₦airaland Forum

dann190:
This is disheartening and repulsive, when will we as a people grow? At this age and time, we still burn our fellow human beings alive? God, how did we get here, this is madness

na because agbero never do you strong thing na why you dey type grammar

Lmaoo these are the types of women many of you men deserve this days

You will see church girls,o this one na retired olosho. Na because she dey find husband she come

You see reserved and homely good girl.this one no know anything she no get sense.make I just run am street,f#k her once ot twice,give am belle and japa

Career woman this one no go dey submissive. Make I just chop her money and pretend to love her

So as all the girls don dey damaged finish you're left with no choice than to settle for baddies and vultures. You truly deserve the women you get.many of you don't appreciate, respect or value decent women with morals and the ones wey still get shame.na the shameless ones wey dey shake yash for Internet, druggies and chain smokers una dey always hype.

hoygift:
But if you look well she no beg am true true, some guys no fit talk, read body language, them just carry that mentality say if you spend money on woman she go automatically love you. Even in the stone age it was never like that.

lol so ghe ghe was right all along.this guy just used his life to prove ghe ghe right

Ashirioluwa:
This is not new. Whether true or not, every successful man has a story to tell.

una no dey ever appreciate good women na why omo wobe full everywhere

sofiscatedmoron:
Na she Dey provide the money you use fry burns?



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Una don dey carry your foolishness, greed and stupidity to oyo.abeg make una leave una madness for lagos, abuja and portharcourt o

TheStranger:
Just watch out, the police public relations officer will heap the blame on the driver

if we must be sincere the both of them are wrong. By the way the police may collect suspension for his unprofessional behaviour.aside his unprofessional behaviour what that policeman did is super risky

Thank God o.no mannerless boys with nasty comments

Him mama don wash this boy very well.him mama don waka well for am

freeborn02:
This one go pain broke, low-life, i-never-chop girls.

of course

If you lazy and your job description is to be depending on a man.anything wey your eye see take am like that

This one go sweet honey broke boys

Ladies too try to dey get self respect. Wetin you no fit chop no dey smell am

Mariangeles:
Words of wisdom.
I've always believed that people are a gift, and they can come in different forms.
Even your soulmate can come in the form of a friend.

You're right but a lot of Nigerians have this myopic mindset.they believe once he's not otedola or adenuga or he's not projecting billionaire status or personality he's not my destiny helper.they rather gravitate towards people who look outwardly flashy meanwhile your destiny helper may just be wearing jeans and t-shirt looking and acting simple but because he doesn't look the part people tend to unknowingly ignore,disrespect or look down on them.infact people who God has used to help me I notice that they don't look the part.infact I didn't even believe I wil be talking to them.

Some are secretary, some are okada riders. The guy who helped me looked for an accommodation when I was in school and had accommodation issues was an okada rider,the person who gave me shelter to lay my head when I got back from a party very late in the night was a market maiguard, the person God used in connecting me to my job was a teacher I Met in a canteen but you see many of these gen zs they're very daft.if I'm not driving a wagon or giving off the obi cubana vibe they assume he/she is of no value. They always pretend to be intelligent and have sense until you draw them close before you see say many of them nor too dey intelligent and are quick to discard or look down on people who they assume are not capable of helping them because they don't look like the image they have in their head. I'll give you an example. There's one genz boy that used to work in our organisation. He doesn't work there again at the moment. I and everyone at home started liking him because he used to take care of my mom and was very patient and affectionate with my mom when she was old and sick but as soon as he didn't work in our institution again started giving one annoying attitude and everyone noticed it.unknown to this boy he wasn't even aware we were planning to help him get a better job that he will earn 3 times his salary.it was much later we discovered that he has gotten a job on his own which is nothing compared to the salary he will have been getting if he got the job we were working out for him and speaking to a certain permanent secretary. We now figured that no wonder he's been acting funny.so because he thinks my mom is OK now he can deserve to give everyone attitude so unwanted to tell him,my older sibling say make I leave am dey look am till he do himself. Afterall we all know the result of an ignorant proud person.the work went to someone else that should have been him. Even other opportunities he should be getting he thinks he doesn't need anyone's help.now economy don hook everyone he no get liver ask for anything or cook anything. Na biscuit amd mineral he dey chop

If you are lucky to marry a good man or woman in this generation please keep him or her like gold.dont misbehave or think if you misbehave and the person is tolerating you it will be like that forever or there are many fishes in the river .if such a person moves,there's no going back and you will never find a good person again .one thing I've noticed with good people (men or women) if you are lucky to have them as work colleagues, friends, lovers, family members etc is that they're very tolerant and understanding even when you're disrespectful. They take your apology a 100 times even when they know you are not genuinely sorry and will repeat the actions again but when they decide to walk out, it's over.

