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If she says No then obviously the relationship isn't going anywhere and they should break up unless it's a case where they just started dating and the guy pop the question.

I mean I seen some situations where a guy will be dating a girl for a month then ask her to marry her, in cases like this some ladies will day No so they can get to know each other more before marriage.

shortgun:
Did I mention anywhere in my post that Mrs Rita is my wife?
I stated that the girl in question is in school, are you suggesting she should be withdrawn from school to learn a trade?
I will not be involved in this case if I had noticed any slight sign of mistreatment on the girl.

She can finish her study then learn a skill but for the girl to run away means she is obviously not happy in that household, you would like to say they brainwash her or something but an eighteen years old girl have started having sense to know when she isn't been treated right.
If she is happy in the household, she wouldn't have run away.

Also abuser always have a way of hiding their abuse, you won't see any maltreatment because most you have heard is from the guardians and how the neighbors are wicked.
If this isn't your family like you claim and you are care about the wellbeing of the girl then try and hear her own side of the story

Nigeria don tire me

Benwallt:
The 3rd girl on top say her head be like bicycle seat her lips can be likened to pomo Aramoko. I love it 100%. I hardly ever seen a boy with dimples. Some girls get all the aforementioned but you see the kind craze they pack with it, you will wonder

I don't understand your words, are you complimenting the lady or insulting her?

All this backhanded compliment 😒

Let me ask you a question.
Is Mrs Rita treating the young girl right??

Because there have been cases whereby a lot of family exploits Orphans especially when they realize that the orphan doesn't have anywhere to go.

They will keep using her and using her until she becomes old in their house or she will get pregnant for some guy in the street and still continue the life of poverty.

Since the young girl is now 18, I suggest that you pay for her to learn a trade, so she can acquire a skill in the long run because I have a feeling that you and your wife have never given her a stipend all through her years of staying with you, you will say she is staying with you and you are feeding her so she should be grateful but she is growing up and she don't want to spend the rest of her life taking care of you and your family.

So please let's her learn a trade as she is helping you in the house so she can make something for her life.

Number 5 🥺 it's been long I really eat better food

That is the way I want to go, dying peacefully in my sleep at an old age after living a fulfilled life

I am so craving this but yam have become so expensive 😫

God we used to be a country.
I remember when I was in school and whenever I am broke I will buy Akara 300 and bread and it will last me a whole day but look at the country now.

The simplest food is now a luxury, salary remains the same while food, rent and everything have skyrocketed.
I cannot even save this period 😭
God will help us 😔😔

Seun:
We need a moderator to assist Justwise, who has been AWOL for a while.

Please volunteer if you are highly active, we'll behaved, and willing to lead and follow.

I would like to volunteer Sir.
I think I can do a very good job Sir

Someone said you can't tap your way out of poverty lol
This tapswap is even telling their users to pay to double their coins, so they are probably making money from this thing.
Paying money to get imaginary millions lol

Mom007:
A wise woman does not shop at supermarkets. She goes to the wholesalers in the open markets and buy in cartons, dozens or half dozen. I used to think you are street smart but I think the hype and paparazzi of being a nairaland celebrity has robbed you of your street smarts.... if at all you ever were...

Live and let's live haba una too like fight, you could just advise her to shop in the open market next time instead of saying all this

Kenmatt:
You didn't make good use of the money truthfully.

If you didn't buy those provisions, there is no how hunger will kill you and your family.

You would have used it for something more productive that is likely to yeild dividend tomorrow.

Something like what?
Let's say the money is 100k
What will yoy use it for?

Nowadays na foodstuffs get am o

Food stuff have become so expensive, the best gift you can give anybody now is food stuff.

This is so sad

Una get money for this country o

The food looks delicious 😋

Las Las na 65k they go end up on

Why is everybody laughing at her, this is very painful.
Please ladies leave abusive men, once he hit you once, just use your legs and leave the relationship

Everywhere just hard for this country. I just tire

We should please take care of our health, at least do a bi weekly checkup it's even just for BP and cholesterol.

The stress in this country is too much

RomanGreen:
I can bet my balls that even you will not take this advice you dropped. When you leave your cheating husband, what's the guarantee that the next guy won't cheat? There are subtle ways to tame a cheating man but as long as he fulfills his duties at home as your husband, don't leave. If you decide to leave I can almost guarantee you'll keep jumping from one man to the other. If you doubt me, try it when you get married. As long as the man doesn't run his cheating on your face, stay where you are, don't go around looking for what is not lost

Lol I will take my advice like mad and why is it only men that is advising her to stay in the marriage?
I haven't seen one woman advice her to stay, it's only men that are not in her shoes that is advising her to remain in a marriage that is causing her pain, telling her to tolerate as if it's easy.
If you find out your wife is cheating on you, will you remain married to her, ask yourself that.

I believe that what you don't want to be done to you then don't do it to others, I don't even have to talk too much, may ladies now don't tolerate cheating and many women now are putting their happiness before anything.

And stop with the fear mongering tactics, there are many fulfillment in life than to be shackle to a cheating man, so stop with "there is nothing in the street" she will be fine and I have seen many divorce women that are happy and fulfilled and most of them their husband are the ones regretting the divorce.

As a man if you want a happy home than don't hurt your wife