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Calvary247:
My husband cheats alot.
I tried communicating with him to consider my emotional and psychological well-being but he didn't really take kin interest. I have wanted to cheat back but thinking of it disgusts me. Just help with a piece of advice that will help me.

Divorce him he obviously don't care about you and don't listen to those men that will advice to stay because if the tables were turn, they will be the first to tell the husband to leave you.
The truth is most men can't take when they diss out, they expect women to take their cheating bullshit because to them we don't have feelings, you staying in a marriage with constant cheating will affect you mentally and emotionally in the long run, you will become a shadow of yourself and many people that goes through this usually dies young from High blood pressure and studies have shown that stress causes some cancers, do you want to keep living a life where you will be in constant stress and pain because of your husband.

I always tell people life is too short to be so unhappy, marriage is supposed to be a union, a happy union and if one is hurting the other, it's better to leave because Trust me if you cheat once you husband will never forgive you, so just leave forget all those talk of nobody want a divorce woman because they are fear mongering tactics to keep your unhappy in a loveless marriage.

Try to build yourself, become financial independent and you will surely meet the one that will make you happy and always remember life is too short to be unhappy

2 rich people fighting okay

Of course most women will the choose bear, this topic have been going on for weeks now and 99% of all woman that answered always choose the bear.

We understand that the bear basic instinct is to kill because it is hungry or protecting itself but when you meet a strange man in the forest you fear not even been killed but also raped, then if you were able to survive we have trolls that constitute of men that will blame you for what happen, "what were you wearing" " you probably deserve it" "she is even lying self just to get attention"
At least people believe when you get hurt by the bear

budaatum:
Your God and nature tells you to oppress your wife and daughters?

Then I must reserve the below for you though it was in response to me.

Just ignore that guy, they are still living in the 1800, life will keep passing them by while they continue chanting how women are inferior to men.
Things are already changing and they will keep on changing and nothing can be done about it

Is there any point to this, he is already handsome without hair

Not saving, I tends to spend any money I have, with no regard to savings for emergencies until life show me Pepper.
I wish I can turn back time by now I fir dey roll on millions 😔

I don't know what you want us to tell you. You are the one that knows your girlfriend best

Klass99:
Let me rephrase this for you.

Please can you help me pay my electricity bill, and share the token with me here? I will truly appreciate that. Thank you in advance.

OR

Please if you can pay my electricity bill then share the token with me here, I would truly appreciate it. Thank you in advance.

If the OP does so, you acknowledge it and thank him again.

Some of you are so rude and ill mannered, even when asking for a favour. It's a wonder that you get any help in your lives at all. This was rude and off putting, please go and learn some manners.

I like how you put words together

Immediately you wrote your fiance gave you an ultimatum to give his sister 200k or he will break up with you. I just knew this story is fake, no girl is that stupid or have low self esteem

NemoDatQuod:
201,870.31 NGN paid into your account via Send App.

You can now delete your bank account details.

I wish you well.

Wow 200k just like that. It's like I will start posting cooking threads o 😊

I hardly dislike someone but from my few interactions with you, I can confidently say I don't like you at all and you are someone I don't even know.

Even this your thread I didn't want to click but I guess curiosity got the best of me.

I think you are the problem and you should try and change, your personality sucks.
You think this people are trying to make you jealous, big Fat NO, they are trying to get rid of you, they have seen your personality and they don't want you around them so they look for ways to get rid of you.

You might pretend that the girls wanted to make you jealous because of your ego but guys don't play that game, your coworker wanted to cut the friendship off, the same with your former roommate.
So stop been delusional and work on yourself, you are not that special for many people in your life to make you jealous lol

superintendents:

thanks

Oga I know you are using your alt dundalk to gamble, you know it's against the rules of the trust, we will visit this very soon

pussyeater:
Selection Complete!
If you didn’t get picked up this time, your time will come. God bless everyone that dropped their number.
Please check your account respectively to confirm receipt.

Lol didn't you noticed that the Ibrahim and Abdullahi are the same person, I mean the names are basically the same, it's just that it was interchange in the 2 bank account but they are one person.

