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jaybee3:
Happy new year Sambarry, I've been looking for you sef... I want to come and pay your bride price

I reject it ijn


I'm not a polygamist.why should I eat your wife's remnants.tuuuuuuufffiiaaaaa



wura is my best gift ever and means the world to me so why should I do jaybee 4.tufiaaaaaaaa





try next bus top e.g mrs kanwulia

Sophyrocks:


What a shame. Ive always detested men who talk too much. There's always something not right about them.

exactly

jaybee3:
This is the koko

@OP
Your bobo go dey enjoy ooo


abeg you get younger sisters wey fine like you?

ashewo face ya wife



I will report you to mrs jaybee

Congratulations cute edo bride. Happy married life

Sard:
But to my best knowledge, Nigeria isn't the only uncivilized country in the world.
You 'may' have a thing against nigerian men, but you don't need to make inbreeding look like a nigerian thing. We ain't all that bad.
Have a good day.

have a good day too

Sophyrocks:
No wonder he just recently divorced his wife. I wonder if his new lover is a baby doll.

Na bimbo dey fit their type



he's in America and his brain is that shallow while his ego is bigger than the size of fibroid




if he was a nigerian living in Nigeria he will have been horrible. In fact some time this year a guy like him who talks to much like him got sacked all thanks to me for orchestrating his sack.




I have been putting up with his loose and unbridled mouth especially the way he refers to ladies until he called me a mentally unbalanced patient who's only good at shaking her a55.now he's joined millions of unemployed graduates. Na their type be that. All I need to speed up the sacking is to bring documents and people that are ready to testify against him in disciplinary panel. So it is either you behave like a gentle man with me or no option

Male gra gra-egoistical I'm a man so I know it all issh



And yes that's exactly my point. You're married and so you should know BETTER than what you typed this one no be m vs f matter na all these teenagers that are on holiday that are basterdizing nl family section and o yes I receive the hug

dBard:
which one is male gra gra here

Yes, am married now n so I know d dynamics are different...and I also know as well that tins are not always as clear cut as they seem.
It's quite simple wat I told d o.p, weed d advices here..the married will understand and advice u beta.
Too much m vs f ish here.

No beef okay...
#sidehugs

Nollywood script writer I hail o

oweniwe:
na the hypocrisy part i hate most... Say one thing, do another

a sister cousin had been complaining to me that one of dad's friends is "disturbing" her... I got fed up with her constant complaints and called dad to advise his friend to leave her alone... My dad did that... The man called cousin.... Come see how she dey beg the man make he no vex... She now open mouth tell me say, she dont care if he's married or not as far as he's giving her small changes.... The same gal who was complaining earlier ooo...

i go family side for new year say make i chop rice... An aunt say rice don finish say d one wey remain is reserved for "some people"... I say ok and waka o... Next morning, she come block my way dey halla say why i nor chop yesterday...

naija ladies i dey hail ooo

Sophyrocks:
check am well o. Seriously, the threads complaining about women are just 2 much. These guys are broken records. That one wey im name na donatus abi dinakraw kraw wey like to date women with smelly p.ussies be the commander in chief of all frustrated males on nairaland.

me sef I don taya for this I never chop guys coming to make noise here up and down and create unnecessary spectacle of themselves at any given opportunity. There is wazobia fm cool fm etc to vent and rant . It's nl they will be coming to blab

ebuetor:
Does that mean you do not trust your self with your kids? Or let me put it this way, when you see your children both male and female, probably in the same dressing room you begin to assume something could go possibly wrong?

a brother and sister cannot be in the same room under my own roof because when they start sleeping with themselves I won't know.it is only when pregnancy arises that we will know. It was this shebi she's my sister attitude that increases incest in Nigeria

Yes incest happens all over the world but there are institutional framework to curb incest in CIVILIZED nations and no protective mechanisms for victims in primitive amd patriarchical societies Like nigeria that is why a paedophile can be shamelessly celebrating a 16year old that put to bed

Sard:
Not only Nigerian men, bro. Inbreeding happens to men all over the world, it's not a nigerian thing.
@op.. To me, it's safe to avoid unnecessary uncladness. It can happen in few cases, but it should not be made to look like a regular act.
People that are involved one way or the other in inbreeding ain't devils, one thing usually lead to the other.
It's better safe than sorry.

