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isco10:
24 of April Today is 2nd May

yeah, why?

hey y'all. I think Aliexpress Is still shipping out stuffs.
I ordered for a product on the 24th of last month and it just got into Nigeria today, currently waiting on a call from the post office Next Week.

jboixxx:
[color=#0000ff] There's always an exception to every rule! This is an exceptional case, so the 30days rule might not work!

Please, if they have confirmed your order as FAILED DELIVERY within this LD, I'll implore you to visit your PO and enquire o cuz audit of such items are done monthly now! So, ask to be sure as some PO officials no send.[/color]

chances are my package might have been returned since it has been here since March 16 or so.

busuyi44:
Who pays for the return tickets to China?

yeah, that's what I've been thinking

"You soon find out who your REAL friends are in times of crisis, such as self isolation."

I have heard this a fair few times lately. But, before you cast away your treasured friendships, remember that you can call your friends too.

I understand that when you are at home, day in and day out with little human contact in this pandemic it can feel lonely and isolating.

Everything that you are feeling, your friends are feeling too. You probably miss them, they probably miss you too.

We all deal with things differently and perhaps they have many other worries. This doesn't mean that you have no value to them. This does not mean that they do not care. Try to be mindful of others and dont jump to the worse reaction.

What happens to all the hurt that you've accumulated over time through varying life experiences, do you bottle them up and wait to pass the pain down to the next person or you ask for help and deal with it. Pain does a lot to a person, it cripples you from the inside. Sometimes, we go through this phase and remain the same, sometimes we rise from the ashes of our emotional death and become something born of stark pain and unadulterated hatred, sometimes we defy the norms and be better.

But we should hold on to something I heard someone say.

Hurt people, hurt people.

The question is, what do you do with your pain?

From a young age, most people get taught about pain from others experiences and through their own experiences.

As children and adults, we are made aware of the pain around us, to the point where we quite often watch pain unfold in an unhealthy way.

What parents do not teach their children, but should... is how to deal with that pain in a healthy way. Imagine if this was taught from a young age,..

✔ less depression
✔ Less mental health
✔ A better idea for solving inner hurt

Instead of teaching them the problem, more focus should be implemented on HOW to SOLVE the problem.

One of the most common problems of today is that everyone's a little bit broken and that's okay, but a person must decide what to do with it.

More commonly than not, a man and a woman (or other) throughout their lives have experienced bad relationships. This can make a person lack in confidence, self esteem, trust and leave you very skeptical when considering future relationships.

By the time this person meets their perfect other, both man and woman are too scared to take a chance.

Let that sink in a minute...

It is paramount that a person reminds themselves, that not all men and women are the same. Bad relationships are not always bad (they have positives too), they are necessary, they are experiences, they are lessons which teach you want you do want in a person and what you simply won't tolerate.

Yes, it is a gamble. But, if it's right, it is worth it. There are no guarantees, if this was the case divorce rates would not exist, I like to see it as a leap of faith.

iffehayi:
Sometimes they might have visited your compound and dropped a slip for you to come and claim your package, other times they call.

I would advice that you go to the nearest Post office to your postal address to confirm. Also items not claimed after a period of time are meant to be returned but it's not always so, they might die the package.

Would be wise to visit them soonest.
Good evening, and remember to be safe out there.

thanks, can I send someone to collect it on my behalf?

jboixxx:
[color=#0000ff]Valid! [/color]

Bleep mine is above 30days

Iamundisputed:
I'm not sure the PO is open for full service, but if you're sure of that, visit your local PO and make the inquiry. They usually don't deliver in my area, they just call you to come pick it up and charge a little amount.

its open for business though, but dunno why they haven't called me to. Come pick it up since it has been in Nigeria since 16 march

jboixxx:
[color=#0000ff]Try your luck! Some do open but not for full service. [/color]

alright thanks, I heard they return unclaimed packages after 30 days, how true?

Nexcarfini:
Which state?

abujq

Greetings to y'all.
So I just found out the stuff I ordered has been in Nigeria since 16 of march. I initially ordered it on the 9 of February and it got shipped on the 19th.
Here is the problem I'm facing right now. In Aliexpress tracking, it's still in transit
I used track24 and it's in Nigeria
I used some other tracking websites and some are telling me it's in my country of destination, which is not Nigeria but Denmark. I'm a little bit confused with all of this.
One more thing, if it's in Nigeria, why haven't the post office called since they are open for business and stuff and do they return unclaimed packages? . Your feedback would be of great help. Thanks

jboixxx:
[color=#0000ff]Track24 says otherwise when I checked it here. Don't worry, AliExpress will update your tracking page. [/color]

I just found out post office is still functioning in my area and are open from mondays To Saturday. Hope it won't be too late to collect my stuffs. Since they didn't call and it has been in Nigeria since 16 of march

jboixxx:
[color=#0000ff]Same tracking number or the updates one? Some tracking site link most shippers database to theirs. Track24 populates their tracking query from diff DBs. [/color]

they are telling me it's in Denmark.
WTF.
How is this possible?

jboixxx:
[color=#0000ff]Same tracking number or the updates one? Some tracking site link most shippers database to theirs. Track24 populates their tracking query from diff DBs. [/color]

i used the new tracking number and they said its in Nigeria, I used track24.net.
But when I used caino it's still in transit. Which do I. Believe?

