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hamaworld:
$I =1975.

#changeisnotbyforce

Alakoba,,,,,,,nigeria is finished

What is this thing am hearing?

DOUBLEWAHALA:
Am so sorry 2 say dis


Beside is my mind make I talk am






I don't like niaja films


I didn't feel sorry 4 him anyway after all






Rest In Peace

Be guided

Elxandre:
Saw him too.

I think there was a provocation somewhat.
The guy even owns a laundry and seems enterprising.

It's important to learn how to control ones temper.

am telling you,,,,,,
the news is really a lesson for all to learn from

decatalyst:
Looking at the pictures, one would say they are a perfect match made in heaven.

i searched the boy on facebook saw him,,,,,,with that same picture as his profile picture,,,,,
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December 14th he uploaded a picture and everyone was liking it,,,,,,a murderer

Tolexander:
what is lovely in a woman dressed in outfits meant for 3 people?

,,,,,,,,,nairalanders fa,,,,,,i never c

bigiyaro:
u can also try some Gud books. I 'll recommend if you want.

pls do,,,, am interested

bigiyaro:
u can try the guidance and counseling dept of a church, hospital or an NGO involved in social networking or charity. Gud luck. If you are in jos, i can help you further.

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Ok thanks
oh,,,i don't live in jos.

bigiyaro:
U need a thorough psychological review and possible treatment.

pls who do i meet,,,,am an introvert too and i have the same problem,,,,,pls help

Emu4life:
And "smh"

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Smh-shaking my head

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[quote author=Oyind17 post=41365370]I went to my elder brother's house for a visit and I lost my peace due to what I saw there.
I didn't call him on phone before going, I knocked and their first son opened the gate for me, when I entered they were eating. Normally the woman was supposed to dish food if they needed more but to my greatest surprise she asked him to dish more, like an obedient servant he went to the kitchen to get more.

About 30 minutes later her younger sister arrived and the wife started sending him all manner of errands, she started with bring yam for Mercy( the name of the girl), he brought the yam and she sent him again to tie the yams together for the girl, I was pissed cos I couldn't believe my brother was doing that.

She later send him to their shop to bring some stuffs for the girl, I left immediately cos I couldn't bear it any longer. The girl is above 20

just stay away from that marriage,,,how they live is none of your business,,,,.as long as ur brother is not complaining leave them alone.
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I once visited my elder brother,,,,i spent one week with the family and i noticed my brother was always harsh on his wife,,,,,,my other family members always tell me this,,i didn't believe till i witnessed it myself,,,,,.
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But you know what?i was mad with my brother within me cos am a woman too,,,but i didn't voice anything out,,,,,strangely, when i looked into his wife's face,,the woman was very okay and normal,,,,as if she was already used to it,,,,
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So if she is not complaining who am i to start drinking panadol on another person's headache,,,,
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Leave your brother's marriage jor

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Lytech:
Thanx anyway...
But you almost ruin Nigeria with your looting...
Am sure you are currently learning from you boss(PMB)

which boss?

Psalm18:
Hahahahaha
Oyibo boy has joined the trade.

He said he saw a former minister and former president dying.

Hahahahaha, just because Diezani is ill and Shagari is getting on in age- all these clowns have been feasting on their condition.
These false prophets may end up dying before them.

The question still remains
Does God only send text message to this people on new year?
Why are they conflicting prophesy,if its from the one true God who created the world?

This people do more harm than advance the gospel with their lies.

be careful,,,,

simpleseyi:
So the only thing you find inappropriate in all this story is that she married a non-christian. My friend you are more dumb than Sanni Abacha. I never knew that fools like you still exists. Christ will deny you on the last day. Well, I am a Muslim married to a Christian. I and my wife are happier than you, Rev and Rev (Mrs) Chris Oyakhilome, Rev Chris Okotie and his serial wives and even several alhajis married to alhajas. Gerara here.

i was actually waiting for a violent bokoharam muslim like you to mention me,,and the mu.mu that you are did,,,,,,,,,,,if it was possible for you to throw me bomb here on nairaland,,you would have done so even before ur stu.pid mention,,,,,,,
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U people take advantage of suffering christains to prove rub.bish,,,,i ve no doubt you married whoever you married out of hardship,,,,,if i find out,,,,
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Happily married indeed,,,,,make i hear,,,
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On nairaland they prove what worth not,,,,,,,
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What a violent religion?,,,,,nations are passing thru killings today becos of muslims,,,,go to iraq,iran,,maiduguri,it is muslims shaking the place,,,,and this one is here talking tatatoto,,,,,,
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Please go and sleep and rather meditate on what to do with the 72virgins waiting for you in ur ye.ye paradise,,,,,,,
.who has time for an insurgent like you,,,?