You will only live in regret,anger and bitterness.nothing will make you have acess to such a person again but again I notice a lot of Nigerians come across good people and angels in the form of friends,husband, wife,children, siblings, your secondary school teacher, your roommate,your colleague at work,lecturer, father,mother,church member, pastor, alfa or bank worker. God is always kind enough to send an angel on the form of humans at a particular stage of our lives but I've seen a lot of Nigerians unknowingly disrespect their destiny helpers because he or she doesn't appear in designer clothing or look flashy. They always use stup1d ego and pride to destroy opportunities they could have benefited from good people who are by the way becoming scarce

What kind of obsessive clinging to power is this? This is not normal.it looks like psychopathy.i thought when elders grow older in age they're not interested in power or being in the spotlight.they just want to live a quiet retirement life and relax in their legacy while watching their chil amd grandchildren blossom and flourish. At that age I am interested in mentoring ,counselling, impacting, mothering all the children i come in contact with ,philanthropy and travelling to all the countries I didn't have the opportunity to travel,giving to communities and living a life God is happy with as well as a life of legacy.

You see this unchecked narcissism and psychopathy,if it goes on without being curbed,africa will be having men and women that are entitled, self absorbed,unkind, unreasonable, unempathetic because at 80 some just give me 1 reason why you still think you want to run for office.if you know you did well you should have successors that will Continue where you stopped.

jaszplus12:
Stop sweating oga, is it your pregnancy? Or you're hoping to be the nanny, or babysitter? Haha!!

lmao keep using paracetamol for tokes headache

You go cry taya.so clearly na envy be this

jaszplus12:
I think you are the impossible one here, who's preventing her from getting married? Did we say she should not experience motherhood? All we are saying is, don't feel you're going to defy the norm so easily, it's going to be an uphill task!

oga rest.you are not a woman. You don't have womb or vagina, you don't menstruate or deal with hormonal issues so if you're not happy that she's a mother, if her new motherhood status is paining you, it will pain you till die.shes now a mother an there's nothing you can do about it .stop getting angry at others celebration and if you want to use panadol for tokes headache ride on

Abi she beg you for money for diapers or antenatal

saviourGeorge:
No matter how hard it was when we broke up
Sometimes I'll still want to hear their voice
I can't imagine myself turning down a call from someone I once loved

when I read machiavellian principles it changed my ideology concerning human beings and any type of relationship. For people who still have deep feelings like you,rule number one: in any relationship be it work,family, intimate relationship or social relationship, always train your mind to be stronger than your feelings

Rule number 2: understand that your emotions is not your friend,your logic is. Go and reminisce anytime you make any decisions emotionally it always puts you in trouble but when you make logical decisions,,you end up being the victor.logical decisions will sometimes make you the villian in another person's story but it saves you a lot of drama, messiness and a complicated life especially when you are involved with a man.

Go and check the lives of women that married or dated for love or s3x and the ones that dated with their common sense intact and with strategy,check who lives a better quality of life and whose children go to good schools.


Let me paint an analogy for you.your emotions is like drinking carbonated drinks everyday. It's feels good to your taste buds when you take it but in the long run it's bad for your body and we'll being or future

Your logic is like taking bitter herbs ,exercising or taking tasteless fruits vegetables. It might taste and look unattractive ,the gyming may come with body pains but in the long run it will give you a beautiful body,lifestyle and a future.you see the difference. Taking logical decisions are usually painful but it's necessary if you no want a complicated life

jaszplus12:
Anyone who hasn't understood your perspective has not opened his eyes to see what's happening with the black community in places like the USA! Many single mothers roaming around leaving "fatherless" children going down the road to perdition!
Some say we're "hating" on a successful woman! Hmmmmm...I smile in Xhosa!

ok so wetin make she do as she no see husband? Why does everything a woman does angers some of you? As she no see wedding shey make she no experience the joy of motherhood again? Some of you are so impossible

Harddiskng:
Some people would think you are just dashing and hating but it is proven fact that single parenthood is a menace to the society.

