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I want to cryyyy

mollytinrox:
When I was growing up, I felt ignored a lot and didn't get someone to talk to about how I felt. My sisters were my friends but we didn't touch the boy areas, so I was misled a lot. Perhaps if I'd spoken up earlier I wouldn't have made some mistakes.

I got pregnant at 16 just after SSCE, and I knew what it meant. I hid it from my parents until I was 6 months gone and I couldn't keep up with chores anymore. I thought about having an abortion but I didn't even know where to start.

Somehow, my mom found out and I didn't deny. I'm sure that's the saddest day of her life. I told her I'd like to leave home for another town to have the baby. After I left, I wrote a letter to my dad to inform him. In his reply he told me he cried so much because he never thought his baby would derail but he would always love me. I could have died because coupled with hormones and all that letter touched me.

My parents were supportive all through, told my siblings not to blame me, bought all baby things and paid for ANC and delivery in the town I was.

Sadly, my father died that year, but not before I'd begged him for forgiveness. My mom confirmed to me that he said he had forgiven me, and he believed I could still make something out of my life.

My mom continued supporting me, pushing me and motivating me.

Today, I am a graduate, married, my son is 10 and I have a daughter too, overall it's a perfect climax.

I couldn't have done it without my parent's love. If they had sent me away or decided that since I got pregnant then my life was over, where would I be today?

I couldn't be a runs girl in school because I always remember where I'm coming from. Besides the stretch marks on my stomach are an emblem I've worn ever since to remind me that there's the correct time and place for things to be done.

Quite an epistle, just thought to share.

The pix attached is my hubby and I. I'll take it down soon.

Such a beautiful happy looking cutie





some people just run their mouths like say na them dey create babies




if you had listened to them will you have had such a sweet little girl smiling at you. .maybe you will have even been regretting when you see other people's babies Smh. You for shun them. I hate such utterances

mcdokwe:
the story behind the name... loading

I named her Miracle...

When she was concieved, a lot of people from unimaginable quatres said she was better off aborted, making doom predictions and suppositions saying how we wouldn't pull through due to financial challenges and all that, hmmmm.... a lot of evil reasons.. we were prepared to take the storm and came out fine, She is very beautiful, loved and wanted by all... everybody claiming one thing or the ther when if they had the final say, "she was was just blood that could be flushed away"

kai!

i have never knoen a happier time than holding her in my palms and having a laugh with her... Needless to say that the everything was laid down to see to her smooth arrival, stressless and in ways it could only be God...

She would be 1 in 5days
My Miracle

Nothing to add. They've said it all

Because it's assumed that every bride is a virgin

Kim kardashian and her mother

Ahen

Khloe kardashian and her mother

Oya o.eyin mothers in the house bring out your knife con chop cake

bigtt76:
Hahaha... nor take am fight joooor it's all fun. Have a lovely week ahead. nor return de kiss o!

same to you

EfemenaXY:
Lol! Thanks Sambarry...and happy mother's day to you too dear.

I cash am

bigtt76:
OK good and what have you gained? Likes? #mtscheeeeeeeeeew

more common sense which is far more greater and worthy than 1 million likes



and if you think I'm posting for likes, you've got another thing coming


mtshewwww back to sender

Babyblues:
Sambarry we no de flog oo
I don shout taya,him papa don shout,the boy just cool small.
His head dey like football for d foto abi?hehehehehe.I hope his brain go big reach that size.
From next month na naughty corner..

John scheinder and his mom

Kendra Wilkinson ( girls of the play boy mansion)mom and Kendras younger brother

..Usher Raymonds mom

Babyblues:
After TTC and health issues,he came..
He's driving us mad right now with his endless noise but we are grateful.
I pray all TTC will receive their own bundles of blessing

with his endless noise. Una don flog am abi. Why you con move the camera so close to his face peki peki like that

edwife:
@sambarry great story you have there.
God bless your mum.

amen o


and yours to

Great god
chair cover
bukatyne and all the pregnant nl women
I greet all of una o.erure esore loruko jesu


them no dey do Cs for goat before e born, them no go do Cs for you in Jesus name

To all the nl mothers

EfemenaXY
KanwuliaJara
cococandy (wetin you still dey wait for. I want to see my grand kids in patience ozokwors voice)
ediwife (you sure say you don born abi you still be wakawaka baby)
royal roys mom for raising a handsome ,calm composed and cosmopolitan guy
Ewuro4
Chillisauce
Francis tonys mom for raising a perfect gentle man
maclatunji nl alfas mom for raising an intelligent chap

Mr Brown jays mom for raising a guy with finesse and manners

I dedicate this to the best woman in my life

EgusiSoup:
So what should we do
DrAify

aren't you the one that said you prefer your house helps cooking to that of your wife.

I just knew you were just trolling . Thank God i didn't post on your thread much less take it seriously

Adaobi12:
. am seeing just two ladies in the pic.

sorry my dear. I was mixing up your picture with the one I saw earlier

oloyede252:
e pain am

in your dreams


no go find work do.dey troll around. Lazy wimp

I tire o

bellong:
So she owns her mum to control what her mum should do with her life?

She better get herself together and accept the fact that her parents want another kid. It is none of her business in as much as they are not lacking in their parental responsibilities to her.

Children of these days with their too much entitlement mentality.

Adaobi12:
unfortunately I have no brother.

who is now that little boy with the girl

lilmax:
this thread should continue in peace

amen

msporche:
Isn't dat wat the OP started

so?

flyca:
Thank you, ma. Do you mind sharing a part of your life with us?

I will but all of the pictures of my mom is with my kid brother however I'll try and get it sha but I'm not promising you. My story



I noticed during my growing up years my mom was so hard on me that I didn't want her to be around me but now she always wants me to come to her house and when I come she doesn't want me to leave . she says she enjoys my company and always wants to hug me and all. Of course she's a great company to be with as we get to jist and jist for a long time while folding her clothes into the wardrobe and as for my daughter. She calls that one her last born. She always like taking that one around every where she goes. In church sef she usually refers to her as her last born not her grand daughter and so people are always so startled how an elderly woman will have a daughter as young as her . The ones that ha have boldness will ask me and I'll say that's my baby

Francis Francis

flyca:
Another Mother's day today. All I would wish for is another hug, one big hug from my mum.

Pic: The last Mothers Sunday I celebrated with her before leaving for studies

your mother is so pretty. I like this her gele, outfit and smile. Tell her I'm coming for the gele o

bigtt76:
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