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emusmith:
It will happen again if my points are not adhered to...

You have no points... what's yours?

Tsk

my point is see a child as a child even if she is nakid.



what do you see in kids that make you turned on

Mondisweets:
You can always cook for them, while they wash the dishes they used. This will also prepare them for bachelorhood, they will come a point and time in their lives they will live the nest and live on their own, by then they should know how to do their own chores.

the day i went to my kid brothers house he left piles of used plates there in his kitchen. I know the plates will have been there for weeks and because of the fact that my mom spoilt him e.g leave my baby alone don't stress him . now he's on his own. He was giving me the look to help him wash the plates and that was how I left his house. Parents forget that my baby that they don't want to stress will leave their house one day

cococandy:
Where's your mom? She needs to teach your brothers how to help out in the house.

exactly what I was about to say but in a different way. Your mom raised lazy men that have to depend on their sister for food


so what happens when you travel?



its because you have been doing it for years that's why they think it's their right. Tell them to come and help you out in the kitchen whether with washing the dishes or cleaning up the kitchen if they want to eat except you're their house help. Yeyenotu

Emusmith are you for real. So a child wearing spaghetti or mini skirt can turn a grown man on or a child wearing 2earings. You and your post makes me sick to my bones. So a mother cannot wear what she likes for her child. A man cannot see a 3year old as a 3 year old. His pppeennis must stand at the sight of a 3year old v@gyna.anyway I don't blame you I blame our society where money determines what is right and wrong
if you have money and your 3year old child is raped. Some thousands of naira will make the culprit get away with it. Tufiaaaaa

A baby for goodness sakes
plenty beasts are on the loose make una hold una daughters well o.thats why every man who holds my baby in a funny way is a suspect to me. I won't hesitate to shout at the person to drop her. Let her play with only her mates. Isshhh

Obviously

carefreewannabe:
Happy New Year dear!

I share your views, I have already said something similar but when I give this scenario some deeper thinking, I come to understand the husband.

Many women wouldn't be able to help it but to love such a gesture, me included, and that would make some husbands / boyfriends jealous, just like some women could get jealous in such or a similar situation.

I suspect that the husband is jealous.

striktlymi:
Cool!

I have hands off already.

Tempted to not visit him at home again.

please don't


if you see men with proper home training its not hard to know. Mothers touch is showing in his life



keep it up op don't stop because of one insecure bush meat friend of yours

AZeD1:
Well that's my theory. Besides when ever people give you vague answers like "When you marry, you'll understand bla bla", it means they have no point.

correct

AZeD1:
Nope.
Your friend is lazy and insecure. The reason he wants you to stop is because he doesn't do those things and has probably told his wife that "Men" don't do such. You doing it exposes him.

gbam.thats all

Gbam

RiffRaff:
It depends on how u want to handle the case.
1. Take her to d hospital. Explain to the Dr. They will run a pregnancy test & other STD test.
If she is pregnant. D Dr will xplain to u the procedure for a D&C.
After that, she will need help with her psyche cuz her self esteem will be at an all time low.
She is thinkin suicide already.. This is sumtin that will scar her for life so she will need alot of love, care & attention from u.
Then u have to treat this guys Bleep up. Get a friend that knows people.
Let them watch the guys movement. They should abduct him, beat the shi.t out of him and smash stone on his testicles.
Sumthing he will neva forget & let him know it is becuz he raped sum1.
There is a reason she told u. Its becuz she trust u & doesnt know how else to handle it.
This option is becuz u dont want to loud it. She is scared her of d norrmal Nigerian parent parole "What did u go and do in a guys house?" & the resultin embarassment.
I'd say F.uck it! Encourage her to tell her parent or u tell urs. It is better when an adult handle this case.

Option 2
2. Call her over to come tell ur parent. They will help her tell her parent cuz adult knows how to handle this kind of issue.
Trust me from there, things will be better. They will take care of her medically, emotionally & the boys Bleep'up will be treated accorrdingly.
even if na to go barracks, get soldiers to deal with the boy.
Lagos now has a sexual offenders list sef. So many things u can do to fustrate the boys life.
Start a blog, take a picture of the boy. Tell the story to the world. (only downside is people will want to know who d girl in d story is)

God knows i hate rapist: please if u need to deal with the boy. I am willing to help u. Pro-bono.

How old is ur cousin? How did it happen, where? Wasnt any1 around? Couldnt she have smashed his head wit bottle or anythin around.

PS: i have heard a girls 1st time of havin sex is always so trumatic that most of them classify it as rape.
I am not doubtin the story but please shed more light & probe deep into the story so it will be clearer.
How old is the guy & how old is ur cousin?
What is the relationship between them?

eunisam:
is Prayer is the key the only phrase you can caption and capitalize on?

yes o

Hahaha bet you said pink is your favourite colour in the dream.Anyway you will get there where you will be ordering for home delivery service in banana island


let me sleep this night sleep first and see whether I will dream of you again

cococandy:
Hahahaha

Kulyie. For this new year ehn? You couldn't even dream of me driving the latest range and ordering wrapper sellers to bring to our mansion so that we could make our choices like those governors wives normally do ehn kulyie?

Why must I ne the one with the option to waka from idumota?

Ngwa go back to sleep and re-dream that dream. And don't nother to wake up until you've dreamed it the right way.