simpleseyi:
So the only thing you find inappropriate in all this story is that she married a non-christian. My friend you are more dumb than Sanni Abacha. I never knew that fools like you still exists. Christ will deny you on the last day. Well, I am a Muslim married to a Christian. I and my wife are happier than you, Rev and Rev (Mrs) Chris Oyakhilome, Rev Chris Okotie and his serial wives and even several alhajis married to alhajas. Gerara here.

i was actually waiting for a violent bokoharam muslim like you to mention me,,and the mu.mu that you are did,,,,,,,,,,,if it was possible for you to throw me bomb here on nairaland,,you would have done so even before ur stu.pid mention,,,,,,,
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U people take advantage of suffering christains to prove rub.bish,,,,i ve no doubt you married whoever you married out of hardship,,,,,if i find out,,,,
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Happily married indeed,,,,,make i hear,,,
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On nairaland they prove what worth not,,,,,,,
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What a violent religion?,,,,,nations are passing thru killings today becos of muslims,,,,go to iraq,iran,,maiduguri,it is muslims shaking the place,,,,and this one is here talking tatatoto,,,,,,
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Please go and sleep and rather meditate on what to do with the 72virgins waiting for you in ur ye.ye paradise,,,,,,,
.who has time for an insurgent like you,,,?

sherina10:
What I meant by comfort was that he helped me a lot when I moved out from my sister's house. Because he was practically the family I never had then.

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You made a very big mistake my sister,,,,,,,,,in the race of destiny either God or the devil will try your faith,,,,,and you fell immediately,,,,,,,if i was in ur shoe then,,,,i will use the help he was helping me judiciously,,,,,but when it comes to marriage i won't accept,,,,,i can be decieving him till i graduate,,,,and when i do i put him aside,,,,but u didn't think that long,,,,,u quickly jumped into marriage with an unbeliever,,,,,,,,thank God you are a christian and the bible said ,do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers,,,,,what has darkness got to do with light?,,,,
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He is a muslim for God's sake,,,,he doesn't believe what you believe,,
(1) you believe christ died for you,,,,but he doesn't beileve so,,,
(2) you believe christ is the son of God,,,but he doesn't believe so.
(3) you believe you can't get to the Father except through christ,,,but he doesn't believe so,,,etc
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MY ADVICE
when you find urself in darkness,,,,locate the light,,,,,,i mean divorce him,,,,,,let him go for a fellow muslim second wife like himself,,,,,,,,,,,LET ME SHOCK YOU,,,,
he is going to marry another woman after you,,,,,,then ur eyes will be clearer,,,,,,
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U are now serving ,,,and work will come,,,,, at 23,,,,you are still very young,,,,,,,i can assure you that you will find another man,,,,,,all you need do is divorce him and relocate to another state or city where less people know much about you,,,,start a new life,,,,,,before you know it guys will start coming,,,,
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Meanwhile go back to God and ask for forgiveness,,,,,,HE WILL STILL FORGIVE,no matter how far you went doing wrong,,,,,,,,that same God will forgive and reconnect you to a person of your faith,,,,,

trapQ:
When you steal from the church, you're robbing GOD.

make i hear

StephanieEzeh:
What's your take? Some jobless guys can be so annoying! Instead of concerning themselves with their life and financial condition, they end up chasing women anyhow as if it's a paid job! . Sending rubbish romantic texts and initiating boring conversations on phone. Go get a job first and come for the girl later. She would appreciate you better.

and if you do mistake fall for them,,,,,they will claim you mean the world to them,, that they will never break your heart,,,,,,,,once they manage to get a job,,,them don forget you sharp, sharp,,,,,

use.less set of jobless wooers

ShakurM:
[color=#000050]In as much as I like Tuface's music , I won't buy that book with my money, wetin he wan talk about ' A very good bad guy '

I don't know how he does it, like 7 children born out of wedlock, oh it's Tuface, no one bats an eye...

Just one child from the likes of Wizkid n Davido, we tag them irresponsible and call them all manners of names

Hypocrisy at best. [/color]

make sure you have a good information about someone before you start running your mouth like tap here....

Tuface had 6children outta wedlock not 7

Dubemkelly:
Oya Abubakar show thyself, Davido wan send u go school, abi you wan join BH people ni? Davido been calling you. to help. you go school, abi no only u waka hide

waka hide kwa?
Secret son of his,,,,,,

BlaqCoffee109:
there is true love..though rare,it is the soul's recognition of its counterpoint in another..because GOD is love,that GOD essence in man where the breath emanates from is the proclivity to love...but sadly most times,man leans to the fallen adamic nature of self hence selfishness,hatred etc.That stated from your post op, it is clear you confuse infatuation, falling in love for love! To be clear, a guy meets a physically or not so physically attractive lady, she catches his eye..she appears to have all the thing he presupposes a woman to have to keep him happy..he falls in love..he is beclouded by some preconceived notion- the burble bursts when he starts observing some trait that is alien to his ideals..vice versa..they fall out of love the same way they fell in..for infatuation,he just is blinded- on the other hand love itself is a choice albeit a conscious one at that it indeed is eternal

i doubt it,,,,,,true love doesn't exist

Hi55:
Hello nairalanders, I just wish I'll get a shoulder or two to cry on tonight. Things are becoming unbearable for me and I don't know how far I can walk on these shoes. Here's my story...