Sophyrocks:
Chris rock wants a baby doll and thinks every other man should want one. What a fantasy! And they say women fantasize a lot. Pfft.

he wants company and I have given his potential fans solution.besides that Chris of a guy talks to much.mr marimaso

Sophyrocks:
I really dnt take them seriously. They dnt like when a female mentions divorce but they love to shout divorce. Bunch of clowns. Lol.

in their dictionary what is good for the goose is not good for the gander. They only use that line to have their way and form na me sabi argue pass

Don't give me that male gra gra.im not buying it. try next bus top



secondly you got married recently and posted your wedding pictures where everyone congratulated you and wished you a happy married life including me some time ago so on that basis I'm using to type that. You ve been married for a while so you know what marriage looks like from your point of view
.Thank you

dBard:
First of all, U don't know me, so don't ascribe ish u don't know to me. If ur having such issues in ur relationship,kpele..but that is UR own wahala.

secondly, anybody can call anyone else terms of endearment, It depends on d CONTEXT of the conversation.
thirdly, seeing a conversation where terms like sweetheart was used n he promised her money, will it be Unreasonable to infer that, possibly, one party is requesting for help from the oda(financial)

Point is, since it's difficult for y'all to understand, her Jumping to conclusions that the husband is cheating at this point is very hasty .

If she has issues, call him, talk, lay down the rules if necessary, not running down to NL screaming 'Why are men like this'..aka He's cheating.

p.s;I Always say it as it is. u either like it or u don't. Not my problème.







sidenote, inspirational books are all good n dandy but they can never take the place of reality



Peace.

Sophyrocks:
Thank you. The Op hasnt been lucky with women in relationships. So he created the thread to vent his frustrations. Nairaland has become a site for unlucky guys to cry out.

abeg no let the pap wey idey do for wura burn o

Sophyrocks:
The hypocrisy is here again. I wonder what advice would be given to a man whose wife reconnects with an ex with many love texts in her fone. Im sure divorce will be preached up and down with 20 pages. Hypocrites!

are you minding them. By now I don't expect you to take nl serious and that's what I love about kanwulia and her sarcasm . she has a way of dropping it like it's hot

Ehen it's not difficult na.every and anybody in his school of thought should buy robot doll of like 1500 naira and tiger battery of 180naira so it will do as you say without mutual conversation and emotional exchange. Thank you

worry359:
If you saw this in a dream then it is
YOUR guilty secret trying to show itself!
What have you done that you are trying to hide?

gbam.you took the words right out of my mouth/fingers

dyadeleye:
So what's your point?..are you telling me there is nothing called self control?..so you can't even go to a beach without feeling awkward...
Beginning of incest my foot...control your fucking hot blood man!

some nigerian men don't understand what's called self control hence prevention is better than Cure my dear

neoapocalypse:
Your husband does not speak for all men so do not generalise.
Your problem is not unique and it is pretty simple what you have to do ( and not do ), love him more, spice up your relationship, get kinky if you have to and communicate with him. In time he'll come to his senses

mr get kinky err

naijaboiy:
No pictures?

is it pictures of the head or the murderer you want to see?

dinachi:
@OP ones like this avoid like a plague....they have a foul mouth and more foul atrociously smelling puccy...they are 100% fake!

the truth is bitter. Ain't it?

dyadeleye:
What's wrong with the world
There is nothing wrong in that Jeez!!..

Sey Kongi go catch u ni if you see your sister unclothedness.

that is the beginning of incest. That is the same thing fathers who impregnated their daughters said including paedophiles.we are living in a society where rapists, paedophiles and incentous men are tolerated instead of shamed so let everyone keep their private parts private to himself or herself except he willingly wants to open it to his or her sek mate

So if they are just friends and old flames are not brewing why are they calling each other sweet heart etc? Shebi you're a new groom yourself and you have your own fair share of women issh.so you don't know when fire is on the mountain abi? Smh

anyway op

dBard:
...he reconnects with an old 'friend' and d general assumption from the wise NL family is that he is cheating.
@first consideration, don't u think a cheating husband would have been smart enuff t cover his tracks especially knowing u have his password.

@o.p, wisdom doesn't act with sentiments nor assumptions..n making wahala now especially if it turns out to b false accusations will only work contrary.

You're the 'madam', call ur husband, tell him ur grievances, lay the rules down if needs be,esp concerning the lady in question.

keep in mind, Most ppl advising u here aren't married as well.
Be wise



'nuff said

Redoil:
Men are polygamous by nature so kini big deal.

errmm

dinachi:
Bro most ladies do not worth the guys who ask them out...from silly childish attitudes...poor social skill to atrociously stinking puccys with evil odour, many of these girls are 100% fakes. The gud news is that there are still a few good ones available.

guys yapa.if you are tired of ladies start dating men after all their dheek doesn't smell and they don't have anti soc behaviour

neily:
You actually married a MAD WOMAN as a wife
Sorry Nothing here is childish but absolute MADNESS

nawa o

Seun her boyfriend should be proud of her

Best

Mirahcul:
What a beautiful reply

exactly

Spyde:
So?

no be you wan read celebrity gossip abi them force you open the thread

Kanwulia come and see another nigerian wonder. Even maternity ward is no longer safe. Nawa o.on January 1st for that matter