These children are being affected psychologically, and they have high tendency (fact) towards crime. I get it when middle aged women have no option then to get pregnant but then when we do stop to think of the impact on the children and it corrupts the society at large.

judge nigeria which one is better. Single and childless for the rest of her life or Single with a child. You all judge women for everything. You even judge them for being virgins..una mater just taya me

simpleseyi:
Celebrating Fornication. No marriage, just pregnancy, just like Linda Ikeji whose baby daddy is still in contest till date

go and get her arrested if you don't like her decision or her decision is affecting your life.if woman born,problem, if she no born wahala

motionarena:
Shame?
You naija men should stop this disgusting of being hateful of women success

Someone got pregnant for the at age of 40+ and does a baby shower and you are here being hateful

stop being surprised. Is it news to you that the nigerian society in itself is misogynistic and the men come here to display their hatred and contempt for women.if someone shows he clearly hates you will you be struggling or angry or bothered about why he hates you or make decisions that protects yourself from his venom,hatred and toxicity.when a group of people have shown over the years through their words and consistent actions that they hate women will you still be trying to impress or convince them to like you?

There's nothing you can do about their hatred but there's everything you can do to protect yourself from the effects of their hatred.i remember before she got pregnant they were shaming her for not getting married, how menopause has caught up with her,how she will never be able to have a baby. Now she has a baby they're still shaming her for having a baby. So what does that tell you? if you like kill your mother for them they'll still shame you.you better live your life like you own it

There's even a yoruba saying that says there's nothing you want to do to a hateful and envious person that will make him like you. If like remove your intestines for him,godge out your eyes for him,he will still hate you and see you as less human so its an exercise in futility. Don't bother

During our time we were and our host didn't even want me to leave but you see some of this new generation corpers, they have a disturbing amd unattractive character, weak mental and emotional stamina, entitled, they think everybody owes them everything and they owe the world no contribution.sexual control when they see little girls around them or under their jurisdiction. That's another story I don't want to go into but anyway many of they keep portraying childish, immature actions they'll keep seeing people speaking to them disrespectfully and looking at them as youngsters.na today corper I go see wey go sag trousers wear go place of primary assignment with his unclean boxers showing and he's expecting people to take him seriously or give him respect at work.

The other day a colleague in another branch was gisting me about one funny corper who will be writing 2 for to bkuz for because inside official documents.one will leave her place of primary assignment, abandon thr work she was given and go and be crying under the tree and calling her mother on the phone that she wants to go home.wo too many to type here jare

Abeg Universities should start graduating adults and we'll equipped graduates that can chest work place pressure not the ones acting like they're in jss3

Ok.congratulations to the couple

So na lamba you wan give us chop this Monday afternoon. Mr man get busy

You sef rest and go low key.nobody is ready to give you compassion that you are expecting. You're complaining to low key lustful and misogynistic men that want a taste of your brez

Nawa. Make them continue. You guys go dey alright

Tilubu

bazoodo:
Of course they know she'll likely counter sue in a civil suit and she will definitely win big time.

counter sur my big fat yash. The person wey she slam fire extinguisher for head nko abi thr air hostess she slapped multiple time,them too should sur na make we see who go collect.keep supporting violent behavior. So because she be woman and you don see bobbi, you nor get sense again

This is a predatory behaviour. Women marry your age mate.which 1 be say you go dey nack your younger brother age mate.no wonder all this small boys with sagging trousers and skinny legs have no respect for women clearly older than them when the women too will not respect themselves. The other day tiwa savage was making s3ual moves on stage in public with wizkid,why wizkid no go see am finish.as a woman sef if you have too much masculine energy and not leave things that belong to men's circle for men na see finish e go bring. Na men dey marry or date younger women not women marrying younger men

Must you publicise your personal decisions? The moment you realise you don't owe anyone any explanation whether you have kids or not as a spinster the better for you

Wait first how did she know it was A.I generated.even though the boyfriend too should have been more intentional