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I need your advice on how to dumb a lady which I don't like but we have been dating in the last 5 months.
She was introduced to me by a friend and since then I thought the relationship can lead to marriage but my instinct keeps telling she is not the one.

I have had sex with her anyway but her antecedents is something to worry about as she has been married and the marriage crashed without a child.

I have also married with a male child but the marriage crashed due to crazy intolerable behaviours of my ex.
This lady has shown some signs which my ex possessed and I don't want to experience such marriage again.

Please how do I dump her without having any feeling of guilt.

Please feminists should keep off this thread.

@op

Please look for a way to terminate this pregnancy and move far away from this idiot worthy not to be called a man.

1. This is guy is a gold-digger,he will keep using as a means for survival as he is not ready to change.

2. If you have the child,there is an eternal connection between both of you and this guy will use that to disturb your new marriage.Nowadays guys are not ready to marry any single mother again.

3. As for the #7 million, that money is not recoverable as there is no written document that you can use to press charges against him, besides if this matter gets to court the best you can get is "he will be paying you some ridiculous amount every month" as he pleases.

4. I know you are scared of being barren after the series of abortion you have carried out,see my sister you are fertile and God will give you your children when you meet the right man.

5. Pray fervently for God intervention in your situation

Do all these and you will remember me in the future and your heart will bless me.

Guy you f**k up, you just gave all these feminists chance to score cheap points on your case.

Just take it easy and abortion is not a solution, if you are not ready to be a father, allow her to give birth and give her the custody of the child while you relocate from that area to an unknown area. My brother dont fail to discharge your responsibilities as a father to that child and let your mum knows about this.

That lady should be flogged too for trapping you

One day, Jamaal will see all these rubbish his mum did and will rain curse heavily on her.

What legacy is she setting for Jamaal?

#beautyfadesfastthanyouthink

megamart247:
Gurus in the house I have a spare fund of #980k to be precise.
Aside UNIONDAC that is in my kitty.
Please which other stock can I buy?
My investment timeframe is 6mths with expectations of 2018 FY results come April 2019

Cc.Sir WANAJO. CurrentPrice. Pa Emma. BBM. Fuxer. and at all your contribution is highly needed.

Thanks.

Stay aware from stock market till after election

bukatyne:
My brother,

I hear you.

We sha both agree that men are to be more reckoned with.

Lol

Thank you

bukatyne:
We are not on same page here o.

You are coming from a point of men & women are not equal; I am coming from the point that they are and should behave so.

My sister,I know you are highly opinionated on the gender equality and that is the reason I am not on the same page with you but I strongly believe my submission is explicit enough.

The advocacy for girl child started when women began to observe that the female gender was naturally perceived to be inferior to male gender, and the girl child advocates have been projecting the gender equality wrongly. These advocates who are virtually female over time turned out to be feminists in their drive to over project it.

The role of a girl child in the world has been clearly defined by God,that is when she becomes a woman, she is to support her husband and produce children,be socially responsible and nothing more, but feminism has redefined these and kept on pushing beyond gender equilibrium.

In the olden days,girl child was trained to be a home manager only and to be submissive to the dictates of her husband but now,the feminists want more education,more responsibilities,more power to a girl child thinking that a boy child has been empowered enough by the virtue of his gender.

If a research can be conducted on the history of divorce,I can confidently tell you that, it started when this advocacy began to shoot limelight and since then, the rate of divorce has been astronomical.

As it were,the gospel was so strong that some women don't drop their father's name again rather will include their husbands' names at the end of their father's name after marriage. Infact, Women are not afraid to stand shoulder to shoulder with their husbands to slug it with their husband thinking they are equal.

The Society should slow down girl child advocacy and try to balance it up with a boy child advocacy.

The advocacy for girl child started when women began to observe that the female gender was naturally perceived to be inferior to male gender, and the girl child advocates have been projecting the gender equality wrongly. These advocates who are virtually female over time turned out to be feminists in their drive to over project it.

The role of a girl child in the world has been clearly defined by God,that is when she becomes a woman, she is to support her husband and produce children,be socially responsible and nothing more, but feminism has redefined these and kept on pushing beyond gender equilibrium.

In the olden days,girl child was trained to be a home manager only and to be submissive to the dictates of her husband but now,the feminists want more education,more responsibilities,more power to a girl child thinking that a boy child has been empowered enough by the virtue of his gender.

If a research can be conducted on the history of divorce,I can confidently tell you that, it started when this advocacy began to shoot limelight and since then, the rate of divorce has been astronomical.

As it were,the gospel was so strong that some women don't drop their father's name again rather will include their husbands' names at the end of their father's name after marriage. Infact, Women are not afraid to stand shoulder to shoulder with their husbands to slug it with their husband thinking they are equal.

The Society should slow down girl child advocacy and try to balance it up with a boy child advocacy.

rebekah2011:
But he is the one running the company by proxies now. Remember that if not for his intervention the company would have been history.

