₦airaland Forum

Jammy2012:
The effect will not be only to them. It might affect a whole lot of people. Some High school shooters in the West are just children forged in broken homes with degenerate psychological upbringing. Other families paid for most. They will end up like cancer in the society, they encroach and contaminate.

Greatdand007:
That’s wrong it’s New York

Candidlady:


Stay home with mum and sister


Then go visit my friend

Hendrixky:
Hmmmm
Depends on what you are going to use it for

But no matter what you gonna use it for avoid transsion


We love him
We have to let him know first about the best product because that is were the issue is
The 150k range amount doesn't matter
Because a 50k Samsung phone is better than a 500k transsion

lordm:
I wish everyone can approach this election the same you are doing, I may not support your candidate but that does not make us insult each other.

EdiskyHarry:
Putin will forever be remembered for his bravery, boldness and selfless service to humanity.
USA,NATO and the west were busy moving around destroying so many countries at will with little or no resistance. But today Putin is doing his best to fight for this injustice.
A win for Putin is a win for Africa and the whole world.

Nazgul:
Marriage is a wonderful thing. The reason why people see it as nonsense is because sexual immorality is as easy as drinking water.

So to your question... reasons why I feel or want to get married are.

1. Companionship. There are times when you would want to talk to someone, just sit, talk and pour out what's bothering you to a listening ear. With the right spouse, you'll always enjoy geninue companionship, enjoy gossips together. Baby Mamas or olosho cannot give you this cos what you have with them is purely transactional.

2. It lowers your risks of contacting STDs. An older cousin of mind told me that for the past 12 years he's been married he has never been treated for any STD. If you're married to a faithful partner, and you're faithful to your partner as well, you would never suffer from STDs.

With Baby Mamas or oloshos your heart would always race wherever you develop any strange feeling or symptom after having sex with them. I've read countless topics here on Nairaland where the guy in question would tell us how the condom bursted and he wasn't aware and how he started seeing some rashes on his manhood. Such a person would never have peace of mind until after a medical test. A marriage to a good spouse eliminates all that.

3. You can plan together . I'll use my parents as an example. When my dad was building his house in the village, my mom contributed a great deal to it. Even the first car he bought which was a Jetta volkswagen, as I grew older I learnt that it was actually my mom who bought the car for him, because he had so much on his hands and didn't want to miss the car, and the funny thing was that my mom never mentioned it not even once, it was my dad who told me.

With the right spouse, you can achieve a lot together, you can build, set up businesses, invest together and support each other. Olosho or baby Mamas cannot give you this cos whatever business you setup for them is theirs and theirs alone. And wouldn't support you with a penny when things go south for you.

4. Raising your kids together . Raising kids alone is very tasking. I have a 4 year old nephew (he'll be 5 this year) who I try to use to see what parenting looks like. There was a time his mom (my cousin) came with him to spend the weekend in my place (Friday to Sunday), that was when I understood that it takes more than depositing your semen into a hole to raise kids.

From waking him up, to bathing the child, to actually spending ample time together with him talking and bonding...this isn't something a baby mama can do. It takes being married to the right person for you to achieve this.

5. Eating good food . This night I just came back from buying beans (elewa) and bread. Most times I feel very lazy to go into the kitchen, there are times I can stay up to 6 months without visiting my kitchen.

As a married man, your wife would spoil you with good food, not the junks you've been struggling with during your bachelor days. The first time I ate Nkwobi in my life, was in my uncle's house, and it was prepared by his wife. Imagine having a wife who can prepare all that, believe me, by 6pm you're home cos you'd be perceiving her food right from your office.

Wickedfact:
That picture was for those who said it's impossible to collect 2M per month. The guy I was talking about works for a Nigerian Fintech.

Senior Blockchain Devs working remotely in Naija collect $20k per month.

Widen your exposure bro.