Sane people In this country are just 10% of the population.
I think it's the Hunger that's disintegrating your brain cells.

This whole shit of tracking is mind boggling, check one tracking site and the package is still in " Arrive at country or district"
Check another.
It's in
The shipment package had arrived at country of origin

iKingsley:
yes, it's in Nigeria

i haven't gotten a call though, do I wait after the pandemic then go for my stuff?

Hi again guys, so I used a new tracking number issued and I just found this out. Does this legitimately means it's in Nigeria,? thanks.

Hey you guys. My order got shipped on the 19febraury. But in the Ali express tracking it kept showing package in transit for almost 45days now. I went through this thread and used track24.net and I saw it has arrived Nigeria on the 11 of march. What do I do next cos this is my first time ordering from Ali express.
Do I goto the nearest post office to collect my stuff or is that too late?

I'm an undergraduate,and I'd like to know if it's possible for a bsc degree holder to study a course different from the one he did at the bsc level if he opts to do masters.
is it a prerequisite for me to study exactly the same course I studied at my bsc level.

feed backs would be greatly appreciated.
thanks nairalanders

devlishGINGER:
Dear OP before you start a programme in the church do you test you microphone and other equipment ? Well, now you have an answer...

bros dont play smart...
Your being ignorant.
How does it apply here?
Is it written in the bible you should test your wife before marriage...
Apply sense and logic.

[url][/url]TEST first.

TEST FIRST
There is a popular saying that goes thus "when you want to kill a dog, give it a bad name", and by extension "when you want to save one, give it a good name"
I hear now, Fornication is now called Testing..
So called "Christians", ladies and men alike are shouting up an dan "I can't marry a man/woman I have never slept with oh" its trending now, it's the new game. TEST FIRST
It pains me, how God's word can be blatantly looked upon with utmost disregard and with no qualms at all, it's frightening, even those you thought would know better support it,
"how do I know he is man enough"
"how do I know he is not dead down there"
"me I cannot marry a Man who I am not sure he can perform"
"she must take in first"
"how do I know her breasts are real"
How do I know she is not barren"
The solution? ... Fornication, sorry Testing
Pre Marital sex is Pre Martial sex
Fornication is Fornication
What ever reason you come up with for engaging in it, Justifying Sin won't change what it is.
2Tim 2:19 "Nevertheless the foundation of God standeth sure, having this seal, The Lord knoweth them that are his. And, Let every one that nameth the name of Christ depart from iniquity'
So let's say he performs? So you marry him? What about other husband material attributes?
So he performs on the bed but in other areas he doesn't perform, and you break up with him, the next relationship, you will test too, let's say you do like three or four relationships, each man was tested, aunty, I hail you lasón, after you na you oh, you are now a prefessional tester, electricians need you,
Do you even know men now hide under the guise of I want to marry you, let us test first to come, chop and clean mouth and go, so any man that proposes marriage, gets a free sample of the cake, testing na.. Chei
Do you even know that a poor sexual performance can be caused by several factors, from stress, to drugs, to anxiety
Do you even know a man can perform extraordinarily because he used sex enhancing drugs and aphrodisiacs, and. Not innate ability, I know a guy who buys a particular sexual enhancer almost everyday, so he performs based on that today, and you happy marry him, after marriage one day Laidis you call on him to do the needful, and there's no drug within reach, is alright.
Do you even know a man can perform today and stop performing tomorrow, God forbid? Did you just say God forbid? Know what else God forbids? Fornication.
She can take in today and never take in again after Marriage,
So she is not getting pregnant and you abandon her, what if the problem is with you?
So what if he performs today and after Marriage, he stops performing? You gonna cheat on him?
I know some person's have their minds already made up to do evil, to go with trending practices, but to those who are interested in doing the right thing, in obeying God's word, in allowing God direct then, please,
There's nothing like testing. Hear God's word
Heb 13:4a "Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled.."
Be Chaste, Be Holy..
What if you pass on to the other side while you are on top of her/him, what will you tell your maker?
That you were testing?
PS : To be fair, nobody wants to marry a spouse who is sexually frigid, or inactive, who can't do nada in the bedroom, and we may never be able to know how a spouse will perform till we do sleep with them, and as Christians, we strongly recommend that abstinence till Marriage, but there are giveaways to know if a guy will be good in bed without actually going to bed with him, which you can be on the look out for, maybe I will do a post on this one of these days.
Secondly, that we say do not engage in sex before marriage doesn't mean you should not talk about it,
discuss sexual interests and preferences, sexual inhibitions or difficulties (if any) that you know you have, and ask them too if they have any, do this with your to be spouse with honesty and in a conducive environment where you won't be tempted to go into practical, and if you discover any, seek solutions, don't just abandon ship once you do...
Abstain from fornication!! God bless you