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Wake up and face reality mr man. Nobody is going to stay with someone who is not performing their duties or benefiting them the way they want. This is not a Cinderella story this is life, And this goes for both genders. Once a man becomes jobless, with no income coming in for a long time, It is very rare to see a woman stand by him without getting frustrated. That frustration will turn into resentment which will later lead to separation. The only person that will love you unconditionally with no benefits attached is your mother and that’s the truth. If a woman is not performing her duties, tell me what man will endure and stay? As a man who desires to get married it is mandatory for you to have multiple sources of income to maintain the role of a provider. No excuses must be made. If not, then stay single forever. Nobody is begging you to to get married, but the role of a husband is to provide.

Tallesty1:
Dear Saff, you can include the demons and angels in the list of people you have problem with. I honestly don't care. I also have no problems with whatever criteria a woman wishes to stick to as long as it doesn't directly or indirectly affect us.

It's ok to set standards.

It is very ok not to date or even greet broke people. I am cool with all that but that won't stop me from posting what is right for those who wish to know.

For your information, I don't pay attention to to "f" or "m" beside people's username. I reply you when I feel you're not making sense or when I want to appreciate your comment. Same rule applies offline. I only notice a woman's breasts when I am aroused. What I see when I look around me are human beings not male and female. I only notice their genders when I have to and at the right time.

This might help you to understand that I didn't reply the lady because of her choices but because she doesn't want face the consequences that comes with the choice she made.

Someone clearly pointed out to her that a rich man can lose everything and then asked her what she would do in that situation and she said "A sensible man must have more than one stream of income"

She clearly placed the financial responsibility of a family squarely on men's shoulders. In essence, a man who doesn't have stable dual stream of income is unworthy of a woman's love and if eventually she loses everything he has then the woman should just leave. Read beyond what's written.

If you don't see the folly in that then I probably shouldn't be replying you.

Now talking about shaming women because of their desires.

I just have a question to ask you.

What do women do when men post that they want a virgin?

Do they(women) keep quiet and allow them to their desires?

Clap and drum support for them?

Do they not attack them and their parents, gods and village people?

I’m living good love. But if you’re so triggered by what a woman wants in her life, you’re clearly paranoid because you don’t fit into the standard. Booo hooo

don4real18:
Blah, blah, blah... Tell that to the male folks in your life and quit mentioning me

Then go and get more sources of income that generate income and stop making fuckingg excuses. You’re a man. The men that have multiple sources of income that sustain them, do they have two heads? They use their time wisely, educate yourself, and stop wasting time.?8if you want to be the head of the home and the provider you can’t sit around making excuses, life doesn’t work like that.

don4real18:
Stop talking like a child. What if his other sources of income doesn't generate much? Do you think it's everyone that has multiple sources of income? A sensible man bla bla bla

My problem with you men is that why do you have a problem when women have certain criteria’s they want to stick to?

When a man is looking for a wife he has 101 things that his future wife must have. He doesn’t look for an incomplete building to build from scratch. No he finds the woman that he desires and he marries that. You want a God fearing, good cook beautiful submissive wife that will cater to your needs. Are you going to marry the complete opposite of this? If a woman wants a man with money that is her prerogative, she doesn’t have to be shamed for what she desires. She doesn’t have to build a man up to be the man she wants, that’s not her job. Some men desire virginity which a lot of women do not have, are they shamed for it? Let’s stop shaming women for what they desire.

Tallesty1:
Ten sources of income can close down if the gods are on your case. We have seen people go from hero to something below zero.




Now enough of a man's income. How about a sensible woman? I bet she's the one that only dates rich men.

Thing is, only poor people complain about dating broke men. I will explain this. Men don't need maintainance like women do. If you are making your own money as a woman, you won't mind dating a broke guy who have little somethings going on for him that he uses to keep body and soul together.

I am not talking about broke and lazy people. Those ones are different. They're the ones that depend on a woman's money to look good and impress people that don't care. They're pathetic

A broke man may not have cars, houses and and all but he still pays bills when due. He is not living the good life but he's not starving either so I don't see why a woman who has money will find it hard to stay with him. If he is broke but intelligent and has bright ideas then marry him and set him up. Men do it all the time and heaven is still in its place.

But you can't because you don't have anything to give him. You're broke and indirectly in need of help but your pride wouldn't let you beg so you decide to get married instead.

We know all that.

It’s very rare to come across a lady who is doing absolutely nothing with her life, not a Nigerian babe I’m sorry. Whether it’s school, work, a trade, a business, most Nigerian women have something going on even if it’s small. Stop being ridiculous please, it’s rare to see a Nigerian babe just sitting at home doing absolutely nothing with her life. It’s even more common with men.

