Romance › Re: you can't escape divorce if you marry these type of ladies. by sambisa5: 5:57pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
Beamborla: Let me ask IFA 
My point is, cos someone is the indoor type does not mean he or she is not informed(not when all the information you could possibly be in need of is just a click away from you) or must be boring.
I'd tell you indoor people spend their time reading almost anything they come across. They'd beat you hands down on any topic you engage them on so long it's of interest to them.
They often the chatter box on social platforms...you can research that. They make up more than half of the people you find on any social platform.
some of them might be just what you've written above but believe me it applies to quite a few
I repeat, they are not necessarily boring. Cos they are not exposed to people, they might be kind of withdrawn but if you make them feel comfortable around you, you might just have to beg for a break if care is not taken. i totally agree with you,,,,,,,am an indoors person,,,,,most times am on net,,, browsing,,facebooking,, nairalanding,,,whatsapping etc.....but people think am busy sleeping inside.....as a matter of fact,,,when my phone is down am bored. |
Crime › Re: Nigerian Man Beats His Mother To Death With A Chair In The US (photos) by sambisa5: 9:15am On Aug 06, 2015 |
otukpo: What could have gone wrong?
Still wondering. even if she is a witch holding your progress,,,,,,,allow God to deal with her Himself. So you don't have blood in your hands. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Stephanie Rose: I Would Rather Burn In Hell Than Worship A Monster Called God by sambisa5: 7:24am On Aug 05, 2015 |
Idrismusty97: god be like; you start seeing the muslims ranting blindfoldedly......they will like this kind of post becos they got to know the thru God thru the wrong means........ Just smh |
Career › Re: HELP: I'm Deeply In Love With My Boss!!! by sambisa5: 7:48pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
chomytex: This op is really BRAVE Btw hw DEEP is the love? E reach 6 feet? nairalanders won't kill me ooooo  |
Christianity Etc › Re: List: 30 Pairs Of Bible Verses That Contradict One Another by sambisa5: 2:32pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
I don't have any doubt you are a muslim,,,,,,,,how can you extract verses and start talking rub.bish here,,,,besides,the new testament can never be the same as the old testament,,,,,,Jesus came to preach nothing but the good news of love and peace,,, unlike the time of moses when everything was law, law.... |
Events › Re: See The Food A Couple Served Their Guests At Their White Wedding In Benue(pic) by sambisa5: 10:18pm On Jul 11, 2015 |
Nairaland  |
Phones › Re: Cool Whatsapp Tips You Need To Know by sambisa5: 4:27pm On Jul 11, 2015 |
Ok |
Crime › Re: CBN N8bn Scam Suspect Has Hole In The Heart--lawyer by sambisa5: 10:54pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
Na wa o |
Sports › Re: NFF Confirms ‘agreement’ With Oliseh As Keshi’s Successor by sambisa5: 10:17pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
Lasgidy1: Who is Oliseh? I doubt we know him here in Chibok No....he was abducted with the girls |
Culture › Re: Some Legendary Nigerian Pictures And Quotes by sambisa5: 9:11pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: T.b. Joshua Indicted By Coroner's Inquest by sambisa5: 7:40pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
Samakus: Pictures or i don't blvit the news is real.....watched it in channel O this evening |
Politics › Re: Suicide Bomber Recognition Guide by sambisa5: 6:43pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
Armaggedon: ...and our president has most of these qualities. funny niaralanders..... Buhari don suffer,,,,,,,,, as he wears bigger clothes,,,,,, walks looking side by side,,,,, carrying switches and wires about etc......aso rock is in trouble |
Politics › Re: APC Expels Former Gombe State Governor For Anti Party Activities by sambisa5: 8:19am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Nigeria is in big trouble...........consequences of change |
Politics › Re: Buhari Order Military To Protect Fulani Cow Owners From Rustlers Ignored BH by sambisa5: 8:13am On Jul 08, 2015 |