I couldn't believe you couldn't notice and someone took 2 portion of a giveaway which isn't fair

[quote author=pussyeater post=128842139][/quote]Lol didn't you noticed that the Ibrahim and Abdullahi are the same person, I mean the names are basically the same, it's just that it was interchange in the 2 bank account but they are one person.

I couldn't believe you couldn't notice and someone took 2 portion of a giveaway which isn't fair

toujurs:
the bitter, one's whose tie has past, are the ones saying marriage isn't an achievement and not for everyone. .

But deep they need it badly.

The problem with your guys is you are very obsessed with women and when they will get married, it's really fascinate me how men always have age bracket of when women should get married, you see them saying women in their 30s are too old to get married, it like they want the women to feel bad so badly about not getting married when the obvious Truth is men are more lonely than women, they desperately need this companion than women.

You feel if a woman hits 30s she should be submissive because you have created a idea in your head that they are "expired" your idea been fueled by Redhill movement and alpha males but still this women in their 30s still don't want you and they still have a high self esteem and don't want to settle, so you get angry because how could a woman in her 30s still having choice, she is suppose to see you as a god that want to save her right lol

Don't worry you will he fine someday, FYI the world is evolving, get with the program because men loneliness is increasing by the day

RevenuesBoost:
Here was my reply :


You're right in a way.

But not in all cases.

Research has shown that, a man who grew up and watched his father beating up his mother several times, has the likelihood of doing same.

Even when he has succeeded in controlling his temper for a while, will definitely raise his hand on her someday with the thought, "my Dad was right in beating my mum, women are actually very stubborn, so you just have to beat them to put sense into their head" which is very wrong.

This is the number one reason men beat up their wives.

They forget that while growing up, they get into misunderstandings with their siblings, friends, etc. Most times it resulted into serious fights.

My point is, if the man and the woman have the understanding that no two grown up adults can live in one roof without any misunderstanding, then they will learn to always accept their faults apologize to each other and be willing to forgive each other 77x7 times every day.

So the man should make up his mind that no matter the misunderstanding they'll have in the future, the thought of raising up his hands on her should be erased.

For women that are unlucky to get married to woman beaters, silence is the key.
Don't say a word, don't walk away from him. Just pretend you're deaf and dumb.
It's called silent treatment, he'll realize he was wrong.
Words from two angry people , stir up fights, the solution is that one person must remain quiet and the fight will never happen.

Another solution is, teaching your male children that no matter what their sisters or female friends do to them, they should always report it to an elderly person and not fight them.
They should know the male bones are built stronger than that of the female, so they should rather pamper than beat women.

Any man that beat a woman is a beast, can the man do the same with his boss if the boss insults him or his fellow man, the reason a man beat a woman is because he sees she is weaker than him.

You said silence like that has ever stopped domestic abuse, a woman beater will always be a woman beater, if a man get married to a stubborn woman, then the woman would have probably be showing the signs, he should get a divorce, life is not that complicated, you can't be with a partner that doesn't give you peace of mind, that is a better option than beating someone is who definitely weaker than you and mind you many domestic violence cases isn't usually the woman fault.
Majority of the fault is from the men, check the % of women that have been killed by their partners, you should be advising any woman that is been abuse to leave the relationship than telling her to be quiet like that is going to solve the problem.

You are probably a guy behind this account anyway so I won't waste time saying too much

Is this some kind of love story. You are getting old and remembering old times 🥰
She is very beautiful, I hope you get to meet her

PastorOlokonla:
Nor vex bros, I will take to your advice next time. Which 80k are you talking about?. I honestly cant remember!

Lol the 80k you gave to Jewessgratitud.. for bag of rice, after she wrote a thread thinking her benefactor. A lot of people trace the money to you and posted it in the thread, you might notice that some even "mention" you asking for help.

So you see, you are kind of infamous, so for your experiment, everybody knows you were playing.

Anyway Goodluck on the next experiment

PastorOlokonla:
Thank you. I trully appreciate.

Congrats,

you are the first winner, send your account number and first thing tomorrow, you will receive a good amount in your account.

Thank you once again for your kind gestures. I was bored and only conducting a social experiments.

