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Estharfabian:
it is easier for a girl to keep her virginity?


LoL I beg to differ o!
Do You know what girls go through? she becomes a prey... Only waiting to be eaten by hörny predators. and chances are she gives in to their advances.
So, saying guy Virgins deserves some kind of ceremonial celebration because of their somewhat high libido is pure fallacy. I also have the high libido thingy working for me too


[b]well, I think The Virginity tag is overrated.. it most definitely do not define YOU. and it shouldn't be some kind of Crown if You are one. it's not an accomplishment. it's irrelevant.[/b]First of all what is an accomplishment?

If you're in this world where temptation is the other of the day and sex is now like food then you'll know that being a virgin is a GREAT accomplishment. Because you choose not to be one doesnt make it irrelevant(no offense).... If it wasn't relevant then why do our parents talk to us(ladies) about it?

Yes virginity doesn't define who you are or someone who's a virgin should be crowned cause its an individual decision, but you should never say its not an accomplishment nor its irrelevant

layla129:
1. She could have rejected the drink if she wanted.
2. She should have controlled the intake. Why take it till she got intoxicated?
3. Who takes alcohol during office hours? Abi where did they take it?
I equally feel ladies that drink are very irresponsible (my opinion before una chop me) .
I advice you forgive her but keep your eyes opened from now.

schumastic:
thought you were looking for a serious relationship that would lead to marriage and you got one but is obvious you are not ready for the marriage itself.

you know his neighbor is making advances towards you, why did you collect the gift? a simple no thank you would have been better.

your fiancee is wrong for hitting you and once a beater always a beater except self disciplined guys that choose not to walk that part again.

you both need to seat down and talk cus is obvious he is insecure and doesn't trust you.
let him know you can't be in an abusive relationship and the next time he does it, you will walk out of the relationship.

firstking01:
my problem is, he went too extreme beating you for the very first time,,,,who knows what the next one will be like...but i'd suggest you lerrit qo, buh qive him a stern warning never to try such aqain or you'd be qone for qoodt...i hate women beaters.

Jadekitana:
Let's be realistic, you are very much inlove with someone you hardly see in months, it gets frustrating! It works for some but trust me a lot of people fall out of these distant thingy.Here are some reasons:

1) CONSTANT COMMUNICATION: it may be all sweet and cool when the love just started but give it 6months, long talks begin to get boring! These talks revolve around what's happening in your life daily,there's nothing new! Imagine someone who works morning till night exhausted and as usual you bring up those 1hour talks about your boss,exams,buhari,fuel scarcity, beef with one of your best friends....trust me, he/she may just get bored of the regular routine talks

2) DIRTY TALKS: nope!! This can never be compared to physical intimacy! We'v been talking dirty for months without actions, what's the difference between you and a celibate? It's even not advisable! Imagine sending naked pictures to your spouse,making videos and what have you, leaving them extremely h0rny, they become vulnerable. They ain't woods, any approach from someone they like can trigger anything immediately.

CHEATING: It takes a very disciplined person not to cheat and this seldom happens! I have friends whose girlfriends are in school or working in abuja or ph, they cheat a lot. They would tell you "yes I love my babe but body no be firewood" One recently fell for his bff and ended things with his babe after 2years, he just wasn't feeling the whole thing anymore.

MIND NOT AT REST: like it or not your thoughts always sway to his/her direction especially weekends. Questions like where is he? Who is in his house? Hope he's not camping anybody? Who is he hanging out with? You begin to stalk them 247 on social media, you start calling per second,if he/she is clubbing you stay awake keeping tabs on their movement *sighs* unnecessary high bp

LESS SPENDING: I know the guys would love this a lot! Stingy people! Distant relationship involves little or no spending, apart from fattening MTN's pocket due to calls! You don't hangout, you don't shop, you don't go to movies together, you don't go on dates! You just stick to your phone anytime you are free. I remember spending my allowee during Nysc every month flying to see this bobo, though he assisted in some other things, it DIDNT work because the whole process got tiring.

RELOCATING: this isn't always easy at all, especially when your company refuses to transfer you. Aside that it's not easy leaving all your childhood friends and family to be with someone who may just start acting up anytime, you need to think about that decision a lot.

If you have been in a distant rel for 2-3years and it's not heading anywhere, you need to use your brain and start plotting a Plan B before you receive the shock of your life. Like it or not Out of sight if cares not taken can very well lead to outa mind.

Btw Toks2008 how are you?

Chinweukamaka:
My girl is +1 today hurray

Fraiser:
divorce or no divorce, na una sabi o, I no send una, living my life to d fullest... Now I can sleep in club as much as I lyk...

