Michelle55:
very good,then you're fixed on the right path!

seunny4lif:
Ok o Oooh But money is the answer

Monogamy:
My last relationship which i can remember was 2009, which was sweet and memorable but ever since then I have been single.Thought I do make move to approach a lady but at the end of the day i realised they do not have noble intention of what relationship meant. Actually, I am not really desperate to be in a relationship but I think time is running out.

Note: I live a good life without ladies but I just have to get hooked up with someone.

I need an advice

P.S My post is not about meeting anyone here..

Monogamy:


Thanks my sister.. Not that i am worried about being single.. I just need to cross check and balance if I am on the right track

Sexxkillz:
Time is not running out. . . That's just a societal cliche bullshit notion that unnecessarily puts undue pressure on people to get married early. . . Ask them the benefits of early marriage, and they'll tell you "to have kids early". Bullshit!

Are you getting married to have kids, or to have a companion for the rest of your life? You do not rush into marriage because you feel time is slipping, or because you want to make anyone happy. . . There is a time for everything. If it is not the right time, it is not the right time.

Don't depress yourself with that "time is running out" talk, else you'll put undue pressure on yourself and end up with the wrong person.

PRISTINEMUSCLES:


You deserve this xmas gift from me.
Take it and use it well.

Just give me 2 months free training. . .

Monogamy:


Thanks my sister.. Not that i am worried about being single.. I just need to cross check and balance if I am on the right track

Monogamy:
My last relationship which i can remember was 2009, which was sweet and memorable but ever since then I have been single.Thought I do make move to approach a lady but at the end of the day i realised they do not have noble intention of what relationship meant. Actually, I am not really desperate to be in a relationship but I think time is running out.

Note: I live a good life without ladies but I just have to get hooked up with someone.

I need an advice

P.S My post is not about meeting anyone here..

SafeDavid:


I'm in with you on this.

monsurufatai:


You need help dude.

SafeDavid:


How?

It's like Nigerian girls haven't showed you pepper before.

monsurufatai:


Smh.

100 missed calls a day..
you really need help..

SafeDavid:


Is that the lie she told you guys?
Mumu..

monsurufatai:


Chaii!!!

What a pity!

SafeDavid:


Your'e obviously foolish if you believe that..

Besides, i can dial any number on my phone a million times..

It's my phone and my call.

Dumb!

monsurufatai:


You don't force yourself on someone that doesn't want you..
Guy move on!

SafeDavid:

Diaries / Re: Adeoluwa's Dynasty by SafeDavid(m):6:24am

Having completed my task all through the night not blinking an eye.

I hit the gym by 5 a.m and I just got back now.

Its about time I channel all my energy into something that will have a long term benefit to my health and well being. 

Lezzlie:


Maybe you're still living in the past and never truly detach yourself mentally from your last relationship.

Do you compare your ex with every prospective date and involuntarily compare your last relationship with any potential one?

I think you're still carrying the baggage of your last relationship around

Monogamy:


Actually not really. I set a target for myself

AntiNigerian:
let me say Prestissimo, that you need some 'help' however, getting any girl to like you isn't going to be easy... Are you a handsome man or a Normal guy? If you can control and command the English language properly, then any girl goes to you... try to relate with them first before anything else m, get to know them and every other thing will be added unto you.. that's all I know (unless if you want to start living like Japanese men )

Bitchvibe:
People like you dont need advice. You are too picky. It's either you go to wrong places, are attracted to a particular type of females or you just don't know what u wnt.

In this time, age and era where some women will do anything to have a serious rel leading to marriage, you're saying they don't..........

Maybe u re looking for perfection. You won't find it.

Berbierklaus:

I was thinking the same too,and saw everybody giving advice as if the good women will fall down from heaven on OP's laps.

My question to you Monogamy is that are you worthy of true love yourself?

You see men who are not even good enough claiming not to see a good woman, or woman that is ready for a serious relationship,meanwhile their lifestyles is something else.
You claim you are not the shouty type,I am not either and there are a lot of women like me out there,so please go out there and meet women,stop whining in your room and on Nairaland.

Monogamy:


Abeg wetin concern Tiger woods with football? Not everybody would be like you guys. Sincere people had already gave their advice..

So please stop taking panadol on someone's headache

Berbierklaus:

The truth is always bitter for men like you.
Keep looking for pity on Nairaland.

Bye Felicia

Monogamy:


Truth bitter?

Are you listening to yourself?

Probably because your guy is not faithful to you doesn't mean all other guys are like that.

You can call me anything but referring me to as a gay, Nah, it is an insult to me

I was thinking the same too,and saw everybody giving advice as if the good women will fall down from heaven on OP's laps.

My question to you Monogamy is that are you worthy of true love yourself?

You see men who are not even good enough claiming not to see a good woman, or woman that is ready for a serious relationship,meanwhile their lifestyles is something else.
You claim you are not the shouty type,I am not either and there are a lot of women like me out there,so please go out there and meet women,stop whining in your room and on Nairaland.[/i]

Berbierklaus:

Wait are you blind or just paranoid?
Where did I call you gay?
I only gave you an advice devoid of any insult
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No wonder no girl wants you,your character speaks volume.
you need help man. smh

Monogamy:


That is the problem.. I am in my early 30's but like I said i am not desperate.

Sexxkillz:
Time is not running out. . . That's just a societal cliche bullshit notion that unnecessarily puts undue pressure on people to get married early. . . Ask them the benefits of early marriage, and they'll tell you "to have kids early". Bullshit!

Are you getting married to have kids, or to have a companion for the rest of your life? You do not rush into marriage because you feel time is slipping, or because you want to make anyone happy. . . There is a time for everything. If it is not the right time, it is not the right time.

Don't depress yourself with that "time is running out" talk, else you'll put undue pressure on yourself and end up with the wrong person.