I am 28 and married to a 35yr old youngman whom I love so dearly. We are blessed with 2 kids and most material things one can pray for. My marriage is 5yrs with just minor issues that do come up once in a VERY LONG while.

The problem is that my hubby does not show me affection and hardly approaches me for sex. I am a very neat, beautiful, Godfearing, educated and classy lady. Most times I am the one who initiates intimacy in our marriage. My heart breaks each time I read or hear of women who deny their husbands sex because its an opposite in my case. For more than two months now we've not been intimate. To make matters worse, he prefers to sleep in the sitting room or children's room than in our matrimonial room.

He always pretends to be tired but not too tired to be chatting on whatsapp with friends. I have his password, that is not an issue. I am not suspecting anything even though I'm not totally ruling out the possibility of adultery. He comes back very late in the night unlike before. Infact even when he comes early these days, he will rather stay with friends within the street or house than come inside. Believe me nairalanders, we don't have issues. Infact he keeps saying that God blessed him with a wonderful woman. It's not like I make the house uncomfortable for him. The only communication we have these days is greetings, asking how the day went or few general topics.

I am not a woman who can't do without sex but I just need to be shown affection even if sex is not there. Committing adultery on my own part is IMPOSSIBLE, i will rather opt for divorce. I am so confused, lonely and heartbroken. I love my husband beyond the word LOVE. I just wish he can see the tears in my eyes as I lay lonely on our bed each night. I am very fragile by nature and gets hurt easily. Believe me...this is killing me.

Please, people drop a word or two for a hurting soul.

are you aware of his recent HIV status,,,,,,,confirm first before panicking about no sex for more than 2 months,,,,

he may be protecting you from what you don't know

lookingbuoy:
Hmmm... good advice. Thanks. But if the other one remains unemployed, I wouldn't like that.

with ur connection,,u can get her a job,yea
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u can advise her to go do PGD in other related courses to boost her degree 2 aid her getting job fast
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NOTE:-she could make a better wife than d newly found career lady,you know women,when a woman is financially independent,to respect her husband bcomes a big deal except she is d God fearing type,after marriage now,u start seeing d real her
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If u ask me d one u met at NYSC,my heart picked for u.
She doesn't have job today doesn't mean she won't have tomoro,as long as she is educated there is hope
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And for God to give u a good job first, it could be that He (God) wants to enable u to marry your nysc lady.

Finally,,be careful,cos devil can be very crafty,,he wants people to miss it when chosing a partner.

Broad n beautifu is d road dat leads 2 hell,ugly,rough,tiny is road dat leads 2 heaven

Wish i could turn back the hand of time,,,,

Afrok:
Chris B's clothe looked oversized.... i think Wizkid rocked it better. Why is Chris' tattoos looking like eczema?

nairalanders,,,,,,,you guys won't kill me with laughs ooooo,,,

tattoos looking like eczema,,,,hahahahahhahaha

madridguy:
TRUE LOVE IS WHEN YOUR PARTNER GET HIV AND YOU STILL LOVE HER.

@ OP, YOU CLAIMED TO BE A HEALTH WORKER AND YOU STILL NEED AN ADVISE ON THIS ISSUE ? IN FELA VOICE : YOU BE SEWEGBE HEALTH WORKER

so beacause of TRUE LOVE,, he should go contact an incureable disease,,,,,,,that is not true love that's foolishness in the highest order

ephemm:
I wish there's a magic wand to put a stop to Boko Haram.

GEJ's 6 years of wasteful & nonchalant governance turned this little bug to a hydra-headed monster.

and what is buhari waiting for,,,,didn't he preach CHANGE,,,,,let him change what GEJ couldn't change..

My mum told me,before the last civil war started,,,,,strange things started happening,,,,

killing and kidnaping of top politicians, and before you know,the war fully came to place...
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Buhari,,,,nigerians will regret ever voting for change,,,,,
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Most people understood CHANGE as removing president jonathan/mama peace,,then replacing them with Buhari/mama aisha......CHANGe

Is anybody perceiving what am perceiving?

When i took a critical look at the happenings,,,,,during this Buhari regime,,,,,i pray we don't see war...

Cos the cloud is changing,,the rain of war is gathering and about to drop.....

While is boko haram changing into fulani herdmen?

I smell war,,,,,,,,,