₦airaland Forum

tommy589:
Some of them are waiting to build a strong financial base before marriage. But most times it never worked as planned

It may never work as planned but that's still better than giving birth to children you can't cater for. Look around Nigeria today and you'll see youths in their millions without any direction in life. They are totally confused and don't know what to do to make a meaning out of life.

People like you keep pushing others into marriage that'll lead to their misery. To you, the perfect definition of living a fulfiled life is once you are married with children. You don't care how the children will grow.

Truthsave:
This life is nothing, we are nothing but ordinary sand 😭


R I P

Why not drink poison and die at once instead of wasting your time indulging in something that doesn't worth it? You'll just be opening your mouth and talking sh!t as though you know how people live their life.

Buccalcavity2:
Regardless, people have a right to their choice. It's wrong for you to be angry about the political choice of other people! The scenario you painted up there is a civil crime in some clime.

The more stupid people we have like in the case of Nigeria, the more our suffering as a country persist. That's all I can say.

Flame333:
Those who locked their conscience just to sink this nation, father in heaven will sink them

If your government refuses to fight and stop them, there's nothing God can do. FG have the resources to end banditry and terrorism in the country but they choose not to, instead they choose to use them as political tools. So, leave God out of this. Blame the evil people we have in the name of leaders, especially the president. I remember GEJ once used mercenaries to fight Boko Haram and we were getting results with that because the foreign guys don't have any interest to protect. Since he left office, all the gains we recorded in pushing these guys in have now been lost because of the gains the FG derives in the violence.

Difrent:
He has rights to his own thoughts and actions, he shouldn't be forced to take his mothers political views

But Obidiensts started this and we warned them then of the effects . You can't want everybody to vote for your candidate and those who don't are tagged igbos haters , targeted in cyber attacks ,bullied online and offline , blackmailed , their businesses destroyed , their endorsements cancelled ..... All because they want to exercise their right to freedom of choice just the way the Obidiensts are exercising theirs. No now , you don't do that In a democracy

Not everything in your comment is true. APC had the security forces and guns. They control and hijacked the polls.

The major reason why the Obidients were and are still angry is how sane people that have suffered Buhari's APC maladministration, which was spearheaded by Tinubu would still want to support Tinubu. Tinubu himself was also supporting all the foolish things Buhari was doing. Most importantly, Tinubu never had the knowledge to run the economy. We all witnessed that during the campaigns. Most of the things that came from his mouth apart from the written speech were not making sense.

Today, when you look at the situation of the country, you can equally justify the position of the Obidients back then. Sadly, we still have APC supporters and we are wondering whether they are eternally sick.

adioolayi:
Mr President just dey see money ..happy...he know say everywhere don stew

Unfortunately, he is not deeply happy because of his country or the development this discovery can bring to his Nation.


That's typical African leader for you

It's a common sense. There's no way you can't manage something in bits better than managing the whole as a unit.

owagbeba:
This is why it is important to do annual health check after the age of 40. Complete check won’t cost more than 70k, that will include BP,PSA,Renal, ECG, Complete blood work, Ultrasound etc.

Could this be a case of “leave that thing” syndrome amongst Nigerians? Is it toxic Agbo? I don’t know! But Nigerians should try to avoid excessive alcohol consumption; more of Zobo tea to aid renal function and improve blood pressure.

After a certain age, genetics tend to play against us blacks. We do have tendency to retain water and salt which often leads to HBP, unlike whites who are genetically prone to build up in their arteries.

Health check is important folks when you clock 40..

Good diet and exercise would do the magic 50% of the time. Most people don't exercise nor eat good food. They only eat to deal with hunger and not to live long. The other 50% is obeying the 10 commandments, especially in sex-related matters and welfare of others, and also holding firm your spiritual walk with God.

All the medical checks and stuff are good but if you don't balance these two important factors to healthy living, disease would suddenly develop in your body and you'll be thinking it's because you don't go for medical checks.

CyrusVI:
The Insecurity in the country isnt a joke

Every single region is in flame, but i noticed theres never being a case of gunmen attack in the South South

Leave South South alone. We don't do ritual killings here, nor try to create a caliphate, or separate from Nigeria. We are peace-loving people.

Kennitrust:
This thing doesn't look fake to me... My opinion.


A place like Indian, Jesus will quickly do miracles to divert their attention from Hindu and others fake things that they worship.


I believe in Jesus!

You even have the time to lend a voice to help doubting Thomases. One thing I know is that the people that condemns Christianity the most on this forum are people from the SW who are Muslims. Northern Muslims are very few here.

nedu666:
President Yoruba
Ig of police Yoruba
Coas Yoruba
Immigration Yoruba
Prison Yoruba
Customs Yoruba
Attorney General Yoruba
Supreme Court Yoruba

Yet Yoruba people dey collect wotowoto from herdsmen

The ruling class don't care about the masses. It has nothing to do with all of them coming from the same tribe. When Buhari and his people were there, the North was still burning.

vanbonattel:
Nobody holy pass.

Forget about their lifestyle, focus on what caused the accident. Bad roads, police or robbers chasing them or faulty vehicle?

Nobody deserves to die just because they went to a club or party.

This is how fools reason until they become victims.

dumahi:
I prefer snacking on dry noodles instead of cooking them.

Also, while I don't prefer snacking on parboiled rice instead of cooked rice, I enjoy it. I can eat a plateful of parboiled rice.

Who else has this taste or habit?

It's abnormal and you need deliverance. Sooner or later, a disease may develop in your body as a result. Don't think you are safe. If you can't stop the addiction on your own, seek God. Again, it's abnormal.

