₦airaland Forum

gift2xl:
This kind of attitude will take them no where, the system indeed is bad.

the system is bad and we should keep quiet for it to get worse abi?

Fiscus105:
If those ladies lower their WINDS, they would have forgotten about child bearing.

When they were 25-27, whole lot of Young guys who are single, are working as engineers, doctors, accountants, etc under their father, they would have easily married any of those guys and happily married, but since they must marry, superstars or trillionare, their time gone pass them.





Why is it so difficult to settle down for a lesser man and enjoy your life and marriage till your old age, still not clear to me.

When Toyin Abraham lower her wings, is she not enjoy her marriage now?

arindin

Is it about getting married or having a peaceful home. The other day one married her uber driver now she's dead.you can see the one trending now wey the husband almost killed her because of Jealousy. The toyin you're referencing you follow am live for house? so because a woman should marry she should just marry any fool

True true many of you deserve those werey baddies

omooba969:
More like some of you guys feel intimidated around accomplished ladies.

person never marry and in his little mind she's arrogant. How do you even have conversations with some of these unintelligent men sef

Wealthoptulent:
is SHE now AVAILABLE, topping LIST of whom to go NEXT, if she fit Be 2nd wifee sha, i no fit pursue my WIFE, we being thick and thing , i am already a MILLIONAIRE before TOLA is coming in, i just need UPGRADE class and be a BILLIONAIRE, real one no be 9ja type wey na every WEALTHY man una change to BILLI, from Jump!

delulu don posses you na hallucinations don remain. Otiyawerey

Ontarioo:
Relax, you're a little too paranoid for nothing.

na this I don't care behaviour na him make Chinese people dey enter us sotey them don gain ground now them don dey dominate our economy and commerce. Now them wan take style infiltrate our language and everybody dey siddon dry look.isokay na

Guestmale:
Some of them may also be among people here trying to make political points out of the issue.

you dey mind them

Ontarioo:
How's the country you're borrowing money from not better than you?? There's a good trade relationship going on between China and Nigeria currently. It's not everything that is "see finish". The same way in the US, some of our local musicians are studied in their university. If you have the opportunity, learn foreign language, that's a career on it own. I used to have a colleague that speaks Mandarin, dude got a job with Chinese people that came to Nigeria to invest in agriculture. His salary was around N1.5m . All he does was traveling around with them and translate.

ok what's the purpose of learning Chinese language. Who Chinese language epp? It's OK if you add it to the curriculum and make it optional. Which one bevsay na compulsory subject? British people colonise us,una still want Chinese people to colonise us again and Chinese people go dey enter you small small.next thing now they'll say they don't want English or pidgin English as official language, they want Chinese language as official language. This is rubbish abeg

Ontarioo:
Lol, that's a little price for our debt owed to them

what little debt.of all the hundreds of languages nigeria has and the 250 ethnic groups in nigeria na Chinese dey sweet una to learn.when una go ever get una priorities right for this country. Are the Chinese people learning igbo,hausa or yoruba in their educational curriculum. Abi una no see say na see finish be this.small time now Chinese people too go dey feel say they're better than us or doing us a favour

Angelfrost:
Well said... This is just the problem with most Nigerians.

Na we go destroy facilities, come later dey complain.

Such highly irresponsible citizens.

remember flooding around 2020 or so around lekki then.peoples TV,laptop, books ,chairs and documents were destroyed still them never still learn.investing millions of naira on mansions wey be say when rain fall e go destroy your N500 million buildings and everything inside. The worst are those who invest in shopping malls in that lekki area. When flooding comes (which is just a preamble) e go destroy all your properties without giving a damn how much you invested in it

Them don see traditional instructions finish but this type of issue them no dey put mouth since everyone is doing ego contest.

Angelfrost:
Well, the collateral cost of doing the needful won't be funny.

So many houses and businesses will have to go for Lagos and many states to attain the right drainage and flood control waterways.

even when they do drainage na still the same lagosians go dey pour empty plastic bottles and satchet of pure water inside the drainage. Why flooding no go come.you see those lekki area wey dey always smell of open canal despite the big houses na them I pity the most.when real aggressive rain come,everything inside their house go destroy. When nature wants to fight you for constant disregard and abuse, body go tell you.

In the 1st place yo see all those houses they build in lekki whether phase 1,2 or wherever nobody is supposed to be building houses around that area.all those areas are water prone areas

Lagosians are too filthy.their low concern towards public hygiene and environmental protection is super disgusting hence the consequences will always be flooding particularly during the raining season

Orisirisi. May God have mercy abi kilamawa so bayi

pocohantas:
Nah, they don't even think they can change him. They think they are that good __different and model women. Can't you see the guy you quoted has already concluded only a "manipulative" woman would find this hard? Ehen! That is exactly how they will manipulate one lady trying to prove she is different into marrying that guy.

InvertedHammer:
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That's his truth. They have their target audience.
The message is not intended for everyone especially those with functional brain and common sense.

