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Seun:
I think you've had too many boyfriends.

seconded

dotrayo:
is not easy for a smoker to stop smoking just like that it will limit before he can stop and if the girl really love u she won't have abandoned u, because if a girl really fall in love no matter how the behaviour of that person is she won't stop loving him and she will do anything for him to stop smoking so if she really love u she won't have abandon u for another man, have it at the back of your mind that she don't love u and try as much as u can to forget her.

hmm, word thanx mate
but your opinion is quite not applicable to her somehow but i really appreciate your concern

galatico:
My Brother you just have to move on with your life cause there is no Girl that is worth dying for. She was only waiting for you to slip so that she could use that as an excuse to break-up. If the girl truly loves you she would still stick to you no matter what, even if you were a drug dealer, she doesn't love you so you got to move on forget about her, she is a nightmare you ought to wake-up from. So wake up my brother. wake up and stop sleeping. [/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][color=#990000][/color]

na wah for ur usage of english sha!!! how can can u call her a nightmare. she remains a dream becoming a reality. Quitting was the condition for continuation anyway

Oracle14:
Samix, don't be hard on your self, do not allow a girl that evidently does not feel 10% of the way you feel for her towards you. Your first mistake was trying so hard to please her by quiting, second mistake was to assume that she was safe back in Naija, third mistake you are making is you think you can't get something better.
Guy sufferings are lessons, don't allow your self to learn the lesson of loosing what you have worked for here, over any girl in the world.
Get a hold of your self man and get your self another nice girl, and this time don't compromise on your gays

she loved me completely then no doubt, i am reaping my own undoing cos the success of the relationship depended on my habit. do u know how hard it is to walk away from ur destiny? we were compatible n was widely known 2geda during service. everything i want in a girl is complete in her, she is typically my kind of girl, well thanx for the advice

smooooooth:
hey dude, its not bout the smoking,k, every engine needs to be oiled, you can't do that from the uk naaaa, just look for someone else and move on,because thats what she did. and stop smoking idiot,it will kill you.

thanx for calling me an idiot but i did rather say u should have read my post very well because it says i have stopped and not that am still in the habit.u never can imagine how replies here have lifted me up from d dark world she placed me. well if she could have endured for 3years, just a year shouldn't be the problem this time around

girls n this dumping stuff, na wah sha. God will help us

girlsoswit:
Haba samix na fight. Why u come tke yab me like that. Is it a sin i contributed 2 your problem. Haba i fear people like u ooo. Sorry o. I'v overstepped my boundary. Na wa o.

so sorry if i yabbed u cos i felt disgusted the way u castigated me in ur reply. anyway am sorry

babakuns:
oh boy move on with your life when you work out your life better chick is comming your way
but remember "smokers are liable to die young"

thanx bro unfortunately there is no ad like that here, moreover in my post i said i have quit smoking

girlsoswit:
Smokers are liable to die young

The wages of sin is death.

That is your reward 4 not stopping d habit. I myself hates smokers. My dear it is very evident that u av become an addict. The earlier u stop this bullshit d better for you. It may evn hinder u getting another girl. Mind u nt every girl can stand d smell. So I advice u to stop d habit If you're still into it. May God help u. As 4 d girl, You'v got to let go and move on wth your life. Things will surely get better u know.

I hate to do this but i believe you have a problem with english and the problem is comprehension, u should go back to my post and read carefully.
You might as well need an english teacher for more tutoring on english because i know i said i have stopped just that she just won't believe. did i ever mention that she caught me in the act or smelt it from my mouth of clothes? my habit didn't get to that stage. I told her right from the onset that i smoke and was going to stop, not stopping on time doesn't mean i was addicted. well who cares if smokers are liable to die young? you? what makes you think i am the loser? because i am crying over it or because i posted it here? I fought against several forces to still be with her till she broke up with me. well i just don't want to talk too much. anyway thanx for reminding me that smokers are liable to die young because there seems to be no ad like that here.
shalom sis

getting mad depends on how close we both are and my possible feelings for her, probably i fancy her deeply

Thanx memi, i appreciate. Am trying to do what i have to do right now

@ Dr. Kitaun,
The last born of my family graduated from CU, he was the best student in his class and tied with the best student from accounting as the overall best student in the school. He made several dinstinctions in his Waec with 5 of them A1s which got him a scholarship from chevron. Talking about my brother, going to a public school wouldn't have deterred him from attaining what he just got. Its not just about the school its also about your person, how dedicated and serious you are. i also have a friend that finished from unilag with a first class and he's with schlumberger at the moment. CU has a very conducive environment for learning.
ITS ALL ABOUT PERSONAL DETERMINATION.

thanx everyone, i have taken the possible and positive advices and really considering how to move on up

jennykadry:
why give hope where there is no hope huh?how r u so sure d girl will spare him a glance not to talk of testing him?

poster i can see u just want to keep hoping till u grow old

good luck

u got me laughing over this i swear, thanx for making me understand that time waits for nobody

Persona82:
she might have used that as an excuse yes, but knowing some gals, I feel they're rather passionate about the smoking and non-smoking thing.

