₦airaland Forum

gidzbobby:
thank you sir, you are right cus I have pleaded with her to let go but I dunno wah holds her back when she's about to take an action. sometimes when he is in need of money or when it's time to pay the rents for the house, he behaves so well. I think that's wah he uses against my mum.

johnlegend01:
Hmmm
I do understand this very much. I will bluntly suggest such a Man be abandoned. Once he finds it difficult to feed himself, he will find something to do.
Mummy and Son should find a way to relocate, start afresh, work hard and forget Daddy ever existed. I can assure things will get better.

There is no pity in this, irrespective of what he did when he had a job. It was & is his responsibility to fend for his family. Pitying him will not help anybody now.

I just don't understand these silly men who are a set of disgrace to good Men around the world.

mutter:
you need to mind your biz. Your mum has been with him all these years. She knows why.
Just let it be. YOur father may be having some condition like depression and it is not easy for a man to stand up when he falls. Some men never make it up and then they get depressed and cannot cope. Stop putting pressure on your mother to do what her heart does not want to do.
You struggle and in a few years time you will be able to relieve your mum.
That is why mother is supreme! She carries all the load and she sacrifices.

5minsmadness:
Don't listen to those telling u to let ur dad go and it's a pity u regard him as good as dead. You really don't know what is holding your mom back, you don't know of the possible contributions he made to her life when he was working. He could have well have abandoned u lot since he never legally married her but he chose to stay. Now he has nothing and has grown lazy and possibly depressed people are telling u to kick him away like a dog. Such is life.
Don't get carried away by your raging hormones.

Be the man of the house. Take over the responsibility and send your mom to Abuja. In fact it is possible that your doing this will shame your father into picking up a job even if it is labourer work.

gidzbobby:
big sis am just having a conversation with my mum now and funny enough can u imagine now my mum is telling me that she even offered to pay him if He could help her working at the shop.

gidzbobby:
thank you foe your comment... I have told her already that he's as good as dead. am just hustling now, even if it's a self contain apartment I want to move her out of his sight and reach. I earn 20k per month and am still working on it. by this year I hope we leave him for good.

KillerBeauty:
It boost testeterone levels

tohpahz:
Them.no try at all.. how person go just go buy another person wahala..
Den d wahala wan pursue am from im house.. na wa oo..

tohpahz:
That movie ehnn.. i felt like flogging everyone in it.. even the producers,camera men. Everybody!!

sweetgala:
I think the whole white wedding thing has become laughable in Nigeria. It has become big business for venue owners, catering services and makeup artists , they even pay to tie gele these days.

The essence of the day has been trivialised

shrekandfiona:
Lovely thread I must say.

I grew up a very shy and timid girl. I had severe acne since my teenage years and it affected my self esteem. I never kept friends and always hid face from people. My family never understood they felt I was a snub.

In my university days I struggled to go for lectures and face my mates, was sick of people recommending different solutions for my acne. Entered into relationships just to feel beautiful was mostly depressed.

Didn't know some of my mates envied what I had but never appreciated. I was brainy, from an averagely rich home but didn't think of those just wanted my face to be clear.

Got a job immediately after nysc and became self sufficient at an early age but was still depressed. Got married along the line and had my 1st child acne still remained. After my 2nd child, was outta job for a while cos had to relocate to be with hubby. Had it rough with depression and found solace in food.

Had a turn around when hubby started finding solace in a pretty nurse. Decided to look and feel good for me. I got a better job, started trying treatments for adult acne and cut down on my food intake with exercises.

After a while I looked and felt good getting compliments from strangers and even hubby started noticing the new me. I was able to save for vacations outside the country and went without hubby on 2 occasions

The acne has not fully gone away but my face is a lot smoother and my stature great people don't know I have kids till I talk about them. And I am a lot bolder and less depressed.

This is my recent picture pregnant with my 3rd child. Was 4 months gone in this pics. Please don't quote me as I may delete this post later on. Thanks

sweetgala:
Since it seems you wore white gown for your wedding , can we assume you practised chastity or did you cheat

Cy4praise:
even wen d hole is as wide as pit toilet

AyeeIdris:
I am the weird looking one on black scarf. I dont even have belle as a excuse. Was a month pregnant though
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Sophyrocks:
Who told you i believed him? Everyone here wouldnt spill their dirty linen in public. He believes he is in charge but we know better.

Kimoni:
You know, for a long time, I thought there were the same person until I noticed their style/emphasis is different but I love them both anyways

They are the reason why I keep coming back to NL

Cococandy, I see you enjoy them both as well

Swegzfreak:
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You mean me or the OP? Y d fu.ckx will I tell som1 2 fu.ckxing lecture me on hw to fu.ckx my wife...ur brain aint ripe also

CAMNEWTON4PRES:
Onila this is nonsense

Waspy:
Onila.... When was your last menstrual period?

Swegzfreak:
Turn up br0... Wat are nairalanders for if nt 2 help... I volunteer my self bro... Pick me I go teach u wella, I go help u, turn ur wify to a pro... I go fu.ckx her very well no cause 4 alarm... Message me asap her number will also do