₦airaland Forum

pocohantas:
Nah, they don't even think they can change him. They think they are that good __different and model women. Can't you see the guy you quoted has already concluded only a "manipulative" woman would find this hard? Ehen! That is exactly how they will manipulate one lady trying to prove she is different into marrying that guy.

of course na.with the multitude of ignorant women all over the place you will still see one who is indoctrinated with the demon of pickmesha and when she complains mummy G.o will tell her to pray and fast for him

Kobojunkie:
. In a sense, these women were raised by society at large to become robots for these narcissistic individuals to prey on. I kind of don't blame them at all; I do blame their parents, particularly the mothers who keep throwing them out there as fodder for these predators.

person come out with his full chest tell social media people he has full scale narcissism tendencies with all that ridiculous demands/expectations but as usual pickmeshas and religious women will see a walking danger and say what God cannot do doesn't exist. Of course I know God is limitless but he gave us a brain,intuition and acess to knowledge and the bible so that we can recognise devils in human form and avoid it but religious women will see someone showing signs of psychopathy, violence, and mentally unstable personality and say ",I'll pray for him" him mama no pray for am ,na you wan pray for werey alawoku under the guilt tripping of it rains everywhere, nobody is perfect etc.

Sonnobax15:

At least he's being real......But unfortunately,most Nigerian bannies will never want to date a guy like him...They prefer who they can easily manipulate and turn to their puppets to dating an alpha male who will highlight his principles to her .....

By the way, why's the commenter right before me angry with the poster?

that is not being real. That is being animalistic, controlling and narcissistic. I can never support any bad behaviour from any gender.but I know pickmeshas wey no get sense full nigeria. Them go wan chook head thinking that they can change him until them collect hot breakfast and join the baby mama que. Infact na woman wey them don swear for go gree live with am

Lmaooo general idi amin


werey re o.make him kuku marry him mama ,robot or buy dog put for house.though some of his demands are reasonable but most just shows lack of common sense,emotional intelligence ,decency and empathy

The ones that are reasonable: no wearing of thirst trap clothes or posting private moments on social media or having male friends

Unreasonable ones: no social media other than WhatsApp, no friends, don't give me attitude, etc.men like this are narcissistic.

mightyhazel:
60m vehicle..
Just by whining lazy Nigerian youths. Congratulations

you get

Nigerians are easy to deceive that's why politicians and religious leaders are making money off the ignorance of Nigerians

floss:
I use to laugh at people that believe this guy talking cho cho cho online

Him always condemning people buying houses and cars as them committing a financial mistake or even spending on women…

But people don’t understand that his words are only coming from a place of lack and not being looked at by women, so he started acting like he’s all wise…

As a man, if you don’t know how to say NO as a person, you’re very weak … you don’t need Geh Geh because he’s a clout chaser

he's passing important messages albeit in a comic way while riling up people. It's very similar to what vdm does

This boy na real comedian. Anyway he says a lot of things that make sense even though we all know he's playing with the emotions of naija men and telling them what they want to hear so he will make money off massaging their ego.anyway drop one of ghe ghes favourite quote if you love him

Mine is :for nigeria, toto na sand,for UK,toto na crude oyel

If woman get money, men no go see toto f#k

I am a financial expert.learn from people experience. It's the best way make your life easier if not you go cry had I know,the last comment of a fool

Ok but on a serious note, if women listen to him removing their emotions and ego he's actually saying things that will liberate them from commercialising their sexuality and making them behave in ways that men will respect them.i really like that guy.he will make a good brother, father and uncle

Caaz:
Iya wura,abiii,i dont find this man sexually attractive one bit....reasons why i prefer plier to boris.

lol him belle be like septic tank and I'm surprised he doesn't have a problem with his body

There's something my mom used to say if you strip yourself naked and you look in the mirror whether as a man or woman and you don't like what you see,you better enter the gym.

This guy cannot walk properly or sit comfortably. He has to ope his thighs to be able to walk and none of his family or friends is able to summon courage to tell him morbid obesity is dangerous. He no go even fit f#k or cumm sef .any woman wey get lie on top he go be like say elephant lie on top dog during missionary

Moreover if he get money and he's looking like that how he go come be if he no get money

All those girls wey dey allow am raise their lapd up dey try o

Like baby mama like husband. No go enter gym you hear

Small time you no go be able to do missionary style because body go dey heavy you and not to talk about your giant belle wey go don cover your John thomas

Kobojunkie:
You dey mind those ones. Na poverty mentally reduce them to that level wey dem dey always believe say women need to be brought down for their egoz to rise.

na who allowed herself to be brought down na she go dey see film

Kobojunkie:
1. Why is she an Olosho when she is not harming anyone with what are her personal choices? We need to quit labeling women who don't hold on to our equally ridiculous standards as bad women. She simply has more men after her and chooses to rangle them the best way she knows to.