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Politics › Re: Nigerians’ll Beg Us To Return In 2019 – PDP by sambisa5: 9:19pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
dre11: Let PDP know that there is no vacancy at Aso Rock till 2217  it is painful,,you are yet to know Buhari is in total confusion |
Romance › Re: What Can We Call This Type Of Relationship by sambisa5: 7:29pm On Jul 04, 2015 |
ionsman: 5 junction. .....  una don turn am to benin things,,,,na wa o |
Politics › Re: Relax Abortion Laws For B’haram Victims, UN Urges FG by sambisa5: 2:20pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
ilovelikes: They should all give birth and buhari will adopt all of them i think you are making sense,  |
Family › Re: Very Important Notice For Parents!!! by sambisa5: 9:12pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
Ok |
Romance › Re: Tomfrench Wins Mr. Nairaland Contest 2015 by sambisa5: 11:56am On Jun 27, 2015 |
Ayoolajumoke: Please join him, vote for agarawu23 ahbeg na by force  |
Romance › Re: Tomfrench Wins Mr. Nairaland Contest 2015 by sambisa5: 11:53am On Jun 27, 2015 |
My precious vote goes to no other person other than,,,,,
Lekinz
cc NLjega |
Romance › Re: "I Am Tired Of Being His Sex Machine And Abortion Bag" by sambisa5: 1:53pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
fellis: I wonder why men tend to attempt sexually exploiting a girl just because she is helpless. What kind of sick pleasure can one gain from taking advantage of a helpless person? my sister,,,,,,is just God.... Lets pray never to have challenges in life as a young female,,,,,,males see it as an opportunity to take advantage of the poor girls.... |
Romance › Re: "I Am Tired Of Being His Sex Machine And Abortion Bag" by sambisa5: 11:33pm On Jun 25, 2015 |
Am so sorry dear.
My friend's case was like yours,but her dad wasn't poor,he just felt as a female you don't deserve much.
She gained admission into UNIBEN by force. After her secondary school she taught in a school where she could raise money for jamb form.Her dad had about the admission and promised he won't train her,but she got trained anyway.
How?
She carried her bag,without school fee,pocket money,feeding money,accomdation etc.When she stepped into campus,she met a photgraher,sat with him,in the cause of dicussion,he told her of his 200L medicine daugther.He called her,and the daughter took the poor girl to her hostel(Hall 2). School just resumed and most students av not resumed yet,so there were empty bonks,she asked her to stay in one of the bonks,but till the session ended, portals never allocated that bonk.
For food,the man (photograher) and her daughter took it upon themselves to feed her even without complains,
For school fees,two church fellowships paid her fees(Nifes and RCF)
for clothes, she continued to wear rag and didn't send.she was always reading to become something in live.
As a teneger,a virgin.a guy woo her one night as she was coming from class,(he was in his 3rd year eco-stat) she played hard to get,but he got to know she was sufferin cos of the way she appears on campus.
He started buying her gifts, shoes, clothes,undis etc and she fell in love,but each time she visited him in Hall 4 then,he wants to rap her..
In a nut shell,she graduated without her father's one naira,no pregnacy or abortion either,she was wise not to hard more pains to her pains.
MY ADVICE Do you know your heavenly father is your real father?her heavenly saw her thru school and not the earthly father,,
it doesn't matter the hell you have been thru,,,,start seeing God as your true father and watch him take good care of you as from now on.All you need to survive is with ur heavenly father. |
Family › Re: What Is Wrong With Being An Introvert? by sambisa5: 9:00pm On Jun 24, 2015 |
eleojo23: It's like you are new here. Have you not heard of space booking? Once you type a word and click on 'reply', that space becomes yours and you can now take your time to write what you have in mind. And by the way, this thread and my comment was created almost 6 months ago when the thread was not yet on FP (check the date of the post). I did not make that comment today.