Lol everybody and their mother know you were trolling, when you sent 80k to jewe, all nairaland begging associates knew about you, I hardly visit nairaland and I still saw that post thanking you for the 80k, so that was why many were saying you should drop your account number.

My suggestion is next time you want to do a social experiment, try and use a new account and see whether anyone will offer any help, trust me, they won't.
The people saying send you account number, check their previous posts and non of them have ever helped anyone

Lol I know all those tweets will be taken out of context.

There is a Twitter handle in Twitter asking ladies to tweet like "women desperate for marriage and will do anything" So many ladies including this tweet because I saw it in the quotes were been sarcastic and tweeting like desperate women looking for marriage.

This tweet is sarcastic and in no way true because some men are using it to bash women now

jeromestarks:
I will slap you.

Are you angry?, did I hurt your feelings
Sorry My child, please go and drink some water

jeromestarks:
My child, it's hard to find love, especially when you're thinking with your pvssy. But come on, you have to marry.

Your parents gave birth to you, don't you want to give birth to someone else?

Do you just want to be fvcked and mounted by many diicks?

My infant, try and mind your business and stop thinking upside down 🙃

Number 3

So sad, we should be checking our health regularly and try to reduce stress

Gbadugbakun:
What kind of poverty mentality thinking is this.

This just made me laugh, like what sort of advice is this 🤣🤣🤣

There are some mothers like that, that is one of the reason I will always appreciate my Mum ( May her soul rest in peace)

I remembered when I went to write one scholarship exam like that, I just finished primary school and the scholarship was hosted by an oil company in our area.

Their plan was to collect just 6 people and train them for the six years in secondary school, they will pay for everything.

So I went for the exam and because then I was used to questions only written on one side of the exam question, I answered the front page which was 20 questions, my mind didn't go to look at the back of the question paper.
I even thought I was done and I was wondering why many of the students were still answering the questions.

Long story short, I rested my head until the supervisor said it was 5 min to go then I saw some of the kids checking the back of the question, I quickly check the question paper and I realized that there was more questions there and the questions were 50 in total.

I wanted to cry, I Sha did my best and answer up to 30 before they took my answer paper.
I came in 7th, I cried and cried because I know if I had answered all the questions I will be in the top 6

When I got home, my mum saw my face and hug me, even after I told her everything and my mistake, she never used it against me even when I made her angry.
She was a very kind soul 😔

I think in this world of social media, if a girl can read and write, she can learn a lot of things online.
School is not the only way to get educated.

If she is curious, she can read a lot of books unless the girl don't want to bother.

I also think there are guys that refer these kind of women, everyone with what they like

Why do this thing keep happening in Nigeria, like Nigeria Govt like giving medicine after death, can't they find solutions to this problem.

Even in my state there are fulami herdsman there, I love in the deep South and still they are there, there is one road you can't pass in my State because the herdsman kill and kidnap people there and everybody knows but still now nothing is been done about them.

They even killed 3 people last week, living in Nigeria is tough

I heard someone said Nigerians can't adopt because they don't know how to love someone else child and that thought have always stayed with me.

I don't know why it happens but I have seen so many cases of people mistreating children just because they didn't give birth to them, some are even their blood relative kids.

This is really sad 😔

Rayban25:
You cant read. Read my comment again and see if I defended the man.

You didn't say anything about the man, so you can't use that excuse.
If you had taken the time you use to bash the woman to condemn the man than won't you be a better person? Instead you focused on the victim whose sin might be promiscuity ( even tho we don't know the circumstance of her going to meet the man in a hotel)

But I guess been a murderer is okay and been promiscuous is a death sentence

Rayban25:
Some girls will still come here and put all blame on the man. In as much as the man is evil, why will you as a lady going to lodge with someone that is not your husband and seeing men carelessly?

This is why whenever I hear a certain lady is missing I just skip because una no dey hear word.

Yes let's blame the victim instead of the evil man.
As usual women are the ones at fault

Greattestman:
Run if you are wise... she's there to covet your money. She will deceive and when you begin the project she will leave you alone in it saying she has no money. And after you build the house, she will bring her ex to your matrimonial bed.
Be wise!!!

Lol like how did your mind come up this, this is funny I swear