Family › Re: Unlearning Toxic Nigerian Parenting Habits: A Call For Change by SAMBARRY: 6:55am On Apr 24, 2025*. Modified: 7:16am On Apr 24, 2025 |
Many parents who are in their 60s upwards especially the men are full scale narcissists and they don't even realise it.they want respect to the point of human worship but they're not ready or interested in giving back the respect they demand. The way they even fight for respect is super disgusting and a turn off.i saw one yesterday when I was talking with a friend and I was intentionally elongating the discussion with friend so he can go because he has thi annoying habit of always talking to people he considers younger in a condescending way. I no even know say he dey wait for me for junction because he was so thirsty for a conversation and he said "sambarry did you not see me" I had to give him a fake smile and apology and keep it moving because he was already creating a scene and raising his voice ,reporting me to everyone that cared to listen.normally greeting him or any elder is not a problem. Infact I usually give elders their due respect and honour but when you start acting brash,lousy and entitled omo I give the elder space .this is one thing a lot of senior citizens in their 60s upwards don't realise.
Respect is like trust, you cannot fight someone to give you, if you do you end up raising pretenders/actors as children or subordinates and that's why many of them greet their bosses or senior citizens with pretense, no genuine honour for them and then wink their nose behind them.
I'll give another example .if we are in a bus and there's no sit available and there's a senior citizen around (I mean 60 years upwards) I will naturally stand up (without him asking ) and say sir/ma please sit down.i will give him my sit willingly but if you come and say " hey stand up,I have children like you.why should I be standing and you're sitting,children of this generation yady yady yady.wallahi I will never stand up because you are fighting for respect without giving it.thats why thei6 children will be pretending for them and be forming Saint but the moment they leave their parents house, they exhibit their own full character because they don't even respect their own children.
If you want to know how narcissistic parents of 60s upwards are,you just finish university and not get a job under their roof. You go dey drink insults morning and night they'll talk down on you in public and private. They can even slap you in public sef.some of them ate good parents but a handful of them are very very much narcissistic |
Crime › Re: Police Arrests 40-year Old Woman Over Rape Of 12-year Old Pupil In Bauchi by SAMBARRY: 10:20pm On Apr 22, 2025 |
Haaa |
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Celebrities › Re: Hushpuppi Lived Life, He’s My Friend. He’s Coming Out From Jail Soon - Davido by SAMBARRY: 12:44pm On Apr 22, 2025 |
A criminal is your friend? Davido choose your friends ans words wisely. If you enter problem (I hope not) that you will know a good name is better than silver and gold |
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Christianity Etc › Re: What Does Easter Mean To You? by SAMBARRY: 7:29am On Apr 20, 2025 |
Thank God |
Christianity Etc › Re: Happy Easter 2025 by SAMBARRY: 7:27am On Apr 20, 2025 |
I wish you the same.na iyabo ojo wey dey shove her daughters wedding pictures and videos all over Internet we dey watch since yesterday |
Romance › Re: Ghanaian Man Cries Bitterly After Being Dumped By Girl He Sponsored (Photos) by SAMBARRY: 4:26pm On Apr 19, 2025 |
Kayluka100: I remembered when I was dating a girl in my 100 level years.when we are having a discussion and I told her is not my responsibility to pay her school fees or buy her handout that is her parents responsibility that I can only help if she need assistance Na so she broke up with me See this one now How will you sponsor a girl in school when you haven't marry her yet ok so you intended to be fxvikg her free.no marriage,no money.lol.funny guys . |