This is the way Erastus Akingbola started and ran defunct Intercontinental Bank aground
This is the way Cecelia Ibru started and Oceanic bank was history


If a company is afraid to introduce new people into her management team, then there is a serious cover up going on and this will explode soon

So Mr Tony Elumelu has turned Transcorp Nigeria PLC affairs to Family and Friends going by the recent appointments of the Executive and Non Executive Directors.

I doubt if Trancorp will ever grow with the crop of people at the helms of affairs.

Thanks everyone, am happy that i will be more than 1,000km away from her, my company has transferred me to Abuja,I just received my letter now.

ednut1:
thanks God u still alive

Thanks so much my brother, I have distanced myself from her, but the last time we ran into each other on the road she wanted to stab me with broken bottle but the passers by held her and I picked race.

ikp120:
Just leave that woman alone and quietly rent another house and live peacefully.

Don't divorce her. Don't also try to beg her.
Don't let her find out your new base o. I guess you married one of those "Warri babes" wey dey behave like craze . I fear those kinda babes more than unwanted pregnancy o.

Sorry bro!

She is from Delta State urhobo to be precise

Sai baba in action

Adesina will be the best option while prof Soludo should be penciled down for Minister of Finance while Chike Obi for CBN governor after the expiration of Godwin Emefiele tenure.

Ngozi Okonjo iweala can be appointed as Minister for trade and investment

kollinzgee:
Complaining about women's behavior is like battling with nature you can never win. Women are being programmed by nature they can never change for you. They don't even know they are challenging you, they are wired by nature to find the strongest and the most powerful men as mates, just like it is in the animal Kingdom females are attracted to the most dominant males it is called "survival instinct,, meaning they desire males that can guarantee them survival in this harsh world. If you are a guy that complains a lot about women's harsh behavior and over selective nature you will be frustrated because these things have being there even before you were born just that movies have decieved us to be nice guys and to over pamper women. A woman doesn't want you to be nice a woman wants you to be a super confident and fun to be with. Mark that word confidence. Confidence that comes from within not a fake one that guys out there carry. A real confidence stands the pressure of life and is not shaken by mere woman's test.

Women are programmed naturally to behave in this way, May your woman be programmed to behave in a such a way that she would stab you to death and we will gloss over it and say that is the way women behave.

Women are the most dangerous living things on earth, as they kill men without thinking twice.
#battleofthesexes.

Fear Grips Ex-Directors of Skye Bank, Seek Soft-landing
https://www.businesspost.ng/2018/10/08/fear-grips-ex-directors-of-skye-bank-seek-soft-landing/

If Erastus Akingbola of defunct Intercontinental bank can not bee prosecuted, nothing will happen this time around

How much is the salary like?

Do you have Nissan Frontier or Toyota Hilux 4 x 4 truck.

manual gear preferred

I think a guy you have dated for 3 years you should know his personality and integrity level better by now.
The problem with most of our ladies is insecurity,you are thinking if this guy rise again won't he drop you for another lady and your investment in him will go down the drain.

If you truly love this guy and you can attest his love for you is real go ahead and assist him.

You may decide to break the money into tranches so that your business will not be affected

Please who is our president in this country Buhari or Osibanjo?

still waiting for responses

PHCautos:
I have a clean Nissan Frontier truck for sale with all the assesories working.
Truck was bought and briefly used for a project. The duration of the project is over hence the reason for selling.
You can call me on 08084862933.

Thank you sir for your response, but i need manual truck only

Anchor84:
I have a Nissan Frontier Truck Auto and Manual

please drop your phone number lets talk

Anyone that has foreign used Toyota Hilux or Nissan Frontera should drop his/her contact here.

I am ready to pay after inspection

FG kuku ma kill MTN instead of these shot and hide tactics.

Useless government!

still waiting tomorrow is my interview date with their M.D

please oooo

I applied for Haulage Officer and was called for aptitude test which was conducted by dragnet and later went for interview and passed.
Now they have scheduled me for another interview with their M.D.

Anyone with information about the company's welfare (Most especially salary and benefits) should please help me out so that i will not go there to price myself out or bargain low.

Thanks

Alot of factors are contributing to these

1. The rate at which our ladies are not submissive to their husbands is alarming as a result, the violent and immature guys will resolve to beating their wives to demand submissiveness.

2. Men who have attained marriageable ages are scared of getting married as the rate at which wives are killing their husbands is disturbing.

3.women have failed to realise that their divine purpose on Earth is to completement men and not to compete with men,but nowadays our women will want to hijack the control of family from their husbands and render their husbands useless and we all know men have this natural ego of being domineering in their homes.

4. Westernization has reconfigured the thinking of our women and made them to believe divorce is normal even when resolvable and petty disagreements happen the next thing our women's minds is divorce.



All these and more are the reasons our ladies are single and some of them think they are happy being single but I can bet with my life that no man or woman who has tasted sex can hold body for six months or more. If you know this why not resolve whatever issue you have with your husband/wife and keep living together happily.

If you have manual gear of this type or Toyota Hilux or any truck with manual gear except Ford,Mitsubishi am interested.
Please get back to me as soon as possible