2. You mean the reserved and homely victims girls whom men love to keep as wives at home while they go out running after this very kind of girl you label as bad? Stop turning girls into fodder for men whose major desire is to use them for free labor to build themselves all so they can continue to go after and enjoy girls like the OP.

3. This girl is the main type of girl many Nigerian men prefer; the submissive, humble, nice girls —wife materials—are instead girls men love to use as slaves and victims, or as someone called them, wife appliances, mined for free domestic labor and additional banging.

I am describing what naija men interprete different kinds of women as

Angelfrost:
Sigh... Banana Republic!

This is what you get when Agberos run the government.

Land of savages.

when agbero show you shege and makes driving, parking or even moving around difficult for you you will understand why they did that. Na be a you never be victim of accident caused by agbero na why you dey speak English

dann190:
This is disheartening and repulsive, when will we as a people grow? At this age and time, we still burn our fellow human beings alive? God, how did we get here, this is madness

na because agbero never do you strong thing na why you dey type grammar

Lmaoo these are the types of women many of you men deserve this days

You will see church girls,o this one na retired olosho. Na because she dey find husband she come

You see reserved and homely good girl.this one no know anything she no get sense.make I just run am street,f#k her once ot twice,give am belle and japa

Career woman this one no go dey submissive. Make I just chop her money and pretend to love her

So as all the girls don dey damaged finish you're left with no choice than to settle for baddies and vultures. You truly deserve the women you get.many of you don't appreciate, respect or value decent women with morals and the ones wey still get shame.na the shameless ones wey dey shake yash for Internet, druggies and chain smokers una dey always hype.

hoygift:
But if you look well she no beg am true true, some guys no fit talk, read body language, them just carry that mentality say if you spend money on woman she go automatically love you. Even in the stone age it was never like that.

lol so ghe ghe was right all along.this guy just used his life to prove ghe ghe right

Ashirioluwa:
This is not new. Whether true or not, every successful man has a story to tell.

una no dey ever appreciate good women na why omo wobe full everywhere

sofiscatedmoron:
Na she Dey provide the money you use fry burns?



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Una don dey carry your foolishness, greed and stupidity to oyo.abeg make una leave una madness for lagos, abuja and portharcourt o

TheStranger:
Just watch out, the police public relations officer will heap the blame on the driver

if we must be sincere the both of them are wrong. By the way the police may collect suspension for his unprofessional behaviour.aside his unprofessional behaviour what that policeman did is super risky

Thank God o.no mannerless boys with nasty comments

Him mama don wash this boy very well.him mama don waka well for am

freeborn02:
This one go pain broke, low-life, i-never-chop girls.

of course

If you lazy and your job description is to be depending on a man.anything wey your eye see take am like that

This one go sweet honey broke boys

Ladies too try to dey get self respect. Wetin you no fit chop no dey smell am

Mariangeles:
Words of wisdom.
I've always believed that people are a gift, and they can come in different forms.
Even your soulmate can come in the form of a friend.

You're right but a lot of Nigerians have this myopic mindset.they believe once he's not otedola or adenuga or he's not projecting billionaire status or personality he's not my destiny helper.they rather gravitate towards people who look outwardly flashy meanwhile your destiny helper may just be wearing jeans and t-shirt looking and acting simple but because he doesn't look the part people tend to unknowingly ignore,disrespect or look down on them.infact people who God has used to help me I notice that they don't look the part.infact I didn't even believe I wil be talking to them.

Some are secretary, some are okada riders. The guy who helped me looked for an accommodation when I was in school and had accommodation issues was an okada rider,the person who gave me shelter to lay my head when I got back from a party very late in the night was a market maiguard, the person God used in connecting me to my job was a teacher I Met in a canteen but you see many of these gen zs they're very daft.if I'm not driving a wagon or giving off the obi cubana vibe they assume he/she is of no value. They always pretend to be intelligent and have sense until you draw them close before you see say many of them nor too dey intelligent and are quick to discard or look down on people who they assume are not capable of helping them because they don't look like the image they have in their head. I'll give you an example. There's one genz boy that used to work in our organisation. He doesn't work there again at the moment. I and everyone at home started liking him because he used to take care of my mom and was very patient and affectionate with my mom when she was old and sick but as soon as he didn't work in our institution again started giving one annoying attitude and everyone noticed it.unknown to this boy he wasn't even aware we were planning to help him get a better job that he will earn 3 times his salary.it was much later we discovered that he has gotten a job on his own which is nothing compared to the salary he will have been getting if he got the job we were working out for him and speaking to a certain permanent secretary. We now figured that no wonder he's been acting funny.so because he thinks my mom is OK now he can deserve to give everyone attitude so unwanted to tell him,my older sibling say make I leave am dey look am till he do himself. Afterall we all know the result of an ignorant proud person.the work went to someone else that should have been him. Even other opportunities he should be getting he thinks he doesn't need anyone's help.now economy don hook everyone he no get liver ask for anything or cook anything. Na biscuit amd mineral he dey chop