This memory will remain in the head of this child forever. Sometimes, this sort of action can change the child for good. Other times, expect a very bad result.

Leemzyy:
Oh yea i mean dont call me that unless u wanna make me blush

Oh! Got ya.

chigoziri2403:
Till tomorrow, I don't understand why people drive at break neck speeds, where are you rushing to?
Is there an award or what
The same car he used his money to buy killed him

Who told you he died? Someone that sustained minor injuries, then called his friend to come pick him up from the scene? Do you even know that he removed his plate number from the car before leaving?

Leemzyy:
U said daddy's girl

My bad! But I saw it in your signature.

DeLaRue:
It is not a personal property.

Future President's will use it.

A Nigerian President needs to be able to fly in a plane owned by Nigeria as and when needed.

People who say the prime ministers of some countries in Europe use commercial planes. Yes, but those countries airports and airlines are very well connected to other countries.

Nigeria airlines don't fly to many countries. I think Airpeace only flies to the UK.

So, what if Nigeria's President needs to travel to France, USA, Brazil etc? He should fly Air France, or United Airlines? What if those airlines are not available on the day he needs to fly?

Because the price of beans and garri is high, Nigeria should not buy an aeroplane? I disagree.

The Nigerian government can do both - buy the plane and continue to work to make life easier for citizens.

Are you trying to say we never had any private jet? If yes, wasn't that enough for now?

Leemzyy:
Biko stop na

What I do?

Leemzyy:
Uhm samuelson06 thanks for this,i will save this 4 my own benefit,i appreciate sir

You are welcome, daddy's girl

Leemzyy:
Auhm for phone am not someone who like the idea of using or checking her man's phone,and as for settling down,we both are still schooling tho,he still schools at police academy so we dont meet much tho

Well, on that phone thing I'll personally encourage you to do it. That's everyone's personal area and it shouldn't be hidden from the closest person to you. You can only know people deeply through the things they do with their phone. By phone here, I mean smartphone. Everything you see will be telling you one thing or the other about that person. From there, you can ask questions and understand the person better. Most importantly, human beings hide to do wrongs where no one is watching them. Once they know someone is watching, they either let go of some føølish things or do it in moderation.

If you feel you are involve in the relationship, then be involve indeed. Don't do it like you don't care. The relationship may not really take you to where you want at the end of the day but you can learn valuable lessons for the next one. I'm not saying you should be policing a man but let him know that you're interested in their life based on your terms of relationship with them.

Leemzyy:
Hmm we both have agree abt that,not like he even ever ask me for intimate stuffs like that,thats why i prefer him alone,i feel other guys will ask me for those stuffs,i shall heed to your points and advice

Sounds good. But he may choose not to ask because he knows you wouldn't say yes to him. Now, check if he's got only you. Does he allow you have access to his phone? By the way, how long do you want this to last before you finally settle down with him?

Leemzyy:
Then does it mean i'm wrong by not wanting anything intimacy b4 being legally married?

No, you're not. I encourage you push for it if that's what you want. In fact, that should be the norm. However, everything comes with a price. The problem may not be you but on the side of the man. You'd have to let him go if he wants to and you wouldn't also have to tolerate double-dating because you don't want him to touch you for now.

Again, you must also ensure it's not going to be rush thing to get married simply because you want to have legal sex, then regret the marriage later. So, you'll have to look at the situation very closely and not shoot yourself on the foot in the long term.

Leemzyy:
Ok thankx, so u were saying?i actually say that being in a relationship does not mean u must be intimate?like in my case as well

Intimacy boils down to understanding. But in most cases, the man will agree with that but his body language will suggest something else. Men that still want to be with you regardless will most likely have a side girl and let you be. But at the end of the day, it's all about what you want.

Leemzyy:
Hey calm down,i respect you with my words pls i will plead with you to do the same,will you?

I didn't intend to offend you in any way. I'm sorry if you understood my words in a way that hurts.

Leemzyy:
Intimate?? i have never even hug a guy even my so called fiance

Lol. And you are talking? Abeg calm down. You ain't even baptized into this sh!t.

Leemzyy:
Hmm okay oo,i'm 19

Too early to assume anything or even talk about intimate relationship. Pray and hope for the best.

serverconnect:
It is not easy, but you have to forgive and forge ahead.

I don't know why it's so hard for people to forgive. They'll be dragging little things for years.

Aldol:
If Nigerians want to vent their anger ,na national assembly and governors we supposed vent on but everything we blame Tinubu. Let the best president enta President seat in Nigeria,he won't really succeed with the national assembly members and governors (though not all) we have

Let's just say the country was designed to fail. Because apart from the failure of the president, all the 36 state governors are failures. There's no hope for the common people of this country. That's the sad reality.

Aldol:
If we are to be fair without bias, Tinubu is doing everything possible to alleviate the suffering economy but our problem are the handlers and the Middlemen , they may not allow Nigerians to get these benefits after all they know Nigerians will heap all blames on Tinubu

You are wrong. Your thinking is very shallow. It's like taking a toy from a baby, then the baby starts crying, next you carry the baby on your shoulder and start petting as if you don't the baby wants the toy you talk away.

Trust me, all these efforts won't yield any result as long as he refuse to restore fuel subsidy. First of all, he had no backup plans before removing the subsidy. Look at where we are today—total mess. Now, it's like his government has not started at all because he not done any positive thing to alleviate the suffering of the people.

Why not sponsor a bill against the hardship Nigerians are going through?

It's not you to say bro. Leave the authorities to investigate if it was a prank or not.

I can bear with a Northern woman working as a housewife because they are naturally humble. But Southern women may frustrate your life because they've seen money.