the majority of women desire, get a grip please.

You’re justifying my point. At the end of it all, the man must still end up being the provider and he must maintain that role for the relationship to work. Even if you start off with nothing, there must be significant progress in 5 years, most women will not wait wait wait until you amount to something in life, especially not in this generation when they’re too many options. If you like write epistle for me, if you want to be a husband you must be the provider and you must look for ways to maintain that role if you want to keep that respect and integrity in your household. Nobody is going to love you and pet you if you’re not doing your role properly, this is Africa. Even if the woman has her own income, she cannot play the role of the husband and wife for too long without getting frustrated, it’s just not going to work. You don’t know the hell that these husbands are facing in their households all because the woman has become the breadwinner, do not think because your wife has income you can fall back on that when things get hard. Prepare for the worst when you’re at the top, and invest in multiple streams of income. Nobody is going to pity a jobless man.

Tallesty1:
The reality my dear is that there are couple who started with virtually nothing and today they have many things while there are some who started with many things, lost is all and worked hard hand in hand to get back everything. This is reality.

I am not saying that everyone stays when things get bad for the man, you and op have role models, I know but they're the minority.
Sure, when the woman has no reasonable source of income which is what I am on about. I have seen men who lost their jobs and joined their wives in their business until they got back to their feet. This too is reality.

Life doesn't end after a lost of job, marriage too doesn't end but that is if you married a woman with a source of income.
Hardly do people separate because the man lost his job. I am not saying it doesn't happen but is rare. Not having a job doesn't make one automatically useless... You know that. In my previous comment, I exempted lazy men from the people I am talking about.

Few things that will make you leave a man who lost his job...

1. You don't have one yourself.

2. He's very lazy.

3. Money is the reason you're with him.

4. He has nothing else to contribute apart from the money.
Nobody loves you unconditionally, not even God so we are not asking for unconditional love.
If a woman is not performing her duties, tell me what man will endure and stay? As a man who desires to get married it is mandatory for you to have multiple sources of income to maintain the role of a provider. No excuses must be made. If not, then stay single forever. Nobody is begging you to to get married, but the role of a husband is to provide. The last line is very funny because you sounded like your idea of how marriage works is same with everyone else.


I am done with this.

How can a woman be this fine at 40. Chai

What stops you from cooking yourself?
What stops you from being domestic yourself?
What stops you from being a virgin?

Men look for qualities in women that they don’t have themselves, nobody cares. If a woman is broke and she wants a rich guy, she has every right to do that. We all want someone who can fill in the missing blanks in our lives, so stop being ridiculous. Who no like better tin? The better tin only becomes a problem when it’s the woman asking for it abi? Oga please go and sit down.

eni4real:
Men desires do not connote "Gold digging" tho!!!
Gold digging is when you are poor but you are shaming poor guys but become a mumu for rich guys. As if you can't be rich by working hard yourself!!