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rainz:
6 years relationships funny

Yes, she was 19 when it started, I needed to wait.

doggedfighter:
You did well !




I wonder why they do that rubbish.

I am sure she's never had a one on one chat with you to know how to assist you in your broke days.

They always like planning people's lives for them as if they know your struggles.

She has never had a one on one discussion with me except via chat when she invited me for a program.

My relationship has been a private one, like very quiet, we don't post anything on social media. Only close friends and both families and neighbors know we are dating and the period we have been together.

She has attended my church several occasions before she gained admission but they thought she was just one of those invitees I try to convert to the church.

I am really a busy person and my routine is always from work to house and I sleep, Sunday after service and leaders meeting I just go straight home so many of them think I am single and not interested in a relationship.

For the resident pastor, on two occasions she has asked me on whatsapp and have told her I am in a long relationship but I don't know why she keeps making that joke or think it's not a serious relationship

Hashabiah:
Nice one bro . Dont let any useless pastor out there shame you into that grave called marriage.

And as for settling down, it's better you study your fiancee well before committing to her.

Remember, marriage is the most important financial decision a man can ever make , and to sacrifice it on the alter of peer- pressure or sentiments isn't in your best interest at all .

Thanks. My fiancee is a manager to the core, even as a student I sometimes save with her and she is diligent with money. She was the one staying in her mom's shop and also handling my POS stuff before she gained admission and she is very diligent with money.

For 6yrs I have known her and I am too sure of who I have hence I have been waiting for her to be done.

Banbulu:
Am 27 she's 18. If you see mood swing, sometimes if I want to react I will swallow my cool coz I know she no go like am, I will just smile over it. Everyday drama. I will check on her if I stop she go say I'm snubbing her that I should forgive her coz she so annoying

Chill I have been through that journey with my present girl now.

She was even 19 when we started, drama was everyday but when you see one that isn't so much into life you will know from her attitude and fantasies


All you need is to guide her and stand like a friend, guardian and be supportive. When she does her childish stuff do not always nag, sometimes overlook and sometimes caution her gently as she ages you will see the transformation.

My girl is 25yrs now and I have worked through that phase with her and they quarrels are not there anymore. We will be getting married soon because it has been a wonderful 6yrs journey of learning and understanding ourselves and I will say I led and supported her right and she saw her future being fulfilled With me

So today I had to call my resident pastor to order.

I am a 30yrs old guy and in a relationship with a lovely lady of 25. It's been 6 good years together building and improving ourselves.

I come from a family where nobody mounts pressure on anybody especially on marriage issue. My parents are so liberal that they trust our judgements and allow us to marry from anywhere we find love despite fact that we are igbos.

I and my fiancee have been through different stages of life because she was 19 when we met, I was a dead broke ass graduate then without a job and still going from one interview to the other. I was so broke that my young fiancee then was the one giving me money to go for the interviews (she was running her mom's store then). Aside that she would bring food and sometimes get me clothes. When I say I was broke, I mean totally broke

God did it I secured a job of 60k a month and a year later got a more improved job of 100k. I don't drink and don't spend recklessly, I was able to save and began a POS business which my fiancee 20yrs as at then was running for me in her mom's store while I was working. To Cut long story short, my fiancee is in her 300L now in school while I have ventured into other business and I can say I make about 500k monthly combined.

On reason why I caution my pastor, in church I am one of the youth leaders and a key figure and most of my friends or mate in the ministry are married and my resident pastor took it upon herself to always use me for jokes or call my name from the alter to go and marry.

You'd here bro sososo go and marry and the congregation will laugh, during meeting you will hear word like don't be like bro sososo who wants to become a grandpa bachelor.

Once any member marries you will hear bro sososo we are waiting ooooo.

Like I don't find that funny, she is mounting unnecessary pressure on me which I don't like. Will she be the one to take care of my family?

Sometimes she goes as far as introducing a sister in the church to me.

So today I had enough, called her after service and told her my mind. I know she will feel disappointed but for my mental health I needed to put a stop to that rubbish.

My friends in church are married and to be sincere they look like shadow of themselves.

My fiancee is in school, she was there with me during tough times, she built and grew with me and even in school she is also learning a trade and preparing for life after school. We agreed to marry immediately after she graduates (next year) and so far everything is going as planned

How do you people have sex and get someone pregnant? Isnt that carelessness?

First, sex is sacred for me, 5yrs in a relationship with my girl and she is the only one I have been having sex with since that period, I haven't see another girl's panties because I am a one man one woman guy and once I am with you, I don't feel sexually attracted to any other lady.

Secondly, having sex with my woman now for 5yrs raw without condom and never for once have I impregnated her and reason is because I am extremely careful and don't allow the excitement allow me to loose guard.

We sex raw and once I am about to cum I simply pull out long before it shows face and use hand to bring it out. Immediately I cum, I stop, go to bathroom to pee (this flushes out sperm left in the urethra) then I use soap to wash the dick properly.

I don't go in for second round at once, we gist and talk maybe like 1hr before then, I go into to pee again and wash up then I proceed to second round.

Yes the breaks kill the vibes but it's safer and better than having a child unprepared.

My fiancee is in her final year, I am ready to settle but I do not want to truncate her education or stress her with pregnancy while still in school hence I restrain myself

I have two sources of income that combine give me about 80 - 100k weekly, but I still struggle to live well.

I don't drink
I don't party
I don't womanize (I am a one man one woman guy)
I am single
I don't even have clothes
Like I live a simple life.

My rent is just 400k a year which is what I can earn in a month yet I still struggle to save.

My money goes into feeding, tips to my mom, tips to my fiancee and transportation in Lagos. That's all.

I can't even boast of 1m in my account.

I just tire