If you are lucky to marry a good man or woman in this generation please keep him or her like gold.dont misbehave or think if you misbehave and the person is tolerating you it will be like that forever or there are many fishes in the river .if such a person moves,there's no going back and you will never find a good person again .one thing I've noticed with good people (men or women) if you are lucky to have them as work colleagues, friends, lovers, family members etc is that they're very tolerant and understanding even when you're disrespectful. They take your apology a 100 times even when they know you are not genuinely sorry and will repeat the actions again but when they decide to walk out, it's over.

You will only live in regret,anger and bitterness.nothing will make you have acess to such a person again but again I notice a lot of Nigerians come across good people and angels in the form of friends,husband, wife,children, siblings, your secondary school teacher, your roommate,your colleague at work,lecturer, father,mother,church member, pastor, alfa or bank worker. God is always kind enough to send an angel on the form of humans at a particular stage of our lives but I've seen a lot of Nigerians unknowingly disrespect their destiny helpers because he or she doesn't appear in designer clothing or look flashy. They always use stup1d ego and pride to destroy opportunities they could have benefited from good people who are by the way becoming scarce

What kind of obsessive clinging to power is this? This is not normal.it looks like psychopathy.i thought when elders grow older in age they're not interested in power or being in the spotlight.they just want to live a quiet retirement life and relax in their legacy while watching their chil amd grandchildren blossom and flourish. At that age I am interested in mentoring ,counselling, impacting, mothering all the children i come in contact with ,philanthropy and travelling to all the countries I didn't have the opportunity to travel,giving to communities and living a life God is happy with as well as a life of legacy.

You see this unchecked narcissism and psychopathy,if it goes on without being curbed,africa will be having men and women that are entitled, self absorbed,unkind, unreasonable, unempathetic because at 80 some just give me 1 reason why you still think you want to run for office.if you know you did well you should have successors that will Continue where you stopped.

jaszplus12:
Stop sweating oga, is it your pregnancy? Or you're hoping to be the nanny, or babysitter? Haha!!

lmao keep using paracetamol for tokes headache

You go cry taya.so clearly na envy be this

jaszplus12:
I think you are the impossible one here, who's preventing her from getting married? Did we say she should not experience motherhood? All we are saying is, don't feel you're going to defy the norm so easily, it's going to be an uphill task!

oga rest.you are not a woman. You don't have womb or vagina, you don't menstruate or deal with hormonal issues so if you're not happy that she's a mother, if her new motherhood status is paining you, it will pain you till die.shes now a mother an there's nothing you can do about it .stop getting angry at others celebration and if you want to use panadol for tokes headache ride on

Abi she beg you for money for diapers or antenatal

saviourGeorge:
No matter how hard it was when we broke up
Sometimes I'll still want to hear their voice
I can't imagine myself turning down a call from someone I once loved

when I read machiavellian principles it changed my ideology concerning human beings and any type of relationship. For people who still have deep feelings like you,rule number one: in any relationship be it work,family, intimate relationship or social relationship, always train your mind to be stronger than your feelings

Rule number 2: understand that your emotions is not your friend,your logic is. Go and reminisce anytime you make any decisions emotionally it always puts you in trouble but when you make logical decisions,,you end up being the victor.logical decisions will sometimes make you the villian in another person's story but it saves you a lot of drama, messiness and a complicated life especially when you are involved with a man.

Go and check the lives of women that married or dated for love or s3x and the ones that dated with their common sense intact and with strategy,check who lives a better quality of life and whose children go to good schools.


Let me paint an analogy for you.your emotions is like drinking carbonated drinks everyday. It's feels good to your taste buds when you take it but in the long run it's bad for your body and we'll being or future

Your logic is like taking bitter herbs ,exercising or taking tasteless fruits vegetables. It might taste and look unattractive ,the gyming may come with body pains but in the long run it will give you a beautiful body,lifestyle and a future.you see the difference. Taking logical decisions are usually painful but it's necessary if you no want a complicated life