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lol and grown up adults go dey believe him lamba even adults older than him

KingDashx:
Make them go face last division men team now.. them go collect

I no dey take women anything seriously

comon shut up there.as if your own life is to be taken seriously.always trying to water down women's effort in any slight chance

pocohantas:
Nah, they don't even think they can change him. They think they are that good __different and model women. Can't you see the guy you quoted has already concluded only a "manipulative" woman would find this hard? Ehen! That is exactly how they will manipulate one lady trying to prove she is different into marrying that guy.

of course na.with the multitude of ignorant women all over the place you will still see one who is indoctrinated with the demon of pickmesha and when she complains mummy G.o will tell her to pray and fast for him

Kobojunkie:
. In a sense, these women were raised by society at large to become robots for these narcissistic individuals to prey on. I kind of don't blame them at all; I do blame their parents, particularly the mothers who keep throwing them out there as fodder for these predators.

person come out with his full chest tell social media people he has full scale narcissism tendencies with all that ridiculous demands/expectations but as usual pickmeshas and religious women will see a walking danger and say what God cannot do doesn't exist. Of course I know God is limitless but he gave us a brain,intuition and acess to knowledge and the bible so that we can recognise devils in human form and avoid it but religious women will see someone showing signs of psychopathy, violence, and mentally unstable personality and say ",I'll pray for him" him mama no pray for am ,na you wan pray for werey alawoku under the guilt tripping of it rains everywhere, nobody is perfect etc.

Sonnobax15:

At least he's being real......But unfortunately,most Nigerian bannies will never want to date a guy like him...They prefer who they can easily manipulate and turn to their puppets to dating an alpha male who will highlight his principles to her .....

By the way, why's the commenter right before me angry with the poster?

that is not being real. That is being animalistic, controlling and narcissistic. I can never support any bad behaviour from any gender.but I know pickmeshas wey no get sense full nigeria. Them go wan chook head thinking that they can change him until them collect hot breakfast and join the baby mama que. Infact na woman wey them don swear for go gree live with am

Lmaooo general idi amin


werey re o.make him kuku marry him mama ,robot or buy dog put for house.though some of his demands are reasonable but most just shows lack of common sense,emotional intelligence ,decency and empathy

The ones that are reasonable: no wearing of thirst trap clothes or posting private moments on social media or having male friends

Unreasonable ones: no social media other than WhatsApp, no friends, don't give me attitude, etc.men like this are narcissistic.

mightyhazel:
60m vehicle..
Just by whining lazy Nigerian youths. Congratulations

you get

Nigerians are easy to deceive that's why politicians and religious leaders are making money off the ignorance of Nigerians

floss:
I use to laugh at people that believe this guy talking cho cho cho online

Him always condemning people buying houses and cars as them committing a financial mistake or even spending on women…

But people don’t understand that his words are only coming from a place of lack and not being looked at by women, so he started acting like he’s all wise…

As a man, if you don’t know how to say NO as a person, you’re very weak … you don’t need Geh Geh because he’s a clout chaser

he's passing important messages albeit in a comic way while riling up people. It's very similar to what vdm does

This boy na real comedian. Anyway he says a lot of things that make sense even though we all know he's playing with the emotions of naija men and telling them what they want to hear so he will make money off massaging their ego.anyway drop one of ghe ghes favourite quote if you love him

Mine is :for nigeria, toto na sand,for UK,toto na crude oyel

If woman get money, men no go see toto f#k

I am a financial expert.learn from people experience. It's the best way make your life easier if not you go cry had I know,the last comment of a fool

Ok but on a serious note, if women listen to him removing their emotions and ego he's actually saying things that will liberate them from commercialising their sexuality and making them behave in ways that men will respect them.i really like that guy.he will make a good brother, father and uncle

Caaz:
Iya wura,abiii,i dont find this man sexually attractive one bit....reasons why i prefer plier to boris.

lol him belle be like septic tank and I'm surprised he doesn't have a problem with his body

There's something my mom used to say if you strip yourself naked and you look in the mirror whether as a man or woman and you don't like what you see,you better enter the gym.

This guy cannot walk properly or sit comfortably. He has to ope his thighs to be able to walk and none of his family or friends is able to summon courage to tell him morbid obesity is dangerous. He no go even fit f#k or cumm sef .any woman wey get lie on top he go be like say elephant lie on top dog during missionary

Moreover if he get money and he's looking like that how he go come be if he no get money

All those girls wey dey allow am raise their lapd up dey try o

Like baby mama like husband. No go enter gym you hear

Small time you no go be able to do missionary style because body go dey heavy you and not to talk about your giant belle wey go don cover your John thomas

Kobojunkie:
You dey mind those ones. Na poverty mentally reduce them to that level wey dem dey always believe say women need to be brought down for their egoz to rise.

na who allowed herself to be brought down na she go dey see film

Kobojunkie:
1. Why is she an Olosho when she is not harming anyone with what are her personal choices? We need to quit labeling women who don't hold on to our equally ridiculous standards as bad women. She simply has more men after her and chooses to rangle them the best way she knows to.

2. You mean the reserved and homely victims girls whom men love to keep as wives at home while they go out running after this very kind of girl you label as bad? Stop turning girls into fodder for men whose major desire is to use them for free labor to build themselves all so they can continue to go after and enjoy girls like the OP.

3. This girl is the main type of girl many Nigerian men prefer; the submissive, humble, nice girls —wife materials—are instead girls men love to use as slaves and victims, or as someone called them, wife appliances, mined for free domestic labor and additional banging.

I am describing what naija men interprete different kinds of women as

Angelfrost:
Sigh... Banana Republic!

This is what you get when Agberos run the government.

Land of savages.

when agbero show you shege and makes driving, parking or even moving around difficult for you you will understand why they did that. Na be a you never be victim of accident caused by agbero na why you dey speak English