One things clear: you really love this girl. Getting a good thing isn't easy. Firstly you have to convince yourself (probly by seeking professional help) that you've quit totally. Secondly try and look at things from her point of view. If you were passionate about something and she was unrepentant, what would be your reaction? Your fear would probably be that even if she claims that whateva habit has ended, what stops her from going back to it.

Hardwork pays, she'll probobably see that you're genuine with time, if you decide to keep at it (try to keep a level head though because she'll defntly test you). While you're at it though try (not going to be easy) to dislodge yourself from the whole issue by doing what you know best (Not smoking!!!). By doing this you'll have satisfied yourself that it wasn't meant to be and you'll probably come off a better person (experience is always the best teacher).

The whole new person thing might just be to check if you really care, OR NOT

Good luck though

well u sound very correct on this, right from d beginning d issue as being the yardstick for the success of d relationship. she never wanted d smoking habit n i respected her by not smoking around her

jennykadry:
she was already in a relationship,and i guess d best way for her to break up wt u was d cigarette issue

maybe, maybe not

moving on seems to be the right option right now but its very difficult to let go what you have put ur strength and everything into

@noetic,
i really appreciate your post but she's someone that can be trusted cos i know everything about her even her dark sides. Thanx anyway

i know i messed up there but i felt disgusted that she didn't trust me afterall. well thanx anyway enque

I am in a bit of dilemma right now, this is not about a friend or someone i know but my own true story. During my NYSC in 2006, i met a girl of my own dreams though it wasn't my intention to fall immediately because i wanted things to take shape themselves. Prior to her agreement to date me, i told her a certain truth that seems or rather has broken us up now because i have not given it up(so she seems). I happen to smoke cigarette though i don't smoke what people know as 'igbo', i promised to give it up which was my real intention because i had or have no cogent reason to continue doing it but after giving it up i found myself doing it again and again; sometimes she gets to know and i deny(which was to protect the relationship). After passing out i was still doing it secretly then i relocated abroad for my masters degree in 2007 and the relationship was still good. after some months here i gave it up but she seems not to believe me again because of my previous denials. Precisely in april this year she stopped calling me and i confronted her over the phone and she said she couldn't bear the thought of whether i was still smoking or not. I got annoyed and sent her a text saying i was still smoking and that i don't want to be responsible for any delay in her life, so if she finds anyone not smoking she can go ahead with him not knowing there was already someone in the frame waiting for that oppurtunity(according to her). I miscalculated, because i thought the fact that she is an homely girl it would be difficult for her to come across a guy so quickly. For about a month now i have been on her neck trying to make her understand my plight but she told me it's already too late that she has a guy now. I shed manly tears everywhere i go especially when there is nobody around me. The emotional pain got into me that it affected my work and i am paying for that right now. I really loved this girl and still do and i am always calling her every minute but it seems i am fighting a lost battle because she cuts the phone sometimes and whenever i send a text she hardly replies. Its the same story i hear everytime that she can't take me back. Right now am in tears believe me because i have built my world around this girl(ready to settle down with her when i get a comfortable job) and my colleagues at work(fellow nigerians) laugh at me because of it(though am never moved).
All i want is criticisms and advices on how to move on because i don't want to destroy my life(i am far behind schedule in many things right now).
Thanx nairalanders.

hey guys, abandoning this thread is like abandoning a life experience, something u can never take away from you, well guys its all good lets keep it alive forever till we old and gray

where una dey?

wetin concern me, na my pocket hin money dey go, abeg talk anoda talk jare

no be so oooooooooo

am doin great, trying to cope with both cos both are stressful, really stressful

at the mo' ronaldo will be more influencial but don't take it totally away from messi cos he can do the damage as well, presently ronaldo remains the best player on planet earth.

GUNNER FOR LIFE

yeah, i got a job now and am really happy cos i don't have to bug my parents for money again, am really loving it here cos evrything is just right minus the tax anyway, prolly i can't withstand power failure anymore. anyways guy am cool, but this thread is getting boring guys

Seun:
The price increase is surely driven by the cost of the nylon packing and printing. It's overdue anyway.

seun, u seem knowledgeable in most times, am really happy cos its now 10 bucks cos nylon production is high due to high cost or materials used in the production. Thanx to GOD

we are here ooooooooooo

u guy seems not to understand his point, he is trying to help keep what he likes in shape. from the jumping the breast is likely to sag because she is stressing the breast by making it dangle up and down

RichyBlacK:
@blacklion,

I'm not saying that the zombies at the US embassy can't go against what they published on their website and so make DNA testing mandatory instead of voluntary. What troubles me is why they would be denied visa if the DNA of a child does not match that of the father but matches that of the mother. There are many possibilities here:

1. The woman cheated on the husband and got pregnant with the said child
2. The man is not really her husband but a boyfriend she wants to elope to America with
3. The woman divorced the biological father of the child and remarried to the said man
4. The child was adopted (it would be an unusual coincidence for the child's DNA to "match" that of the woman, except the biological mother of the child is an identical twin of the woman)

Why would they be denied visa on any of these grounds?

u spoke well but the actual fact is that we nigerians are synonymous to abusing opportunities and privileges. i wouldn't blame the people at the embassy for any action they carry out in this case