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Correction: FG recovers 400b from Nigerian proletariat.

Just invest it with the fear of God.

These people misunderstand. Peter Obi is the stone in a slingshot wielded by the Nigerian people. Of course, he is dangerous. We are aiming him at the corrupt system. Of which, they are all a part. They are correct to feel uncomfortable.

My goodness! Can FFK recruit an adult to handle his Twitter already? This is beyond embarrassing.

Guy, you're a musician. That's your power. You have something to say, put that sh** in a song. That way we can focus on the beatz and never even realize you don't make any sense.

These Christians! They are a real menace to society. Perhaps, the most irritating set of people in the world today. It's high time we start censoring people's beliefs if they cannot be reasonable about it and maintain their respective lanes.

Dear Christian, you are free to believe whatever you wish, just know that the rest of the world is not beholden to your god. Only you will wear the restrictions you have chosen for yourself. If your bible says that you should not be a homosexual, then don't be a homosexual. Simple! Stop shouting up and down, disturbing everybody's peace, saying that homosexuality is evil. It is evil inside your book, abi? The instruction is meant for you alone, so keep it. Just like some people are instructed not to eat pigs; it is not a general requirement. Non-Christians should fvck whomever they want to fvck. And if any Christians want to be gay why not trust that your god will take care of the situation without turning y'all into hateful murdering monsters. Sheybi Hell dey? Allow judgement day to come before you start lynching people. It's not even your place to do that in the first place. Focus on your own activities.

This obsession with sex is just ridiculous. And trust a country like Nigeria to write these perverted religious views into secular law when they make no logical sense. Sex is not just for reproduction, it is also for relieving stress and bonding. Not everybody must reproduce. Some people must clean up the mess created by irresponsible breeders. Nature knows what its doing.

More muscle to gay-rights activists that refuse to stand for rubbish in this life. And to all gay people...... if you are in Nigeria, be careful in your associations. If you are not, good on you!

Budex40:
I hope u read my comment with full comprehension. FYI, society doesnt give a single fvck about the male child. Male children are treated as disposable. Male children experience sexual abuse @ a very young age but CANT talk about it as Adults. There are Guys here who have experience "something" with an Aunty, Mummy's friend or even the House maid when they were young.

How about FEMALE GENITAL MUTILATION ? It gets mainstream recognition but nobody is talking about MALE CIRCUMSICION which is literally killing some babies and making them have small/malformed pen*s as Adults

Why can't men talk about it? They can and they SHOULD. One day begins a story. Women haven't always been given the attention they are getting now. There was a time once, not so long ago in fact, when women would rather bear their abuse in silence because they don't want to be shamed on top of everything else. To be abused as a woman was to be reduced in value, because women were seen as objects to men. So, people would rather cover up their "defilement" than report it because they still want men to find them desirable enough to pay full price.

Now, things are different. Now, things are changing. Men should also take advantage of the new climate. Victims are being listen to; the left wing agenda has taken centre stage. You don't have to be a woman to be heard. You simply have to be willing to admit that you have been wronged and be prepared to champion your cause. A number of men are doing it too. See how quickly Oprah filled her room with male sexual abuse survivors for her show with Safechuck and Wade Robson. Abuse is abuse, and it is always wrong. it doesn't matter what gender the victim is. Men are still their own worst enemy in this because they would rather stay quiet than be ridiculed for their weakness. Women were slut shamed for ages before they were taken seriously. You have to push through it.

FGM and male circumcision are intrinsically different in purpose, to begin with. FGM is used to control sexual desire and subsequent promiscuity in girls, because girls are supposed to be presented pure to their men. Even if it means that she would never experience sexual pleasure in her life. The notion that a woman cannot own her sexuality is preposterous and misogynistic. The purpose of male circumcision was probably emasculation, but it remains unclear. There are speculations that, before it became a ritual in religious context, it was a treatment meted out on captives in ancient times. So whereas FGM was meant to control women, MC was used to humiliate men. However, the reason why there isn't a massive push back against male circumcision is probably because it has been discovered that with a circumcised penis there are reduced risks of infection and better hygiene. That is not to say that we cannot wake up tomorrow and decide to put an end to male circumcision. We only need to make our case by tabling all the dangers of the practice, as has been done in the case of FGM.

