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D gud old days. Can remember mumsy seizing our 8bit on so many occassions cos we were addicted to it. I used to luv popeye, mario, tetris etc. Wen it was time for an upgrade she was stil d same person dat got our sega. Lovely childhood memories.

The moment I find out, am whisking my kid outta there. Kids tend to idolize whoever is their teacher thereby copyin a thing or two frm them.

I would nt want to hav my kid tell me there's nothing wrong with being a homosexual afterall my teacher is one.

PREVENTION IS BETTER THAN CURE!

JESUS!!! This is so shocking! We accept in Good fate. RIP SIR

sexybash:
I noticed that mostimes the most hard working African good wives die before their husband because they carry around so much anger and hate while keeping it in the family
I pity them though

my dear they carry lots of bitterness and unfulfilled dreams just because they want to be tagged 'good wives'. Thank God for these times, life is a lot easier.

@aisha2 infact you said it all. This man sees or has seen himself as her messiah and her all in all so he can get away with watever he like with her.

You know what? She has never dissappointed him by having a mind of her own and thinking of how to add value to her life. Instead she has remained in whatever level the man has kept her.

The man sees her as a liability. Take for instance, the man can't ask her not to pump water if the woman contributes even if its just the money for fuel.

I think the summary is that she should get up and get her life going by adding value to herself no matter how little.

3cycle: Divorce She said is out of it.
You just nailed it,training her in the uni gave him an upper hand in her life decisions. Somedays he disregards her advice because to him"she will remain the brat he cleaned up years ago and with her little education she can't tell him what to do.

Please tell me what actually makes marriages turn sour after a short while? Before I go into it and regret ever existing

My dear for me,its DEPRECIATION.

When a couple enter into a relationship,, they have very high expectations of each other and this attaches value to each of them but wen in the long run those expectations start to drop, LOVE begins to fade. So know ur partner(tho u can't know dem enough). Just do ur best nd make sure(infact) STRIVE to APPRECIATE so your value will do same

@op owning to d fact dat dis man traind her in school,I think he's been enjoyin all round submission from her and any deviation from wat he is used to is simply tagged sturburness or rebellion.

I think d lady is now realizing that she has been in a cage and wants to revolt. So sorry darl its too too late.

The man will definately com for her cos she is his investment and he is using dis means to intimidate her the more. And u know wat? When she comes back she will be more submissive.

Its just a pity dat she can't do any thing about it now cos it has gone on for a very long time. Bt if she wants to revolt and be free, she would have to be a divorcee. May God help her

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beeevan: Sounds like urinary tract infection, get yourself checked and keep it sheathed before they give you AIDS! Which yeye trust for BF/GF are you talking about?

ROTFL which one is 'they'? This is so funny.

@ op pls go for a test and get treatd. 'A stitch in time saves nine'

A big thank you to every one that stoped by to say somthing to soothe our aching hearts. May God alwayz be there for you when you need him.

@blueeyes1 thank you for those words. I actually console myself by sayin If God did nt allow it, it wouldn't hav happened. I have left every to God as he knows best. God definately will see us tru.

Remain blessed.

This actually brought tears to my eyes. Wat kind of foam,how much is it? Can she do this to her flesh and blood?

This life is so unfair. If dat girls parents had wat it takes to look after her, don't think they would hav let her go in the first place.

And for the perpertuator, she needs to go in for this. Where are all these human right activists? She needs to be prosecuted and sentenced! THIS IS EVIL

thorpido: May God comfort you both,blueeyes and sandiyke.May He strengthen you and give you that fortitude to bear it.
Be strong!

Amen. Thanks a lot

bukatyne: @blueeyes 1 &Sandiyke

May God grant you both the fortitude to bear the losses.

Try to do all you can to care for his family when necessary

Thanks dear. Its well

MarvellousGod: It's well sister. .. Try and engage in things that will make you wash off the bitter memory, like going out, visiting friends, reading books, listening to music/worship songs etc..it's already happened, you have to move on, I'm sure your brother never intended to inflict you with such pains when he decided to leave and so wouldn't be happy with you now. you hv to be strong for him ...Brace up dear and may you find solace in the lord...

Just make sure his family doesn't suffer, that way he will be so proud of you


@sandiyke, May you find comfort in the lord too

Amen. Thank you so much

stunningjudy: Sorry for your loss @blue eyes and sandiyke

thank u so much

My dear am in same shoes right now. The pain nd ache is killing. I so wish its all a dream. God pls come to our rescue!

Mutuwa: My four year old dota manipulates android: she knows where d pix are,d vids and d games,infact she uses d camera for a selfie.
She knows how to put on d dvd disk to play her favourite toons.

Seriously, this is exactly wat my daughter does with my fone and it surprises me. Though shez nt up to four. Don't tink I was dat smart at her age.

Felt so cold while reading this. .They will never be the same.

So does this mean awareness is not on-going? In Nigeria,one can't even go close to the vicinity where they have this quarantine centers,talk more of invading the place!

Only God knows d kind of disaster that awaits them. Enlightenment is a blessing indeed.

Interesting. There can't be an end to innovations.

carefreewannabe: I wonder what kind of friends people keep. I would not have to worry that my friends won't believe me. If there is no MUTUAL TRUST, I don't call them friends.

most times comparism tends to creep into friendships. Giving the scenario dat d op is already married and d friend in question is yet to, she mite b misunderstood.

Its just a human factor.

I know dat feeling of nt being d one to always break d bad news wen urs seems beta.

I hav been in same shoes bt this was wat I did. Knowing dat friend mite nt believe me, I got all d details I tot would b helpful, bought a new sim card, sent dem as text messages to her step by step. Including d name of d girl,their regular spot etc

She then called me to tell me of wat she received. So she went on with d investigation herself. Infact she had to quit even though it was painful cos d guy was a chronic womanizer.

Thank God she's happy now. So op look for a way to let her know u owe dat to ur friendship.

Bb all d way! Not wen u have little kids throwing dat fragile android about. Secondly, the data consumption is crazy!#teambb

@op u got it all wrong by forcing ur way tru at the first instance. That is not hw any girl wants to loose IT. What shez probably going tru could b d psychological effect of dat nite.

My dear, u've got lots of work to do. I wld advice u dnt b too forward with sex. Spoil her wit gifts(must nt b expensive) try sex outside ur home,could lodge etc

In general, spice up ur marriage. Do things together to tighten ur bond.

Smh...things happen. So sorry for that woman cos of d guilt shez going to live with. I think she needs help. Rip kid!

In my own opinion I think the key word to look out for should be APPRECIATION. If a woman takes up the running of the home maybe because the husband lost his job, I tink she deserves lots of support an apreciation from the man and not insensitivity and ill treatments.

I say this because nature made it dat the woman is always at the receiving end.(Citing dis instance from conception, the woman recieves the seed and nutures it to maturity.) Turnind the table around tends to put the woman through stress emotionally,physically and other wise. So the man sud not add to it by driving her nuts.

My candid advice to any man in such shoes is that for u to still have your respect, its a time to luv her more,care more and support more in every way you can. By this she will know u apreciate her and take away eVery big deal from the role change.

favoredgal: Thanks dear. Bought baby tribotan. Fingers crossed

my dear my son had same and I used rising raving powder and it worked magic cos it really was sturbon.

If this is true then I really fear the worst!!!!!

Wow thank God for healing and making you whole. My love to your wonderful family.

Thought they said love is blind how come yours can see?

JESUS!!! See Ebola runing to spread. Lord help us oh!

ziky2010: Who are we going to believe now.Truth be told,Gej is trully incompetent to rule Nigeria

Then Tinubu is more competent. Smh