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It's good to be good.
Blessings will always come to good people not people who do good base on agenda, like I have a relative who only helps people who have money because they want to get something in return.
Basically they are only good because of what they want in return and when they don't get it

You will see them lamenting on "How been good doesn't pay" because their manipulations didn't work.

Be a good person for yourself and see how blessing will keep coming your way 🙏

ReubenE:
Are you from Delta?

Monkey meat inside banga is never wrong

Yes

When I was little I did eat monkey meat, my mom used it to prepare better banga soup with dry fish, one of my best food ever

tunjijones:
It's obvious the man killed himself.

What cld have been bothering him to push him to kill himself as the family claim that he did not show any signs of depression.

They shd check his phone, the answer might be in the phone.

Sometimes depression can be hidden especially if the person have made up his mind to kill himself, you will see him living his best life just before he commit the act or sometimes many people don't care about depressed people around them.

Many of us have lost our sense of emphaty and compassion, we are so self absorbed in our own life that whatever any other person is feeling is not our concern, you can put it Anyway you want to but love between families now is reducing.

Beginning of last year I was in a very bad state mentally, really depressed, every one of my relatives can see how I was but nobody cared, they were in their own world, now I don't blame anyone but it taught me a very big lesson that nobody will save you, you just have to save yourself.

When I started putting my life together that was when they started approaching me now, one even called to ask me how I was doing, saying she is happy I am better now and after the talk she finally said the reason she called and that was for me to help her with some money.

So basically she knows I was in a bad place but didn't bother to say a kind word or something but only showed concern when she want to get help from me lol

My point is many people don't care, you have to save yourself by yourself, you have to fight for yourself.

Why do you people like doing this 1:1 stuff eh.
It's always about "you do me I will do you back" with you people.

For crying out loud you guys are in a relationship and if the other does something you don't like, you can communicate how it makes you feels and both of you will work it out instead of keeping it inside and planning on paying back

1:1 0:1 "wait I will do my own back"
Una never ready

Anyway whether prank or not both of you guys needs to work on your relationship before you guys get married

guobe:
Check out meat loaf I will do anything for ❤️..so so intense too.

Thanks I will do that

guobe:
Yes ,I love romantic songs alot and it helps calm my nerves after work .
Old school romantic songs are still the best.

Yes they are really good for calming down.
Let me recommend some, you might like them or not

1) 3 Doors down-- Here without you

2) Aerosmith-- Dream on

3) Az Yet -- Last night

4) Lionel Richie --- Cinderella

5) Dru Hill -- Beauty

6) Phil Collins--- long long way to go

7) Rufus and Chaka khan-- ain't Nobody

I actually have so many old musics in my phone, I could recommend more later

Wow it's seems you are a romantic o

First it was "Angel of the morning" now it's "you are beautiful"

I like old songs too, it's so calming and relive stress

If she says No then obviously the relationship isn't going anywhere and they should break up unless it's a case where they just started dating and the guy pop the question.

I mean I seen some situations where a guy will be dating a girl for a month then ask her to marry her, in cases like this some ladies will day No so they can get to know each other more before marriage.

shortgun:
Did I mention anywhere in my post that Mrs Rita is my wife?
I stated that the girl in question is in school, are you suggesting she should be withdrawn from school to learn a trade?
I will not be involved in this case if I had noticed any slight sign of mistreatment on the girl.

She can finish her study then learn a skill but for the girl to run away means she is obviously not happy in that household, you would like to say they brainwash her or something but an eighteen years old girl have started having sense to know when she isn't been treated right.
If she is happy in the household, she wouldn't have run away.

Also abuser always have a way of hiding their abuse, you won't see any maltreatment because most you have heard is from the guardians and how the neighbors are wicked.
If this isn't your family like you claim and you are care about the wellbeing of the girl then try and hear her own side of the story

Nigeria don tire me

Benwallt:
The 3rd girl on top say her head be like bicycle seat her lips can be likened to pomo Aramoko. I love it 100%. I hardly ever seen a boy with dimples. Some girls get all the aforementioned but you see the kind craze they pack with it, you will wonder

I don't understand your words, are you complimenting the lady or insulting her?

All this backhanded compliment 😒

Let me ask you a question.
Is Mrs Rita treating the young girl right??

Because there have been cases whereby a lot of family exploits Orphans especially when they realize that the orphan doesn't have anywhere to go.

They will keep using her and using her until she becomes old in their house or she will get pregnant for some guy in the street and still continue the life of poverty.

Since the young girl is now 18, I suggest that you pay for her to learn a trade, so she can acquire a skill in the long run because I have a feeling that you and your wife have never given her a stipend all through her years of staying with you, you will say she is staying with you and you are feeding her so she should be grateful but she is growing up and she don't want to spend the rest of her life taking care of you and your family.

So please let's her learn a trade as she is helping you in the house so she can make something for her life.

Number 5 🥺 it's been long I really eat better food

That is the way I want to go, dying peacefully in my sleep at an old age after living a fulfilled life

I am so craving this but yam have become so expensive 😫

God we used to be a country.
I remember when I was in school and whenever I am broke I will buy Akara 300 and bread and it will last me a whole day but look at the country now.

The simplest food is now a luxury, salary remains the same while food, rent and everything have skyrocketed.
I cannot even save this period 😭
God will help us 😔😔

Seun:
We need a moderator to assist Justwise, who has been AWOL for a while.

Please volunteer if you are highly active, we'll behaved, and willing to lead and follow.

I would like to volunteer Sir.
I think I can do a very good job Sir

Someone said you can't tap your way out of poverty lol
This tapswap is even telling their users to pay to double their coins, so they are probably making money from this thing.
Paying money to get imaginary millions lol

Mom007:
A wise woman does not shop at supermarkets. She goes to the wholesalers in the open markets and buy in cartons, dozens or half dozen. I used to think you are street smart but I think the hype and paparazzi of being a nairaland celebrity has robbed you of your street smarts.... if at all you ever were...

Live and let's live haba una too like fight, you could just advise her to shop in the open market next time instead of saying all this

Kenmatt:
You didn't make good use of the money truthfully.

If you didn't buy those provisions, there is no how hunger will kill you and your family.

You would have used it for something more productive that is likely to yeild dividend tomorrow.

Something like what?
Let's say the money is 100k
What will yoy use it for?

Nowadays na foodstuffs get am o

Food stuff have become so expensive, the best gift you can give anybody now is food stuff.

This is so sad