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I have been so frustrated and angry...I did the BIS stuff yesterday with mtn...just wasted 1500 for nothing..The modem connects but no browsing occurs...It says DNS sever look up failed on google chrome and nothing is going...Mtn are thieves but will not allow you steal from them...#BB angry smiley

Miss_Ife: I am, and enjoying every bit of it.

That's very good but what about your husband..Is he enjoying it lyk u? Wht abt financial wahala?

muffins99: Why won't people be unhappy in marriage. All my friends are married and few of them are happy. In nigeria, people see marriage as a status symbol more or less the same as having a degree, house or car. But marriage is not like buying a car or choosing a career; you can move house or change your car/ career as often as you like, you can choose self employment and set up your own business but unfortunately, if your marriage does not work out, your life is changed forever. Even if you get divorced, you cannot completely move on because traces of your marriage remains, e.g. children, mutual friends, shared assets, etc.

I'd like to get married someday but I'm not in a hurry and if I don't get married, its not the end of the world. Only fools rush in where angels fear to tread.

If the marriage does nt work out, then whts τ̲̅ђε̲̣̣̣̥ solution?

Miss_Ife: That being said, I don't want to sound too harsh either. Let us know the kind of things that make you sad in your marriage. There must be a solution.

I am not married o...are you?

Miss_Ife: I find it sometimes annoying the way people blame everything on marriage. I wonder, would these same people be happy if they were single ? Serious matters aside (domestic violence etc.), I don't think so. Most people I know who are in healthy and happy marriages are healthy and happy people, and they were before meeting their spouses : financially independent and wise, good at maintaining cordial relationships with everyone, good at keeping close friends over long periods of time, having healthy relationships with their own family, having dreams and goals and working towards them and so on.

My point is, if you can't make yourself happy before getting married, there is no way marriage is going to make you happy. You need to stand on your own two feet (emotionally, financially etc.) before thinking of going there. I see many people going into marriage with huge personal issues : low self esteem, bad relationships with parents/siblings, character issues etc. Those are already bad conditions to meet a good partner, but if you carry all your burdens and problems and doubts into marriage hoping the union will solve them... and your partner does the same, no wonder marriage ends up being a big mess !

Marriage is what you put in it. You should know yourself enough to take care of yourself and preserve your other half from your flaws, and make sure you bring the best to the union. That's why we say marriage is hard work.

Seriously U cannot compare a single guy and a married guy in terms of happiness...single men are simply just happy, nothing can change that but as for married men a lot of things happen everyday that make them sad inside and The bad thing is many wives don't notice at all

It has been scientifically proven that many men become unhappy after marriage. It may not be the nagging wife or lack of money but many other things are involved. Marriage may seem like paradise but men love freedom, we don't like being tied down and it goes against our nature. As single men we are completely on our own, to ladies it may actually be a bad thing but to men it is a chance to battle the hardship of life and come out victorious.
Why do men get married? Is it solely for the benefit of a companion to satisfy our sexual needs? In my own opinion sex is sweeter if there are different varieties..fat girl today or slim girl tomorrow..having sex with the same woman for over 6 years may get boring and monotonous and if that's the reason a man marries then his marriage days are numbered. Do men get married for the purpose of having a woman to cook for us and take care of the house? It is a sad fact that some women do not know how to cook and take care of a home and the ones that actually know how to, complain all day and nag the food out of the man. There are many other reasons to get married and I believe the most important one is to bear children but what about if the child is an olodo or physically deformed or has a congenital disease that would end up draining the whole cash? The high cost of school fees may also deter some men from having children.
Notwithstanding, marriage is a beautiful thing if a man marries the right woman but where can such a woman be found? Naija girls of nowadays are all searching for rich guys or want guys with the biggest male organ that can perform for 3 days and when they end up with a man below their expectations they begin to make life hell for the man. My question is this, since most men are unhappy in their marriage what can be done to make the situation better? Should the man turn to K-Solo/DKB and beat the woman or should he get a divorce? This post is for matured minds only as it can save a marriage from collapsing........Peace

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There is nothin wrong wit it..In some cases it may even be to τ̲̅ђε̲̣̣̣̥ advantage of τ̲̅ђε̲̣̣̣̥ family...Lyk setting up a clinic dat can be run by a family filled wit medical professionals...My bro is studyin medicine,I m studying Optometry...I knw a family that all τ̲̅ђε̲̣̣̣̥ children are studyin Accounting...Nothing dey sup

Johnbull,Acidtalk,Sunday,Monday,Tuesday,Hope,Faith,Joy,many more

Seun I m feelin u man....but hw do I post a topic?