BlizzydoDo:
honestly I tolerated his womanising nature 4 2 long, couldn't take t anymore

CROBBOY:
Like play like play this [size=15pt]iambibi[/size] make SENSE O

no no no no no, I go start to reason her matter, not witstanding the consequencies. This MUMY-WATER must be mine

CROBBOY:
Yeeeessssssss! You have finally confirmed it. Thanks for using the 'bolded' to encourage me (CROBBOY) and iambibi to start raisng children. You are the best friend I've ever met in this life.

eeeeeemmmmm, IAMBIBI DARLING, IAMBIBI DARLING, IAMBIBI DARLING, come oooooo your husband Jubrealguy said he is done with you ooooooooo

Come and meet:
the epitome of your dream man,
your destiny magnifier,
Your joy, happiness and peace amplifier,
A platonic and erotic man to turn your fracture into structure with a measure of pleasure in picture of your future into a culture of abundant leisures.

[size=15pt]Welcome home my Love![/size]

BlizzydoDo:
Lols, gud 2 av yuu back love

CROBBOY:

Is that my own wife

*Run towards her to lift her up* Bbbbbbbaaaaaaabbbbbyyyyyy how are you

You just abandoned me here all this while making iambibi, Jubrealguy, Rukkyola and others to look down on me and talk to me anyhow.

I have really really miss you bae. How are you?

Its such a nice comments you've got there. Looking forward to hearing you talk about Lagos Dear.

Thanks for your Usual Cooperation!

Kbs468:
Welcome after a long while.

Chai! You just reminded me of something importantly important oo about Graceland.

I think this is the right Time that God has made for me to fulfill my promise all this while after their Superbly super successful Elections.

Definitely if I don't today, then tomorrow is certain.

justified10:
chai chai...

c as dem dey call me to com marry for free of charge

wen I dey golden city, I b wan marry ha fa. bt she no Gree...

abbie25 , com and c wat ayam talking about..


ruthobaz , greycious, manus17, chumaster, yorme, com and c somtin...

yorme:
Cover-up attempts! Abbie25, na lie justified dey talk jor.

Rukkyola:
Amodu godfather, com & c d result ov ur advice o. Shebi na u sey make she no follow my advice then. Crobboy don dey misbehave o. Oya com marry sc31 o

Rukkyola:
My iambibi, i yaff missed u o. Justified10 don marry o. Na katerine7 b im wife o, na only if dem don divorce remain. As for sc31, I don do my best 4 her. Shebi wen I dey advice her then, she no gree answer me. She dey busy follow amodu advice hu she dey call her godfather.
OYO is her case now o. Na only if justified10 go gree marry her as second wife.

[/quote][quote author=iambibi post=44101756]lwkmd....babe na since when justified10 marry?,.. Hu be his bae? , plz help our friend SC31 naa... She needs a gud guy o...and I dnt tink dah justified10 guy is married...... Anyways shaa i trust u!!.. Lol.. Do something!!

LogoDWhiz:
Thanks boss.


And thanks for the wishes

iambibi:
Ahn ahn!! ... SC31 darling... Wat did i do to u na , ehnn? me that would neva do anything to hurt u ....if its about your husband i asked after you from him and all he could say was "it seems she has moved on" and that "body no be firewood".... Am also as surprised as your are too ..

Rukkyola:
Am happy I tried my best to make u understand that crobboy is not meant 4 u. U were absent 4 only a short while and his complaints about u no b small. Imagine! 'body no b firewood'. Where as, u always remained loyal and faithful to him without complaints whenever he is away.
My friend, OYO is ur case now o because d justified10 who used 2 crave 4 u back then is happily married now.
U have no choice but to accept ur crobboy 4 whom he is.

Abbie25:
I dey kampe oo. And you

CROBBOY:
How would you describe a woman that has since been away and has refused to keep in touch with me and refused to reply my numerous calls? THIS HUMAN BODY NO BE FIREWOOD O!

Between, I hope no one else in this city is hearing this o? because I am only telling you because you're a trusted family friend.

How is your own husband (my paddy)? its been a while since I heared from him o. Or has he taken the position of my wife?

CROBBOY:
#1972

Dedicated to my NEW SWEET HEART *+*+ FRAIH+*+* .

jubrealguy:
abeg, who dey marry SC31, shey na CROBBOY or DTOBS

spixytinxy:
lol, is SC31 ur wife?

Rukkyola:
I dey o. So u self dey follow dem mock me ba! No problem