₦airaland Forum

EfemenaXY:
Jesus!

Probably the middle one who's too heavy to stand on her own two feet...

Ejiod:
Fattening how pls?

chimkaire:
Hmm...how low could some peeps stoop?
Omo ale keh

Feraz:
Apologies ma!

Feraz:
Na question. . .

brito:
Lolz, say something about the topic

Feraz:
Are you the same Kulyie of then?

Ejiod:
Thanks a lot

brito:
Lolz, say something about the topic

sapien:
Kulyie, Nairaland's resident hypocrite! Were you not the same person criticizing some newly weds wedding pictures some couple of days ago?

babyosisi:
I was scared of pills and their scary side effects so I never tried it
Oga hates rain coats so I had to do something

I started with diaphragms after my first child.it is inserted before and then taken out and washed and dried after the do
I hated to constantly insert and take out the device
Sometimes I slept off and forgot it inside
I got tired of " fin.gering myself " and changed to another type .



I used depo provera shots
You get an injection in the arm every three months
Side effect,weight gain and hot flashes
I loved the freedom
Your system goes back to normal 3 months after you stop it but if you have problems getting pregnant easily,I won't advise this,

Then

I switched to IUD intra uterine device after my last child
This is inserted by a doctor and there is a string you are advised to check monthly ,this tells you the device is still in place.it is supposed to last 10 years before it is changed.
Many women love this device
I had it in 4 years and loved it then developed heavy bleeding maybe unrelated sha then it was taken out and I didn't have another choice but the ultimate birth control method


Got my tubes tied and now no fear of pregnancy

Safe period and withdrawal methods do not work
Even condom sef can tear
I have babies to show that that those 3 methods don't work well

blank:
I use Implanon. It is an implant in your arm. No need to calculate anything or remember to take injections or swallow pills. Good side effect is that i have not seen my period since i started using it. Bad effect is that i have added my baby weight back but i am working on it. It is good for 3yrs.

sapien:
All I can see is some bunch of barbie dolls with trailer loads of marykay painted on their faces.

EfemenaXY:
Giving birth to a child you don't want, only to end up throwing it in a ditch, refuse dump, toilet drain, burying it alive, strangling it death, or simply abandoning it without cutting off the umbilical cord so it bleeds to death are all extremely painful and inhuman ways to die. Seeing as the end result for those foetuses / unwanted pregnancies will still be the same, irrespective of whether the unwilling mother carries it to full term or not, then why deny her the option of doing this the less traumatic way for both of them? i.e: her and the unborn child?

Whether we choose to admit it or not, having an abortion is merciful death.

Let's face it and quit the hypocrisy and fake moral grounds here. For those yelling it's murder, how many of these abandoned babies have they picked out of the gutters / refuse dumps / toilet drains, provided medical care, and taken back home to raise as their own? Rather than point accusing fingers at these unfortunate and desperate mothers, how many of these "moralists" have donated their time and money to help government schemes and awareness programs to reach vulnerable youths and teach safe sex? How many of these "holier-than-thous" have adopted children from orphanages? Or extend their exclusion programs and name smearing campaigns to the errant baby daddies out there wildly sowing their oats?

It takes two to have sex and conceive a child. So both parties should be held accountable for their actions and not one. The bitter truth is that the system in Nigeria is broken and available support non-existent. It's a country with a motto of: everyman for himself a.k.a On Your Own. With families washing their hands off their pregnant unmarried daughters' "shame", and many religious institutions ostracizing these unfortunate women, then no one has the right, much less the moral grounds to make these girls feel guilty if they decide having an abortion is the only way forward.

mgbeketoto:
The same 'pregnant' women. . . after they bring forth the almighty 'fruits of the womb and blokos'!

All na pro-choice abi?

Orikinla:
[size=18pt]SHAMELESS BLEACHING.

WHEN DID THIS BLACK NOLLYWOOD DESPERADO BECOME FAIR? [/size]

dominique:
10/10

When will she ever have a fashion oops sef

Prettiepearlz:
Na wa o. You don't get tired o. Keep it up ehn,there is reward for everything.