So, chill. Stop wondering what happened. Space-booking happened!  aiit i see...thanks for that info |
Culture › Re: 8 Things Visitors Are Forbidden To Do At Oba Of Benin Palace by sambisa5: 8:54pm On Jun 24, 2015 |
hefty4real: U try small. But read the article wella to know if it's d oba in London or West... lwkmdfhbmt oooooooo buhari don suffer |
Culture › Re: 8 Things Visitors Are Forbidden To Do At Oba Of Benin Palace by sambisa5: 8:52pm On Jun 24, 2015 |
dubylhover: wow...spooky,i also heard that d oba does not see his 1st born whn he is born..hw true is that very true oba don't see the next oba...... The next oba arrives home once the father dies but while he is where he is kept,picture of the father would be sent to him,,and that of the son to the father too.... |
Christianity Etc › Re: T.B Joshua When He Was 20 Years Old (Photo) by sambisa5: 11:36pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
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Celebrities › Re: See How Your Favorite Celebs Would Look In 40 Years(wizkid, Genevieve & More) by sambisa5: 8:40pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
cherylsmith: lol. whoever did this eehn...may you be forgiven. hmmmmm  |
Politics › Re: Nigeria’s Treasury ‘virtually Empty’ Says Buhari. by sambisa5: 8:40pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
SUBMARINE: EXCUSES ARE FOR THOSE WHO ARE ABOUT TO FAIL.  God bless you |
Politics › Re: Nigeria’s Treasury ‘virtually Empty’ Says Buhari. by sambisa5: 8:37pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
tucky200: Give buhari what that clueless man inherited, And you see nigeria become the best nation in africa make i hear word  |
Family › Re: What Is Wrong With Being An Introvert? by sambisa5: 9:38pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
eleojo23: Introverts...the most misunderstood beings on the planet even though they have contributed immensely to the progress of mankind (great scientists, musicians, inventors etc). If you need someone who will think outside the box by reflex, you'll most likely find that among the introverts.
Nothing wrong with being an introvert.
It is your nature and you did not choose to be made that way. But the problem is that the world prefers and celebrates extroversion.
One thing however is that both are needed to create balance in the human society. Look at a picture of both personalities.
The extrovert is an outgoing person who is excited by being among/around people, he/she is easily bored when there is no activity to engage in. Yeah, he's got lots of energy to spare. He has no difficulty expressing his feelings. When he's angry, you know and when he's happy, it's also very obvious ('cos he can just throw a party to show his happiness). He may not be so much interested in deep intellectual talk (not in all cases though) but he likes small talks like discussing about the weather and things like that.
But the introvert is different. He is the quiet type who does most of his talking in his head. Yeah, he thinks a lot and likes to engage in deep and intellectual conversations. He can stay alone for days and not get bored. He is not so easy to 'read' when compared with the extrovert. You may not know when he's happy or sad because his default expression is 'blank'. He could be experiencing intense joy on the inside but the best he may do to show it would just be a smile (no, he won't go jumping up and down, screaming in excitement). He likes depth in whatever he does. He is very good at understanding people but unfortunately for him, the gesture is not reciprocated as he is often misunderstood by many. He doesn't make friends easily but once he considers you his friend, you are most likely going be his friend for life. You can now see why he has to keep someone on his 'probation' list for some time before admitting that person into his circle of friends (which is usually small). He likes to work from the background, away from the spotlight. He hates noise! Cool music playing in the background and a book in hand is a perfect way for him to spend the day. When he loves, he is usually committed to the one he loves...
#my fingers are already getting numb from typing... #
Hence, you see that both are needed to complement each other so don't ever entertain the thought that something is wrong with you because you're an introvert. However, you can try make friends with a moderate extrovert and you will see how it will help you open up a little, just the same way an extrovert's excesses are curbed when she has an introverted friend. I say moderate extrovert because a highly extroverted friend can drive you nuts with too much stimulation (from talking and other activities peculiar to her nature).
Pardon my long epistle when i started reading,,i was like ''HOW CAN A FIRST TO COMMENT WRITE SUCH A LONG EPISODE?''........is like you typed this long thing down before. I know how NL is,,once a topic is out before you know it,,,within the space of 2mins, you will be seeing 27comments sometimes you may see the post first,,but with this kind of long episode,you will find yourself on page 2,,,cos before u finish typing,,poeple with shorter texts are there before you.... That is why FTC people rejoice so much,,,but many don't know why,,,, in a nut shell,,,,now i know politics happen on NL too,,,,,,i can't just belive this long episode in FTC.....something happened |
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