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yinkeys:
@scantee avoid this advice at all cost. Dump her ass & move on. If she calls you blank her. That girl ain't worth your sweat, do not settle for less. You're kinda really successful already to settle for rubbish or mediocre behaviour. It seems you haven't tried flirting before that's why you're so into one girl. Most of this h*es ain't loyal, have bad male (goons) friends & learn from how they handle girls. You're worth more than this bulls***. Bros man up & move on, there are waay better girls out there

maoweidong:
Bro,if she's confused you shouldn't be. I always tell my friends no matter how much you love a lady,you still have to be a little selfish. One thing is certain no one really owns anybody,now you can also take your time and do some soul searching.
Decide what you want and go for it

boxer022:
My brother listen to me and listen good, the first mistake you made was to date a girl going into the university i.e. a student. She really took you for a ride and at the end dropped you like a bag of salt. The fact that she accepted to be tired of you shows you that she was never ready to settle down. I will like you to take it as she told you, move on with your life, ignore her totally. Show her that you are not a fool by looking for another good girl who is interested in you and date her for some time so as to study her, then marry her. As I said earlier, completely ignore the girl.

Champella:
Chai! My boss, you still dey get carry-over on top this girl matter?


Na you cause am sha. You for just enter the transfer market sign plenty players. The likes of Portugal, France, Germany, etc have so many fine footballers.


The worst thing a man can do to himself is to let a woman call the shots in his life.


Lest i forget, she's not cheating on you. Those men around her are only coming to get wisdom and understanding from her.

mysticgal:
Scantee I can remember you complaining on your other thread about this similar ish , ermm sorry I will be blunt;without communication and trust, marriage between you two can't work. Tell yourself the truth and move on.
Sorry

firstking01:
i 've dropped my own lil piece...in totallity...stp dating an undergrad, she will neva be faithful.

firstking01:
see the monikers u dey invite to come advice u,,,well, make i bench here first

Trunaijian:
You are putting too much pressure on her. If you really love her, there are some measures you must take. Though not easy, they are necessary
1. Call her less
2.Don ever call her friends and ask them to talk to her or narrate your ordeal.
3. If she asks you for anything, if you are disposed, give it to her and still maintain your infrequent communication.
4. Date another girl
As hard as the above measures may seem, they are to open your eyes to the reality of marriage. If she is gonna be yours, she will get back her senses and make up. Sometimes people get bored and tired of relationship. Not that they don't care, they just get bored. When you space yourselves, you will taste something different and realize what you have been missing or realize and value what you have. If she is yours, she will come back. You have fought for her already. Its left for her to choose.

Mjshexy:
Hmm...brotherly i would advice u to just stop calling her for now, give her d space she wants, don't evn reply her messages, i knw it won't be easy 4u but just try it out. If she really loves u & misses u so much she will come begging u. Also if u have a female frnd around get around her or make frnds with people & take ur mind off her.
If she doesn't come begging u then it's obvious u have lost her. Thanks

jomoh:
Trust me bro. There's nothing that makes a woman jealous like seeing that her guy doesn't give a hoot about her. You're giving her too much time and that has put her in the drivers seat.


Ever heard the saying-

"The person who cares most in a relationship suffers most while the person that cares less controls the relationship"

Its time to mingle. Go out, meet girls, flirt around. She's too comfortable. Give the ones crushing on you chance. Make her feel insecure.

pinkycute:
She's confused for real and she don't want to loose you as wel.

But have it in mind, there's this guy out there disturbing her, talking sweet nonsense to her, making her to lost interest in everything and it might affect her final.

@Op, you just have to be the man here, don't call her again, if you've the time, go and see her as a surprise, talk to her and make her understand that she'll be save in your hands this's the time she needs you most

Don't listen to all this NL guys concluding what they don't know. She might still love you, but confused due to pressure concerning some sitting things, of which she has already confirmed to you. You know her very well more than we here. And i believe you're not a kid, and you can tell if someone is breaking up with you. So my dear, do the needful and save your relationship

SirJeffry:
Yea, take a vacation or something and please don't be harsh to ladies because of this else you loose your sense of judgment on women. Give them a level playing ground to prove themselves.

jomoh:
Bro. Women are the most deceptive beings ever created by God. Even God himself said it in Bible and Qurans.


They are they only set of people that have the ability to live more than two deifferent lives successfully without mixing it because they believe what they do.


What ever she says or do whenever you're together is not and never will be the yard stick for judging them. They mostly live by a rule that guys are starting to adopt- "she's yours whenever she's with you. She's lost whenever she's not". Play by that rule and see her run after you.


BTW I went through your threads and some comments on it. Broda, you need to quickly and urgently disconnect whatever you have with that babe now and forever. She's never going to be faithful. I even read the part where you claim to here male voices in the background which she confirmed. Twice for heavens sake. For Gods sake you're not a cripple are you?


I won't sugar coat anything for you cos am a guy like you. This is not love. She never loved you. She only took you as a benefactor, her money bag.


Its time you concentrated more on your own job and give her less than 5% of you time.


Also, you don't need all this distant relationships very few people can sustain it. Especially not sexually active people. Especially not students who have a lot of time on their hands to mess around. Consider dating a working class babe like you who probably have little or no time on her hand to be messing around. Bankers are good if you get a nice one. They don't have much time to socialise, so they appreciate the ones that come for them much better.


Wish you all the best.

tooman:
hhmm bro. why letting it disturb u?

pls allow the babe test life without you care about her.
Nd try to look another babe.

SirJeffry:
She's probably having other suitors now and being a gullible fellow, she is now confused.
The raw truth you need to know is that for her to be confused means she has been cheating on you for awhile now. A lady starts comparing two men when she has tested them both and the second/newest man always seem to be sweeter to them.
She has been trying to figure out how to leave until you gave her a soft landing by asking her if she was tired of you.

Brother trust me, move on with your life and give other ladies chance to earn your Benz's front seat abeg.

jeffizy:
[color=#007700] I perfectly understand your heartbreak .
I intend to shake you awake so that you'll realise it can only go two ways.
Either she's just busy or the inevitable is here.

Don't sit and hope, be your own driver.
Ask her directly so you don't be a clockwork.....

I hope its gonna be in your favor bro. [/color]

SirJeffry:
Brother, that lady ain't into you anymore. Better move on now by yourself or get kicked in the @ass.

Edited: don't you have a bottle of champagne at home? Drink and sleep abeg, ladies come ladies go, nwa guy remains.

jomoh:
She's broken up with you already.




Bro its time to move on. The earlier you did the earlier she realises what she lost.

jeffizy:
[color=#007700] I'm sure you omitted the part where you paid for her school fees and hostel accommodation too.

On a serious note, I sense some insecurity about you wanting to get married to her severally.

The lady must have gotten to the stage where mixing with people on campus has given her a wider horizon. If u know what I mean.

Just ask her without sugar coating it. “Are u for me or against me"? [/color]

refiner:
nop d most important fin is dat we hope u av married dat ur fiancée and stop d call gal stuff

enkayhope:
Hope solution to ur challenge av been found bro?

Annais:
Mgbowo. Gi?

Annais:
Haha!! A bu m onye Awgu. Kedu ebe I si?

Annais:
Yes, I am.