Posts lyk this make sense and are τ̲̅ђε̲̣̣̣̥ reason I m still on nairaland....I ve nt yet started working, still in school but I plan to get married when I m 28 and strt having kids arnd 30...I also plan to be saving 25% to 30% when I strt earning money...pls can someone tell me weda it's okay to pay for ur kids sch fees frm ur savings or frm τ̲̅ђε̲̣̣̣̥ salary straight..

Korrection: Meet me at guest house this evening make we booze.....i dey come hall 2 come pick 2 chics..one for you..one for me

=))º°˚˚˚°ºнa=DĦa=Dнaº°˚˚˚°º‎​...U na baba..

Uniben too big for all dese kain rubbish jor.....Ai dey hall 4 dey flex beans....Malu students make una no enter water o

GEJ is a big idiot...He is a very confused man taking advice from foolish people....All his actions shw that he has no clue on hw to lead a country...He is τ̲̅ђε̲̣̣̣̥ king of fools

Funkymallam: U must b 20 really. Who still uses credits to browse? There are data plans.

As for the netwrk problem u mentioned, i bother only about my ntwrk but u bother about ur ntwrk and RIM servers.
U see, u bother more

U must be a fooool at 40 rlly...by credit I mean data plans...and pple stil use credit to browse...RIM servers are okay btw...stop tryin to compare bb wit other phones because they both serve different functions

750mb..#bb rotfl smiley...dats rubbish...hw many youtube videos can you watch in a month..hw many series can you download..Bro bb is simply τ̲̅ђε̲̣̣̣̥ best....I love iphone and nokia but when it cums to browsing dnt compare wit a bb...d data compression is amazing

puplin: Lol...i use my Nokia for basically everything u use your blackberry for & more.That's the point i was trying to make. So what's the fuss? Lol

Τ̲̅ђε̲̣̣̣̥ fuss is u wer indirectly alleging that my reasons for owning a blackberry are childish...wht model of nokia do u use? What are its functions? Do u browse without thinking abt credit or netwrk problems...

puplin: If those are your reasons for opting for a berry, then u must truly be 20

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Chelsea did well jor...but it was all based on luck and strategy..opportunity favours d prepared..chelsea played rubbish(parking chisco bus in front of τ̲̅ђε̲̣̣̣̥ post) but τ̲̅ђε̲̣̣̣̥ important thing is that they won.....Up Gunners

Jakumo: If I were as rich as Mr. Zuckerberg, I would be very wary of marrying a medical doctor, given the deep working knowledge doctors have regarding drugs that kill in a manner that mimics "natural causes", without leaving chemical traces for the coroner to detect.

Besides, for an Asian woman, this one definitely wins no awards for feminine beauty. Matter of fact, she looks downright mean.

I'm taking bets now on how long this union lasts.

I am astonished by yr foolish comment....for ur info dey hav been dating for a long tym and bsydes its d Beautiful women dat wld look for divorce and carry half of ur money dat u want abi....mtcheeeeew...U re just commentin to appear relevant but u re actually ignorant

Beware of scam o...when buying a used iphone check τ̲̅ђε̲̣̣̣̥ battery life and if it drops network...also check if it has bn jailbroken...used Iphone 4 shld go for 65-70k and new iphone 4 80k to 90k...used iphone 3gs 45k to 55k

Lemme giv u guys d low down....Arsenal wld hav bn d best team In d premier league if not for our coach(Wenger) who has a phD in Economics....any game dat Ramsey plays in is already 60% lost b4 d match starts because d guy is tryin to find his form..dis is a critical period and in critical times u cannot be tryin out experiments..Chelsea hav d confidence and momentum and if they start with Drogba they may likely win..so d truth is if Wenger starts d first team (witout Santos,Benayoun and Ramsey) Arsenal wld win but if not τ̲̅ђε̲̣̣̣̥ game is For Chelsea....

The most twisted movies are Shutter Island and Inception....shutter Island is d bomb sha...Imagine gettin to the ending of a film and finding out that everything, I mean everything was not as u thought...d whole drama was inside di caprio's mind....U guys shld watch τ̲̅ђε̲̣̣̣̥ movie and come back to this thread and confess....McDreamy