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Am glad it went well for you guys...
Kudos...

OP i dont think you've told us exactly what happened...she just cnt cry just because of that...there is surely more to this...

This story isnt complete...

Ephort:
She knows it's a big snag & has made a few promises about working on it. Truly, she felt freer discussing it with me this morning. She was expecting me freak out or get annoyed yesterday but my reaction made her open up more this morning.
As per the test aspect, I already know she will run some tests including the one for fertility.

Good...am sure you know what your going into and i wish you the best and i wish her quick recovery...

Cheers

dingbang:
Is this and issue?



Sometimes i'm amazed at the way some of you ladies reason and handle issues.


You mentioned you weren't ready and after series of begging, he moved on with his ex, you also mention u were relieved.


The part I don't understand is where you mentioned you have a problem with what people will say and the loneliness Dat surrounds you. Why not get a life ( a new partner)

Exactly what i was thinking when i read her post
..the part that got me laughing was when she said "what people would think"..

Hello

WOW....WOW....WOW...

I dont think you need any advice...

Still in shock..did i just read that?...

I'll assume you just being silly but if you were really serious then i'd say congrats...


How would you think like like that?...

Unbelievable

I think everything that needs to be said has been said and its your choice now to either take the good one or the bad but without reading i think what everyone has told you is to get rid of her...

GET RID OF HER..

I guess they didnt scold you to not have read the handwriting on the wall...how could you not have?..lols...i guess your heart was riding a roller coaster ...

Oh nd did they tell you,she'll be back but its not gonna be now so brace yourself to PAY HER BACK...

Cheers

Whether shes lying or not,shez hurt and she can be fixed...
Your involved now and she should know getting better now isnt just bout her or for her but for the both f you guys...

I'll also recommend you doing some test bout some infections one can be exposed to through rape...

Talk to her and let her know how it would affect you guys if she doesn't heal and how you wont be happy...

No matter the kind of help she gets,if she doesnt open up well,she wont heal...

Your not just in a big poo,your going to continue being in that poo for a long time...

You got yourself into this mess...

Now first things first is you realise shez a no good cause i don't think you have...

You need to get back and go together to a hospital of your choice...don't let her know till you come back..

Thirdly if she truly is pregnant, you let her know you cant marry her but you will keep the child...

Fourthly,if shez not then you dump her ass quickly and move on..

Dont be a fool..

I dont think shez pregnant...she needs a good guy..

Shez a sure definition of a LovePeddler...
Married men as friends that comes to her house?
pheww....

Behold me and my family will not experience hardship....

2017 my year of victory...

...I dont care about the prophesy because i know i have a God thats bigger than any prophesy...

Me and my household will be covered...

Thats my prophesy...

prophesy into your life and dont dwell on another mans prophesy....

I think first of all your scared your marriage will be like that of your friends even tho you believe true love exists and sure it does...

You need to pray more bout your fears...

Finding true love is tough but like you said it exists...

I like the fact you dont wanna settle for anything less...

When you find wad ur looking for,its gonna hit like a Rock...

Cheers

So sad...we've lost a good person... How could this have happened?...from town to isieke is not up to 30 mins...
RIP

07081320107

Drop him asap... He doesnt realize your worth... If you realize your worth,you'll walk away... Stress yourself on better things..


BTW your pretty...
Cheers

Nairaland ladies are pretty...

Bluezy13:
Easy girl, don't be eager to rudely prove your point.


The characteristics portrayed by the girl according to the OP is Synonymous with the feminine gender as a whole,
And you in your assertion used the pronoun "They", excluding yourself. That in no way relates to both genders.

A little rational reconsideration of your remark will do us good
I hope you will be sane enough to understand my point, if and only if autistic egocentrism will not cause you to curse, rebuke or snub.

I'm looking forward to receiving from you...

Egocentrism??.. i find that amusing to be true Mr...
Rude you say??...i portrayed that?..if you actually think i did,am noot surprised you also misunderstood my theory as i'll call it now since you've taken time to analyse it to that extent that am being placed among the egocentric people that'll rather not believe your own theory of my own invention...

When i said " they",i clearly meant those that behave like she did...i didn't say "we" all behave that way...

By the way sir,you might want to check up the difference between being"rude" and "sarcastic"...there is a clear difference there..

That earlier was sarcasm and this now is what i call sarcasm too..

And also...am not expecting your reply but i think i'll see it so dont expect mine or think you'll see it...

Cheers sir..
Merry xmas and a happy new year in advance...
Good Night...

Bluezy13:
Why not "we"


Regarding your gender

I didnt say i left anyone...wasn't referring to the females in general...dont think you understand...

WORLDHISTORY101:
Ok, because you said so. Lol

Lols...

WORLDHISTORY101:
I remember her already. Look at how long my post is.

I think its time for you to forget her...you've remembered her long enough....ok?

olasmith10:
Lol....yes miss..will give u a call later today

Stil didnt see that call mikey

Here abakaliki eh,no atm de free oh even tho say no money oh...Yesterday i had to Carry my 2 younger siblings,made them stand in line for me....

WORLDHISTORY101:
I wish she would have had something to remember me by.

Veey funny...would you have remembered her by that too?

olasmith10:
Shallom Shalom..

Woooowwww... we meet again

WORLDHISTORY101:
I see.
But she could have just at least stay fascinated long enough for me to hit it na. Now I've lost in every way.

Your mad you didn't hit it...chai

NO...i dont believe she liked you.. she was fascinated but not like...thats a huge difference...

You've made the right decision to let her be
..

She'll call back one day...Definetly..
they always do

TrapQueen77:



I'm an introvert too but that's not what my friends and family see...

Exactly...my dad calls me a tout and my friends say am funny but how the hell am i that when i talk to my self when i walk alone cause am shy??...can stay alone for good 24hrs just with my phone??..

your own better self..some people experience worst...
I feel your pain tho....i really do dear.....
Btw give the girl another chance or try distant friendship

Helo bae,

I know your in the wrong relationship..he keeps giving excuses and believe me its not about managing his relationship... your like his back up plan...

Yea yea ur the good girl and believe me this is how you'll be treated cause he knows how gullible we good faithful girls are...and a big No if your thinking if being good and faithful wont pay off.. it will.sweedie so dont go thinking being bad pays better..

You need to act quickly tell him you give up on him stating the fact how good you know you are...be confident... i wont say"you deserve better"...you might meet the worst but knowing how to confidently walk away knowing your worth makes the best deserve you...

Now i expect you to walk away from that relationship...i wont talk about the emotional wound you would sustain ...i'll expect you to deal with that...

But if you choose to remain and continuously receive his excuses like a daily sermon,i do your praying tounge never gets dry...

Too bad most of us wont be able to make it...besides i trust una to post pictures and even threads would be created of what happened...

Would be here viewing them all..
Its a nice idea tho...


My own is there should be certain rules made oh...remember we are nairalanders...

.

I believe you saying"Am not interested dear" or "i've moved on" would only cost you 4 naira..

Besides posting your pix is so totally not cool.. you'll be grouped if you do dat again..