In any case, we should be more vocal about problems facing men. Our suffering will not reduce by asking women to be less vocal about their own issues.

Budex40:
You are telling the Story of Female children out there not Boys. Its a shame society turns a blind eye to the predicarment of Boys who are victims of RAPE. Nobody is telling their own Story.

Agreed. But aren't boys better equipped to tell their own stories? Why not do it, if you have a story to tell. There is no need to get mad at girls for maintaining their own perspective.

Next move: employ less women. Because, let's face it, they have a company to run and productivity is important.

Dottore:
I tell you most solemnly, you don't know the angst and secret pain an unmarried lady in her 30s passes through let alone the ones being experienced by the ones in their mid 30s and above..

The pain is more when they come across their married mates, the pain is even worsened when they encounter their younger folks who are married with kids

Do u know that even the ones that married in their mid 30s are well aware of how their skin and body are less attractive when compared to ladies in their 20s not to talk of the fact that they are still apprehensive over their ability to conceive.
Compare the laps and arms of any lady in her 30s with the ones in their 20s and you'd understand what I'm talking about.

Forget about the social media smiles and so called feminist propagandists. These ladies are going through emotional hell.

Only gynecologists, priests, spiritualist, pastors and prophets can relate to this.
Argue with your keyboard

You seem to know the pain you speak about quite well. As if you experienced it first hand. Are you a woman in her late thirties? Or is this just wishful thinking?

What sort of short-sighted selfish narcissistic bullcrap are you preaching sef? People should marry, have children, buy themselves things? Such self-indulgent existence! Absolute Nonsense! Some people are actually more concerned with how they can use their talents to affect the world. That's their life's purpose. They don't want to distract themselves with pacifiers like spouses and children. Now, if you have nothing better to do, by all means marry. Populate the earth with numbers we don't need, and let someone else figure out how to solve the problems associated with overpopulation. But if you have a unique gift that actually improves humanity, do that and let no one tell you that you are not intrinsically valuable. They just want you to be as mediocre as they are.

Yes, Somehow we all want to remain relevant after we die. To leave our mark in the sands of time. Some people can achieve it with the work that they do. A book, an invention, a theory. It becomes immortal. Others have to procreate so that their name lives on for at least another generation and hope their children continue the lineage. Short leaps in time. Why do that when you can do better?

If marriage is sweet, enjoy it by yourself. Leave people who don't want to alone. The food you like can make another person purge.

Hey, OP......please do your best to ignore those stupid threads. Not everything is worth your attention. It's obvious that this section has been overrun by sexually frustrated human beings. A lot of them are just stupid hor.ny kids enjoying the opportunity to express themselves, and they are desperate to get a rise out of the ladies. Ignore them. If you want to be kind to both man and country, keep them in your prayers: as they get older, they will become wiser by his special grace. Accept the fact that freedom of speech makes for a filthy landscape, and do your best to sidestep the bullshiit.

Because being churchy is a requirement for wife material. And since men are the ones paying bride price, women comply. Most men who don't go to church would still want to marry women who are devout and predictable; even if they end up ridiculing her, she's still a safe(r) bet.

Rest in peace, legend.

I remember RESPECT, Say a little prayer (picked that up from My Best Friend's Wedding), Chain of fools, Natural woman, and Who's zoomin who..



Aretha Franklin~ " Who's Zoomin Who " �~ 1985
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Why didn't you ask her after you were done?

Quit before he sacks you. You are a distraction in the work place and you detract from productivity if the females keep ogling you. Look for a job were handsomeness can turn a profit for your organization.