Happy new year darling

blessedvisky:
WTH do u mean if it were d other way around, then na away matches go sure

so why you no tell am say make she do away matches. Which one con be abosi

Ok


to them lazy folks

She should do (D)og and (C)at to save the child of transfered aggression much more it is an unplanned and unwanted child who the circumstances surrounding its conception is not pleasant to the ears. How will the child feel if he was told the father is a r@pist


you people should quit all this hypocrisy jare. After all the yorubas say when there is peace in a home its because the bastard there hasn't grown. Abi you think children don't take after their spam donors in character

dhabeautyjas:
hmmm, this is very sad.
but pls, dont let her conceal it. Personal problems like this has reduced effect if she gets justice.
Also, the guy must be allowed to face the music of his crime.
she needs to go to a standard hospital for thorough check up.
G*d works in mysterious ways, i wish she keeps the baby, it may be her saving grace in life.
G*d will help and heal her physically and psycologically

I want to use this medium to talk to all parents, pls lets get very close to our wards so we can be able to partake in their lives fully.

You see why its dangerous to go to a man's house much less your child hood friend you don't know what shaped his character and the kinds of friends she keeps. It's unfortunate she has wiped away all available evidences but since she knows the guys house she should go and get either the mother father or any and everyone police sets their eyes on . If possible they should arrest the entire members of his family. He will by himself show up in case he has ran away. Anyway that's a warning to ladies to be weary of going to a man's house because you're only seeing his face you don't know his motives and intention. If you go to a man's house alone when you know he's the only one at home and then you think he's not thinking of sek or r@pe then you have another thing coming



chair cover
coco candy
coogar
sophyrocks
kanwulia
chilli sauce


where una dey.over to you

Na so

cococandy:
I really feel sad for the lady in question.

the lady has to be walking on egg shells she must not offend the man in anyway. Before he says where is my food.she should be racing with the food to meet him. If heoffends him penre.the family will be like I told you so. That girl is evil. She is this and that


ahen coco I dreamt of you o.this night






that we both went to idumota to buy gorge for party and then we were arguing about colour. You said you want pink I said lets take blue then you said if I don't take pink you won't buy the gorge and you won't go for the party. Meanwhile the owner of the shop put her legs on the table, was chewing gum and watching keeping up with the kardashians. So you went to show her the 2 colours and sje said whenever you people have made up your mind let me know I don't want to miss what khloe is saying



so I just vex and left the shop. You too vex and hissed at her then flung the cloth at her sales girl and left. When you got to my car i said you better enter otherwise you will trek from idumota to v.i and if you enter bus and you don't pay you know what will happen. Then I woke up.

blessedvisky:
Tell her to get fit, get attractive, stop making herself look like a beggar. she should get a seperate room too. maybe the man doesn't have interest coz he doesn't like what he sees

can you give this same red pant (boxers) advice if it was the other way around. The hypocrisy here is stinking

eunisam:
Prayer is the key but if you can't pray very well just stop beging for sex.sex is not food. You can help your husband crash the marrage by bringing in men to his home. No time abeg,marrage is supposed to be enjoyed no to endure.

hiannn prayer is the key indeed. Everything is prayer is the key. Why didn't you pray to God to wear your pant for you or help you miraculously wash your bathroom. PLEASE stop abusing whatever religion through which you worship your God. God didn't give is medula oblangata for nothing. Use it


when a man is denying his wife for sek prayer is always the key in the Nigeriian chorus abi is it food

BUT






when the wife is denying the husband of sek I will have read 160 advises of the list and names of ashewo joints in lagos that he needs to visit or there are many fish pounds in calabar

Prayer prayer prayer. Abeg stop abusing prayer o jare.like its the the prayers that will make his ppeeeniiss stand

freezyprinzy:
nna ehn I wish I could b a hater buh ah no get dat time

yimu so why you con open thread to look at her exposey

Ewuro4:
Don't mind Kuilye, Fanawole out of solid. Eewo niyen

Smile cheesos loffss you

naijababe:
Doing my A-Levels at South Thames College . That was the hit single from the Monica album while Brandy was killing the airwaves with Brokenhearted ft Wanya Morris of Boys II Men. Hijab waering days even if i still listened to music like no man's business. Those were really carefree and happy days for me

@ Sambarry

Pesin mouth just dey water for nothing.

chaircover:
Sambarry ha ha! no lie for here o!
Amala finish inn buka in Ibadan
Thats like saying oil has finished in Iraq & conductor don finish for Lagos

CyrusXandria:
You do have a problem.Could you not see it was a clear response to her comment.You have no reason to support an outlaw for earrings.I responded in kind to something similar that is still revered as for men only.

Don't quote me anymore please.

why?

chaircover:
Fanawole? by the bus garage? . . .
Where is the amala to go with this?

amola don finish. Oya go do amala make i buy assorted for you

Ok oh

dBard:
U don't want Chimamanda t recover her expenses abi U don't want the producer to get returns shey?? cos d population that should normally see the movie is reduced due to the high age ratings.
Abeg leave d matter.
you've read d book, use ur imagination, afterall,imagination has no restrictions.

Her booty is just moderate jare not as big as this

freezyprinzy:
she dy find husband

see them haters every where. So bitter

bennyrazz:
the op is not the kind of person that takes advice. Some people are like that and its better to leave them to their fate

ok o