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firetrap: Find a way to let him meet your boyfriend. That might put a stop to his actions

Haha, I don't have a boyfriend.
It's on Internet, he's an e-stalker...
I don't have the possibility to block him...

kaboninc: @Sanboy.... Did you actual wrote these?

Yes of course. Despite my name I'm a female.

Handsomeemmy: Thanks...i 'm still here. Sweet dreams

Handsomeemmy: You are welcome.... You are not sleeping yet?

Well I'm preparing myself to go to bed at the same time.
I guess I'll tell you good night now, sleep well.

Handsomeemmy: I will go with you view, i'm on the side of the mum, because without her, the wife won't have the opportunity of being with the man.... But in the long run, the wife owns him

Haha, thanks.

Handsomeemmy: Not sleeping yet, still wild awake though on bed, sleep most of the afternoon.

Ah ok, you didn't answer the post, on which side are you ?

Handsomeemmy: Good evening to @sanboy, hope your day has been great.

Yeah, it was tiring... and you ? I suppose that you're sleeping...
Sorry for the delay, sweet dreams.

Multcolor: I Like that

Thanks.

SLIDE waxie: u, san, are still jumping d fact abt individual differences!
That needed to be considered in any situation! The truth remains dt 90% of people who vet their anger on d spot dnt really mean it, and they alwys regret it. They are mostly described as plain, honest and straight. While d other silent and supposedly cool one are mostly dangerous to deal with. I am off d context of this thread, and only trying to correct the stereotyping dt being angry is foolish. Well, it's not!

Hum ok, I understood your point, you are entitled to your opinion and me to mine.
Being angry is not being foolish, all depends on what you're angry at.
Being angry because someone attacked you and took your phone is different than being angry because someone don't want to marry you. To vent your anger on the spot is something typically childish, [or let's enter into stereotype: with women who cry for any occasion], or feminine. A man is not supposed (according to society) to be overwhelmed by his emotions so easily, and when he does let the anger break free, he is called 'savage' in opposition to the 'civilized'.
Men are said to be 'rational' in opposition to women who are 'emotional'.
In this days, the only burst of anger which is tolerated is when it's a young child who don't know how to conduct himself yet. For a man to openly be angry for a rebuttal is just plainly uncivilized.
For example, if you pass an interview for a job that you always longed for and the boss tells you that you're not taken at the end of it, is it a reason to start getting crazy in the room and to knock over the boss' desk ?
Is this OK to you ? I suppose no, so why will it be OK for this situation ?
Emotions (deception here) should not be an excuse to cover up foolishness.

alutacontinua: Being angry because someone turned down your offer is childish and immature. By offer, I mean any kind of offer. An offer is meant to be accepted or rejected. The 'offeree' should be prepared for any of the two outcomes. I just hate it when people ask you for something or ask to do something and you say 'NO' and they take it personal. That means they were practically trying to impose that thing on you in the first instance. There's a room for feeling bad but not ANGER!

SLIDE waxie: why DID you CHOSE to biliv dt the one who accepted d turning down IS WISE?
Is it because he pretended to accept or decided not to react?
Before a man decides to 'marry' a lady, u knw wot he has gone tru and overcame psychologically?
When u mentioned d issue of choice, i dnt biliv u undstud it is in total relation to individual differences? The one who gets angry shld be cut a slack, as he is different from d one who chose to accept! Hence, no one is wise, no one is foolish!

Kslib: @op you are handsome BUT beware cos one thing is for sure; you wont leave this thread thesame if you're someone who easily gets hurt from what people say.. ............
The ugly ones on nairaland will attack you badly..
The jobless old ones who have graduated since 1922 will pour out their frustration of you....
The jambite who got below 150 will pour out their woes on you...
The ones whose gf's have dumped for fine boys will finish you..
All those ugly girls with rock hard face and flat bottom coupled with 2 naira bosoms will definately strike..
Note: Even the ones in the university who will graduate with just "CERTIFICATE OF ATTENDANCE" will call you bloody jambite and ask you to go read your book..Remember you are handsome but my advice is "PICK RACE"..

I laughed.

nony30: ‎​​•⌣•Ϟ•► γφυ‘arε ωεІςφ♏ε ◄•Ϟ•⌣• Although I do this for beauties only,somewhat a "gintleman"