Celebrities › Re: Papaya Ex’s Dress To Priscilla Ojo's Wedding Got Nigerians Talking (photos) by SAMBARRY: 11:00am On Apr 19, 2025 |
FORWARDEVERLY: The marriage will still crash ...... Gyal wey dn do 3some with em mama... Dey play evidence please or keep your envious mouth to yourself |
Celebrities › Re: Bought Portable Vs Speed Darlington Livestream Ticket — But No Fight (na Scam?) by SAMBARRY: 5:57am On Apr 19, 2025 |
You yourself you're a clown.you don't have anything to do with your money and time.so you paid to watch 2 schizophrenic patients fight. Something is equally wrong with you |
Celebrities › Re: "It’s Just Content, Not Love" – Jarvis Speaks On Relationship With Peller by SAMBARRY: 12:20pm On Apr 18, 2025 |
Mshewww 2 teenagers constituting nuisance on the Internet |
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Celebrities › Re: Papaya Ex’s Dress To Priscilla Ojo's Wedding Got Nigerians Talking (photos) by SAMBARRY: 8:31pm On Apr 17, 2025 |
UncleKoboko: The bastarɗ OLOSHO learn work well from her queen mWHOREda wedding don finish, hateful Bitterleaf men dey cry because they expected her to loose so they can say we talk am but God disappointed their evil expectations now them dey cry everywhere  |
Celebrities › Re: Papaya Ex’s Dress To Priscilla Ojo's Wedding Got Nigerians Talking (photos) by SAMBARRY: 8:27pm On Apr 17, 2025 |
illuminutty: Normal Yoruba beeech being a typical loose Yoruba wh0re. lol because she no marry naija man, she marry Tanzanian man,them dey cry everywhere  Once it's no about them you go dey see tantrums everywhere  |
Celebrities › Re: Papaya Ex’s Dress To Priscilla Ojo's Wedding Got Nigerians Talking (photos) by SAMBARRY: 8:26pm On Apr 17, 2025 |
FORWARDEVERLY: The Good thing about this is that they go divorce like her mom too.... Awon woke foóls... hateful,resentful, bitterleaf men everywhere the moment they see women celebrating and happy but if it was a news where 2 women were fighting over a man,was arrested or r@ped body go dey sweet una Pele She's being celebrated rejoice with her or kero your bile to yourself |
Celebrities › Re: Papaya Ex’s Dress To Priscilla Ojo's Wedding Got Nigerians Talking (photos) by SAMBARRY: 8:18pm On Apr 17, 2025 |
SultanOfPuna: Priscillia Ojo will go any length to make her boring wedding trend.
I can bet my 2 balls that this was a planned act to gather social media buzz and hype. And make people talk about it. She is reallly desprste to trend the wedding.
Twitter cho cho have seen food for engagement. Soon the wedding starts trending on twitter.
Its all a stunt.. hian.see hate |
Politics › Re: 300m Is A Gift - Rufai Oseni Backs NBA As Others Oppose Him On Tv (video) by SAMBARRY: 5:02pm On Apr 16, 2025 |
jamafa: It's not about APC or Tinubu here.
Use Ur sense
Most of you Obi supporters don't want DX country to work.
Is 300M gift??
Gift for what?? to buy meatpie and coke  |
Politics › Re: 300m Is A Gift - Rufai Oseni Backs NBA As Others Oppose Him On Tv (video) by SAMBARRY: 5:01pm On Apr 16, 2025 |
This 2025 is the year of exposure  |
Celebrities › Re: Blessing CEO & IVD: Engagement Confirmed Or Just Social Media Drama? by SAMBARRY: 4:29pm On Apr 16, 2025 |
The woman wey no dey let us these men rest  She sabi pull their trigger button  |
Music/Radio › Re: Reverse Ban On ‘tell Your Papa’ - Punch Editorial by SAMBARRY: 6:06am On Apr 16, 2025*. Modified: 4:20pm On Apr 16, 2025 |
If its idi nla, tokoisidi and all those obscene songs that youths dance to you won't see a problem with it but because this are songs that wake youths up it's suddenly a problem. Awon asiere |
Celebrities › Re: “All These Things Don’t Matter In Heaven”– DJ Cuppy Regrets Over Luxurious Shoes by SAMBARRY: 5:54am On Apr 16, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: Leaders Must Not Make Lives Better For Only A Gang In Lagos – Makinde by SAMBARRY: 5:47am On Apr 16, 2025 |
Tell them.anyway I like seyi makindes quality of leadership especially in oyo state |
Nairaland General › Re: Man Films Large Number Of Cows Moving At 1AM In Benin (photos/video) by SAMBARRY: 6:53pm On Apr 15, 2025 |
Fortune109: Ah!