Richardonald:
the funny part is the girl is talking as if there are still millions of men ready to get marry with a girl that has noting to offer than sex in marriage... for this 21st century guys wan settle 4 gals that has something doing or earning... she may be happy that there are rich men around her, not knowing they are there just to use her to their satisfaction and dump her.

Emotionally weak = unable to cope well with situations that may toil with your emotions. Men naturally being less emotional than women may not be able to deal with their towering emotions when it comes to tragic events like heartbreak, causing them to deal with it terribly since they are not accustomed to feeling that way. Women get sad over anything, we cry a lot we are naturally emotionally, so we may know how to cope with tragic situations better. Hope you get it.

luminouz:
Now,here is what I like reading from NL gehs...cool,cold,logical facts...not some emotional drivel devoid of reasoning. I quite agree with some of ur points. Men could handle heartbreaks terribly but does that make them more emotionally weak that women? That's my point. Cuz I think the percentages favour the women more,not the men.

At ur last point,I'm not here to argue but learn and exchange ideas.so most times,I quote to learn and reason out facts,even if its ur opinion and its factual.
Thanks

What I’m saying is that men handle heartbreak much worse, and that’s the truth. Once a man falls deep in love with a woman, spends money time and all other things only to be disappointed, it cuts deeper. Also because men are not naturally emotional beings, so dealing with all the heartbreak emotions can be very daunting, which also makes them deal with it terribly. Please everything doesn’t have to be an argument. This is my opinion that I believe to be factual, if you don’t believe it you can simply read my comment and ignore it. Thanks.

luminouz:
Wrong at ur first statement....where in hell do u girls get ur stats from
If that's so,why is okafor's law so established?? If women actually get over shiiit,why make the same mistake over n over again?? That's not getting over anything.
A man who cries cuz his gf left him is weak....if she died, I'd understand that. I mean,she is not even ur wife naaaaaaaaaa.....

It’s so funny because men are actually emotionally weaker than women. Most men never get over a serious heartbreak, it scars them for life and it changes their whole perspective about women. Where as women eventually get over it and will probably make the same mistake again and again lol. All these men condemning the man for crying are hypocrites, it’s okay for men to cry. Men are prone to die early and fall into depression all because society says that a man must bottle everything in and get over it. You are a human being for God sake not a robot, allow yourself to feel emotions for the sake of your sanity.

Oluromantic:
A heartbroken state is not the best state to draw general conclusions about a person's being. It's a vulnerable state for everyone

Amen in Jesus name.

RoyalBlu:
Hmmmm. This life

To think all the people in these pictures with her are all dead. Hmmmm.

I pray she gets help asap and survive this.

But yday a wife forgot to buy salt and vegetable oil and that stupid thread gracefully made the front page for the whole world to see, because the husband wanted to divorce her over that. And you think that is okay? Alright

SolutionMee:


What a succulent boobs from the side chick. Women like this can be very dangerous to marry. Why exposing the hidden doings of your husband in public? Is he no longer the head of the family? Is he not the major income-earner of the household? Is he not erotically romantic? Is he not satisfying you amatorially? Is he not paying due bills at home? Is he not taking responsibility of the children? Is he not safekeeping the future of your marriage? Is he not man enough?

If the answers to the above questions are mostly yes, that shows that this woman is too greedy and can never be satisfied. Good women are known for being discreet and by keeping the wrongs of their husband from the public domain.

Preach

lightwhite:
Emmanuella dear, enjoy your childhood and don't be in a hurry to grow up. It sucks.

You’re the one that got me banned, I hate you

Fadedvoiced:

You look like a starved rat on your dp. Very ugly [quote author=samysmoothfresh post=73330593][/quote]

What’s your number

N0favors:
I got new number

True

Honey I’ve been banned for 10 years on my saff account

Earthbound:
..make you cum... Cum collect cucumber

I did

N0favors:
Well, you didn’t reply the last time

Yh we can text

N0favors:
Wanna talk?

Hi

N0favors:
Hey

Pregnant and cheating again? You too carry yourself to knack another’s man wife with his child in her stomach. Jesuuu I have seen it all. I cover myself with the blood of Christ.

DonPiiko:
Lies I have a mental picture of you. It's not nice

lol ok then

DonPiiko:
Wild girl, stop pretending

I’m not wild. It’s all a front. I’m a good girl

Smh

Who you be?

Elder001:
She is living in Nigeria.. don't be deceived.

Only lalas, Irene0ni, ibakay**, shayebebab* and a few others are living in the UK..

ok I’m living in Nigeria. What is now the problem?

lefulefu:
na okada business he dey do. That being said he used to tell us about his wealthy lifestyle back in pleatue state and dat his business collapsed. And that when he gets back on his feet he's goin to return back to that life.

life is good ohhh!