If this is true...They are planning an attack!
They first move their cattle and family out before they come back for an attack... Let the security agencies be very vigilant...Edo boys should also be very vigilant and not leave their women and children vulnerable in the villages...
Which kind human beings be Fulani people sef! these is where edo cult boys skills are needed if not your cultism is useless |
Nairaland General › Re: Man Films Large Number Of Cows Moving At 1AM In Benin (photos/video) by SAMBARRY: 6:51pm On Apr 15, 2025 |
Mynd44: I am. 95% sure the animals belong to a Benin person and he employed herders to watch over them and the employer said he should be constituting nuisance with the cows abi? |
Celebrities › Re: Moment Billionaire Mevic Boss Poured In ₦100M Cash Gift At Obi Cubana's Birthday by SAMBARRY: 10:56am On Apr 15, 2025 |
ElevationD: You are the sender, you buffoon. The arrows have located and terminated you already. evil arrow go back to your sender |
Business › Re: Dangote’s 68th Birthday Refinery Cake (Video, Photos) by SAMBARRY: 8:41am On Apr 15, 2025 |
This baker don hammer |
Celebrities › Re: Moment Billionaire Mevic Boss Poured In ₦100M Cash Gift At Obi Cubana's Birthday by SAMBARRY: 8:40am On Apr 15, 2025 |
ElevationD: You are the sender, so they are all back to you, you sociopathic sub human.
You will neither live a healthy or fulfilled life. You are a dead man walking. As long as you cursed, curses will never leave you. Your remaining days will be filled with misery, slippery and you will never find your way. evil arrow go back to your sender |
Christianity Etc › Re: RCCG Council Will Hold Meetings On The Moon – Adeboye (Video) by SAMBARRY: 8:21pm On Apr 14, 2025 |
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Celebrities › Re: Moment Billionaire Mevic Boss Poured In ₦100M Cash Gift At Obi Cubana's Birthday by SAMBARRY: 8:20pm On Apr 14, 2025 |
ElevationD: You are already a dead fellow walking. Your days of existence already expired, you miserable, poverty afflicted pillock and ninnyhammer. You certainly must be gay with your bent posture and diseased, black spotted dirty stinking arse.
A dustbin foraging rat, who does not know his left from his right. What do you know about money, you mooncalf? Because you wrongly used the name of Jesus, you are dead already. back to sender.everything you said falls back on yout head.na you go carry your curse.i will live a long,healthy and fulfilled life in Jesus name.cry more  |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Not My War, Biden & Zelenskyy Did A Bad Job - Trump Exonerates Self by SAMBARRY: 6:13pm On Apr 14, 2025 |
Demos let trump rest na.if dog bark trump,if he sit ,trump,if he stand trump |
Celebrities › Re: Moment Billionaire Mevic Boss Poured In ₦100M Cash Gift At Obi Cubana's Birthday by SAMBARRY: 6:12pm On Apr 14, 2025 |
ElevationD: A sanctimonious fellow, who pretends that he lives a good life, without knowing that he is gradually dying of misery, hardship and uncontrollable poverty.
I wonder how a fatuous fellow like you feels that you are in the position to assess, criticize and discredit people, who you know absolutely nothing about and will never in life have contact with.
While you are there roasting like the proverbial grasshopper, the people who you - in your mental derangement - prefer to question their sources of wealth and how they expend their wealth, are busy living their lives in joy.
An Obtuse and vacuous rag wearing charlatan like you, who should be out there seeking for assistance to grow, find you way here, hiding under the cover of social media to insult people, for no reason.
What’s your business if people choose to throw their hard earned resources around, as they like? Why not make some decent money first and then decide what you want to do with yours?
Surely you must look like an diseased chimpanzee. you will die of misery poverty and pain.back to sender in Jesus name. Unpaid labourer anywhere belle face stop crying inside my mention. E don do you |